She ghosted me, can't stop crying

167  2018-05-27 by Incelvester

Follow up from my post the other day about possible escape...

So things were going good leading up to today. We chatted throughout the day yesterday, I told her the game plan for our date today, and the last thing she ever said to me was "Yes! That sounds wonderful!"

Woke up this morning and texted her, no response after a few hours. Texted her again asking if shes alright. No response. Log onto okcupid, she's unmatched and blocked me. Check Xbox, shes blocked me on there too. I dont know what happened. I didnt do anything to blow it. We had so much in common, she called dme handsome, said I smelled good, and without warning she just fucking ghosts me.

I feel sick. I can't stop crying. Why does this keep happening???? I dont think I'll ever find another girl with as much in common to me as her again, I really dont want to live anymore. This fucking sucks.

Someone hire a hitman to kill me please. I dont have the energy to do it myself anymore.

143 comments

AWALT

EWALT: Enough Women Are Like That.

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Cuck

Women will always ghost you when they match with a gentically superior male. AWALT AWALT AWALT

What does awalt mean? This sub has so many acronyms LUL

All women are like that

Honestly open urban dictionary in another tab while you're browsing this sub kek

Don't spoonfeed the tourists please

It means 'google it, fagit'

And when they bitch about ghosting what they really mean is Chad didn't call back after he emptied his balls

Lol,you showed your face,that's what happens

'Everything was going great until I sent her a pic...OMG, maybe her computer crashed??'

She’s probably getting dicked down by Chad and his 8incher who messaged her back before you went out.

It's most likely she just met someone else IMO. Ten years ago I was having some nice dates with a friend who had liked me for a while, then a new hot guy joined her college class and she just cut off the dates with me and told me she was interested in the new guy and couldn't see me again.

How it that not what I said? You just said it like a little bitch.

more Daddy...

I dunno, I'm just replying to random messages at this point...

She definitely is

Absolute suikek

no, he texted her right when he woke up. That was his mistake. He should've waited longer

He should have drained his balls into her anus, then ghosted her.

Lol i just came here to see what you guys are all about but DAMN you people do not play around. Cut homie right down to the core.

The bitter humor keeps me coming back, day after day.

The truth may be bitter, but that alone doesn't make it a falsehood.

Oh i agree for sure. Im not a sub here and i won’t pretend to know what everyone here is about. But i will agree that tinder makes it too easy and she may very well have gotten a message from someone she’d rather be with. Such is life.

Username checks out.

And yeah I had a girl who was getting tinder messages on the first “date” (I recognize the sound) and ghosted me the next day, I figure that’s what happened.

Don’t feel too bad OP. That has happened to many of us. basically, unless a girl says she feels so strongly upon meeting you that she’s deleting her tinder/okcupid/whatever, there is a high probability of this happening.

Brutal

She is, want me to tell her to say hi?

You didn't mean shit to her. Just another one of her many suitors that she has and that she can afford to be a picky cunt about since we live in a shitty society where women have all the power. You think you had things in common with her? She has 10 other guys she has shit in common with that you have to compete with and guess what, one of them mogged the shit out of you. It's all completely fucked. Being a man 2018 is nothing but pure shit.

yeah she ain't exactly struggling to find guys to play xbox and listen to metal with dude

Females don't struggle with anything no matter their interests or whatever

So many betas swarm these types of girls

I dig your stone cold soul raping brutal honesty.

this goes for anyone in any sort of relationship with a modern woman, too.

this is true for anyone in any sort of relationship with a modern woman

This. It doesn't take much to realize how many options women have every step of the way even if they're just gaming. It's why you will always witness girls duoing with whiteknights in Normiewatch (I play overwatch, degenerate, I know) who will try their best in every aspect to potentially score.

Femoids typically have multiple plans and then choose at the last moment the one that looks the most promising. I've seen it with my own eyes. You just didn't make the cut.

Sorry dude. I'd lie to you if I said things will get better.

Oh shit

you didn't do anything wrong. maybe you really had chemistry and maybe she really thought you weren't bad looking, but its 2018, women have infinite dating options. she matched with someone she felt was better and ditched you. just the way it is in the modern world.

