I am a dickless 21 year old man. Its completely over for me right?
144 2018-05-27 by slipper432
I was already nearly incel except for a few occaisons but then i lost my dick to cancer at 21 years old. How can i continue when pretty much every man has this over me. I get dickmogged by fucking micros.
196 comments
1 INFJCarnivoreKate 2018-05-27
no. it's not.
http://www.unsportsmanlike-conduct.com/blog/man-with-no-penis-says-he-has-slept-with-over-100-women
I know it seems weird, but if a women is really into you, she would absolutely be with you without you having a penis. I had 3 uncles who had muscular dystrophy and couldn't have sex and they all had wives. if my bf suddely lost his penis from cancer, i wouldn't care at all. I would still be with him. there are many other ways to experience pleasure and intimacy. good luck, friend
1 GREYnRED 2018-05-27
ššššššššššš howššššššin the FUCKING WORLD!! ššššššš c@n you $ay thatššlolšššš.
1 slipper432 2018-05-27
i know its like that but its not like im going to get a girl to like me and then tell her that i dont have a dick, so getting a girl at all she will have to know the whole time. i've never known another man with no penis before, ive only ever seen it in game of thrones and shit so i will probably be literally the only dickless man that a woman has ever met.
1 INFJCarnivoreKate 2018-05-27
women can be quite sympathetic. honestly, if girls knew you lost your penis to cancer, i bet some would even be intrigued by it. i know it sounds weird, but I've seen lots of cases like this. where girls will end up being with guys that have major disabilities and stuff. even major burn victims, or like 700 pound men etc
1 TfwNoMommyGf 2018-05-27
Stop giving him false hope you evil piece of garbage.
1 ChrisBrownApologist 2018-05-27
Seriously. Fuck roasties man. Like does that make you feel good? Virtue signaling to a guy who literally has no dick. JFL
1 escapetheinceldom 2018-05-27
Just run the Theon Greyjoy game bro!
JK, it's over.
1 WhyNotLayDownAndRot 2018-05-27
what the fuck is your problem? just leave the poor bastard alone. donāt give him false hope.
1 Darkcelspain 2018-05-27
You morons love your survivorship bias. You're looking at the 1% of dickless bastards who somehow manage to get a woman. The rest of the 99% either kill themselves or never find love.
I swear it's like you people don't think.
1 regular_failure 2018-05-27
Where are your uncles living? Afghanistan ?? I know your comment was meant to uplift his spirit. But Western women are ............. . It's really going to be difficult.
1 cumstation 2018-05-27
its pretty over man. how have you been around women since? christ losing your dick is actually true involuntary celibacy i would not wish on my worst enemy to lose his cock im sorry op
1 slipper432 2018-05-27
only spoken to women non-sexually. i do not know how i will bring this up
1 cumstation 2018-05-27
how do/can you masturbate?
1 slipper432 2018-05-27
i have not had an orgasm since the operation but i still feel sexual desire. Prostate stim is the only option now which i cant get used to yet
1 Moiz1253 2018-05-27
But where will it come out from.....
1 Windforce 2018-05-27
How do you pee if you don't have a penis, serious question.
1 slipper432 2018-05-27
my urethra was moved to my gooch, so its just a hole i piss out of.
1 EvanTheFactMerchant 2018-05-27
Damn dude. That's rough. Do you still have your balls?
1 slipper432 2018-05-27
yes
1 EvanTheFactMerchant 2018-05-27
So it's almost like having a pussy if it's basically on your gooch.
1 Dellrup 2018-05-27
Thatās why you still feel sexual desire, get chemically castrated to erase that without having to cut off your balls or testosterone
Itāll make it a little easier, sorry OP
1 slipper432 2018-05-27
It might be an option if nothing else will work. But i really dont want to just give up on my sexuality and i want to feel things when i look at women so its hard choice
1 luminushumanus 2018-05-27
Buy a strap on and become the most selfless lover ever, learn to get off on anothers pleasure and stay the hell away from this shit because its only going to exacerbate your negative feelings on the matter in the long run.
You can choose to dwell on this and let it deffine your life from here on out or you can learn to live a posative.
But run from this circle of self pitty and cynicism its toxic and its not going to help you.
Or ignore me assume im a jackass and begin your long lonely downward spiral today.
1 vtesterlwg 2018-05-27
youāll find someone soon
1 mathproblemsolver 2018-05-27
it will also lead to him growing tits, develop gyno, become depressed with a very high likelihood and other major health issues you fucking retard. you should castrate yourself because reproduction with that kond of stupidity is fucking dangerous and not recommended
1 Zandonus 2018-05-27
A woman i didn't have sex with said she's been with like 20 dudes in the last year or so. And only one of them managed to give her an orgasm, and even that was orally. You can still sexually please a woman, you have a brain, a tongue, vocal cords, arms, legs, feet, hell you might even have both eyes. The whole package. Don't lose your balls just yet.
