I feel my loneliness in my heart. My skin tingles with the thought of being touched by a woman I love. I feel loneliness like a physical sickness. That’s got to be doing some damage somewhere.
It's even more amazing than your mind can comprehend. When I had my first kiss, I was with a small group of people, lying on a couch, and this cute girl I knew was teasing me, saying that she bet I liked her and would want to kiss her, and I pretty much just agreed with her. She started to put her face above mine, keeping a distance, in a kind of mocking way. Eventually I decided not to let her mess with me and lunged forward for a kiss, but she was too quick and she pulled her head back.
Then a second later she was making out with me. Instantly I could feel the rush of chemicals into my brain. It was something no drug could ever match. I didn't even realize it was possible for a human being to feel that euphoric. At that instant all my problems I thought I had in life vanished and I achieved inner peace. I had a boner bulging through my pants but I was so euphoric I didn't care in the slightest. There was no bigger dividing line in my life than that moment. Oh yeah, a few minutes later I woke up. But this vivid dream did happen a few days ago, and in real life I'm sure it feels even better. And my point still stands: intimacy with a girl is by far the best feeling a man can ever experience, and we incels will never experience it.
Happiness seems to be loneliness
And loneliness killed my world
How could you guess,
When you're only thinking of yourself?
How you looked at other girls
Besides being somewhat attractive, you need a minimum amount of health and money to be in a relationship. There is no such requirement for being single. You can be as ugly, unhealthy and poor as you want. Btw this only applies to men. Fuck this gay earth.
Did you know that modern day British women are the descendants of women too ugly for the Vikings? They came from maybe Sweden or Denmark and became the Chads of the planet by making all the women compete for a seat on the boat and only picking the best ones. That's why the British look how they do. It's an important bit of history that's rarely even taught in school anymore because the PC crowd doesn't like it.
I cope w a dog. She's a Stacy breed tho, husky so all the normies compliment her when I take her on walks. JFL when your dog has more market value than you
I'm not sure whether this applies to sex (as in sex alone -- the physical act in and of itself, with no love or tenderness associated with it).
However, chronic loneliness will fuck you up. Whoever says that people don't need emotional intimacy and support to be healthy is dead wrong. A statement like that would probably only come from someone who's never experienced chronic loneliness (much like how people make ignorant judgments about the poor usually have never had to experience poverty themselves).
(Also, does that mean that if a man is disabled in such a way that he can't have sex, his girlfriend doesn't love him? Or does this only apply to people who are capable of having sex?)
There is some interesting research showing that, for women, "emotional cheating" bothers them more than sexual cheating. It's the other way around for men: most of them report that they'd be more bothered by sexual cheating than "emotional cheating." Is this because many men feel as though sex and romantic love are inextricably linked?
Making love is a euphemism. There are lots of other, much more distasteful, euphemisms for sex that were commonly used once upon a time. Don't be a cherrypickcel.
In modern Western societies, sex is usually treated as not being the same thing as love. You can have sex with a prostitute, but that's not tied to love.
Research shows that, on average, men are more likely to report enjoying casual sex than women are (and the reporting was done under the condition of anonymity). Not all men, and not at all times, but overall, the research shows that men are more likely to be okay with sex without love than women are.
This is reconcilable with the finding with the finding that men feel worse when sexually cheated on than emotionally cheated on when you consider that cheating is more likely to happen in the context of an LTR than casual sex or hookups.
It appears that some incels might deviate from the norm here: perhaps a greater percentage of them (relative to the general population of Western men) see sex as extricably linked to love, even in a casual sex/hookup situation. I'm not sure why that is. It could be because incels, for whatever reason, didn't "learn" the new social norm that the two are separate. (I'm not saying that this is a bad thing.) It could be because incels are thinking about LTRs, not about hooking up. Or it could also just be because they yearn for love so much, and they see couples who are both romantic and have sex all the time. The two become strongly associated. So if someone doesn't want to have sex with them, it ends up feeling like a rejection of the person as a whole and everything about him.
Do any of those explanations seem plausible? Or are they all off?
