Women could bring about world peace if they were sexually attracted to kind men. The fact that they aren't is the cause of 99% of the hostility on the planet.
40 2018-05-26 by EverythingIsSoSincur
If being kind got you laid, men would be so kind it would be unreal. Our main goal in life is to attract women and have sex with them...can you even imagine how kind the average man would be if that were what got women to want you?
Just look at the things men do to attract women.
They spend hours and hours pumping iron in the gym, which is fucking miserable. Putting on muscle that way is unnatural...we had to invent equipment in order to do it. And it feels like shit. You're literally tearing apart your muscle so you can walk around sore all day in hopes of getting more muscular.
They join movements that work against the desires of their own gender. You know, like "feminism."
They spend countless $$$ on clothes, cars, colognes, pickup artist books, steroids, hair transplant surgeries, etc.
They risk their lives our of obligation to defend "their woman" after she starts shit with another dude with her mouth. Pro wrestler Diamond Dallas Page almost lost an eye because his cunt wife started a fight with fucking Scott Steiner, forcing him to have to defend his wife's "honor" with his fists.
Just imagine if just being a good person who helped others were what got you laid.
But the world we live in is one where men are deliberately jerks - even though they don't want to be - because they know they have to be in order to turn women on. They know they're not allowed to show any kind of vulnerability. They know they have to hide their emotions and remain stoic, or women will find them repulsive.
But I understand. I understand that you can't help the fact that it's actually the opposite - when combined with good looks - that turns you on. It's just the way you're built.
What I can't accept is that you feel the need to constantly lie about it; to pretend that what attracted you to Jeremy Meeks was his intelligence, sense of humor, and kindness, and not his chiseled jaw and gorgeous eyes.
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1 Orboyo 2018-05-26
They are attracted to Chad.
Kind Chad, mean Chad, rich Chad, poor Chad.
Just be Chad theory is legit
1 Throwawaygkuf6844 2018-05-26
This is true. Women are sexually attracted to signals of dominance, authority and superiority. If women, the limiting factor in human reproduction, were sexually attracted to kindness, the competition for sexual access and thus human civilization would be completely altered, especially for males. The core of female sexuality is their obsessive inferiority complex. Society cannot even afforf to confront this as doing so is essentially very inconvenient for profit.
Most women legitimately have an inferiority complex. It is plain and obvious to see. Most women feel inferior to men, because, overwhelmingly, most men are vastly superior to most women in nearly every single measurable way. This is also obvious. One way women express this complex is through their sexuality, obviously preferring men with genetics that are convenient to power. As women are the limiting factor in human reproduction it is common sense that it is primarily women's sexuality, not men's, which inevitably serves to be the foundation of any civilization's social order. Women, due to the very nature of their inferiority complex driven sexuality, are the true reason why all people are literally objectified through an illusory social status hierarchy by default.
Women, with nearly every expression of their femininity, from their sexuality to their very outlook on life itself, voluntarily demonstrate their obsession over the perception of their inferiority, constantly seeking to either hide it or attempt to conquer it. There is nothing else to them; There is nothing to most women other than the simple comprehension of the fact that they need to feel better about feeling inferior to men, consciously or subconsciously. All of their behaviors from their choices in clothing, their choices with regards to their words, their natural sexual attraction to genetically and behaviorally dominant men, to how they most often truly choose to value their own selves proves this. Everything is a competition to women; Everything is hierarchy to women; Women demand superiority. This is all they can ever know. Understand this, and you understand women.
1 BarkingSands27 2018-05-26
Would you agree that in a nutshell, the culture of women is almost entirely egotistical with no actual self respect or sense of responsibility?
I've personally met some women that actually do hold their self respect in higher regard over their ego. They're like a wad of 100 dollar bills thrown into a crowd at a concert. They're all taken.
1 TVops 2018-05-26
Sorry but this is hyperbole to the extreme. You're saying if women would sleep with kind men, there'd be no violence. What you're implying is that world wars were started by men who have not had sex. Almost every world leader involved with wars was not only married, but often had many lovers. And yet, no world peace.
Let's be clear. YOUR main goal. Some people have lives outside of sex. Sure, right now you want to because you don't have it. Just like I want a million dollars because I don't have it.
You can replace "got you laid" with anything. "got you money", "got you fun pets," "got you a good job." What's unique in that argument about getting laid?