I'm so sorry bro, that must sting a lot. Nerdy cute girl is also one of my dreams. You got your hopes up and they shattered, it hurts a lot I know. If you matched with her at okcupid it can happen again with a similar girl. It can't be your face if she agreed on a date and said you "smell good" maybe your height, or awkardness? I have the feeling it was because of something you can work on. I don't there's a black pill here at all. Hang on there boyo.

Played with your emotions and betrayed you. Instead of imo preferable brutal honesty. What a disgusting snake.

Fuck dude, this post speaks to me. My heart goes out to you, I am sorry. I know that feeling of heart-crushing rejection.

I don't feel any sympathy for incels that aren't fully blackpilled, but that's my own opinion.

You got a point but he is getting brutalised in the comments kek, AWALT is still so hard to swallow for people.

Being brutalized is all part of the process. Grasshopper is learning.

Internet dating is the cruelest form of dating, because it gives the daters many options, and they will always pick the best option.

Chad wins every time.

https://xhamster.com/videos/macho-alpha-6822738

holy shit that video

Internet dating is the cruelest form of dating, because it gives the daters many options, and they will always pick the best option.

Not the "daters", women and Chad.

Holy fucking based

Don’t give up! The fact that you even matched and went out means there’s hope, now it’s about trying to get back on the horse

Want to know the worst part? She was using you because she was bored.

True. She was probably using him cuz she was bored and chickened out once she realized that he was looking for serious dating. Once the Femoloid goes into ghost mode, it can be cruel heartless thing.

it's like half the population is starving and the other half have all-you-can-eat free McDs tickets.

You're not entitled to honey mustard dipping sauce.

I've only been on one date my entire life, thought it went pretty well. Messaged next day to say what a good time it was, never heard back. It's soul-crushing, is what it is. Makes you lose all hope for the future. Of course, I wasn't fully black pilled at the time, so my hope came back, eventually, but still...

prob got a free meal, shes fat so she knows what thats like kek

You need to work on your personality bro

It was his musogony.

REMINDER THAT WOMEN CAN DETECT BAD PERSONALITY FROM HALF A GLOBE AWAY WITH 100% SUCCESS RATE. JUST WORK ON YOUR PERSONALITY BRO!!

Fuck...

My heart goes out to you. I can't imagine what you must be feeling right. Given a glimmer of hope only for it to be crushed.

:(

I feel for you bro. Try to cope with something else, this type of shit happened to most of us. Be strong and don't choose the rope yet.

He should choose the light of St. Blackops2cel, the void reality of the black pill, and the hatred of femmorhoids world over. They want us dead; live to spite them.

Fucking lol I knew this shit would happen.

Feels bad man, but you should have fucking known better.

this is why I stopped talking to girls online truth is she found somebody better and instead of slowly distancing herself and making you feel even more like shit she just blocked you and made it instant AWALT

lol give up boyo

I think I will

You did nothing wrong. She was the one who did it, for whatever reason (and unless it's her being dead, it's not a good reason).

Cry all you want. There's nothing wrong with you. When you have cried it out, blow your nose, wash your face, look at yourself in the mirror and tell yourself it was not your fault. Because it wasn't.

No, you're right, it's not his fault; it's the fault of his genetics, and he'll see that clearly when he looks in the mirror.

Stop being horrible. The guy did nothing wrong here, and it wasn't his fault.

The guy did nothing wrong here, and it wasn't his fault.

Where did I say it was? Our genetics are not us.

Plot twist: girl gets killed in school shooting by crazy dude that has not had sex in ten years.

Go fuck yourself you fucking prick, she unmatched me and removed me from everything I was talking to her on out of nowhere

Calm down. We all are on this boat full of shit. You are not alone. Just don't loose your marbles yet. From a 40+ year old dude to an anonymous soul on the Internet: does it get "better"? Nah. But I'll damn go to visit every corner of Earth, watch every good movie, eat every piece of good cake and enjoy every second of sweet sweet air before giving up despite my undercurrent depression.

Yes, it sucks. But then, life is like that and somehow extraordinary at the same time. Take a book, some cheesecake and seat in front of a lake on a spring day. "Love" is not in the cards? Who gives a fuck anymore. Enjoy, because every minute wasted on that thing is one minute less to plan my next trip.

Question. Why would I guy keep me on SM after ghosting me this weekend?

?

Just looking for advice

I don't understand the question

I got ghosted this past weekend but the guy is still on all my social media. When should I delete him?