In modern Western societies, sex is usually treated as not being the same thing as love. You can have sex with a prostitute, but that's not tied to love. In ancient societies, rape was extremely common, especially during periods of war. Is that sex inextricably linked to love? There were many loveless arranged marriages where the couples still had sex. (Again, don't be a cherrypickcel.)
The reason is that you have to be sexually attractive to be loved in the first place. You are just a friend and women will use their time not for you, but for chasing Chad. It's just how it is. No one cares about you if you are a subhuman.
This is reconcilable with the finding with the finding that men feel worse when sexually cheated on than emotionally cheated on when you consider that cheating is more likely to happen in the context of an LTR than casual sex or hookups.
I think this is because sexually cheating means being maculinity mogged, it's dreadful.
Incels don't want simply causal sex. "incel" means aren't sexually attractive enough to be considered as partners in the first place, whether LTR or not, and most incels want the emotional connection and love. You can tell when you look at the tinder experiments threads there on incel.me. Almost every Incel complains about not ever having any woman that will love them the way Chad will be loved, rather than being sad about not being able to fuck. It's the admiration, the validation that you see for the catfish etc that you will never get that hits hard. that gets people, not the Penis-in-Vagina motion that Chad is able to accomplish alone.
(Also, does that mean that if a man is disabled in such a way that he can't have sex, his girlfriend doesn't love him?
this happened to my sister's ex-husband, he couldn't get it up anymore, not sure if it's cuz he had a health problem or cuz she got fat. she left him, got a new bf off tinder within seconds.
Wow. That's brutal. I'm sorry for what happened to your sister's ex-husband.
Huh, maybe women (on average, in certain age groups or demographics) are indeed more brutal than I thought.
I know that readers might not like me saying this, but not literally all women are like that. My first boyfriend had a hormonal problem that made him unable to become erect. I actually didn't mind it at all. We just did other things. I stayed with him for 6 years, and the only reason we ended the relationship was because I wanted to go to graduate school, and he thought that would be best for me, too. The school I got into was all the way across the country. Maybe a lot of women really are this brutal (I think it's more likely with young women in urban areas, though). However, statistically speaking, you'll of course have some outliers -- not literally everyone is clustered at or immediately next to the average. You'll find exceptions every now and then. They're just exceptions.
I'm sorry your sister's ex-husband was treated that way, and other men, too. I can't even begin to imagine the pain. That shit's not right.
I would change sex to physical intimacy which includes more and is better for the context. Sex is a part of it but you also need genuine love and it's not really "intimate" if it's a prostitute.
Still has the title of Minister of Loneliness I believe. To carry on Jo Cox’s inquiry into loneliness...that was until she brutally got murdered by a racist
That's such bullshit lmao, lonelyness doesn't kill, it's what lonely people do (addictions Etc) that kill them, overall bad lifestyle, not fuckin loneliness.
Look up John Cacioppo and his research on the effects of chronic loneliness. It alters the chemistry in your brain, raises your cortisol levels, compromises your immune system, etc. And this is independent of the habits of lonely people.
Small doses of Marijuana are pretty much proven to negate the stress/cortisol raise of being isolated or lonely, I remember reading.
However, if you choose to medicate loneliness with weed you need to make sure not to smoke too much, which can be difficult because when people are sad nothing seems better at the moment than taking a bunch of big rips and eating ice cream.
"It doesn't kill you directly like a bullet to the head or starving to death so it's not a that big of a deal and you're not entitled to anything you shitlord. Jus focus on ur hobis xd" - CuckTears user
They think we just want sex, even though we tell them it isn't just about the sex but the social validation that comes with it, we want to be reaffirmed that we actually are valued as humans. If it was just about the sex we'd be happy with just fucking whores.
Sex is a fucking must in life. Life isn't pointless without it but it's like watching a movie you love on TV that's been edited and you have to sit through every commercial compared to the directors cut. I've never been with a hooker but I don't see how it would be all that different from a one night stand and that's much better than nothing. If me and my wife got divorced and I found that you guys are right and it's impossible for a sub 8/10 guy, a hooker would be the first thing I did once I got enough to go to a decent brothel.
In modern Western societies, sex is usually treated as not being the same thing as love. You can have sex with a prostitute, but that's not tied to love. In ancient societies, rape was extremely common, especially during periods of war. Is that sex inextricably linked to love? There were many loveless arranged marriages where the couples still had sex. (Again, don't be a cherrypickcel.)
