Hey man, genuinely curious normie trying to help here:
Just wanted to drop into this thread to tell you that it gets better. While I can't relate to a lot of what you seem to go through, I do know the crushing feeling of loneliness as I had to spend a whole week without getting to see one out of my three fwbs at the time. A whole week!
I also know what it's like to feel left out for being a virgin. I myself was a virgin until age 15 before losing it to my high school crush.
I just know that if you confidently put yourself out there, confidently take a shower while confidently lifting your therapist and change everything about you while still being yourself, it will get better. Trust me on this, because I know, i t g e t s b e t t e r.
did u by any chance catch that clip from ~10 days ago of Bill Maher on incels? well the main takeaway of that clip was "make yourself worthy of being fucked" which means taking care of your body, developing yourself (hobbies/job) etc.
But i already know how u incels think, u LOVE to focus on the negative parts of yourselves that is out of your control... and then you LOVE to focus on the select women who reject you solely based off those flaws. so i actually think a different clip, also from Bill maher's show from a few weeks ago would be even more beneficial
That being said, it's still very important to note that we DO have control over whether or not our body is in amazing shape or terrible shape. And we DO have control over whether we are a miserable shit that's annoying to be around or a happy fellow that's a pleasure to be around (albeit may take some effort and time). And those things do make a difference when it comes to expanding the pool of women you will have as options. The key is to not focus on the select people who reject you based off of things you can't control.
What makes a guy who works ten hours a day, takes care of his hair and body and has lots of friends unworthy but a guy who everyone hates, who does drugs all day and looks dirty all the time worthy. Face.
ok so you have an ugly face, and because of that many women will reject you. that may be a bit of a tough break. but i believe you still have a lot of things that are in your control, and by taking advantage of that you can have many women available to you as options.
i've heard that girls are attracted to big arms and 6 packs. i've also heard that nofap can help a lot with naturally changing a guy's behavior to be attractive to women.
well anyways, if i were you i'd try my best to look in the mirror and ask myself if i were a woman, what is it i wouldnt like about myself. i know you've said face, but i also get a little feeling you think its also personality related
but why does it have to revolve around girls? i get that you guys are young, but firstly love yourself and other people will show up in your life (girls, friends,etc)
Yes they definitely are, but what are you going to do if girls don't like you, right now?
instead of telling you the same shit all over again with gym and self improvement , i'm suggesting having new friends, quitting gaming or stupid shit like that , going out and having a good time, and starting to like you more, and ther person you are becoming(growing up)
i want to punch you in the throat. Girls are attracted to guys that are doing something, are striving towards something, or guys that are fun.
I like coming here becuase when i was 15-16, 10 years ago i was thinking the same as you guys , but there was no fucking online forum to discuss my insecurities with thousands of guys and circle jerk.
I started attending highscool parties, talking and getting rejected by girls , but i could not give a fuck, i had made friends , when a girl rejected me i was laughing with them , they made fun of me, i took myself less serious.
Eventually i've got a gf , but i realized that she was kind of stupid and not for me, and then another , but that was not my primary goal and it should not be for you.
I'm doing something. I work and I study. I also have lots of friends and I do try to mingle. The simple problem is that I'm too ugly. No girl pays attention to me. Like none.
i want to punch you in the throat. Girls are attracted to guys that are doing something, are striving towards something, or guys that are fun.
WRONG. Women are attracted to attractive men. Simple as that.
Also, yea, you were also incel, but then you started going to parties, and lost your virginity at 16. That’s definitely the same as a guy living 25 years without a chance to have a girlfriend despite doing all the self-improvement shit.
Ok but being physically attractive is not the same as being attractive in general. Hell, after my highschool years, i had no problem getting girls to like me , it was natural for me, and i'm fat, i'm the fat funny guy.
I was frustrated because i was cringy and akward at first but as tien went by i got more and more confident and most importantly that i was up to the task.
Coming here and venting is doing absolut 0, you are seeking and getting validation and it makes you feel good. This was you will never escape this shit.
You can do it and it's nothing stopping you. Ok, telling you now that if you go to the gym and start taking shower is stupid as hell if you don't care about yourself in that manner. Firstly you must find yourself and have faith in your capabilities, start loving yourself man.
