Holy shit this blackpill took my breath away (and it's research by a woman too)

85  2018-05-27 by Hot_Incele_Rae

83 comments

Also check [this](https://blog.mindvalley.com/lessons-about-relationships-from-esther-perel/) out too

Findings from the same woman

" Passion and security cannot exist at the same time"

Over for beta bux/stable good guy/marriage material

fuck, i felt a jolt of pain in my chest reading that. foids dont understand how painful it is to swallow these pills

Absolutely disgusting, trying to redefine what monogamy means, just because our life expectancy is higher. No bitch, monogamy means being faithful and loyal to your partner. Why is this such a hard thing for femmorhoids to accomplish?

This is entirely anecdotal. I didn't see a single number, percentage, or mention of science or the word study in this entire post. This may be true for the women that were asked, but this is in no way true for all or most women.

Well this an article summarizing her research. You'll have to find her actual journal articles published in some psychology/sociology site to get the actual data. But her research leads us to the blackpill we've been saying all along: women hate monogamy (especially with ugly unexciting men).

But not all women hate monogamy. It's just not true. I hate monogamy, and I'm very much a minority among all the women that I know. My mother for example still tries to steer me away seeing other people despite the fact that my fiance and I have been polyamorous since the day we got together.

While not every woman will necessarily become polyamorous many women are in denial about wanting just one guy to be faithful to them. As soon as he puts that ring on her finger, as soon as he signs that contract she'll become bored with him. Because he's hers, he's not exciting anymore because she has him. Even Chad will have interest lost in him because he'll become less exciting over time and she'll want a new hot cock inside of her.

Why do you think that?

Because I see it all around me, plus there's research that backs up my own observations. Seems like The Coolidge Effect runs both ways. Maybe society is heading in this direction though, single mothers being the norm and a new step-dad popping up every now and then. The real dad leaves for new partners. I suppose this is what society was originally like pre-civilization.

Link me to your research then, please

Not my research, there are a fair few researches like Esther Perel who have come up with some DARK findings. Have a shop around. Even Helen Fisher despite rationalizing some of her findings has found many things that are blackpilled.

Can you link to some of it?

It's always funny that the foids saying "not all women are like that" are always like that.

Lmfaoooooo

Except not all women are. Just like not all ugly men are incels, its unfair to make those generalizations.

You are a disgusting whore and I feel sorry for your mother.

i think this suggests less that women hate monogamy, and more that they love AF/BB, they love cheating, getting fucked by some alpha big dicked chad, and they love coming home to their clueless, cuckadoodle husbands

way darker if u ask me broski

Get back to posting nudes for strangers to cum on, you stupid whore.

You can't get rid of her, she's everywhere.

What a retarded-trash-normie-femoid-alien-hole-foid.

I probably will keep posting later today, but for now I'm trying to have a discussion which most of you just seem intent on shutting down rather than engaging

why are you even here?

You look like a little boy you dyke bitch.

Goddamn your snatch looks disgusting.

You're the genetic result of generations of men being too thirsty to care what your cunt looks like.

That's not how genetics works but alrighty then.

Cope

LOL breathtaking blackpill

it's over, i dare say it never began

excellent observation my good man!

Basically saying they want a BBC to ravage their holes

Possibly, definitely more exciting than their boring faithful schlubby hubby

Tyrone Suresh (CurryChad) and Ali all at the same time.

I can’t fucking do it. I wanted to rope just off the title. We’re over here rotting and roasties are having affairs. It’s ragefuel.

If a woman is only going to be bored or miserable with you anyway you're better off alone tbh. For us subhumans, hookers will have to suffice (and maybe a Brazzers subscription). Maybe we can invent our own girlfriends, like Joi in the new Bladerunner movie. It's going to be some interesting years ahead for us.

Remember: there are people out there working on bringing artificial intelligence, autonomy, and robot sex dolls together.

To me this article is actually a bluepill, why? Because it shows women as wanting to have exciting lives just as we do. They dont want to just marry and then their lives stop. It feels like the media tells us that women only want this safe financially secure guy and then everybody would be happy forever when the reality is that women want cool, exciting lives just like we do. It's more pathetic for them to cheat to achieve that because they should get a hobby and get excitement that way but that's now how women were designed, they are designed to get their fulfillment from a man whereas a man just needs to have sex and then he gets his fulfillment from his work. Obviously they should be severely punished for cheating but the same applies to men, I have no compassion for people who go into a marriage and then cheat. Less than zero, the bible says that they should be stoned to death.

But do I have compassion for women who want to have an exciting (sex) life? Yeah of course. Why wouldn't I? Everybody wants that.

you have to read between the lines nigga

thé point is her husband is an uggo and she's taking him because he is safe, and the guy she is having a fling with was the Chad from high school she crushed on (women only ever crush on Chad). it's Blackpill as fuck, coated in nice langauge. the world is bleak and I hate women.

That pill is so black it just asked me for money in the taco bell parking lot.

I named the pill Tyrone

Vantablackpill...why isn't this stickied

So black it raped my white mother, and stole the TV

normies won't respond to this

Just remember inceltears are trying to cope just as much as we are. Give it to them in small doses at a time.

Small doses of case studies? "Evidence" so shitty it barely stands over anecdote?

IT so deluded that even when a woman is disproving the personality meme they reject it.

This is why most of you can't speak about "scientific blackpills". This comunity is not scientifically literate on the most part.

It must be wonderful to be this cucked. Literally countless studies prove you wrong and yet you still can't accept it.

Must be wonderful to literally be unable to change your position after having your shitty arguments deconstructed and your "evidence" be shown to either be misinterpreted data, poorly made "studies" that don't account for a significant portion of the population or just be so flawed that anyone that even got a social studies class in high school that they could rip it to shreds pointing out the bad methodology.