1 EverythingIsSoSincur 2018-05-26
In order to keep their lovers, they had to be assholes. Being assholes who did things like start wars was what made them attractive to females in the first place.
Sex takes precedence over everything else for most men. Men will risk their life savings to get laid.
Getting laid takes precedence over all of those things to men. To say otherwise is delusional.
1 TVops 2018-05-26
Unsubstantiated claim.
Hyperbole.
Extreme hyperbole.
Sorry, not taking the bait.
1 EverythingIsSoSincur 2018-05-26
You see it every day. Women are attracted to assholes. Some of them even admit it. Others don't admit it unless you press them.
Did you see how many men got caught on To Catch a Predator? Men risked going to prison and getting gang raped by a bunch of guys, and ruining their lives with a permanent registration on the sex offender registry - to where they'll never be able to get a job above minimum wage again - just to get their dicks wet.
THAT is how powerful the male sex drive is.
1 TVops 2018-05-26
Ok I'll play your game.
This is literally not a logical argument.
You are now comparing all men to pedophiles.
Men also rob banks, just to get more money. So apparently men have a high money drive too?
1 EverythingIsSoSincur 2018-05-26
No, women are more attracted to attractive men WHEN they're assholes. Men are assholes precisely because it gives them an advantage over men with similar physical attractiveness.
>You are now comparing all men to pedophiles.
The men on To Catch a Predator are not pedophiles. They are looking at pictures of adult women and being told that they're teenagers (and sexual attractive to teenagers isn't pedophilia; pedophilia is sexual attraction to prepubescent children).
>Men also rob banks, just to get more money. So apparently men have a high money drive too?
Of course they do. But it still doesn't top the drive for sex.
Bank robbery is far less common than men going to extremes to get sex.
1 TVops 2018-05-26
At this point you're being willfully ignorant. The first paragraph on their wikipedia page states it's about catching pedophiles.
So they do the same thing, risking the same freedoms, yet somehow, sex is more important "because EverythingIsSoSincur says so."
Sorry man, you've got some warped perspectives.
1 EverythingIsSoSincur 2018-05-26
No, it doesn't.
"It was devoted to impersonating underage people (generally ages 12–15)[1]"
And here's the wikipedia page for "pedophilia:"
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pedophilia
Very first line:
"Pedophilia, or paedophilia, is a psychiatric disorder in which an adult or older adolescent experiences a primary or exclusive sexual attraction to prepubescent children.[1][2]"
Chris Hansen himself said that the reason the show was called "To Catch a Predator" and not "To Catch a Pedophile" is the fact that pedophilia refers to prepubescent children.
All of the girls in the pictures they showed the men in the chats were actually 18+, since it wasn't legal to show pictures of minors.
Money is important to men (and largely because it's the main way to attract women if you're not physically attractive enough). Sex is more important.
Men aren't usually gold diggers. You don't see men clamoring over rich, ugly women to marry and live off. They'll take the hot broke chick over the rich ugly chick any day.
1 xtsv 2018-05-26
Literally the only reason we exist is to survive and reproduce. If you don't pass on your genes before your demise, you haven't lived.
1 TVops 2018-05-26
Life has no pre-defined reason. We're all alive due to pure chance. You're alive, and you beat millions of other sperm and eggs that resulted in exactly you. What are the chances of that? To say that not passing on your genes is like saying "if you don't give someone else a book you've read, you haven't really read the book."
1 xtsv 2018-05-26
I fucking hate it when people try and assign meaning to life, life is what we evolved to do, reproduce and ensure our species doesn't go extinct.
1 TVops 2018-05-26
YOU are the one assigning meaning! I'm doing the exact opposite. There IS no meaning. Literally no meaning.
YOU ARE ASSIGNING MEANING.
1 bobsbigbouy 2018-05-26
Behavior is heritable.
1 TVops 2018-05-26
Not sure what you're saying here. That women-hating is inherited? Or desire for sex and money and violence? Or desire to be kind or not?
1 bobsbigbouy 2018-05-26
At the very least, from the fox experiment it would seem that kindness and violence are heritable, which is borne out by other studies in humans.
1 xxxrivenmainxxx 2018-05-26
1 TVops 2018-05-26
That's a new one. Sexual frustration leading to Hitler getting elected. What's next, thats why Trump got elected?
