At least I am not a shoulder to cry on.

Correct. You’re a stool to sit on.

thats arousing

im with you bro

Fuck I'm all of these.

They're waiting for you to tell them to shut the fuck up.

How are guys not getting this?

Doesn't matter.

You're risking nothing. If she starts talking to you like a girl, tell her to fuck off.

If she's never going to fuck you, you've lost nothing.

At the very least, if she listens, you've gained some ground.

Exactly, if she's not going to, she's not going to.

Why even have her around?

But if you must, say how you feel. No point in policing yourself for nothing.

Lmao you can't ask all your female friends out. Makes you a beta creep.

Dude, to your female friends you're less than a beta creep; You're a fucking eunuch.

At least try to punch up a weight class instead of holding her hair back while she blows your friends.

I've been rejected once and twice other have informed me they don't like me that way without me asking. I've given up on my friends circle.

Good, fuck em.

Better to be alone than with people who don't respect you.

This world is like prison, it's a total respect or die system disguised as something softer.

Lmao I didn't mean cutting off all my female friends. That's pointless.

So did I.

It'll pass.

"My boyfriend Chad keeps cheating on me, what do I do?"

"Uh, break up with him and date me?"

"Teehee, you're so funny! Don't worry, SOME GIRL WILL BE SO LUCKY TO HAVE YOU!"

Just walk directly to the rope store.

"Long time no see, anon! We've got the Stretch-O-Rama, the Rope-a-Dope, the Gordian Knot and the Noose on the Loose. Prices haven't changed, take your pick."

Lol @ the Gordian knot

Lmao

And do not pass go.... fml

Why would your feelings matter? If you guys are friends and she's venting then be supportive.

Oh wait, you think you're entitled to her because you're nice to her.

You're probably gonna get down-voted to hell for this but I agree. If you're friends then be a true friend and listen to her without expecting anything in return. It's called being decent.

You must like taking it up the ass

Because I expect my friends to be decent human beings? If you don't agree with my opinion that's fine but you don't have to be so juvenile.

Nahhhh fuck that. You guys will do anything to frame the argument as you being a good person.

This probably is my biggest pet peeve ever. That's NOT how friends work. My real friends don't consistently vent to me because they respect me as a person. They know it eventually gets tiresome. I do the same for them. We'll occasionally vent but only once we've established a certain level of trust. And even at that point if my friend is disinterested in something I'm venting about, for whatever reason, I'll give it rest. Because maybe he's having a bad day, maybe he's tired, maybe he's sick of my fucking venting. Feelings aren't one sided.

Oh wait, you think you're entitled to her because you're nice to her.

Man that's your response to everything on this sub. You don't even put any thought to the argument at hand. It has nothing to do with entitlement.

If hearing about her relationship problems bugs you, just tell her? It's not really hard to communicate with someone if you're friends.

The op is clearly implying that he has ulterior motives for the friendship and that doesn't make him a nice person, it makes him an ass.

You're missing the entire point. I wrote that whole thing and that's the best you can come up with? Bruh.

It's about respect like I said before. If someone values you they won't attempt to do something like that in the first place. Why is it my place to teach them basic human decency that I receive from my male pears or women who do happen to be interested.

People who respect each other do not drop all their emotional baggage on each other. And if they do it's never one sided. Yes, I can communicate I don't like it but that doesn't make what the OP said untrue.

You don't understand because you don't experience this. Imagine getting punched in the face. You can draw certain conclusions of a person's thoughts about you from that experience. Now imagine someone gives you advice and says "Why don't you just tell him you don't like it. It's not really hard to communicate with someone if you're friends. " NIGGA WHAT! Stop.

I'm not here to argue weather OP is nice or not. His statement in the original post is 100% true and I'm here to defend the nay sayers.

Yes, his statement is true. If a girl is telling you about her boyfriend, you don't have a chance with her.

I have no idea what the rest of your nonsense about getting punched in the face is about. If you don't want to get punched, don't get in the ring. If you expressed feelings for a girl and she's not reciprocating, don't continue to lust after her. If hearing about her relationship bothers you, stop talking to her.

Stop being so whiny. He never even mentioned anything about emotional baggage, that's all conjecture on your part. Human decency, lmao. It's a girl talking about her relationship.

If his statement is true why even argue.

I have no idea what the rest of your nonsense about getting punched in the face is about.

It's metaphor for the point I'm arguing and you even use it in the next sentence you idiot.

If you expressed feelings for a girl and she's not reciprocating, don't continue to lust after her. If hearing about her relationship bothers you, stop talking to her.

Did I say I do any of that? Did I ask for your advice on that? All just presumptions on your part. In my other comment in this very thread I mention that's exactly what I do. Shut yo dumb ass up.

Stop being so whiny. He never even mentioned anything about emotional baggage, that's all conjecture on your part. Human decency, lmao. It's a girl talking about her relationship.

He didn't mention baggage specifically but it's the exact same scenario. And you know how I know? Cuase you mentioned it in your original comment!

If a girl is VENTING then be supportive

Direct qoute from you. Your argumentative skills are abysmal.

You people are all the same your only tactic is shaming people. This sub is about whining. You can't come here and whine anyone's whining, go somewhere else then.

You tried to pass of my human decency comment as a joke by completely disregarding the context. I have to repeat this shit a million times because you keep striping away the actual sentiment. If someone has a level of respect for you they will not use you as a platform to vent. That is human decency.

Nah you're arguing a retarded point. People vent to each other, it's normal not disrespectful.

L bro. You're retarded you can't grasp any of the context I've given and once I fully deconstructed your argument that's a you can say? Trash.

I'm not arguing people can't vent to each other, again you're oversimplifing an argument to try and be right. I've made multiple acknowledgments of my friends and I venting to each other. I've already repeated multiple times my exact argument but you can't seem to grasp it.

That's because your argument is stupid and irrelevant

You're stupid you can't actually argue the point and have resorted to insults. You're just mad you lost

Lost what? You started arguing a tangentially related point and I disregarded it. I couldn't care less about winning or losing an argument about incelitis

It was not tangentially related and I already explained why it was related using your own fucking words. You're so dumb even in this comment you ask "lost what" and proceed to acknowledge we're talking about an argument at the end. You continue to trip over your words like the retarf you are

The only relevant argument was the one in the op. You can bring up whatever personal anecdotes you want but it's irrelevant to the argument I was having with someone else.

I don't care about the argument you're having with me so there is no winning or losing. I'll take being the retard I am over the type you are. At least I'm self aware.

Yes and I was arguing the one in the OP, which I've been trying to get through your thick skull. Even using your own words.

You keep trying to reframe the argument. Congrats on being aware you're a retard. I've argued logic and showed otherwise in my case.

No, you made a lot of baseless assumptions. But whatever helps you sleep at night.

You keep saying I'm making justifications and assumptions but you've failed to demonstrate them within the argument. Again being a retard

K

I don't think using people to talk about your problems and then not caring when they vent about theirs is cool.

Sounds pretty entitled if you ask me.

Again, you're just making things up. Nobody said anything about the second half of your sentence.

This shit is true an you cannot tell me otherwise. Girls always call out nice guys who ghost when a girl doesn't put out. But the reason why they leave is because girls treat people they're not romantically interested in with no respect. When it comes to people they like, they're on their best behaviour and try to put their strengths first.

None of my male friends use me as a crutch to vent.