You say that because the ugliest woman you remember you'd still fuck. The ones uglier than that you just dont register, like they are invisible shadowpeople.
You should read on Norah Vincent, she basically disguised herself as a man for one and a half year. She had to quit the experiment because she became so depressed that she had to be taken into a mental hospital. Since the experiment she has stated that she has never been more glad to be female.
Every woman should read that book - then they might stop whining about "male privilege", although that's probably naïve to think. Many women are so desperate to be the victims that they would still claim that men's problems aren't real.
Why not? Guys want to be treated like Chad too. Seriously, every human wants to be treated like Chad, what's the difference if you're a dude or a woman?
Heh. Where I work there's a ton of short dudes. And all of them are married with 3 kids.
So I look at this and go, yeah, it's an artificial helplessness you want to feel. The short guy in the office beside my boss is a judo master, the short dude I work with every other day is super fucking cheerful, 2 kids, and a degree.
You want it to be about your looks because it relieves you of responsibility. You can go, well, it's not me!
But that's a lie you tell yourself to comfort yourself.
You should respect yourself more. And try excercise - not for the girls, but because all the research shows it makes your brain work better. It actually makes you smarter when you work out.
But you live in a black hole of depression and self pity, and you like it there, so I don't think this is actually gonna reach you, which is sad.
I bet half of those married guys are in deadbedrooms, and the other half has to beg to get their dick wet once a month, while the wife creams on her foot long dildo every night thinking about that Chad she saw 10 years ago
Ya know, I believe in the extremely pervasive bias in society against short folks and ugly folks. It's damn real. It's also there against fat folks, and if you're short,fat, ugly, and not white - your life is going to be vastly harder in wildly unfair ways compared to a tall, lean, handsome white guy.
That's a fact. It's been a fact throughout all of human history, but it's a lot worse today because we're surrounded by advertising and media. Advertising and media select the most beautiful people possible and use their image to get and hold your attention.
Now, your brain remembers people. It files them away in a little database inside itself and ranks them in a lot of ways: fun, smart, pretty, rich, mean, etc. And it maintains this generic "baseline" for how much you're surrounded by smart and where you rank on the smart scale in comparison, how much you're surrounded by rich and where you rank on the rich scale, etc.
It forms this baseline including all the people you know about. Whether those are real people you know in real life or not - it includes them. So today in this world we rank ourselves as being a part of a society which has a massively inflated baseline of happy, rich, beautiful, brilliant people in it.
And it crushes us.
Here's the thing. Here's where I diverge from this subreddit. It is not anyone's responsibility to make me happy besides myself. Being bitter, angry, blaming, contemptuous- being awful to others to make myself feel better - that's not in any sense healthy, or kind, or good, or even intelligent. It's lazy and selfish and stupid and a trap that locks you in a box of your own making.
So the world is unfair. So what? When has it ever been fair? Who sold you a ticket saying you'd start out from the same baseline as everyone else?
It's not about where you stand with regards to others. It's about where you stand with regards to yourself. So say everyone gets a free car. One free car to last their whole life. Some folks get a Jeep, some get a Lamborghini, some get a Honda Civic, some get a second hand beatup stripped out minivan.
You can spend your whole damn life treating your car like shit and hating the folks who got the keys to the Corvette.
Or you can go, dude! Free car! And work on the engine, give it a bunch if body work and a new paint job, put some sweet ass tweeters and a sub in there, and take pride in your car. So you started from scratch- that just means you can take risks and do shit the fancy car folks never would! And you can drive places they'd never think to go.
It's the same car. The difference is all in the attitude of the driver.
I don't want to be miserable. Everyone here seems to want to wallow and be unhappy, like it's fun or something, like being a victim is the best thing ever. So much so they'll fight to cling to victimhood.
Victim mentality is a state of mind. Been there, got out, never ever going back to that miserable circular self-fulfilling prophecy.
The problem I have is society doesn't take a "well, that's just the way the world is, deal it it" approach to everyone. If it was like that, then okay I guess. But they pick and choose groups to say "wait a minute! It's not right you're treated unfair, we need to change that"
Lol. Man, that's part of the unfairness. It feels awful to see others getting their pain recognized, watching them get treated better. It feels weird as a grown middle aged person to see kids have opportunities and understanding and support I never got as a kid. Like, am I jealous they got this and I didn't? Seriously? Of a kid?
You can hang onto the jealousy or you can just decide you don't enjoy it much and it doesn't serve your goals.
One of the biggest changes I've seen, for good and bad, over the past couple decades has been people with no voice finding their voice online. Overall I think "fuck, finally." But it comes with a hefty helping of the folks who had a voice but felt constrained against using it by decorum going "no no no that's not how you do things, you complain too much, you're too loud, you have no discipline" and other stuff.
Everyone has a voice now. And they're shouting as loud as they can to be understood. Attention is currency.
I don't mind listening to some of it. It's been educational. Do I think some of it goes too far? Of course. But better some shouting and chaos than enforced silence. We'll come to a new stability, somehow.