I dont know dude, whenever you want

IT will make a post about how you made all the wrong moves and crying about it is for babies. They’ll also side with the female and probably think you raped her. But in reality... Yeah, that fucking sucks. Fuck what women say.

I see you in the shower and watch you when you get undressed.

He sees you when you're sleeping, he knows when you're awake, he knows if you've been bad or good, so be good for roasties' sake...

Damn, sorry to hear that. This same thing happened to me a little under a year ago, beginning of June. I met someone awesome, called me good looking, got worried when I was busy and didn't respond for like 30 minutes, and I responded and they said "I'm so glad you replied" EVERYTHING went well. This girl was a virgin, young, lived in a mansion on their own, seemed to like me, but I got ghosted. Two other women ghosted me this same week.

But I also remember how much of a cuck / whiteknight you are, so I have zero sympathy for you. Fucking good for you. You called me a fakecel when I made this account. HAAAAAA. Not sorry anymore, I take it back.

She matched with a better looking person that she can display to her friends and family without shame. People on this sub don't pay that much attention to that aspect of the female psyche.

Yeah

This is why you fucking avoid females you fucking retard

The femoloid used its personality radar and found out that you post on incel subs.

Kek.

show its picture

Nah

why?

Probably against sub rules, and you're coming off very strongly as an IT false-flagger.

caring about reddit bans

not knowing my username

don’t pester me newfag

Beta till you die, they only thing you do is crying ans ask yourself what YOU did wrong, beta beta beta

Neurotic fuck stop crying you chickenshit

It happened to me it happens to million of guys arpund the world. If you're ugly just don't try

I've tried to date 2 women in the past 2 years, both ten years younger than me (I don't go for younger women - I don't go for anyone, I just happened to make friends with them). It went wrong with both, the second one just realized I was creepy and ghosted me, but the first wanted me to be a friendzone and chat about how bad her much older (older than me) tough bf was.

That part of me died. I mourn him, but I do not allow it to stop me from going forward.

Buy $ROPE this monday. Stock is set to soar on Sunday's news. Don't tell IT though they'll probably short it

Brutal suicide fuel

Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

I'm sorry mate, so sorry.

I told you in the other thread it’s over when she matches with video game Chad. Unlucky brother.

Ah yes, these are the kinds of stories you'll never see on cucktears. I feel so bad for you,bro. Take some time off this sub for a good bit to get your mind right. God bless ya.

And take a picture of St. Blackops2cel with you, if you're of the spiritual persuasion; it will give comfort even in the darkest of times.

Online dating is terrible for incels. Even if you somehow manage to match with a girl who has the same interests and doesn't care about your looks as much, the moment one of the thousands of guys more attractive than you messages her your chance is out the window. The stupid cunt threw you out of the window.

Bahaha, you thought you had a chance? I’m sorry, but you deserved this.

Fuck, I'm sorry. I'll never understand why women can do casually waste someone's time like that. It wasn't your fault at all.

you get desensitized to it after awhile

3 girls bailed on me this week who i planned to meet with

wow 3 girls talked to you in 1 week. i think 3 girls talked to me in 2 years

Ouch

It fucking sucks, but it happens. Just live your life. She’s obviously doing just that. Concentrate on you.

jfl "concentrate on you" for what? You can't honestly believe filling your life with hobbies and endless self-improvement "just for yourself" (people are lying to themselves when they say this) are an adequate replacement for an intimate relationship.

"Living life" is a pretty empty experience if you don't have anyone significant to share it with. You'd have to be in complete denial to think otherwise.

Meanwhile, that girl is "living life" by pursuing countless opportunities for affection and validation that she deems are better. It's no comparison.

And don't brush it off as "it happens" as if it was caused by some cosmic mishap of terrible luck. "It happens" every fucking time.

Hey man, I feel for you. If you want you can show me some random messages between the two of you and I'll give you some tips on how to improve

Sorry to hear that.

I basically went through the same thing with a rando from r4r about 2 years ago. Going through the same experience with 2 other girls changed my mindset, and just made me hate people more.

Judging by your first post.. you fell in love bro... you fucked up. And never say wicked in that context again, jesus.

The reason this girl isn't interested in you is because you are needy. Women instinctually can see weakness and desperation. You are using this fat anime chick as box on your life bingo board instead of feeling like you already got bingo and she's just a bonus.