1 xxxrivenmainxxx 2018-05-26
30%+ unemployment lead to hitler being elected. i wonder how sexually succesfuell these unemployment men were
1 TVops 2018-05-26
What backwater websites are you reading these crazy theories on?
1 xxxrivenmainxxx 2018-05-26
uhm what? do you need source on the unemployment rate? it was the main reason why hitler got elected.
1 TVops 2018-05-26
I want the source on sexless men voting for hitler.
1 xxxrivenmainxxx 2018-05-26
you think unemployed men in 1930 had sex?
1 TVops 2018-05-26
There is zero doubt in my mind that they did. Where did you get the idea that that employment = sex?
1 xxxrivenmainxxx 2018-05-26
its over
1 TVops 2018-05-26
This conversation definitely is. Best of luck to you sir.
1 MoreOfaLurker 2018-05-26
Being kind can actually get you pretty far. Your problem is you're not actually a kind person. You just put on a front and get all pissy when you're sniffed out for what you really are. It's pathetic.
1 EverythingIsSoSincur 2018-05-26
It gets you nowhere with women.
If it did, almost every man would be extremely kind.
1 MoreOfaLurker 2018-05-26
There's a difference between being kind with actual kind motives, and simply pretending to be kind. If you think being nice entitles you to anything, especially sex, then you're not actually kind.
1 EverythingIsSoSincur 2018-05-26
LOL, "pretending to be kind."
Doing kind things is doing kind things. How else are you going to be kind?
If BEING kind got you laid, men would be going out of there way to be kind.
They don't. They go out of their way to be jerks, because that's what women are attracted to.
1 JelqFrost 2018-05-26
being genuinely kind = kind and physically attractive being kind with an ulterior motive = kind and ugly
1 eyewant 2018-05-26
Bingo
1 MoreOfaLurker 2018-05-26
I'm just saying, simply doing a "kind" thing doesn't make you a genuinely kind person. The difference is in your motives. That is, it's obvious when you only do something nice for what it might earn you in return, not for the good of the other person. People can smell your desperation from a mile away.
1 EverythingIsSoSincur 2018-05-26
No it isn't.
No they can't.
1 Mr-5-5 2018-05-26
Tupac disagrees (RIP)
1 ap018734 2018-05-26
So what's the point in being kind? Why do it if there is no reward?
1 MoreOfaLurker 2018-05-26
What a childish point of view.
If you can't see what's wrong with this belief, then there's not much more to tell you. You're not interested in focusing on your own attitude or self improvement. Leveraging good deeds for physical and emotional intimacy is much more off-putting than any physical shortcoming you think you may have.
1 ap018734 2018-05-26
So you're not going to answer the question and just be offended?
1 MoreOfaLurker 2018-05-26
In my opinion you should put effort into being nice to others because they're people just like you and you genuinely want to improve their human experience. You don't have to feel/act this way towards everyone, but it's highly recommended for more intimate friendships and romantic relationships.
1 Redandwhitedishtowel 2018-05-26
https://www.womensaid.org.uk/information-support/what-is-domestic-abuse/how-common-is-domestic-abuse/
UK Stats
> an estimated 1.2 million women experienced domestic abuse in the year ending March 2017 , and an estimated 4.3 million women aged 16-59 have experienced domestic abuse since the age of 16
> On average two women are killed by their partner or ex-partner every week in England and Wales.[4]
> Domestic abuse related crime is 10% of total crime
> On average the police receive over 100 calls relating to domestic abuse every hour
https://ncadv.org/statistics
US Stats
> 1 in 3 women have been victims of [some form of] physical violence by an intimate partner within their lifetime
> 1 in 4 women have been victims of severe physical violence by an intimate partner in their lifetime
> 60.8% of female stalking victims reported being stalked by a current or former intimate partner
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1 MoreOfaLurker 2018-05-26
I apologize, but I don't see how this applies to anything I said. What is this in response to?
1 Redandwhitedishtowel 2018-05-26
The old trope that women have an ability sniff out shit people.
1 MoreOfaLurker 2018-05-26
Ah ok. Maybe it's not as easy as I implied regarding general shitty people, but desperation is much easier to pick up on than you might think. I say this from both experience and observation.
1 UnkownTemptation 2018-05-26
you guys aren't kind tho, which is why you're all virgins, how hard is it to connect the dots?
