Don't use selfies in your Tinder pics bro! Girls want pictures that show your personality

67  2018-05-16 by Blueice607

92 comments

These all look like the same guy and personality-wise, they probably are.

Cope. Any single one of these guys would slay more girls in one month than you could in a decade.

entire decade.

Entire life and u could live 1000 years

Normies being soulless cardboard cutouts?

Gasp.

Who would’ve thought.

Notice how they all use good pics, decent lighting, flattering angles, hair done, blah blah, not some bad pic taken in a dark room with your face illuminated by a computer screen and blurred because your hand is shaking.

Cope more. Chad looks good in all types of lighting and angles

No he doesn't.

Yeah and it has absolutely nothing to do with their chiseled jawlines, strong jutting chins, sunken cheeks and predatory eye area. Get real cunt.

If they had pics taken without make up in the case of the modelling shots, in poor lighting and from a piss-poor angle, they wouldn't look as good.

> they wouldn't look as good

They would get down from 8/10 to 7.5/10, big deal. Lightning and angle are copes that I used to believe too until I realized it's my subhuman facial structure what makes me look bad. We even have a saying that roughly translates as "don't blame the mirror, blame your ugly face".

We even have a saying that roughly translates as "don't blame the mirror, blame your ugly face".

Ruscel? Нечего на зеркало пенять, коли рожа кривая?

Йеп.

they wouldn't look as good.

but they would still look fucking good

a subhuman incel trying to compensate with "lighting and angels" will remain a turd. a polished turd but a turd nonetheless

And half of you guys, given the right lighting and setting, wouldn't look so turd-like.

and you base this on what exactly? the 5 photos of """"incels"""" that have been posted here that you've seen?

More than 5. Plus others have sent me pics privately.

nah. i know am ugly af. no amount of lighting would change that fact.

I dunno... Spotlight right behind your head would blank everything out... lol... I'm only kidding with you hun.

There's probably something you could do, but not having seen your pics, I wouldn't know what.

you don't need to see them. you call me ugly. trust me.

I probably wouldn't, but then I was brought up to be polite, so I would point out the positives, and maybe suggest ways to accentuate those...

I was brought up properly....

i have no positives. i look like shit

Send me a pic. Go on. Test me :)

ok once am comfortable with showing my pics, i'll send you mine.

No problem. It's entirely up to you when you want to.

What happens when they see me in real life? I can't do angles, lighting, or poses that can change my appearance in that scenario.

By then it's too late anyway, and by then, you should have spoken enough to let your personality make up for any discrepancy between photos and real life.

Besides, she probably won't look as good as her pics either...

I feel like a good personality wouldn't be able to make up for such a difference between the online pictures and reality. If it's too late by then, that also means she has to put up with it? I feel like it would just turn out to be an awkward date or worse case scenario, she says I'm ugly, nothing like the pictures, and leaves.

There is generally not too much disparity between a good profile picture and reality that will be too much to your detriment, and a good pic at least gets you an "in". A poor picture on the other hand will do you no favours and probably won't even get you a reply, never mind a date.

I see what you are saying, but the "in" is only the first hurdle. I feel like its pointless because a poor picture wont get me past the first hurdle, but faking with a good picture will get me past the first but not the rest.

I'd also have to say that online pictures and reality can vary from person to person, but generally I feel like there's a lot of things that differ. Unlike in real life, in pictures you unconsciously adjust your face. You can see yourself and that way create the best perception of yourself. You can make your face seem more symmetric, put emphasis on stronger features, and distract from bad ones. In real life, you don't have access to that.

And from taking pics, you know the best angles for your face, and know which ones to try and avoid in person. And even a very good pic is going to look enough like you to not be a complete fake.

And remember- girls will always use the best poses with perfect hair and freshly applied make-up for the most part, so is not going to look exactly like her pics either.

That's true, but they still seem pretty even in real life. I just wish it was possible to see what I look like from another person's eyes. Not like asking them rating me, but like me looking from their POV.

I know what you mean, but would you be able to be objective about it or would you still see yourself badly and only pick your faults?

lol honestly, I probably wouldn't even be objective about. I would probably directly look at my faults first thing since I'm so used to recognizing them. I guess a better way would be to see myself for the first time without the memories of years of scrutinizing myself.

Ah yes, but then you have to remember that looks are subjective, so some will find you cute or attractive, and some won't. It's weird, but true

I guess you could say that since even I said I would subjectively evaluate myself negatively instead of objectively, but I still believe looks are objective to a degree. For example, acne is quality I'm sure that is universally regarded as ugly, where as being chubby or fat can be someone's thing.