There's a difference. It wasn't that he didn't give a fuck about going to those parties and asking those girls, he just didn't give a fuck about being rejected
i've heard that girls are attracted to big arms and 6 packs. i've also heard that nofap can help a lot with naturally changing a guy's behavior to be attractive to women.
It's not even in their hands though, they cannot be genuinely attracted to his biology. At best they can pitty fuck up, but so can a hooker so that's about the same thing as donating $150 bucks to him.
There are a few solutions humanity came up with to this problem:
1) Strict patriachy with enforced monogamy, infedelity an extremely severe crime with real punishments. This means that every man gets a woman, every man has someone to look after feed and care for.
2) We're working on designer babies and genetic engineering to hopefully create a more level playing field.
Pretty much. I can barely function properly anymore. All other goals and functions have faded away into white noise. I did everything I was supposed to do, tried my best but got nowhere. I'm sick of emotionally investing in people and watching them as they waltz out of my life like I were nothing . I'm sick of being unloved, unwanted, untouched. I'm sick of being an ignored disrespected non-entity. I'm sick of waiting and I'm sick of trying.
recently i stopped investing myself emotionaly into people, is it really worth it?? it got so fucking tiring now to invest myself like a fuxking clown to someone who dont care
It isn't worth it and it hurts like shit everytime. The memory of all the others still rattle around my skull. I've got a whole museum full of rejected dreams in there.
recently i am punishing myself with a nofap/no checking girls out because clearly i wasn meant to enjoy love , i will report every week how it affects my mental state so far i feel very very alone but in a different way like i am burning inside its very painful but there is no self sadness, its like i am mad at the world
i also stopped talking to girls completly because i feel like ivesting myself emotionally like a clown to get their attention is a waste of time since it never even worked as i tried everything, its over i gave up completly .
This bot is so fucking stupid. "You can remember it by this is how it's spelled". What kind of bullshit mnemonic device is that? If they could remember it in the first place they wouldn't have misspelled it.
my brother too is handsome but i love him very much and i am very happy for him but everyone around me enjoy love and relationships but me , sometimes i am the one who help them and everything fuck man..
I get this. Jerk off, its the only thing that eases the anguish. Its not ideal because you still have to give up a part of yourself to a woman (its such a degrading act, I'm that way) but it does offset creaking twisting rage inside your chest and groin.
Once you get what you want you don't want it anymore. There is no such thing as a girlfriend. There is only sex. She will never be loyal to you. What you want is sex and validation
"That's sooooo young. Go live ur life, don't give up, a lot of people aren't successful at that age, focus on something else, I know a guy who didn't get laid until he was blah, and now he's blah blah blah, don't blah blah blah blah, why dont you blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah"
We all do. And we'll be called entitled for it, despite the fact that if a woman said the exact same thing, she'd be told that she deserves to have someone to love her, and all the guys out there who "won't have her" (in other words, Chads) are shallow, worthless assholes. All or nothing, people. Either we all deserve love, or we're all entitled.
Nothing wrong with being entitled, anyway; we're entitled to what we work for. And there's a difference between being entitled, and demanding or enforcing it, too. But we've all worked to be in relationships here, so our entitlement is justified; what have women done to earn being in a relationship?
Dudes. The grass is not always greener. Just wait till you get a girlfriend/wife and she cheats on you. That is when you realize women can be like playing with fire. And they take all your fun tokens.
yeah, I dunno why all these incels think they'd be able to keep a woman happy or not just get screamed at all the time. I dunno why incels think they'd cope with the emotional barrage of a typical GF
Just wait till you get a girlfriend/wife and she cheats on you. That is when you realize women can be like playing with fire. And they take all your fun tokens.
...I mean, most of the people here make fun of cheating nature/hookup culture in general. It's not like they're unaware of that.
And if we're going off by your comment, then they'd complain about not getting free sex.
If you truly put effort in you will improve. Most of the people on here bitching have done little to improve their chances of actually attracting women and instead insist on coming on here and screeching about how they’re owed love and affection simply for existing.
did u by any chance catch that clip from ~10 days ago of Bill Maher on incels? well the main takeaway of that clip was "make yourself worthy of being fucked" which means taking care of your body, developing yourself (hobbies/job) etc.