1 Shazig 2018-05-27
Why can't you just be honest?
1 Jarhead_71 2018-05-27
Yeah unless OP finds a blind lesbian your story is worth nothing to him
1 ChrisBrownApologist 2018-05-27
Just grow it back with your amazing non-misogynist personality.
1 GREYnRED 2018-05-27
That's wolverine. You're talking about mutants .This gentleperson here is a human
1 Zyklon_Bae 2018-05-27
He should watch Netflix around the clock..most new movies and TV shows have a small woman in charge, bossing the big men around.
1 StoopidSeksyFlanders 2018-05-27
They also contain:
An over representation of gay characters
At least one multi-ethnic cast member
Representation of all races and ethnicities, a la the original Star Trek.
A man raising someone elseās kids
Those same slender women physically overpowering male antagonists (my favorite film trope to giggle at)
An evil white person and poc hero.
Television has become so POZād that the political correctness is really in your face. Iām certain most people who watch these shows notice it and just roll their eyes at the worn out cliches. Iām watching The Leftovers right now, and it has an actual, literal magic negro
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1 Zyklon_Bae 2018-05-27
I just started watching The Frozen Dead on Netflix (French, new, pretty good). The male detective is a mid-50s rage-a-holic drunk with mental problems..the lead detective is a scrawny lesbian in her 20s. Their boss is a fugly old hag...the bad guy is of course a white guy..what happened to good TV shows like All In The Family?
1 StoopidSeksyFlanders 2018-05-27
All in the Family was a lampoon in traditional America with a strong liberal bias. It was proto-PC.
1 Zyklon_Bae 2018-05-27
But I loved Archie..he is one of my role models. My ex-wife hated him, stupid roastie.
1 Zyklon_Bae 2018-05-27
But I loved Archie..he is one of my role models. My ex-wife hated him, stupid roastie.
1 enjoythedecline2043 2018-05-27
Wut u say is true. Only group leftists despise more than the cis white male is the straight mongoloid male.
1 sabadr 2018-05-27
LMFAOOOOOOO
1 SoonelyDoodely 2018-05-27
JFL if you aren't Deadpool in 2018. It's over for dicklesscels.
1 CelibacyIsOverrated 2018-05-27
It's truly over.
1 sabadr 2018-05-27
Ouch
1 strake 2018-05-27
https://i.imgur.com/PMvSdlA.gif
1 slipper432 2018-05-27
this one hurt not gunna lie haha :(
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1 xxgtxy 2018-05-27
Meh, that's just the incel experience.
1 strake 2018-05-27
no masturbation though. no release after seeing beautiful girls.
1 CptBeetle 2018-05-27
Jesus man. This guy basically just got seriously mogged, penismogged, by every single "incel" in this thread. Truecel.
1 AyeThatsAGoodNagger 2018-05-27
Was it dick cancer or did it start somewhere else and spread to your dick?
1 slipper432 2018-05-27
i won the worst lottery possible and got dick cancer. one penectomy later and im an incel
1 AyeThatsAGoodNagger 2018-05-27
Root and stem? Losing your cock and/or balls wasnāt that uncommon historically speaking. Did they say what caused your cancer, besides just genetic factors?
1 slipper432 2018-05-27
i have like 2 inches internally but its useless. just bad luck basically, there was no reason for the cancer.
1 Revoltization 2018-05-27
i've had a bump on mine aswell for awhile . i don't have any of the symptoms listed so i dunno what it actually is but it looks like shit tbh
1 AyeThatsAGoodNagger 2018-05-27
How did you first notice it? Was it a lump deep inside the skin, or more like a small melanoma cancer on the surface, or was it something completely internal the was only detected by pain?
1 slipper432 2018-05-27
just a lump under the skin probably 5mm.
1 AyeThatsAGoodNagger 2018-05-27
Damn. Was it painful? I got bumps and spots all over mine but they say theyāre normal.
1 JoelBloomSlayer 2018-05-27
go get a physical if you're concerned
1 THEDUDE33 2018-05-27
honestly id rather just live for a couple months and die before losing my penis
1 slipper432 2018-05-27
Actually it would probably just spread and kill you like that. If i let it progress id be dickless and die of some other cancer
1 incelery33333 2018-05-27
Damn, it's over for me, so it's over for you definitely.
1 MrTotenkopf 2018-05-27
Well OP, i really don't know what to say.
If nothing else, you can be the Mayor of Cope Town.
1 endmysuffering1 2018-05-27
Dear God. I'm so sorry for you. Nobody deserves that.
1 raspectwahmen 2018-05-27
He's not entitled to a penis.
1 soviettrumpetman 2018-05-27
As a born male, he definitely is.
1 slipper432 2018-05-27
its also made me wonder, how many ex-chads are there around like me? it can happen to anyone at anytime so there must be a few chads who are now incel but never tell anyone.