The reason is that you have to be sexually attractive to be loved in the first place. You are just a friend and women will use their time not for you, but for chasing Chad. It's just how it is. No one cares about you if you are a subhuman.
This is reconcilable with the finding with the finding that men feel worse when sexually cheated on than emotionally cheated on when you consider that cheating is more likely to happen in the context of an LTR than casual sex or hookups.
I think this is because sexually cheating means being maculinity mogged, it's dreadful.
Incels don't want simply causal sex. "incel" means aren't sexually attractive enough to be considered as partners in the first place, whether LTR or not, and most incels want the emotional connection and love. You can tell when you look at the tinder experiments threads there on incel.me. Almost every Incel complains about not ever having any woman that will love them the way Chad will be loved, rather than being sad about not being able to fuck. It's the admiration, the validation that you see for the catfish etc that you will never get that hits hard. that gets people, not the Penis-in-Vagina motion that Chad is able to accomplish alone.
Happiness seems to be loneliness
And loneliness killed my world
How could you guess,
When you're only thinking of yourself?
How you looked at other girls
71 comments
1 a_broken_window 2018-05-24
"Minister of loneliness" why doesn't the US have this
1 trevmon2 2018-05-24
instead we have millions of ministers of soy
1 a_broken_window 2018-05-24
Top kek
1 CelderSrolls 2018-05-24
I wanna know I can contact this minister and tell him I'm lonely
1 lonelyfish94 2018-05-24
Just imagine an agency dedicated to reducing the number of lonely people in the nation. Gives me some hope lol.
1 autistcel123 2018-05-24
https://www.ageuk.org.uk/globalassets/age-uk/documents/reports-and-publications/reports-and-briefings/active-communities/rb_dec17_jocox_commission_finalreport.pdf
If you want to read more about it.
1 SkankHunter1488 2018-05-24
Since the Minister of Loneliness is a femoid, I'm sure the entire agency will just focus on teaching ugly men to improve their personalities.
1 lonelyfish94 2018-05-24
It's a femoid? There goes my hope.
1 Board_Gaming 2018-05-24
I've heard that there's a "harvester of sorrow", does that count?
1 IronMeltsinmyHands 2018-05-24
That sounds like some scary basement monster type shit.
1 Board_Gaming 2018-05-24
It's actually a Metallica song.
1 IronMeltsinmyHands 2018-05-24
Ah. I was wondering when you would show up. Heard lotsa shit bout you.
You’re like the legendary Pokémon that no one wants.
1 acoverover1 2018-05-24
Too busy staffing the Thought Crime Prevention Unit and Femoid Internet Defense Force
1 SkankHunter1488 2018-05-24
Don't get your hopes up, it's a femoid.
1 Sniveling_Cur 2018-05-24
What do you think that minister actually does other than collecting paychecks?
1 a_broken_window 2018-05-24
Distributes government rope
1 geoffreylambert 2018-05-24
I feel my loneliness in my heart. My skin tingles with the thought of being touched by a woman I love. I feel loneliness like a physical sickness. That’s got to be doing some damage somewhere.
1 The_Real_Cannaman 2018-05-24
If i, hypothetically, got a kiss from a girl, i'd die of dopamine overdose on the spot for sure.
1 IronMeltsinmyHands 2018-05-24
You’re a balloon animal.
1 The_Real_Cannaman 2018-05-24
??
1 icl999 2018-05-24
It's even more amazing than your mind can comprehend. When I had my first kiss, I was with a small group of people, lying on a couch, and this cute girl I knew was teasing me, saying that she bet I liked her and would want to kiss her, and I pretty much just agreed with her. She started to put her face above mine, keeping a distance, in a kind of mocking way. Eventually I decided not to let her mess with me and lunged forward for a kiss, but she was too quick and she pulled her head back.