1 redchords 2018-05-26
Even when I was a virgin that was getting rejected by women I was nice, especially to women lol. If I knew about this place then, I still would agree with the bulk of the information spread here.
Personality is overrated with regards to how most women value men today. That's the cold hard obvious truth nobody really wants to accept, that goes for incels, players and every guy in between. Most young women just want a guy that can help them look good. That's literally the most important thing. Where I disagree with most incels is in the fact that many of them believe that women are just naturally like this, I think recent technological innovations like social media have influenced dating culture to a drastic degree, motivating women to view and appreciate men primarily as fashion accessories more or less.
1 UnkownTemptation 2018-05-26
you probably weren't that nice before, you have to keep trying, never give up. I doubt you were the saint you're aking yourself out to be.
1 redchords 2018-05-26
LOL
Cmon man. Think about it. Do you really need me to be a bad guy? Do you really find it hard to believe that a decent kind hearted man could struggle with women? Lol get with the times bro. Looks are very very important for men today.
I'm telling you, the same chicks that dissed me, even the ones who did so rudely, would literally have described me as one if the sweetest guys around (smh). Dude I used to write girls poems and shit lol. You know what they would say? Either they would politely tell me I was "too short", or they would shit on me. Meanwhile, my literal asshole buds and rivals were getting with girls left right and center. And this was almost a decade ago, I'm POSITIVE women are even more shallow and looks driven today. A man's looks are crucial today bro. You gotta accept this at least a little bit man. Be reasonable lol.
1 ezuanii 2018-05-26
Women don't owe you time, sex, or commitment for writing unwarranted poems for them. You can still be a kind and decent human to people because it's a hell of a lot easier than being a dick. You might not be a Chad but who gives a fuck? Women are people and people deserve respect, regardless of whether or not they're fucking you. I'm sure "decades" ago you were talking with high school girls that were your own age. They were children. They may not have known how to react to unwanted attention. If they were cruel, that sucks and I'm sorry. But that doesn't mean that all women suck or that you're unloveable. Love yourself first and the rest will follow, man. Women like confidence, humor, and sweet people. You're not gonna catch any pussy if you act like a dick.
1 redchords 2018-05-26
Your assumptions are moronic. I'm married and had a very "successful" history with women once I hit college and stopped focusing on them so much.
I know more guys that are dickheads that do well with women than vice versa. Anecdotal, but that's my experience and you aren't going to erase this with some stupid words on an anonymous website bro. All my friends who are prototypically good are literally the ones that struggle with women the most with only 2 exceptions.
From my perspective, you don't know wtf you are talking about. Maybe you feel the same about me, maybe your experiences are the opposite. Either way, I don't give af. Have a good one.
1 Yemanthing 2018-05-26
If I could just insert your brain into everyone's head, the world would be a better place...
1 ezuanii 2018-05-26
You're blaming women for the lack of world peace so pardon MY assumptions. The only men I know that are in committed relationships are nice people. Whatever bar scene you've witnessed where some stupid girl gets drunk and the asshole guy looks better is just a small fleeting moment in her life. That shit doesn't actually last. If you're talking about one night stands then yeah I see your point. But you yourself are married because you're probably-wait for it-a nice person?
1 redchords 2018-05-26
More assumptions. Where did I ever claim that women were responsible for the lack of world peace? What I said is that many women value men on the basis of how a guy can make a woman a woman look. I said that many women care about looks more than character. Your conflations are retarded. Lmao. You obviously just want to pick fights on reddit, you're just a dumb troll, being a relentless, obviously unreasonable white knight on an incel board.
Bottom line: women are more likely to go for asshole guys that look good than regular nice guys. Hey bud, mgtow is growing for a reason, and it's not because all of those guys have bad personalities lol. Until you are able to stop white knighting so hard (smh) and are able/willing to actually hold women more accountable for their obvious bahsviors as a group, there's nothing for us to talk about, you will just relentlessly defend women to a literally unreasonable degree, and I'm going to keep respecting my experiences with women as well as those of other men that I personally know. I'm blocking you, this conversation is over. Go white knight and/or try an exercise your submission domination fetish on someone else, because I'm not feeling it. Be easy.
1 ap018734 2018-05-26
Holy platitude batman. Why are women entitled to my respect?