1 CraigLove888 2018-05-27
Ex Chad? š¤
Pictures or you're a liar.
1 slipper432 2018-05-27
Not me i mean other people this has happened to about 1000 per year in the us. Some of them were chads
1 CraigLove888 2018-05-27
Where they lost their cock to cancer? Hm maybe... So is there literally nothing down there? How do you pee?
1 CptBeetle 2018-05-27
Holy shit man, I'm not even an incel. Maybe a normie-betbux going by the labels used here. Anyway - man, the idea of the classic "High School Jock" or "Chad" turning 21 and losing his fucking dick has just made me laugh out loud. Seriously - if it's any consolation and I know it's not - because you lost your fucking dick - you've just made so many people appreciate all these people playing life on the easiest level there is, getting to level-21 and suddenly the game detects he pirated it or something and flicks it onto "unbeatable".
1 slipper432 2018-05-27
Haha yeah its unbelievable
1 i_fucked_ur_waifu 2018-05-27
Dude, you know they've done the first successful dick transplant recently. John Hopkins.
1 incels_kek 2018-05-27
It's over.
1 lonewolf-20000 2018-05-27
you can become a cuck.
1 sabadr 2018-05-27
How?
1 phakahn 2018-05-27
Sorry to hear man, can you still have sexual feelings? If so I would look up if I can get rid of those feelings medically and surgically.
1 slipper432 2018-05-27
i can and do. i thought i would do that too but its harder than you think to actually go through with it. taking away a mans enjoyment of women is a massive change in lifestyle
1 phakahn 2018-05-27
You must be right it is a huge sacrifice, pass few years and consult people who did it. Because it might be benefical, removing the sexuality may feel like recovering from a drug addiction but in a fast way.
1 sipulistimus 2018-05-27
Isn't having sexual desire and no way to satisfy it pure torture?
1 slipper432 2018-05-27
it is unbearable sometimes. waking up with 5 months worth of nofap and a phantom erection is getting kinda old at this point
1 sipulistimus 2018-05-27
Damn, I don't think I could endure that. I'd rather just get rid of that desire and focus on other things.
1 slipper432 2018-05-27
i thought so too, but it is a really big step when you actully have to take it.
1 Dakaso 2018-05-27
Isnt it the same with all incels?
1 sipulistimus 2018-05-27
No, they can masturbate.
1 PuleaSpataru69 2018-05-27
You could find women who are into trans men if that's your only problem.
1 Life_is_sad 2018-05-27
the hero we need
1 PsyberPsychosis 2018-05-27
Donāt put sex on a pedestal, there are much greater things in life.
1 slipper432 2018-05-27
which i only ever had once anyway, i was most likely going to only masturbate my whole life but now i cant even do that
1 IncelGolem 2018-05-27
Femoid detected
1 changeIsTheWay 2018-05-27
Fuck off.
1 LoserGodsThrowaway 2018-05-27
This dude literally can't even jerk off anymore, what the fuck is the issue with you people?
1 PsyberPsychosis 2018-05-27
I donāt understand what youāre trying to say
1 LoserGodsThrowaway 2018-05-27
Unless you take a hot iron to your pussy you really won't get how this guy feels and this bullshit about how there are things in life other than sex is meaningless. For many, losing their genitals means far more than just never having sex again, but since your probably some shitheel from Inceltears you can't empathize with that idea.
1 PsyberPsychosis 2018-05-27
No, youāre right I would never understand what itās like, but that doesnāt mean I havenāt been through something similarly debilitating. I have permanent nervous system damage that has caused issues with cognition hearing and vision. Which are some of my most prized possessions, being a musician and a photographer. Going through this put serious strains on my relationships and every day Iām overcoming the problems it has presented me.
I know enough to provide some insightful words to someone in a different but similar situation.
1 a4v859 2018-05-27
Why no 12 inch implant
1 slipper432 2018-05-27
wouldn't really accomplish anything
1 EktarPross 2018-05-27
Well your op did say you were concerned about women not wanting you.
That could help.
Won't help with the pleasure though.
1 IncelGolem 2018-05-27
There are videos and social media posts out there showing nearly all women laughing and cheering whenever they hear about a man getting his penis cut off by a woman. There reasoning being "It's funny how men make a big deal about that hot dog between their legs" and " That thing is so ugly, I wish I could cut it off my BF he'd then look perfect".
Long story short, women don't actually want or need sex. That's a biological truth. Sex is just the price they are willing to pay to get a relationship, which is what they really want. They couldn't care less if their bf's or husband' s penis turned black and fell off, in fact most would prefer it.
1 slipper432 2018-05-27
i'll never get a gf or wife anyway, all i could hope for was to get some ugly bitch who loves cock or an escort. it is truly over.
1 Hydroeletric_ 2018-05-27
Rule 1. AWALT.
Rule 2. What women say is irrelevant, their words never reflect their actions.