But i already know how u incels think, u LOVE to focus on the negative parts of yourselves that is out of your control... and then you LOVE to focus on the select women who reject you solely based off those flaws. so i actually think a different clip, also from Bill maher's show from a few weeks ago would be even more beneficial
That being said, it's still very important to note that we DO have control over whether or not our body is in amazing shape or terrible shape. And we DO have control over whether we are a miserable shit that's annoying to be around or a happy fellow that's a pleasure to be around (albeit may take some effort and time). And those things do make a difference when it comes to expanding the pool of women you will have as options. The key is to not focus on the select people who reject you based off of things you can't control.
but why does it have to revolve around girls? i get that you guys are young, but firstly love yourself and other people will show up in your life (girls, friends,etc)
Yes they definitely are, but what are you going to do if girls don't like you, right now?
instead of telling you the same shit all over again with gym and self improvement , i'm suggesting having new friends, quitting gaming or stupid shit like that , going out and having a good time, and starting to like you more, and ther person you are becoming(growing up)
It's not even in their hands though, they cannot be genuinely attracted to his biology. At best they can pitty fuck up, but so can a hooker so that's about the same thing as donating $150 bucks to him.
There are a few solutions humanity came up with to this problem:
1) Strict patriachy with enforced monogamy, infedelity an extremely severe crime with real punishments. This means that every man gets a woman, every man has someone to look after feed and care for.
2) We're working on designer babies and genetic engineering to hopefully create a more level playing field.
Ok but being physically attractive is not the same as being attractive in general. Hell, after my highschool years, i had no problem getting girls to like me , it was natural for me, and i'm fat, i'm the fat funny guy.
I was frustrated because i was cringy and akward at first but as tien went by i got more and more confident and most importantly that i was up to the task.
Coming here and venting is doing absolut 0, you are seeking and getting validation and it makes you feel good. This was you will never escape this shit.
You can do it and it's nothing stopping you. Ok, telling you now that if you go to the gym and start taking shower is stupid as hell if you don't care about yourself in that manner. Firstly you must find yourself and have faith in your capabilities, start loving yourself man.
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1 VonMagnar 2018-05-22
Hey man, genuinely curious normie trying to help here:
Just wanted to drop into this thread to tell you that it gets better. While I can't relate to a lot of what you seem to go through, I do know the crushing feeling of loneliness as I had to spend a whole week without getting to see one out of my three fwbs at the time. A whole week!
I also know what it's like to feel left out for being a virgin. I myself was a virgin until age 15 before losing it to my high school crush.
I just know that if you confidently put yourself out there, confidently take a shower while confidently lifting your therapist and change everything about you while still being yourself, it will get better. Trust me on this, because I know, i t g e t s b e t t e r.
1 CounterArguments 2018-05-22
Yum yum pasta
1 1122334wy 2018-05-22
Mamma mia, that's a spicy pasta!
1 serial_tab_opener 2018-05-22
I always seem to forget these and momentarily fall for them LOL.
1 Hoeasss 2018-05-22
Thanks nigga I appreciate it
1 129842 2018-05-22
/r/ihavesex
1 xigoi 2018-05-22
r/woooosh
1 gabzpianoxin 2018-05-22
How dare you tell me that it's in my power to improve my life!!!
1 gufestus2 2018-05-22
It's not. It's in the hands of girls who reject him. He can do all he wants but if girls don't like him then it's useless.
1 gabzpianoxin 2018-05-22
did u by any chance catch that clip from ~10 days ago of Bill Maher on incels? well the main takeaway of that clip was "make yourself worthy of being fucked" which means taking care of your body, developing yourself (hobbies/job) etc.
But i already know how u incels think, u LOVE to focus on the negative parts of yourselves that is out of your control... and then you LOVE to focus on the select women who reject you solely based off those flaws. so i actually think a different clip, also from Bill maher's show from a few weeks ago would be even more beneficial
https://youtu.be/FDW7PViQts0?t=4m37s
That being said, it's still very important to note that we DO have control over whether or not our body is in amazing shape or terrible shape. And we DO have control over whether we are a miserable shit that's annoying to be around or a happy fellow that's a pleasure to be around (albeit may take some effort and time). And those things do make a difference when it comes to expanding the pool of women you will have as options. The key is to not focus on the select people who reject you based off of things you can't control.