1 ezuanii 2018-05-26
Respect can literally just be leaving them alone. If you don't like women then that's fine. There are a lot of guys on this forum who talk about how it brings them joy to shut doors in women's faces and basically do anything to go out of their way and ruin a woman's day. I'm basically just saying be a decent human. And I wasn't talkin to you in particular. If you're already doing that then keep doin you, man.
1 EverythingIsSoSincur 2018-05-26
Sure we are. We're just not kind to women, because women were assholes to us.
1 UnkownTemptation 2018-05-26
women aren't monsters, they are good people (they best kind) and the reason they treat you wrongly is because you deserve it, you post on a mysagonist board and then complain why girls dont want you.
1 EverythingIsSoSincur 2018-05-26
Oh yeah, there's a "reason" for everything women do. Women are never wrong.
1 literallyarealperson 2018-05-26
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women_are_wonderful_effect
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1 Mr-5-5 2018-05-26
Tell that to Tupac (RIP)
1 shadowcat211 2018-05-26
So why is everyone in foreveralone and incelswithouthate virgins? Are they not kind? Are mean women virgins also?
Bill Cosby and Harvey Weinstein were both married, were they kind?
1 youjustabattlerapper 2018-05-26
Out of the 9 or 10 women I've slept with, I was kind to exactly one and that was my first and last girlfriend that I lost my virginity to
Saying being kind makes you more attractive is akin to saying throwing a hand grenade into the sun makes it more energetic. Sure, but it is fucking absolutely immaterial outside of a purely theoretical/virtual perspective
1 mronion82 2018-05-26
Kindness is incredibly important to me, and I'm sure I'm not alone.
When we first started seeing each other, I found out that my partner had relaid the hot water pipe in his kitchen so it ran under the dog's bed, so he would be warm on winter nights. The thoughtfulness of that gesture made me realise that, although he wasn't flashy about it, he was a rock solid good guy.
1 RAZENKN 2018-05-26
Very very High IQ.
1 roasty_mcshitposty 2018-05-26
Lol what? This is some crazy shit.
1 EverythingIsSoSincur 2018-05-26
What do you take issue with?
1 roasty_mcshitposty 2018-05-26
Oh everything. It sounds like the paranoid ramblings of your normal Alex Jones listener.
1 EverythingIsSoSincur 2018-05-26
In other words, you can't form a counter-argument. Thanks for playing.
1 roasty_mcshitposty 2018-05-26
Get help my man. There is life outside of this toxicity.
1 EverythingIsSoSincur 2018-05-26
Do you guys know any words besides, "toxic," "y'all," etc.?
1 roasty_mcshitposty 2018-05-26
What's the etc? I'm curious; let me know all of the stereotypes.
1 EverythingIsSoSincur 2018-05-26
"My dude." "Entitled." "It's almost as if..." "This is why you're incel."
1 Sniveling_Cur 2018-05-26
Stop attributing agency to basic instincts.
1 richardbankz 2018-05-26
Mensa level IQ post
1 Rerobrando 2018-05-26
Why are we always at war with countries where women are forced into marriages then?
1 EverythingIsSoSincur 2018-05-26
Because they think they'll get 77 virgins in heaven.
1 UnkownTemptation 2018-05-26
women aren't monsters, they are good people (they best kind) and the reason they treat you wrongly is because you deserve it, you post on a mysagonist board and then complain why girls dont want you.
1 EverythingIsSoSincur 2018-05-26
No, it doesn't.
"It was devoted to impersonating underage people (generally ages 12–15)[1]"
And here's the wikipedia page for "pedophilia:"
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pedophilia
Very first line:
"Pedophilia, or paedophilia, is a psychiatric disorder in which an adult or older adolescent experiences a primary or exclusive sexual attraction to prepubescent children.[1][2]"
Chris Hansen himself said that the reason the show was called "To Catch a Predator" and not "To Catch a Pedophile" is the fact that pedophilia refers to prepubescent children.
All of the girls in the pictures they showed the men in the chats were actually 18+, since it wasn't legal to show pictures of minors.
Money is important to men (and largely because it's the main way to attract women if you're not physically attractive enough). Sex is more important.
Men aren't usually gold diggers. You don't see men clamoring over rich, ugly women to marry and live off. They'll take the hot broke chick over the rich ugly chick any day.
1 bobsbigbouy 2018-05-26
At the very least, from the fox experiment it would seem that kindness and violence are heritable, which is borne out by other studies in humans.