1 IncelGolem 2018-05-27
There's also studies that conpared arousal between males and females. All straight females when shown insges of nude males showed no arousal whatsoever, but did show arousal when viewing nude females. This is further proof that "straight" women are only romantically attracted to men not sexually. And again, sex is just the reward they give to men in return for romance and commitment. They might enjoy it a bit but they certainly don't need it like men do. In fact many if not most of them hate it, and they especially hate male genitals, which they view as both very unaesthetic and threatening/frightening (which is why they're always scared of rapists/harrassers)
1 tt598 2018-05-27
Lol how bad can you cope
1 IncelGolem 2018-05-27
It's biology.
1 mrThesselrot 2018-05-27
Not at this kids age. Girls at ops age are in their middle hoeing period. They passing it out to eeeeeeeeeeeeeveryone good enough.
1 IncelGolem 2018-05-27
They pass it out only in the hopes Chad gives them a relationship in return. Not because they want dick.
1 aofns 2018-05-27
Source?
1 IncelGolem 2018-05-27
Read the research paper called "Sex as a female resource"
1 deathlyhapa 2018-05-27
sry to hear that man! do you still have testicles and do you produce fertile sperm, or nah?
also if you're looking for life fuel there was a guy born without limbs who still found a wife:
https://www.reddit.com/r/hapas/comments/496299/would_this_asian_woman_marry_this_legless_and/
1 slipper432 2018-05-27
my testicles work fine and i do produce sperm. i would swap all 4 of my limbs for my cock back
1 Rhodri_Kraakman 2018-05-27
So... how does missing a penis work? How do you pee? Is there any way you can āmasturbateā, or are you going to be permanently pent-up?
1 mathproblemsolver 2018-05-27
thats it I am now convinced that you are a troll. thats fucking pathetic OP you dont make fun of things like that
1 slipper432 2018-05-27
I mean its pretty fucked either way at least with one i still have a dick. I dont mean quad amputees should be made fun of just that its like theyrw both pretty shit
1 mathproblemsolver 2018-05-27
I have a 4 inch dick, basically a micro penis and I would say there is not much difference between you and me in that regard even since we both are not able to have penetrative sex, lets be real. there is barely a difference between a micro penis and having no penis at all in terms of providing and achieving pleasure. but damn, having no limbs is like 100 times worse than having no dick. how can you even come up with that shit. and saying you would swap our limb, all of them for a dick, holy shit you got to be a troll and quite frankly based on the way you have been framing things here I am inclined to no believe your entire story
1 slipper432 2018-05-27
dude im drinking and posting on braincels at 4am. you think i am actually taking shit like that into consideration??
1 mathproblemsolver 2018-05-27
im drunk too.. it really helps. keep doing that
1 corinarh 2018-05-27
Dude are you insane? with even microdick (and trust me 4 inch is not micropenis) you can at least satisfy yourself with masturbation, you could even fuck a hooker (ofc she will fake orgasm but who cares) while he can't do any of those things.
I have 12cm dick so i know what i'm talking about.
1 thehardertruth2000 2018-05-27
That's not life fuel, man. That was literally the highest status Paraplegic or w/e you call it in the entire world. Plus he's handsome and wellspoken and rich.
That's like saying because a celebrity with a micropenis got married to a model that there's hope. No, there isn't that much hope.
1 Zyklon_Bae 2018-05-27
Call the rope store, and ask if they deliver.
1 PM-ME-YOUR-UNDERARMS 2018-05-27
Might sound morbid, mind posting a pic?
1 nofishtocatch 2018-05-27
wtf?
1 redmanticore2 2018-05-27
internet archives demand proof!
1 082rz 2018-05-27
Is there any surgery to get it back? Or is it over?
This entire thread is nightmare fuel
1 slipper432 2018-05-27
Its over for atleast a few years, probably forever. There have been penis transplants but i doubt i'll cum out of 'my' dick ever again.
I could also get a prosthetic but thats still a ways off too. Nightmare indeed, it happens completely randomly.
1 tfw_manlet 2018-05-27
get a sex change. its the only way
1 anonymousvirgin88 2018-05-27
It's so over that you may actually be able to make it begin for some other people by comparison.
1 changeIsTheWay 2018-05-27
Are there any developments in penis transplants? I heard they do them to war victims who have their penises destructed from battle.
1 TheBlueTiger77 2018-05-27
Good Lord.....there are no words. I guess dicklesscel is the only true truecel. I think some guy got a dick transplant recently so there's that.
1 sabadr 2018-05-27
But nerve ending are cut off he can never enjoy sex
1 ZapAmmoSmuggler 2018-05-27
Life ain't about sex my dude. Sure people say it feels great but it is a basic human instinct and nothing more. Making it such a priority and a constant thought in your head is only going to make it worse for your wellbeing.
There are far more things is this life that you can do that will make your life feel more fulfilling, it is just a matter of finding something that you can focus on and enjoy.