For me that confidence came when I got my first girlfriend :/

That's pretty sad to hear. The idea is that you get into a mental state where you know you are something of value and the woman is just a bonus to your life.

We also call that "self delusion".

Eh.. for me I call it having a girlfriend, a job, hobbies, and knowing I look pretty good and can offer good humor to almost any conversation even with a complete stranger.

Probably pretty fragile and superficial then.

stupid TRP cope. Chad can act needy as he wants and he will ALWAYS win her, fuck off faggot.

Do you not understand your terms? This guy is an incel/cuck not a Chad. For non Chads to get girls they have to play by rules.

I love how, despite you having an infinitely better and more successful life than any incel, you still managed to get triggered enough to do what you did.

jfl

And this 'faggot' is a 6'0 white male gymrat who can probably take any girl from you no matter how long you've dated her in a matter of minutes.

Yeah I can totally see you sweep a woman who's been taken for years off her feet within minutes and make her leave her husband for you.

Get real...

Happened to me more times than I can count. Femoids might say things like she said to be polite but their real intentions should never be forgotten. Hang in there bro, I know it sucks.

I’m so sorry.... Please don’t give up!

This is dating in 2018, get used to it.

Women have a literal harem of men at their disposal and they are talking to and fucking multiple men at the same time. NEVER think you're the only man a femoid is talking to. You put a lot of stock into your interactions with her, but for that femoids you were literally just another number. When a femoid ghosts you like this there is a 99% chance she found someone who looks better than you.

You are a commodity. Women have turned you and the rest of us into objects. You are disposable.

You'll remember her forever. She probably doesn't even remember your name.

Ouch.. A stinger.

oof

she must found someone dont blame yourself

Maybe she found something out about you? Like a cringy fb page or insta?

Jesus christ man. I am so sorry, I know exactly how you feel.

In my very long road of going to ugly and bluepilled to becoming more attractive and understanding women I was barraged with countless examples of the brutal nature of women.

Over time I accepted that women can and will disappear out of your life without a trace for no reason at any point, it sounds absurd to write it down but it doesnt matter if you matched (which if you can believe it I used to think I could just talk to her and ask her out and it would work out ok), got her number, have fun talking to each other, set a date, go on a date or go on several dates she will still ghost you without explanation even if she seemed to be having the time of her life during these steps.

Seriously, I could know a girl for a month and she can act like she loves me but the second she doesn't answer a text I assume I will never see her again, honestly thinking back I still don't have an explanation for this particular behavior, it is completely psychopathic.

Maybe she saw your post history.

You deserve it incel scum

I'm sorry to hear this brother. I did warn you though. You will NEVER escape this fucked up bullshit, and neither will I. There is simply too much fucking competition man. You are competing against Tyrone, Chad, Chaddaam, Chang, Chadlite, Upper Norman, Normans, Chadpreet, and endless validation and thirst. It is OVER.

use your brain. She found someone else with a better "personality"

oh and u probably came off as too thirsty.

Fuck man that sounds painful.

I'm wondering why she did it. Don't know if it was just out of cruelty to mess with someone's emotions or she was using you to pay for things on the date (if you did) or maybe she just found someone else.

I'm sorry to hear about what happened to you. That kind of feeling sucks so bad... Try to keep going. Just try to survive today and then the day after that and so on. That's enough for now.

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Roasties have no guts or class. She met someone else, and doesn't have the courage to tell you. This is classic roastie behavior. Do not shed tears for a roastie.

That sucks bro. I feel you dude.

Women dont understand that this is the reason many men get clingy or blow up when women don't respond right away. Because we've been hurt so many times by being ghosted, treated like we aren't even human, deserving of acknowledgement.

Chances are she matched with a Chad and saw you no longer appealing if at all to dump you so quickly.

just handle rejection bruh and go your own way

IncelTears be like: "UR PERSONALITY AND LACK OF SHOWERS DROVE HER AWAY"

You coldn't bring yourself to kiss her,now she's slurping on big black cock.

Brutal Blackpill

Women have zero respect for sub 8/10 men so of course they'll ghost

Sucks bro I know what you're going through

Why u even care about some random girl ghosting you shit happens all the time

Unfortunately life is very unfair by design. You can either lay down and give up, or pick yourself up off the ground and keep moving.