1 gufestus2 2018-05-22
What makes a guy who works ten hours a day, takes care of his hair and body and has lots of friends unworthy but a guy who everyone hates, who does drugs all day and looks dirty all the time worthy. Face.
1 gabzpianoxin 2018-05-22
ok so you have an ugly face, and because of that many women will reject you. that may be a bit of a tough break. but i believe you still have a lot of things that are in your control, and by taking advantage of that you can have many women available to you as options.
1 gufestus2 2018-05-22
Like what?
1 gabzpianoxin 2018-05-22
i've heard that girls are attracted to big arms and 6 packs. i've also heard that nofap can help a lot with naturally changing a guy's behavior to be attractive to women.
1 gufestus2 2018-05-22
I tried nofap. Didn't change anything.
1 gabzpianoxin 2018-05-22
lol, i'm getting curious to see what u look like, to see how much your looks are holding you down
1 gufestus2 2018-05-22
I have posted my pic before.
1 gabzpianoxin 2018-05-22
well anyways, if i were you i'd try my best to look in the mirror and ask myself if i were a woman, what is it i wouldnt like about myself. i know you've said face, but i also get a little feeling you think its also personality related
1 gufestus2 2018-05-22
I do hate my looks. I look like a retarded monkey. It's not a pity party. And sorry if you think that. I'm ugly for most of the girls.
1 gabzpianoxin 2018-05-22
your personality is ugly, you're self pity is ugly, you're insecurity is ugly. thankfully those things aren't difficult to fix, if you're willing.
1 marilenahaide 2018-05-22
but why does it have to revolve around girls? i get that you guys are young, but firstly love yourself and other people will show up in your life (girls, friends,etc)
1 gufestus2 2018-05-22
Because that's what the name is about. It's about girls. Sex is important. Relationships are important.
1 marilenahaide 2018-05-22
Yes they definitely are, but what are you going to do if girls don't like you, right now?
instead of telling you the same shit all over again with gym and self improvement , i'm suggesting having new friends, quitting gaming or stupid shit like that , going out and having a good time, and starting to like you more, and ther person you are becoming(growing up)
1 gufestus2 2018-05-22
Kill myself. What's the point of living if you don't have girls?
1 marilenahaide 2018-05-22
i want to punch you in the throat. Girls are attracted to guys that are doing something, are striving towards something, or guys that are fun.
I like coming here becuase when i was 15-16, 10 years ago i was thinking the same as you guys , but there was no fucking online forum to discuss my insecurities with thousands of guys and circle jerk.
I started attending highscool parties, talking and getting rejected by girls , but i could not give a fuck, i had made friends , when a girl rejected me i was laughing with them , they made fun of me, i took myself less serious.
Eventually i've got a gf , but i realized that she was kind of stupid and not for me, and then another , but that was not my primary goal and it should not be for you.
1 gufestus2 2018-05-22
I'm doing something. I work and I study. I also have lots of friends and I do try to mingle. The simple problem is that I'm too ugly. No girl pays attention to me. Like none.
1 marilenahaide 2018-05-22
you will win at this
1 gufestus2 2018-05-22
So far I'm not. And I have no hope for ever winning it.
1 Idk12344482305 2018-05-22
WRONG. Women are attracted to attractive men. Simple as that.
Also, yea, you were also incel, but then you started going to parties, and lost your virginity at 16. That’s definitely the same as a guy living 25 years without a chance to have a girlfriend despite doing all the self-improvement shit.
1 marilenahaide 2018-05-22
Ok but being physically attractive is not the same as being attractive in general. Hell, after my highschool years, i had no problem getting girls to like me , it was natural for me, and i'm fat, i'm the fat funny guy.
I was frustrated because i was cringy and akward at first but as tien went by i got more and more confident and most importantly that i was up to the task.
Coming here and venting is doing absolut 0, you are seeking and getting validation and it makes you feel good. This was you will never escape this shit.
You can do it and it's nothing stopping you. Ok, telling you now that if you go to the gym and start taking shower is stupid as hell if you don't care about yourself in that manner. Firstly you must find yourself and have faith in your capabilities, start loving yourself man.