Then you fall back on anecdote and case studies like this one and you wonder why people don't take you seriously.

Boy what is you arguing on reddit for? You're not gonna change anyone's mind, especially with places like r/BlackpillScience literally proving you wrong every day.

I mean, I -would- ask you for some proof, some link to these 'deconstructions' of Blackpill studies, but then I know you wouldn't want to waste time on a hopeless incel like me. You'd probably just spin it around and ask something like, 'Well, where are you studies, hrmmmm?' and so on.

Just go out and live life normie. Ain't nothing gonna change for a loser rapist virgin pedophile incel like me. Unless you derive some sort of pleasure from laughing at how pathetic I am. In which case, go on.

Go over to IT, look for an incel linking to these studies and watch as people explain why he's wrong.

I'd rather not go to a place that wishes my extermination. In the end nothing changes. IT people and normies are still happy, incels are still miserable. The end. Please don't respond. Have a nice day.

did u just have an argument with yourself niggA

i may have my nigga

you are truly a suspicious cel

a suscel

suicel

Jesus christ how come every person disagreeing with this article is an idiot? Read her research which would be published in some psychology or sociology journal. The article is just summarizing some of her findings. Yes it doesn't include her methodology or data.

Critical thinking =/= agreeing with your opinion. A smart viewpoint is not just one that coincidentally matches yours. Capiche?

Do you know what a case study is? Or how research is done in psychology? Or how things are done in sociology?

> Commitment is not proof of desire.

Jesus christ this is just blackpill rape

HOES

they are HOES

It's all about looks, has nothing to do with the way they act or treat them, women are too dense to care about that.

The validation from a hot Chad will eventually wane and she will become bored. Then she will want to be desired by another hot Chad. Even Chad can't win.

Not really, if he has a social support group then it's fine for him to ask her to marry, if not she'll just take the kid when she gets bored.

Esther Perel also hosts a podcast called Where Should We Begin? that I recommend. You get to listen in to couples having sex therapy.

This article is interesting because it also hints at a solution to remaining sexually interested in a long term relationship: context. The book "Come As You Are" also talks a lot about "context" as essential for female desire. It's pretty interesting. Many women have "responsive" desire, meaning it only comes out if there's erotic context.

sounds like ur saying that it isn't worth it

staying sexually interested in your partner? I mean, it's worth it if you wanna stay with them and you care about fucking

no ur saying get cucked and let ur wife fuck other guys

no thx

erotic context = hardcore femdom

IT CUCKS ON SUICIDE WATCH

So if she loses interest, we should cheat on her.

You could (if you're not incel). There have been some stories of men who cheated and their wives/girlfriend suddenly became interested in sex again.

Roasties get used to pump and dump. And then use it on betabuxx

Bring back public shaming and humilliation for holes that cheat.

Shave their heads, and drive them through the streets like cattle

i posted this on inceltears lets see what they think if it gets approved

Hahaha this will be good.

personal note: save this post.

Women tire of monogamy faster than men.

Explains why they become banshees soon after marriage.

My gf was great until she became my wife. Instantly turned into a boring, whiny nag. Now she's my ex-wife.

Free range organic blackpill

It's over

That article is just a regurgitation of some of the principle points of red pill theories.

Research shows that men remain sexually interested in their partners for longer, with the decline of desire happening gradually. Women tend to lose their interest in a shorter amount of time and rather precipitously.

Women cannot love

This is true. Only men truly know what it means to love another. I feel jealous of gaycels.

Yuck. Absolutely disgusting. AF/BB is 100% real. I like how the whore has ZERO qualms about cheating on billy the beta boyfriend with college chad lmao.

Madison still intends to marry Steve

And the poor fuck has no idea what's going on behind her back. Or maybe he has a suspicion but he's just coping

Commitment is not proof of desire.

IT cucks on suicide watch. Just LOL @ any male that believes in the settling isn't real meme. Just LOL @ anyone who wifes some slut who whored around in her youth thinking she actually wants him. Just LOL @ falling for the the past is the past meme.

I'm not entirely sold on the "women don't know what they want" sentiment because it makes it too easy to dismiss them without second thought, but shit like this makes me wonder how true it really is

Absolute suicide fuel. This is way more potent than screenshots of some random thot on Twitter or tinder saying some stupid shit

Why even bother anymore. Get a sex robot with AI, it'll be 1000x better than any femorrhoid. It'll be loyal, won't be narcissistic, and it will be more capable of loving you than any biological woman could ever be. Jfl if you aren't moneymaxxing for a robot femoid.

Over

Idk this just kind of seems like opinion and not an actual legitimate study.

Rage fuel. Adulterers deserve to be burned alive.

fuck, i felt a jolt of pain in my chest reading that. foids dont understand how painful it is to swallow these pills

You could (if you're not incel). There have been some stories of men who cheated and their wives/girlfriend suddenly became interested in sex again.

Boy what is you arguing on reddit for? You're not gonna change anyone's mind, especially with places like r/BlackpillScience literally proving you wrong every day.

I mean, I -would- ask you for some proof, some link to these 'deconstructions' of Blackpill studies, but then I know you wouldn't want to waste time on a hopeless incel like me. You'd probably just spin it around and ask something like, 'Well, where are you studies, hrmmmm?' and so on.

Just go out and live life normie. Ain't nothing gonna change for a loser rapist virgin pedophile incel like me. Unless you derive some sort of pleasure from laughing at how pathetic I am. In which case, go on.

Absolutely disgusting, trying to redefine what monogamy means, just because our life expectancy is higher. No bitch, monogamy means being faithful and loyal to your partner. Why is this such a hard thing for femmorhoids to accomplish?