You can join the Army, Become an artist, a writer, a watchmaker, a photographer, a teacher, a volunteer. I cant say for certain about you but for me the most enjoyable and fulfilling thing to do would be something that directly or indirectly helps others.
And of course you would probably still feel sad about your differences from time to time but the goal would be to have something to get your mind of off those thoughts.
Also being dickless isnt the worst thing in the world, you aren't paralyzed or an amputee, you seem to have an internet connection and shelter with food and water. So its really a matter of perspective, you can look at others and see that some have it worse yet they still carry on through.
Plus not having an organ doesn't mean you cant get intimate with others(dont get me started on the jokes that you can make about cuddling to other girls), hell it doesn't even mean that you cant get sexual, just not in a conventional way. Plenty of people like being tied up, plenty of people enjoy being eaten out. I bet you can even find lesbians thinking about you as an interesting option.
So maybe being honest about yourself to others will help you weed out the worse types of people and find the ones that can make a difference and are worth sticking around with.
1 thehardertruth2000 2018-05-27
A pretty well known and accepted quote is. Life is all about sex. Except for sex, sex is about power (dominance/control).
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1 ZapAmmoSmuggler 2018-05-27
I'll have agree with you that loosing your dick isnt something you just get over easily, but he didn't choose to castrate himself, it is something that happened and you can't change that now.
So what's the advice now then, should it be suicide since sex is so important? Should he just sit in his house all day thinking about how he doesn't have a dick for the rest of his life?
Sex only has as much value as you give to it, and no there will be no miracle once you do have it, you wont change as a person you will still be the same way as you where before it.
Also judging your self worth by the amount of sexual activity you've had is pretty comical, if you really think it is so important then you're no better then an animal, and animals only exist to survive. Is this what you really want to do with your time here? Just exist with no goal or purpose? And not like I should be judging anyone, you do whatever you wanna do, but maybe you are depressed because you are too much of a pussy to do anything differently.
1 LoserGodsThrowaway 2018-05-27
Why don't you just fucking try being understanding? Is that too hard to get? What's with you IT retards and your insipid need to give advice literally always? Nothing will fix this situation, and until someone either comes and cuts off your dick or pussy you really will never be able to get how this person feels and your advice will be completely fucking empty. Why don't you take a page from /r/depression and just try being supportive, instead of doing this improvement bullshit as if he can just fix his mindset and somehow his genitals will come back. Jesus fucking Christ, you literally went on some long ass rant because you people can't even comprehend the idea of just fucking supporting someone in a hard time, what the fuck? I hope no one you love ever has to rely on your shitty ass for something like depression.
1 ZapAmmoSmuggler 2018-05-27
Being supportive doesn't mean anything on the internet, take the top comment on this post right now "Dear God. I'm so sorry for you. Nobody deserves that." Do you really think that this 10 word comment is going to make a difference? Its the same thing as "thoughts and prayers" its a lazy response yet it is what you are supposed to say because you are "supportive".
I do not expect my advice to be followed or even read, but I think if more people commented on how to actually deal with the situation OP would have much ways to deal with his situation that better fits his mindset.
Anyone can type out "supportive" things but I think if a person actually takes his time to write out a longer response to OP it would show that that person cares more about his situation. It's much easier to just say "so sorry for you" and move on and forget about it then it is to stay and actually try to help the person.
1 LoserGodsThrowaway 2018-05-27
I think, if you can't even help commiserate, you should ahut the fuck up, and go the fuck away
1 ihatereditwhyamihere 2018-05-27
see what your reconstruction options are, is there anything you can for the pain? like maybe some of the hand free yoga shit might help?
people who go male to female must have an idea somehow... hoping theres still an option for you man but its going to be rough to stay in there... hope you dont succumb to the depression this board can give you even though you are obviously having a rough time.
1 slipper432 2018-05-27
there are options in the future, but i dont want to hype it up and then have it not work for some reason. hopefully i can get a transplant but thats so long in the future.
1 ihatereditwhyamihere 2018-05-27
i really hope you can have some reprieve in the short term mate, i hope someone can give you some advice that helps.
1 asipoditas 2018-05-27
that's a thing? i mean hey, maybe in the future you'll end up with a bigger dick than before, think about that.
kind of /s
1 moonpodrising 2018-05-27
That sucks. I can suggest you hold out hope for some technological-medical miracle. They could 3D print you a new cock using a culture of your own cells. Or with neurostimulation you could get connected to a haptic-enabled prosthetic dick. Or go full simuation, get plugged into VR with a virtual body complete with an enhanced virtual phallus.
1 crrkbb 2018-05-27
Man, I am really fucking sorry. I have no words. :(
If I were in your position - if I had the will and spirit to somewhat live on - if there would be NO WAY AT ALL to ever have a normal life - I'd devote my life to religion, become a monk somewhere in the world and work with charity.
