way too many american millennial women have borderline personality disorder, it's an epidemic. all of their self-loathing radiates outwards and cascades, causing a chain-reaction of misery

american

There's your problem

If only it were that simple

It’s _all_walt not _american_walt

And way too many American guys are Nice Guys. Check out No More Mr. Nice Guy. Good shit.

Can confirm. Married nice guy here. Women want to be treated bad. Whether it's all the time or in bed or in public..

They're kinda fucked sometimes.

I wouldn't say 'badly' but women don't want a guy that needs them, they want to be useful to the guy who has options. It excites them.

only the borderlines. sadly there's lots of them

if only you could shower your personality

RIP Zyzz

This pic always hurts me

What specifically

The whole thing

We're all gonna make it brah

ZYZZ

Have you guys taken a look at yourselves or is it all just about generalizing and bashing women cause they won't fuck you? You do realize that getting laid doesn't just come to you because you want it right? I weighed 265lbs 3 years ago, had acne, lazy fuck with no sex life. I started going outdoors, working outside, got a job landscaping, started washing my face, and within 5 months I was already down to 200lbs and my skin cleared up. Now here I am back in school and have a girlfriend. I'm not saying all you need to do is lose weight, I'm simply trying to say that you don't get what you want without taking the steps necessary to get there. Acne? Stop eating greasy food and start washing your face more frequently. Scrawny? Buy some dumbbells and start small in your house, then go to the gym when you feel you've worked up the confidence. Overweight? Go outside, and just walk. Burn more calories than you consume. That one is fairly simple. You will never achieve your goals if you sit on the internet, stewing in your own self hatred and then projecting it in the form of sweeping generalizations about entire groups of human beings. Do SOMETHING. Anything. Or you will die sad and lonely and that is a guarantee.

So did you type that all up before or after you ignored every other post on the sub and made the assumption that we're all fat men with horrible acne and no social lives

They are common problems that kill self esteem, and I even said "I'm not saying you have to lose weight" (meaning you're not all fat but worded poorly). And if the way you guys portray yourselves is one that gives off the sits in the house does nothing and is lazy kind of vibes maybe the personality has something to do with it too. This sub is just sad. I really wish the best for you all but it really is just so, so, so, unbelievably sad

normies never change

At various places on the web i have seen incels post photos of themselves. I think what has surprised me the most, is how many of you I was able to see pictures of were very much normal looking people. I've also seen pictures on incels where Im like, yep I get it, but some of you guys really don't belong here if you are blaming your looks for not being able to establish a relationship with the opposite sex.

Incels aren't all subhuman troglodytes who live in swamps. Plenty of guys on the sub aren't horribly ugly, just not good looking enough for braindead foids with ridiculous standards.

The criteria for being an incel is that you're involuntarily celibate, not ugly. Most of us just happen to be both.

2016 is ragefuel

It should be motivational

Eh? So basically a fakecel because women don’t scream and call the police as soon as you talk to them.

If a guy can talk to women but can’t get laid or into a relationship, he’s a fakecel?

If a guy is seen as a human being by society he’s fakecel.

I sympathize with your plight, birthtopia. Gentrash truly have it the worst.

A victim's complex is astoundingly unattractive.

Unless you're a woman. Then it's woke.

yaaassss queeeen

Nope she doesn't get laid either.

Suicide fuel

kek

boohoo, friendship doesn't mean they want to fuck me, boohoo

Yeah, basically. Friends are fine but romantic partners are good too.

Also - being an emotional tampon is not being a friend. Don't tell your guy friends about your sex life, if you don't want to be a bitch.

i tell my friends, if they didn't want to hear it they'd tell me to stop

Really? If you have some kind of big event or really, REHHHEEEALLY want to tell something, they tell you to stop?

yes, because me and my friends are able to communicate like human beings

Glad for you and your friends then. Godspeed.

i tell my friends, if they didn't want to hear it they'd tell me to stop

lol. No they wouldn't. If you are friends with and spend a considerable amount of time with a single man and neither of you are gay, the dude wants to date you....period. He's basically forever waiting for the woman to make the first move because he doesn't want to ruin the friendship and "hope" is better than nothing (it isn't, but it is in his dumb head).

This goes the the same way the other way. I basically had my first college girlfriend "friendzoned" until she spilled her guts to me on break from school over AIM. We were like inseparable all semester, while I was trying to get with this other girl on her dorm floor. I was too much of an idiot to realize this single straight girl who is literally willing to spend most of her free time with me likes me as more than a friend. Duh.

no, i have many male friends who do not want to date me.

It kind of leads there eventually though, I've had to avoid it before.

a friend to me is a friend, nothing more.

I wish it worked that way but friendship between men and women always carries the risk of falling for each other. It's a slippery slope.

i don't think so, when a person is a friend to me, they're a friend and if i catch feelings that's on me, but they're still my friend

H O M O R O L A

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'a child's bath towel'..

I don't get it. Shouldn't shit have turned around at 2013?

We let it get the way it is now

So basically he tried improving himself to the point where his eyed are strained and he looks all strung out and that still didn't do jack shit? What a lovely subreddit this is.

so true

Manbung lol

Get a load of this chad talking to 8 different women over 9 years.

High IQ, high effort post.

i don't think so, when a person is a friend to me, they're a friend and if i catch feelings that's on me, but they're still my friend