Then a second later she was making out with me. Instantly I could feel the rush of chemicals into my brain. It was something no drug could ever match. I didn't even realize it was possible for a human being to feel that euphoric. At that instant all my problems I thought I had in life vanished and I achieved inner peace. I had a boner bulging through my pants but I was so euphoric I didn't care in the slightest. There was no bigger dividing line in my life than that moment. Oh yeah, a few minutes later I woke up. But this vivid dream did happen a few days ago, and in real life I'm sure it feels even better. And my point still stands: intimacy with a girl is by far the best feeling a man can ever experience, and we incels will never experience it.
1 The_Real_Cannaman 2018-05-24
Idk man, meth sounds better tbh, but yeah you are right
1 raspectwahmen 2018-05-24
This is what women get to feel EVERY DAY. I can't even imagine being so happy.
1 1unfolded1 2018-05-24
Happiness seems to be loneliness And loneliness killed my world How could you guess, When you're only thinking of yourself? How you looked at other girls
1 norwood_victim 2018-05-24
Besides being somewhat attractive, you need a minimum amount of health and money to be in a relationship. There is no such requirement for being single. You can be as ugly, unhealthy and poor as you want. Btw this only applies to men. Fuck this gay earth.
1 TheiWindFelt 2018-05-24
Just fly to Mars bro. Didn't rules and regulations over here.
1 trevmon2 2018-05-24
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Cydonia_(region_of_Mars)#/media/File:Martian_face_viking.jpg
over for this marscel
1 FemcellThrowaway 2018-05-24
Did you know that modern day British women are the descendants of women too ugly for the Vikings? They came from maybe Sweden or Denmark and became the Chads of the planet by making all the women compete for a seat on the boat and only picking the best ones. That's why the British look how they do. It's an important bit of history that's rarely even taught in school anymore because the PC crowd doesn't like it.
1 trevmon2 2018-05-24
that's awesome
1 chadbhava 2018-05-24
Than obesity
1 Tookthemethpill 2018-05-24
What if you are alone but don’t feel lonely is it still bad?
Also, does having a dog help?
1 a_broken_window 2018-05-24
I cope w a dog. She's a Stacy breed tho, husky so all the normies compliment her when I take her on walks. JFL when your dog has more market value than you
1 Tookthemethpill 2018-05-24
Nice! My dog loves huskies the most. Hes pretty much the only way I get human interaction when people want to say hi to him on walks
1 trevmon2 2018-05-24
those roasties would fuck the dog before you
1 Quixificent 2018-05-24
I'm not sure whether this applies to sex (as in sex alone -- the physical act in and of itself, with no love or tenderness associated with it).
However, chronic loneliness will fuck you up. Whoever says that people don't need emotional intimacy and support to be healthy is dead wrong. A statement like that would probably only come from someone who's never experienced chronic loneliness (much like how people make ignorant judgments about the poor usually have never had to experience poverty themselves).
1 a_broken_window 2018-05-24
Love doesn't exist w out sex. No
1 Quixificent 2018-05-24
Why is that?
(Also, does that mean that if a man is disabled in such a way that he can't have sex, his girlfriend doesn't love him? Or does this only apply to people who are capable of having sex?)
There is some interesting research showing that, for women, "emotional cheating" bothers them more than sexual cheating. It's the other way around for men: most of them report that they'd be more bothered by sexual cheating than "emotional cheating." Is this because many men feel as though sex and romantic love are inextricably linked?
1 a_broken_window 2018-05-24
Ppl used to call it "making love" you dumb philosophycel. They are inextricably linked
1 Quixificent 2018-05-24
Making love is a euphemism. There are lots of other, much more distasteful, euphemisms for sex that were commonly used once upon a time. Don't be a cherrypickcel.
In modern Western societies, sex is usually treated as not being the same thing as love. You can have sex with a prostitute, but that's not tied to love.
Research shows that, on average, men are more likely to report enjoying casual sex than women are (and the reporting was done under the condition of anonymity). Not all men, and not at all times, but overall, the research shows that men are more likely to be okay with sex without love than women are.
This is reconcilable with the finding with the finding that men feel worse when sexually cheated on than emotionally cheated on when you consider that cheating is more likely to happen in the context of an LTR than casual sex or hookups.