I was pretty upset the first time this happened to me, but that's just how things are now. You get used to it.

Women do this ALL the time. And they block you because 1) they already get a ton of messages so they need some way to filter out the ones they’re done with (aka the majority of normies and below) and 2) it keeps them in their safe space where they don’t have to feel bad about being a terrible human being to someone who was nothing but nice to them

I heard that if you start huffing from some kind of tank, you can go out easily. I couldn't find anything like that.

Pass the rope.

lol @ "escape"

there is no escape.

but, you have oneitis.

I dont think I'll ever find another girl with as much in common to me as her again

this is a ridiculously common thought, and it's always wrong

Dont listen to these people.... saw and a majority of comments its people with low self confidence trying to put you down to to their level. They dont feel good so you cant feel good.

Not everyone gets a happy ever after on first dates. Some even take a few more tries. It might seem like its over now and youll never meet someone who will be as perfect as that girl was but believe me, there will.

I had that where i thought i was dating yhe perfect girl, ended up moving away and i thought id never meet someone as good, 2 years later i met my current girlfriend, and were dating for nearly 2 years. I know shes not perfect, and im not perfect. Im not expecting it to be, atm she's the best ive ever had, but thats exactly ehat i thought about my previous girlfriend. In the time searching i tried online dating too, had 3 apps at the same time going, got a couple of matches. Most didnt answer messages at all; why match at all? Some answered and then stopped talking, some planned date and i was stood up, 1 I even went on a date with. This out of a lot of dates. I am by no means an extremely attractive guy, i think im ok, ive been called both hot, and ugly. Fat and skinny (go figure), this is to say. Humans are complex and people will like different things. Most people on this sub, and ive been through dozens of posts and comments to see opinions, are no better than the females they call as one dimensional, some believe in the levels (8 deserves 8) etc. But if you look around you, there are ugly people with good looking people (could be for many reasons) but what matters is that it happens. Imo my current situation is just that. Im in a serious relationship with i girl i consider much better than me in near all aspects, why she likes idk exactly, but i know she does (theres not much to gain by being with me that she couldn't get elsewhere). So keep your head up, yes people are initially attracted by physical aspects, but dating and relationships go further than that. People might eventually downvote this cause it doesnt fit with the spirit of the sub, but as long as you read it and try to see dating differently, it will work out eventually. Only a matter of time. If you close yourself off, youll have no chances at all, keep yourself open and you might just luck out, even if it doesnt seem possible now

Brother, do what I do, and start ghosting women with Catfish Chad.

she probably cant text you back bc shes too busy choking on tyrones dick

Reminds me of one of my friend and his GF. They were talking about how they met (on a dating website) and he was saying that at one point she ghosted him but then ended up talking to him again after a while. I then said out loud that it was because she was talking to better guys during that time and it didn't work out so she came back to him, and she actually said yes LMAO.

AWALT

I am very sorry for you. I hope in the future you will find someone who will love you for your personality. A few years ago I was ugly and never thought I will have any success with girls, and then this one girl came and changed it. Ot was mind blowing for me and I couldn't believe it. It can happen to you to, and I hope that it will. Stay in there!

i think its because you didn't kiss

you should have been bolder and kissed

you could have gone all the way if you got that far

NOT kissing makes you look like a weak beta and she probably lost interest after the date and looked for other men

when you say you're looking for something serious after it looks to her like you're a timid dude and she's not looking for that

you blew it

better luck next time boyo

Thats fucking horrible mate, I'm sorry to hear that but I've been there before and it's one of the reasons why I have trust issues with women now, because so many times this shit has been pulled on me in the past

Who knows what she was thinking, surely it's a stupid move.

Moreover people who ghost in place of saying the truth are very bad at communicating. In this sense, you dodged a bullet (relationship are hard work and if she has the instinct to flee away when there's a problem, well, you've postponed a hearthbrake).

Anyway, internet hugs, dude.

Holy shit man, I have a similar story myself, which I may or may not post, makes me so cold to hear stuff like this.

Make a chad account and catfish with her, play with her feelings until her self steem becomes inexistent

Don't spoonfeed the tourists please

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Cuck

He should choose the light of St. Blackops2cel, the void reality of the black pill, and the hatred of femmorhoids world over. They want us dead; live to spite them.