1 thehardertruth2000 2018-05-27
You need to get ripped and just become gay man.
This isn't a popular opinion because it fucks with peoples heads but when I watched the Rat Paradise experiment it basically said that the only males that became gay were the ones at the bottom of the ladder. That's why when you see an overly gay guy acting super confident (being loud).. it's annoying. Because in the rat paradise if a weak mouse squeaked big he'd get bit.
I don't know where I'm going with this but.. basically no matter what anyone tells you here.. you have no chance with women anymore.
I'd say your best bet would be to find some type of genital cancer support group and try to find a female who has no vagina anymore. But other than that.. the only way you are getting fucked is going to be in the ass by a gay guy.
1 tonybarnaby 2018-05-27
This is terrible advice. You couldnāt do this yourself so why suggest it to someone else who is also heterosexual?
1 thehardertruth2000 2018-05-27
Would you rather we sugar coat it and give him the fantasy that he will please a woman in the bedroom for life without a penis?
1 tonybarnaby 2018-05-27
No, but to tell him to become a homosexual isnāt a viable solution. Thatās like telling someone to become a cannibal or something outrageous like that.
1 thehardertruth2000 2018-05-27
Well, if I was in his position I'd try to start finding stuff I enjoy in dudes. Because the only people on Earth who will have a connection or empathy level to that are going to be guys. He said he needs prostate stimulation, too.
And you comparing gay guys to cannibals is retarded. I'm just trying to give him an honest outlook so he can plan for the future and heal his soul.
1 tonybarnaby 2018-05-27
Youāre telling a guy with NO sexual attraction to men to just take it in the ass if he wants any affection. Thatās crazy talk. Itās not natural at all.
1 undeadcel 2018-05-27
not having a dick isnt natural
1 tonybarnaby 2018-05-27
If I was in his place I wouldnāt cope by taking it in the ass from another man. Thatās not s solution.
1 mrThesselrot 2018-05-27
This. I think you right bruh. I hate to say be gay. But if we sugar coat too long he'll never feel any kind of physical contact beyond an escort. He could get a woman who "loves" him, but that shit wont last long unless shes super fugly or has some other interest going on like money, or is a nawalt.
1 UnleashTheClowns 2018-05-27
Of course he could please a woman, don't be a ridiculous douchebag.
1 junfam 2018-05-27
Go trans, and be a lesbo
1 SaintKines 2018-05-27
Unsullied. We should call you Grey Worm. Really sorry man. No man deserves that unless he's a rapist or child molester. You can still pleasure women I guess but you won't get much release. Most women don't even get off from penetration alone. It's all about the clit. A lot of guys don't realize this.
1 slipper432 2018-05-27
Yeah i honestly couldnt care about not having penetration again, its everything else about having a dick that matters
1 SaintKines 2018-05-27
Honestly you're the sort of person that should get a gofundme. If you can't have your fucking complete manhood you should at least have everything else you could want. I know nothing can make up for it but I say you should do it. Men at least will help you. I don't even make much money and I would personally donate.
1 GrinchBear 2018-05-27
Bionic penises are a thing
1 is_secretly_a_cat 2018-05-27
Dude. There's more to sex than simply penetrative. Somehow men with micro-penises still have sex, lesbians have sex, people without penises/functioning penises still have sex.
Yeah, it sucks. Majorly. Not gonna lie about that. But it's not the end of the world, you're not "finished" or whatever, but if you ever want to have sex again maybe get off of an Incel page and learn how to respect women.
1 slipper432 2018-05-27
I mean i have to convince a straight girl to like me so much she will give up dick for the rest of her life. thats not happening lmao
1 chewbacca2hot 2018-05-27
you need to hookup with old ladies. they wont give a shit and have money
1 SuckingSucks 2018-05-27
There are people that are A-sexual. And there is probably some dating website for a-sexual people on the internet.
1 justforlulzandkeks 2018-05-27
Is this a meme post
1 undeadcel 2018-05-27
I hope its a troll if not it is so over
1 undeadcel 2018-05-27
"if you ever want to have sex again maybe get off of an Incel page and learn how to respect women" WHAT? LMAO you IT people are worse than any incel ever could be, I mean wtf has it to do with him being on an incel page ? he has no fucking dick you cunt, no matter how much he respects fembots he will never have sex again.
1 Shazig 2018-05-27
Women are not entitled to being helped if they get raped.
1 LoserGodsThrowaway 2018-05-27
*Man literally loses penis
How about some empathy? Wait, I forgot, you're a feminist, nevermind.
1 mynameismur 2018-05-27
Damn , u have a cancer, that's much worse than finding a girl at this point. Live strong , man.
1 Rhodri_Kraakman 2018-05-27
You are the most literal form of an involuntary celibate.
1 slipper432 2018-05-27
im just glad i had sex before this happened. i've heard of boys who this happened to at age 13. cant imagine that, going through puberty dickless, and having to decline any girl who actually initiates.