And i haven't lost mt virginity at 16, i was 21
1 Sataris 2018-05-22
Clearly you actually did, seeing as you kept asking them
1 AlakhulAkbar 2018-05-22
There's a difference. It wasn't that he didn't give a fuck about going to those parties and asking those girls, he just didn't give a fuck about being rejected
1 destiny-draw 2018-05-22
Girls are attracted to attractive guys.
1 gufestus2 2018-05-22
Also, I do improve myself. I have lots of friends, many of them girls. I just don't have anything that attracts them sexually.
1 gabzpianoxin 2018-05-22
i've heard that girls are attracted to big arms and 6 packs. i've also heard that nofap can help a lot with naturally changing a guy's behavior to be attractive to women.
1 VoidPillz 2018-05-22
It's not even in their hands though, they cannot be genuinely attracted to his biology. At best they can pitty fuck up, but so can a hooker so that's about the same thing as donating $150 bucks to him.
There are a few solutions humanity came up with to this problem:
1) Strict patriachy with enforced monogamy, infedelity an extremely severe crime with real punishments. This means that every man gets a woman, every man has someone to look after feed and care for.
2) We're working on designer babies and genetic engineering to hopefully create a more level playing field.
1 r4risbullshit 2018-05-22
Now that is some good pasta.
1 CountyMcCounterson 2018-05-22
You really got me, I thought some normie had been modded
1 VonMagnar 2018-05-22
...This is going to be very awkward, but you weren't wrong with that.
Used to be incel tho.
1 CountyMcCounterson 2018-05-22
Then fuck off normie
1 VonMagnar 2018-05-22
Figured. I shall not, or do you want more IT morons shitting up the place?
1 FinalFantasycel 2018-05-22
Love how we don’t need a stupid “/s” to detect sarcasm something IT and normie cant live without losing their precious internet points
1 anonymousvirgin88 2018-05-22
We all do.
1 RedPillMGTOW 2018-05-22
You´re not a faillure. You´re an ugly teenager. You don´t need a women to be succesful.
1 CommonMisspellingBot 2018-05-22
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1 RedPillMGTOW 2018-05-22
Ewww bad personality bot. Stop talking to me.
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1 lonely_suicidal_cel 2018-05-22
MGTOW cope
1 Hoeasss 2018-05-22
COPE
1 Toodarkalltogether 2018-05-22
Pretty much. I can barely function properly anymore. All other goals and functions have faded away into white noise. I did everything I was supposed to do, tried my best but got nowhere. I'm sick of emotionally investing in people and watching them as they waltz out of my life like I were nothing . I'm sick of being unloved, unwanted, untouched. I'm sick of being an ignored disrespected non-entity. I'm sick of waiting and I'm sick of trying.
1 foreignincel4 2018-05-22
recently i stopped investing myself emotionaly into people, is it really worth it?? it got so fucking tiring now to invest myself like a fuxking clown to someone who dont care
1 Toodarkalltogether 2018-05-22
It isn't worth it and it hurts like shit everytime. The memory of all the others still rattle around my skull. I've got a whole museum full of rejected dreams in there.
1 foreignincel4 2018-05-22
recently i am punishing myself with a nofap/no checking girls out because clearly i wasn meant to enjoy love , i will report every week how it affects my mental state so far i feel very very alone but in a different way like i am burning inside its very painful but there is no self sadness, its like i am mad at the world
1 Madeon929 2018-05-22
I actively try not to Look at or talk to any women as well.
I’m going to punish myself until I can’t afford my surgery.
1 foreignincel4 2018-05-22
i also stopped talking to girls completly because i feel like ivesting myself emotionally like a clown to get their attention is a waste of time since it never even worked as i tried everything, its over i gave up completly .
i gave up ... no women on earth will ever love me
1 CommonMisspellingBot 2018-05-22
Hey, foreignincel4, just a quick heads-up:
completly is actually spelled completely. You can remember it by ends with -ely.
Have a nice day!
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1 daffyducker 2018-05-22
This bot is so fucking stupid. "You can remember it by this is how it's spelled". What kind of bullshit mnemonic device is that? If they could remember it in the first place they wouldn't have misspelled it.
1 Madeon929 2018-05-22
Same here.