But some people can even see past the acne, and know it's not permanent.

It's specifically that they have to see past it you know? Like the trait itself is specifically unattractive.

I suppose so. I guess I was just taught to see past a load of things like that, but it seems most people aren't.

Well, you are one of a kind if you really think like that, fr.

I'm beginning to feel like a unicorn... heh

Just give up and stop coping, live in the real world ffs how are you going to say that these guys aren’t godlike you dumb motherfucker

I'm not coping. I'm saying stop taking shit pics.

Lol that’s not what you said foid

Pretty much did if you read all my comments.

Lol gtab troll

is this an honest and unironic comment? if so, you are extremely low iq, and i actually mean that this time

not some bad pic taken in a dark room with your face illuminated by a computer screen and blurred because your hand is shaking.

Who are you talking about? Which user took this pic that you're describing? Who? Or is it an imaginary situation you're implying incels take part in so as to make it easy to mock us?

I've seen a few pics like this since I've been on this sub.

i have 70 matches rn just using selfies

If you're good looking, you'll get matches with any types of pictures

true; redpill is cope

mentalcels are incels too

fuck off

nah nigger fuck you punk ass coon

One of these guys will smell bad or have a high pitched voice - that for some girls is a deal breaker. Looks arent everything EVEN in the physical arena

Fucking cope.

You know I dated this girl lately and she was FIRE, an absolute 10/10. Damn! Unfortunately her voice was kinda low pitched so I had to turn her down

Definitely not a PSL 10. Probably more like a 6.5-7 PSL. The real 10s are supermodels and married to billionaires.

/s

Yup I'm still autistcel.

u would fuck a 10/10 if her pussy smelled like roadkill? The voice thing isnt as strong to guys as it is to girls, but believe me it is a thing.

Hope I'm not introducing the concept of falsettocel LOLOL

Finally making an account to post here. These all look like the typical guy on tinder to be honest, nothing really special at all. The only one I'd say is especially handsome is the bottom middle, but that kind of guy is one in a million so nothing to worry about. Bottom left looks vain as fuck and has too much muscle. Bottom right looks more like the typical 7/10 guy, but he is still sort of cute. Middle left looks like a fuckboy, the next has shitty 12 year old boy hair and bad glasses, jaw way too angular for me. The next guy also looks like a fuckboy who trys to look "nerdy" to get insecure girls, definitely not my type. The next guy looks like an alien with the fashion sense of a 10 year old. Top left looks way too perfectly fake for me. The next is actually average as fuck and I don't know why he's included here. Again, the next looks like an alien and he's covering most of his face so I can't see if he actually is goodlooking. And finally, top right, is the worst, I'd swipe left instantly. Fuckboy overload. If you guys think THIS is what you're up against, you're completely right, but seriously, they're nothing to worry about. Just take the best pics you can, smile (notice how everyone except maybe two look very serious, that is offputting). Girls will notice you and if you look friendly and nice, you'll differentiate yourself in a sea of guys like this. Also the bio. 90 percent of the time these guys have the worst shitty bios because they think they don't even have to try. Dress sharp, look like a decent person, and just be yourself and you'll start getting matches.

Holy shit. I've never seen so much delusion in one comment.

Let me direct you:

Here

and here

oh and here

And also here

Don't try and come here to bluepill people. I was incel for 20 years then got extremely lucky through weightloss and late puberty. I've been rated PSL 6.5 - 8 by at least 30 users on PSL sites, and I can 100% confirm that personality means SHIT on tinder. My front pic is a pro shot of me looking serious as fuck. I match 7/10 profiles in every western country I've set my location to. I had a girl with 144K followers randomly message me on instagram because of LOOKS. Swallow the blackpill

I've been lurking this subreddit for a while (actually since late 2016 with the original r/incels), and I think I have quite a good understanding of you guys. Those "studies" keep coming up, and you all think you're giving the ultimate blackpill, but that's seriously far from the truth. I'm a female (ooh noo) and would call myself a 5/10, possibly a 5.5-6/10 on a good day or if I really try. I diet, exercise, I'm not fat, since that matters to you guys - I've done a lot to improve my situation and I still can only rarely get to a 6/10 level. And I can easily match guys like this. Do you want to know why? Because in today's society, so much is expected of a female that I'm expected to look like [THIS](https://i.pinimg.com/736x/bc/fd/32/bcfd32979857136c90ced51278b1171a--tight-girls-sexy-girls.jpg). That's simply genetic - Aesthetic feminine face, well proportioned, weight in the breasts and butt and nowhere else. However, the shit you guys think makes a man attractive is EASILY ATTAINABLE. You just have to get off your lazy ass and try, but you'd rather be an incel. So really, if incels think its some sort of bullshit that I, a 5, can match guys you think are "so hot" 8+/10s, if you think about it, I am the one "dating down". I've worked so fucking much to get to the point I'm at and I look nowhere like the stacy I linked. These guys are just some of the guys who simply went to the gym a bit, took photos with good lighting, and have good hygiene. And with that little amount of work, they get to be considered "super hot". Fuck that, they're average, like me, because I judge people based on the WORK they put in their appearance. There is no blackpill, all you have to swallow is reality, and that is that the difference between incels and these guys is just a healthy frame of mind away. You seem to have got that sort of down, more than the other incels, so I commend you for that, but the fact you are still here and talk about the "blackpill" shit just proves you're probably not trying as hard as you think.