It appears that some incels might deviate from the norm here: perhaps a greater percentage of them (relative to the general population of Western men) see sex as extricably linked to love, even in a casual sex/hookup situation. I'm not sure why that is. It could be because incels, for whatever reason, didn't "learn" the new social norm that the two are separate. (I'm not saying that this is a bad thing.) It could be because incels are thinking about LTRs, not about hooking up. Or it could also just be because they yearn for love so much, and they see couples who are both romantic and have sex all the time. The two become strongly associated. So if someone doesn't want to have sex with them, it ends up feeling like a rejection of the person as a whole and everything about him.
Do any of those explanations seem plausible? Or are they all off?
1 wont_tell_i_refuse_ 2018-05-24
https://i.imgur.com/HVNBWD5.gif
1 Quixificent 2018-05-24
Yeah I'm not clicking that
1 trevmon2 2018-05-24
cuz it will shatter your dreamworld
1 Quixificent 2018-05-24
I have no doubt that it would crush my very soul.
1 yuyuyuyuu 2018-05-24
The reason is that you have to be sexually attractive to be loved in the first place. You are just a friend and women will use their time not for you, but for chasing Chad. It's just how it is. No one cares about you if you are a subhuman.
I think this is because sexually cheating means being maculinity mogged, it's dreadful.
Incels don't want simply causal sex. "incel" means aren't sexually attractive enough to be considered as partners in the first place, whether LTR or not, and most incels want the emotional connection and love. You can tell when you look at the tinder experiments threads there on incel.me. Almost every Incel complains about not ever having any woman that will love them the way Chad will be loved, rather than being sad about not being able to fuck. It's the admiration, the validation that you see for the catfish etc that you will never get that hits hard. that gets people, not the Penis-in-Vagina motion that Chad is able to accomplish alone.
1 trevmon2 2018-05-24
this happened to my sister's ex-husband, he couldn't get it up anymore, not sure if it's cuz he had a health problem or cuz she got fat. she left him, got a new bf off tinder within seconds.
1 a_broken_window 2018-05-24
Truly a blackpill for every situation, thanks be to stblackops2cel for the enlightenment
1 Quixificent 2018-05-24
Wow. That's brutal. I'm sorry for what happened to your sister's ex-husband.
Huh, maybe women (on average, in certain age groups or demographics) are indeed more brutal than I thought.
I know that readers might not like me saying this, but not literally all women are like that. My first boyfriend had a hormonal problem that made him unable to become erect. I actually didn't mind it at all. We just did other things. I stayed with him for 6 years, and the only reason we ended the relationship was because I wanted to go to graduate school, and he thought that would be best for me, too. The school I got into was all the way across the country. Maybe a lot of women really are this brutal (I think it's more likely with young women in urban areas, though). However, statistically speaking, you'll of course have some outliers -- not literally everyone is clustered at or immediately next to the average. You'll find exceptions every now and then. They're just exceptions.
I'm sorry your sister's ex-husband was treated that way, and other men, too. I can't even begin to imagine the pain. That shit's not right.
1 SkankHunter1488 2018-05-24
Correct....
...but you still have a lot to learn.
1 autistcel123 2018-05-24
I would change sex to physical intimacy which includes more and is better for the context. Sex is a part of it but you also need genuine love and it's not really "intimate" if it's a prostitute.
1 bengalsturntup5532 2018-05-24
I do both
1 MozzerDozzer 2018-05-24
They didn't appoint a Minister for Loneliness, it was just another civil service inquiry, on which the government probably spend some thousand pounds.
UKcels, why is your government so repressive?
1 b_hc99 2018-05-24
Still has the title of Minister of Loneliness I believe. To carry on Jo Cox’s inquiry into loneliness...that was until she brutally got murdered by a racist
1 iamhopeless256 2018-05-24
I smoke already so I'm dying early if I don't rope that is
1 a_broken_window 2018-05-24
Rope is the way brother
1 a_broken_window 2018-05-24
IT leading the way with their downvotes and soy consumption here
1 MightyMeket 2018-05-24
That's such bullshit lmao, lonelyness doesn't kill, it's what lonely people do (addictions Etc) that kill them, overall bad lifestyle, not fuckin loneliness.