And it sucks because my only brother is a 6.5/7 and has been in and out of relationships his whole life!
A girl even wrote will a love letter... while she had a bf!!! I read the note with my own eYes!
1 foreignincel4 2018-05-22
my brother too is handsome but i love him very much and i am very happy for him but everyone around me enjoy love and relationships but me , sometimes i am the one who help them and everything fuck man..
1 Madeon929 2018-05-22
Same here.... fuck.
1 Blastyschmoo 2018-05-22
Have you asked your brother how he slays so much pussy just to see what he has to say?
1 foreignincel4 2018-05-22
why ask him when i know everything?
1 Blastyschmoo 2018-05-22
"just to see what he has to say"
1 foreignincel4 2018-05-22
nah i wont ask him
1 justforlulzandkeks 2018-05-22
you don't need surgery, you're a mentalcel
1 Madeon929 2018-05-22
For the 9th time.... have you seen my face?
I’m a 2/10
1 justforlulzandkeks 2018-05-22
Obviously I've seen it, that's why I call you mentalcel lmao
You're not a 2, you're a normie
1 Madeon929 2018-05-22
Normies look like normal ppl.
I have a long face, recessed chin, no noticeable cheekbones, negative canthal tilt, zero jawline definition, etc.
1 Toodarkalltogether 2018-05-22
I get this. Jerk off, its the only thing that eases the anguish. Its not ideal because you still have to give up a part of yourself to a woman (its such a degrading act, I'm that way) but it does offset creaking twisting rage inside your chest and groin.
1 MGTOW_is_cucked 2018-05-22
Once you get what you want you don't want it anymore. There is no such thing as a girlfriend. There is only sex. She will never be loyal to you. What you want is sex and validation
1 marilenahaide 2018-05-22
how old are you?
1 Toodarkalltogether 2018-05-22
"That's sooooo young. Go live ur life, don't give up, a lot of people aren't successful at that age, focus on something else, I know a guy who didn't get laid until he was blah, and now he's blah blah blah, don't blah blah blah blah, why dont you blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah"
I've heard it all before and it changes nothing.
1 marilenahaide 2018-05-22
so what do you do? do you work or are in university? do you have good friends to hang out with?
1 bopoll 2018-05-22
Get out of our subreddit. This guy doesn't want your help.
1 Toodarkalltogether 2018-05-22
I both work and am doing a postgrad. I have friends.
1 bigantennaemay1 2018-05-22
We all do. And we'll be called entitled for it, despite the fact that if a woman said the exact same thing, she'd be told that she deserves to have someone to love her, and all the guys out there who "won't have her" (in other words, Chads) are shallow, worthless assholes. All or nothing, people. Either we all deserve love, or we're all entitled.
Nothing wrong with being entitled, anyway; we're entitled to what we work for. And there's a difference between being entitled, and demanding or enforcing it, too. But we've all worked to be in relationships here, so our entitlement is justified; what have women done to earn being in a relationship?
1 zZacharyChad 2018-05-22
Me too.
1 Lightbeingdeem 2018-05-22
Dudes. The grass is not always greener. Just wait till you get a girlfriend/wife and she cheats on you. That is when you realize women can be like playing with fire. And they take all your fun tokens.
1 LinksLight 2018-05-22
yeah, I dunno why all these incels think they'd be able to keep a woman happy or not just get screamed at all the time. I dunno why incels think they'd cope with the emotional barrage of a typical GF
1 SophisticatedDalek 2018-05-22
Chad doesn't have to deal with that because the women know he'll replace her with a new whore if she starts acting up.
1 r4risbullshit 2018-05-22
...I mean, most of the people here make fun of cheating nature/hookup culture in general. It's not like they're unaware of that.
And if we're going off by your comment, then they'd complain about not getting free sex.
1 CountyMcCounterson 2018-05-22
Dudes, having a car isn't even good. It might break down!
If you walk everywhere instead then you'll never have to deal with that so it's much better.
1 wanderer142 2018-05-22
Maybe stop bitching about it on the internet and actually do something about it?
1 Vikingfreeze 2018-05-22
Why the downvotes seriously? Nothing happens without your own action
1 r4risbullshit 2018-05-22
Because people actually have done a lot of things about it, and being spammed this advice for the 8000th time gets really irritating.