1 TransMilhouse 2018-05-27
Do u get to park in handicap spots?
1 rpeg 2018-05-27
There are actually women who dont prefer sex and literally dont like penises but are straight. There are also dating sites that deal with.
https://mobile.nytimes.com/2010/12/28/health/28dating.html
1 SmokeyMcBlunt 2018-05-27
NoFap: Expert mode.
1 Celestine87 2018-05-27
It would personally not stop me from dating a guy. Sex is unfortunately considered very important to a lot of people, but you could have a good relationship with an asexual woman, and you can still experience pleasure through the prostate.
1 user032000161 2018-05-27
wowe its actually over
1 KingOfCorinth 2018-05-27
That's unfathomably rough. You have my total sympathy.
I suppose your best bet for love and intimacy might be with an asexual girl. Someone who still wants romance and intimacy, but doesn't experience/isn't interested in sexual chemistry.
1 CptBeetle 2018-05-27
You just set a pretty fucking high bar for truecel
1 Eeens148 2018-05-27
I suffer from pelvic floor dysfunction. Sex comes with a lot of āside effectsā for me, and I cant have sex with my boyfriend very often or these side effects get worse. Iām young and in my twenties. We find other ways to be intimate!!
I am also a part of multiple groups on Facebook of women who cannot have sex at all due to pain: suffering from vestibulodynia, vulvodynia, vaginismus, dysperaeunia, and pelvic floor dysfunction. There are so many of us who struggle with this. And time and time again many write how worried they are that they canāt have sex with their partner at all or feel pressure to have sex. Many comment offering support that they are married and that their husbands or boyfriends love them anyway and they find other ways to be intimate. You will find many women who want to be intimate and canāt have PIV sex. You will also find women who will still want to be with you and know that there are other ways to be intimate.
1 Plague-Lord 2018-05-27
well, you basically have two options:
1) Take the pink pill, get on HRT and transition to female, you already got the hard part of losing the dick out of the way.
2) Alternatively, get a realistic looking strap-on and just explain to girls ahead of time what happened to you, then fuck them with a stunt cock. You won't get too much out of it physically but at least it would simulate sex and the girl can enjoy it.
1 redmanticore2 2018-05-27
please do not recommend transmenĀ“ s neovagina to him, that is even more horrifying, if possible. it is literally a hole in your body that you "dilate" every day, rest of your life, all the puss out that try to heal the wound. it comes with huge complications, because it acts as a hole in your body. it is nothing like a vagina.
1 Shazig 2018-05-27
How tall are you?
1 slipper432 2018-05-27
175cm
1 Shazig 2018-05-27
You can become a tranny
1 420BongMaster 2018-05-27
Nah dude plenty of guys don't have dicks. Take it from me one of those guys. You can definitely please a woman and I'm sure you'll find ways to get off too so just be sure to show her how it's all done šš
1 schizo_frog_haha_lol 2018-05-27
Are you smart? Maybe you can become a dickless philosopher, free from the slavery of your penis. You'll have to remove your balls first. I would buy your book! You could even manipulate women and write a book about how you now understand them or some bullshit like that. Feminists will make you their hero and rolemodel and buy your book to read at Starbucks.
1 questioner2233 2018-05-27
jesus this sense of humour. hope op is laughing. fuck's sake man. you = hilarity (no homo)
1 01101111_01110111 2018-05-27
Ouch. You win OP. Youāve managed to win. We might as well close this subreddit down at this point.
But seriously though that fucking sucks. I didnāt even know you can lose your dick to cancer. Ive got a new fear. Also, did you have sex before you had it removed? Or are you a virgin?
1 CommunityCollegeHogg 2018-05-27
You're a literal incel. There's no way for you to have sex unless you let some cunt peg you or you eat her out - both of which
1 tropical_cockonut 2018-05-27
Cancer always returns, youāll die in a few years. This might sound cruel, but Iām just telling you whatāll happen.
You get cancer, youāre bound to die really early.
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1 THRWWAY2AVOIDRAGE 2018-05-27
I have no applicable advice, but I just had to say I am sorry for your loss. Hope you make the best of it, and I have read recently they have been making headway with penis transplants. I wish you the best!
1 bengalsturntup5532 2018-05-27
I refuse to believe this horrible horrible thing
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1 Yemanthing 2018-05-27
I wanna kill myself just reading this.
1 Yemanthing 2018-05-27
Well reading the title made me cringe like an episode of the office. So...yeah...it's over boyo.
1 Aceyxo 2018-05-27
That really sucks man. Just focus on being a good person and be nice to people and you never know.
1 sabadr 2018-05-27
How do you fap?
1 slipper432 2018-05-27
I dont
1 sabadr 2018-05-27
Aww im so sorry so what do you do when you get turned on?