I'm a female (ooh noo)

Thanks for that, now I don't need to read the rest of your utter garbage. Fuck off, hole.

shit just proves you're probably not trying as hard as you think.

This is my physique

In addition to a 95th percentile face. Just lmfao

Good job on your body man, but get that toxic mindset out of here. If you really hold these opinions, there is no way your face is as goodlooking as you claim. https://i.imgur.com/ARef9R1.png. Also your left arm looks way weaker than your right. Too much hentai?

It's called flexed tricep vs unflexed bicep you absolute retard.

These guys are just some of the guys who simply went to the gym a bit, took photos with good lighting, and have good hygiene. And with that little amount of work, they get to be considered "super hot". Fuck that, they're average, like me

Lol no, most of them are above average face-wise. Also nobody cares about lighting or angles if you look good. My personal anecdote: I posted on /AmIUgly with an alt account. I'm skinnyfat (no muscle at all), but apparently have a good face, and got very positive responses from both sexes despite my horrible fashion sense, awful haircut and the fact that I'm in 30's. One girl even hit on me and listened to my self-deprecating depressive monologues after slipping into the DMs. You think she'd do that if I looked like a typical incel? I have interests of a typical beta male: anime, video games, books etc., I also have zero self-esteem ("Just be confident, bro!"). Yet she didn't care about all that and continued chatting with me because of my Chad-lite face.

Just accept the blackpill, you know it's true.

Srsly this gotta be a satire, no one can actually be this fucking detached from reality.

Because in today's society, so much is expected of a female that I'm expected to look like THIS: https://i.pinimg.com/736x/bc/fd/32/bcfd32979857136c90ced51278b1171a--tight-girls-sexy-girls.jpg

She's not ideal - boobs are good, but she's dangerously skinny, and face looks like dumb bimbo. Unless you're saying that OP's men are the male equivalent of her.

I've worked so fucking much to get to the point I'm at and I look nowhere like the stacy I linked. These guys are just some of the guys who simply went to the gym a bit

As far as I can tell your "work" has just been losing fat. Being ripped entails getting low body fat AND on top of that having high muscle mass. It's a whole other level.

These all look like the typical guy on tinder to be honest, nothing really special at all.

Further proof that anyone below 7/10 is literally invisible.

You’re being picky as FUCK!! You forgot that he needs to be born handsome 8/10 first. All the guys in the photos are 8/10 and higher.

haha these guys are average?Thx for the reminder that it's completely over for sub8 males

They are average. If you think they're 8s, then 50 percent of men are 8/9/10s, which seems a bit wrong. A couple 5s, then 7-7.5's and I'd say the bottom middle is a 9. Of all the guys I know, take 11 at random, and the distribution will be about the same - ie, they're goddamn average. I don't know any 9/10s though, but that's beside the point.

You are beyond retared and delusional, if you consider this "average" then you wouldn't even register me as a human being because every feature of any of those men is far superior to mine, I don't even look like the same species as them. Holy fuck, honestly all those posts need to be screenshot and pinned as an ultimate blackpill right out of femoid's mouth that 80% of men are literally invisible.

If I call one man average, and another man average, that does not mean they look the same. That does not even mean they look remotely the same. A really good spectrum of men are average to me, because there are really only three sections. 1: They don't take care of themselves. 2: They are average, that is, considering their personality, I would date them, but their looks do not compel me to. 3: They are something spectacular and rare. I wouldn't help being attracted to them. What I'm saying is the bottom middle guy is spectacularly attractive enough for my definite interest, but the others would have to bring something else to the table. Like, look at this guy: https://i.pinimg.com/originals/00/2c/e8/002ce807f0501df3103fa533adcc528e.jpg Would you say he looks as "masculine", "alpha" as the men in that picture? Hell no. But he's still attractive enough to garner my interest if he proves himself. You'd call this guy an incel, but he definitely does not need to be. Most of you here just need to realize you lie in the middle category, and that's not bad at all.