1 Vikingfreeze 2018-05-22
I will not tell you to do anything. If you want to wallow in self pity, go right ahead
1 r4risbullshit 2018-05-22
Maybe stop assuming people haven't attempted anything at all like a presumptuous bitch?
1 wanderer142 2018-05-22
If you truly put effort in you will improve. Most of the people on here bitching have done little to improve their chances of actually attracting women and instead insist on coming on here and screeching about how they’re owed love and affection simply for existing.
1 destiny-draw 2018-05-22
You are very ignorant and misinformed.
1 jewishsupremacist88 2018-05-22
pay 4 play my dude..
1 usernam028253954936 2018-05-22
Take a shower bro
1 azevedro 2018-05-22
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ygbx6_hFxWw
1 Karmingruen 2018-05-22
I just want to say that you're not a failure for having no girlfriend.
1 xOwlyx 2018-05-22
Same boi
1 foursquare07 2018-05-22
What if I slayed vagina for 12 years (15-27) but now am single for 2 years and 5'7. Does it get better?
1 gufestus2 2018-05-22
It's not. It's in the hands of girls who reject him. He can do all he wants but if girls don't like him then it's useless.
1 gabzpianoxin 2018-05-22
did u by any chance catch that clip from ~10 days ago of Bill Maher on incels? well the main takeaway of that clip was "make yourself worthy of being fucked" which means taking care of your body, developing yourself (hobbies/job) etc.
But i already know how u incels think, u LOVE to focus on the negative parts of yourselves that is out of your control... and then you LOVE to focus on the select women who reject you solely based off those flaws. so i actually think a different clip, also from Bill maher's show from a few weeks ago would be even more beneficial
https://youtu.be/FDW7PViQts0?t=4m37s
That being said, it's still very important to note that we DO have control over whether or not our body is in amazing shape or terrible shape. And we DO have control over whether we are a miserable shit that's annoying to be around or a happy fellow that's a pleasure to be around (albeit may take some effort and time). And those things do make a difference when it comes to expanding the pool of women you will have as options. The key is to not focus on the select people who reject you based off of things you can't control.
1 marilenahaide 2018-05-22
but why does it have to revolve around girls? i get that you guys are young, but firstly love yourself and other people will show up in your life (girls, friends,etc)
1 gufestus2 2018-05-22
Because that's what the name is about. It's about girls. Sex is important. Relationships are important.
1 gufestus2 2018-05-22
Also, I do improve myself. I have lots of friends, many of them girls. I just don't have anything that attracts them sexually.
1 marilenahaide 2018-05-22
Yes they definitely are, but what are you going to do if girls don't like you, right now?
instead of telling you the same shit all over again with gym and self improvement , i'm suggesting having new friends, quitting gaming or stupid shit like that , going out and having a good time, and starting to like you more, and ther person you are becoming(growing up)
1 SophisticatedDalek 2018-05-22
Chad doesn't have to deal with that because the women know he'll replace her with a new whore if she starts acting up.
1 VoidPillz 2018-05-22
It's not even in their hands though, they cannot be genuinely attracted to his biology. At best they can pitty fuck up, but so can a hooker so that's about the same thing as donating $150 bucks to him.
There are a few solutions humanity came up with to this problem:
1) Strict patriachy with enforced monogamy, infedelity an extremely severe crime with real punishments. This means that every man gets a woman, every man has someone to look after feed and care for.
2) We're working on designer babies and genetic engineering to hopefully create a more level playing field.
1 marilenahaide 2018-05-22
Ok but being physically attractive is not the same as being attractive in general. Hell, after my highschool years, i had no problem getting girls to like me , it was natural for me, and i'm fat, i'm the fat funny guy.
I was frustrated because i was cringy and akward at first but as tien went by i got more and more confident and most importantly that i was up to the task.
Coming here and venting is doing absolut 0, you are seeking and getting validation and it makes you feel good. This was you will never escape this shit.
You can do it and it's nothing stopping you. Ok, telling you now that if you go to the gym and start taking shower is stupid as hell if you don't care about yourself in that manner. Firstly you must find yourself and have faith in your capabilities, start loving yourself man.
And i haven't lost mt virginity at 16, i was 21