1 slipper432 2018-05-27
Wait it out
1 eowsley8 2018-05-27
if you can find it you can find a sex repulsed woman, still man your chances are really low, hopefully you can get some hope soon
1 25OverHeat 2018-05-27
This is the saddest, most unfortunate thing I've read in a long time. I'm sorry, man.
1 KevinVeneto 2018-05-27
How come there is yet no sinteti penis to get implanted like for femoids boobs and vagina for trans yet no penis. Fuck this society
1 pangeacel 2018-05-27
Do you still have feeling in your ex-penis area? Do you get imaginary boners? Your situation is dreadful, friend :(
1 slipper432 2018-05-27
No feeling worth anything. Yeah phantom boners are common. :(
1 grungebot5000 2018-05-27
use tongue
pretty simple
1 redmanticore2 2018-05-27
>hands
dont encourage too much, or ends up as a strangler.
1 mrThesselrot 2018-05-27
I'd get ripped and find relationships with slightly older men if I were you op. Any validation is better then absolutely no validation. Any physical connection is better than none. OFC, you could take advice already given and use a really nice strap on. I'd learn to take more from the emotional connection made through physical contact. This hope or cope. If at all it seems to bleak. Then rope. Good luck brother. You're in a really tough place at such a young age. Decide now and don't lose the next 9 years to a lack of choice or god forbid, a lack of interest. As a 30 year old incel I sort of envy you in a very disgusting way. So much time to make crazy decisions.
1 911roofer 2018-05-27
You can still do things for the girl, but they can do nothing for you. Take up a hobby is my advice.
1 godspeedstrike 2018-05-27
on the plus side prostate orgasms are pretty great. I recommend buying an aneros and trying it out
1 StoopidSeksyFlanders 2018-05-27
Nearly two hundred comments and a strap-on has only been mentioned twice. How is that even possible? Because most of the young men here have never had sex. Anyone who been exhale active has at some point wished they had a strap on and that it was acceptable for them to use it (came to quickly, thought their dick was too small, erection problems, etc.).
Ideally, you could find a girl thatās into pegging. Anal isnāt something you can jump straight into. Itās like drag racing; if you go full throttle from the starting line youāll blow an o-ring. So read some how-to guides. None of this is gay if itās with a woman, and OP especially gets a pass.
1 KolaDesi 2018-05-27
Transmen don't have a dick by definition and they can get a girlfriend. So there is someone out there who can like you, even if it's not the majority of women. Don't give up and keep trying.
1 redmanticore2 2018-05-27
dont recommend transmenĀ“Ā“ s neovagina to him, that is even more horrifying, if possible. it is literally a hole in your body that you "dilate" every day, all the puss out that try to heal the wound.
1 KolaDesi 2018-05-27
Uhm, aren't transmen born with a vagina by definition? Maybe we're talking about two different things, I'm not wishing any genital surgey to anyone, on the contrary I'm supporting the acceptance of the body each of us have.
Straight women usually prefer a dick over a man's body, but there are exceptions. Sex life for "dickless" people is difficult but possible.
1 redmanticore2 2018-05-27
oops i was the one confused yeah.
there was upper poster who said " Plague-Lord10 pointsĀ·2 days ago
Take the pink pill, get on HRT and transition to female "
and thought you meant that. and I thought you meant "post-op"
1 suckmycockadoodledoo 2018-05-27
Well, ig you're gonna have to get into pegging
1 slipper432 2018-05-27
which i only ever had once anyway, i was most likely going to only masturbate my whole life but now i cant even do that
1 IncelGolem 2018-05-27
Femoid detected
1 slipper432 2018-05-27
yes
1 changeIsTheWay 2018-05-27
Fuck off.
1 Shazig 2018-05-27
Why can't you just be honest?
1 sabadr 2018-05-27
Ouch
1 sabadr 2018-05-27
How?
1 StoopidSeksyFlanders 2018-05-27
All in the Family was a lampoon in traditional America with a strong liberal bias. It was proto-PC.
1 LoserGodsThrowaway 2018-05-27
This dude literally can't even jerk off anymore, what the fuck is the issue with you people?
1 ZapAmmoSmuggler 2018-05-27
I'll have agree with you that loosing your dick isnt something you just get over easily, but he didn't choose to castrate himself, it is something that happened and you can't change that now.
So what's the advice now then, should it be suicide since sex is so important? Should he just sit in his house all day thinking about how he doesn't have a dick for the rest of his life?
Sex only has as much value as you give to it, and no there will be no miracle once you do have it, you wont change as a person you will still be the same way as you where before it.
Also judging your self worth by the amount of sexual activity you've had is pretty comical, if you really think it is so important then you're no better then an animal, and animals only exist to survive. Is this what you really want to do with your time here? Just exist with no goal or purpose? And not like I should be judging anyone, you do whatever you wanna do, but maybe you are depressed because you are too much of a pussy to do anything differently.