I won't even deign you an actual reply, may be this will make you realize how absolutely brain-dead you are

https://www.reddit.com/r/Braincels/comments/8jw5z2/just_have_a_healthy_frame_of_mind_bro/

They are average.

Are u INSANE or DELUSIONAL LOL?

ah

I am an IT female

dat explains it.

https://squawker.org/analysis/new-study-shows-how-feminism-has-ruined-relationships-between-men-and-women/

...A recent study has been conducted on this subject. The study showed pictures of different men with varying looks to a pool of women and asked them on each picture if the man was above average in looks or below average looks then did the same with pictures of women shown to men.

The results for the pictures of women shown to men found that the men said 50% of the women were above average and 50% below, but the results for the pictures of men shown to women were much more interesting. The women said only 20% of the men were above average and 80% were below average,

and this 80 20 number is a constant finding in any study conducted recently on women’s ranking of men’s attractiveness everywhere from similar studies conducted in the same way to the percentages of women liking men on dating apps like tinder and traditional dating sites like match.com

But this study got even more interesting, after showing the pictures of men to the women and pictures of women to men they switched the exact pictures and showed the same pictures of men to the men and the same pictures of the women to the women. he results of this were the men said, once again, that 50% of the men were above average and 50% below. Now the women’s answers were very surprising they said 96% of the women were above average at 4% were below.

Holy shit, you are bananas, my friend. Those are male models. The top tier of human specimen that exist.

This comment alone dragged the average IQ of women below the standard for severe mental retardation.

I swear we need a sub free from the irrational, purely physical beings, that are femoids.

Let me objectively explain why none of these guys are remotely average. All have strong jawlines, ideal maxillary development, nice eyes, NW1 hairlines, and robust, properly shaped skulls.

I don't agree with the incels but I have to say most of these guys are pretty good looking, definitely above average at least. I think a lot of these pictures are planned out though and some look like models with possible makeup use. But I definitely think overall they are above average.

Just take the best pics you can, smile (notice how everyone except maybe two look very serious, that is offputting)

One of OkCupid's blogs showed that for men it's better to not smile and look slightly off camera. http://archive.is/9fJQh (archive didn't save pictures, sorry)

women were a mistake

Lol I bet you think these types of blokes make women horny but really they all look feminine with their ultra-styled hair and artificially shaped browes... don’t use them as examples if u trying to get laid lol

Cope

OMEGACOPE

Lol I can’t tell if you lot think I’m an incel or not 😂

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Why are incels more obsessed with guy bods than women lol

Because they hate women, yet obsess over not being in a relationship with one.

So hating women makes you post pics of bodybuilders on reddit? Damn feminism was wrong

Many of us gymcel to get nice bodies, but there is no gym to achieve a 10/10 male model face

Is it weird that I know who some of these people are.

I confess. I would welcome unmitigated levels of filth from each and every one. Maybe even at the same time.

I know I know. Just a hole and a roastie.

But a god damn happy one jesus christ.

I would honestly not swipe on any of these pics. No profile information would make me consider it, because I'd be certain it was all bullshit.

Fucking cope.

You know I dated this girl lately and she was FIRE, an absolute 10/10. Damn! Unfortunately her voice was kinda low pitched so I had to turn her down

If I call one man average, and another man average, that does not mean they look the same. That does not even mean they look remotely the same. A really good spectrum of men are average to me, because there are really only three sections. 1: They don't take care of themselves. 2: They are average, that is, considering their personality, I would date them, but their looks do not compel me to. 3: They are something spectacular and rare. I wouldn't help being attracted to them. What I'm saying is the bottom middle guy is spectacularly attractive enough for my definite interest, but the others would have to bring something else to the table. Like, look at this guy: https://i.pinimg.com/originals/00/2c/e8/002ce807f0501df3103fa533adcc528e.jpg Would you say he looks as "masculine", "alpha" as the men in that picture? Hell no. But he's still attractive enough to garner my interest if he proves himself. You'd call this guy an incel, but he definitely does not need to be. Most of you here just need to realize you lie in the middle category, and that's not bad at all.

Yup I'm still autistcel.

And half of you guys, given the right lighting and setting, wouldn't look so turd-like.

Lol that’s not what you said foid

i have no positives. i look like shit

nah nigger fuck you punk ass coon

I guess you could say that since even I said I would subjectively evaluate myself negatively instead of objectively, but I still believe looks are objective to a degree. For example, acne is quality I'm sure that is universally regarded as ugly, where as being chubby or fat can be someone's thing.