1 DJPawFec1 2018-05-24
Look up John Cacioppo and his research on the effects of chronic loneliness. It alters the chemistry in your brain, raises your cortisol levels, compromises your immune system, etc. And this is independent of the habits of lonely people.
I recommend his ted talk on loneliness.
1 thehardertruth2000 2018-05-24
Small doses of Marijuana are pretty much proven to negate the stress/cortisol raise of being isolated or lonely, I remember reading.
However, if you choose to medicate loneliness with weed you need to make sure not to smoke too much, which can be difficult because when people are sad nothing seems better at the moment than taking a bunch of big rips and eating ice cream.
1 a_broken_window 2018-05-24
I'm high all the time just as a rule, it makes everything better/more tolerable tbh
1 TruthInBlack 2018-05-24
I'm excuse me but you're not entitled to life
1 a_broken_window 2018-05-24
Kek
1 jaghatarhonor 2018-05-24
"It doesn't kill you directly like a bullet to the head or starving to death so it's not a that big of a deal and you're not entitled to anything you shitlord. Jus focus on ur hobis xd" - CuckTears user
1 BBW_Gaming_Mogs_Me 2018-05-24
Good, I'll die sooner rather than later.
1 friedonions 2018-05-24
well im glad i can get fentanyl then.
1 lexlotorxp 2018-05-24
Soy is weed for normies
1 DicksOutForGiambi 2018-05-24
A pack is 20, not 15
1 xtsv 2018-05-24
They think we just want sex, even though we tell them it isn't just about the sex but the social validation that comes with it, we want to be reaffirmed that we actually are valued as humans. If it was just about the sex we'd be happy with just fucking whores.
1 DaiMiVsi4ko 2018-05-24
exactly. they dont get it.
1 Treyspurlock 2018-05-24
make some friends?
1 Zippy1avion 2018-05-24
Is it too late already...? Should I just call it quits with a belt and a doorknob...?
1 FemcellThrowaway 2018-05-24
Might as well smoke
1 UnbreakableiPhone7 2018-05-24
Of course faggottears will deny this.
1 SaintKines 2018-05-24
Sex is a fucking must in life. Life isn't pointless without it but it's like watching a movie you love on TV that's been edited and you have to sit through every commercial compared to the directors cut. I've never been with a hooker but I don't see how it would be all that different from a one night stand and that's much better than nothing. If me and my wife got divorced and I found that you guys are right and it's impossible for a sub 8/10 guy, a hooker would be the first thing I did once I got enough to go to a decent brothel.
1 not_weeg 2018-05-24
It not about sex. I just want to see women suffer excruciatingly in silence amid ignorance & stigma
1 iQ9k 2018-05-24
I've said it before, Japan is Blackpilled as fuck because loneliness is much more acknowledged there.
1 MartinBub 2018-05-24
Theres 20 cigs in a pack though.
1 lori171717 2018-05-24
I should start Smoking again lmao
1 Menchstick 2018-05-24
Good thing I do both then😂
1 wont_tell_i_refuse_ 2018-05-24
https://i.imgur.com/HVNBWD5.gif
1 yuyuyuyuu 2018-05-24
The reason is that you have to be sexually attractive to be loved in the first place. You are just a friend and women will use their time not for you, but for chasing Chad. It's just how it is. No one cares about you if you are a subhuman.
I think this is because sexually cheating means being maculinity mogged, it's dreadful.
Incels don't want simply causal sex. "incel" means aren't sexually attractive enough to be considered as partners in the first place, whether LTR or not, and most incels want the emotional connection and love. You can tell when you look at the tinder experiments threads there on incel.me. Almost every Incel complains about not ever having any woman that will love them the way Chad will be loved, rather than being sad about not being able to fuck. It's the admiration, the validation that you see for the catfish etc that you will never get that hits hard. that gets people, not the Penis-in-Vagina motion that Chad is able to accomplish alone.
1 DaiMiVsi4ko 2018-05-24
exactly. they dont get it.
1 The_Real_Cannaman 2018-05-24
If i, hypothetically, got a kiss from a girl, i'd die of dopamine overdose on the spot for sure.
1 1unfolded1 2018-05-24
Happiness seems to be loneliness And loneliness killed my world How could you guess, When you're only thinking of yourself? How you looked at other girls