Apex fallacy. Only men at the top are visible to them so of course they think being male is life on easy mode. Women need to be systematically killed and or enslaved
If they had the same treatment as the average man (not the top 20%), I can assure you that there would be additional law changes to ensure improvements when it come to sexism and equality. Very quickly.
35 comments
1 Madeon929 2018-05-22
Too fucking accurate
1 IsThisRealReddit 2018-05-22
Harsh reality of the blackpill
1 Salvador66 2018-05-22
My life exactly. Although, not brutal like that.
1 IsThisRealReddit 2018-05-22
Poor Salv boy
But similar to me - not about the height tough
1 acoverover1 2018-05-22
Not even that. No Chad is treated as well as even the ugliest woman
1 Inquisitor1 2018-05-22
You say that because the ugliest woman you remember you'd still fuck. The ones uglier than that you just dont register, like they are invisible shadowpeople.
1 minoxidilcel 2018-05-22
cope. google pig woman experiment
1 birthmarkcel 2018-05-22
lol /u/Salvador66 meme about you
1 Salvador66 2018-05-22
XD
1 cookin_breakfast 2018-05-22
My favorite fucking black pill comic. If I were rich I'd put this on a billboard
1 SlashSero 2018-05-22
You should read on Norah Vincent, she basically disguised herself as a man for one and a half year. She had to quit the experiment because she became so depressed that she had to be taken into a mental hospital. Since the experiment she has stated that she has never been more glad to be female.
1 Uqtpa 2018-05-22
Every woman should read that book - then they might stop whining about "male privilege", although that's probably naïve to think. Many women are so desperate to be the victims that they would still claim that men's problems aren't real.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ip7kP_dd6LU
1 LITERALLY_SHREK 2018-05-22
did you watch it? She was not depressed because she was incel
1 IphisTelethousas 2018-05-22
Living a gender role that is wrong for you fucks with your head. Big surprise.
1 bopoll 2018-05-22
That's not why she thought it was bad. It was part of it, which she talks about, but it was also the insane loneliness of it all.
1 Inquisitor1 2018-05-22
She's glad to be a decent woman. If she was ugly with no charisma and boring she'd probably like the male equivalent of the same more.
1 mwobuddy 2018-05-22
I think more women should have photos of ugly men and troll tinder looking to get dates with women and see how they work out in the end.
1 BLACCEL 2018-05-22
Woman couldn't live one day being a Truecel.
What am I saying. Not even an hour
1 bookwench 2018-05-22
Why not? Guys want to be treated like Chad too. Seriously, every human wants to be treated like Chad, what's the difference if you're a dude or a woman?
Is being respected not a thing people want?
1 Rolando_Mierka 2018-05-22
I'm amazed by how far off the point you are.
1 bookwench 2018-05-22
Heh. Where I work there's a ton of short dudes. And all of them are married with 3 kids.
So I look at this and go, yeah, it's an artificial helplessness you want to feel. The short guy in the office beside my boss is a judo master, the short dude I work with every other day is super fucking cheerful, 2 kids, and a degree.
You want it to be about your looks because it relieves you of responsibility. You can go, well, it's not me!
But that's a lie you tell yourself to comfort yourself.
You should respect yourself more. And try excercise - not for the girls, but because all the research shows it makes your brain work better. It actually makes you smarter when you work out.
But you live in a black hole of depression and self pity, and you like it there, so I don't think this is actually gonna reach you, which is sad.
1 Rohn7 2018-05-22
I bet half of those married guys are in deadbedrooms, and the other half has to beg to get their dick wet once a month, while the wife creams on her foot long dildo every night thinking about that Chad she saw 10 years ago
1 bookwench 2018-05-22
So your reasoning, based on zero evidence, is if someone like you shows external evidence of success it must be fake?
Dude - why do you hate yourself so much?
1 Rohn7 2018-05-22
I don't hate myself, I love myself, it's other people that dislike me
1 dumb_intj 2018-05-22
1 FireAlarm911 2018-05-22
"Obama is black and was president. All black people who complain about racism just want to feel like victims"
1 bookwench 2018-05-22
American whiteboy comparing his life to the institutional racial bias seen throughout America? Wow. Just.... Wow.
I mean...
Wow.
1 FireAlarm911 2018-05-22
I'm not white. Also I'm comparing the pervasive and unconscious nature of biases, lookism being included
1 bookwench 2018-05-22
Ya know, I believe in the extremely pervasive bias in society against short folks and ugly folks. It's damn real. It's also there against fat folks, and if you're short,fat, ugly, and not white - your life is going to be vastly harder in wildly unfair ways compared to a tall, lean, handsome white guy.
That's a fact. It's been a fact throughout all of human history, but it's a lot worse today because we're surrounded by advertising and media. Advertising and media select the most beautiful people possible and use their image to get and hold your attention.
Now, your brain remembers people. It files them away in a little database inside itself and ranks them in a lot of ways: fun, smart, pretty, rich, mean, etc. And it maintains this generic "baseline" for how much you're surrounded by smart and where you rank on the smart scale in comparison, how much you're surrounded by rich and where you rank on the rich scale, etc.
It forms this baseline including all the people you know about. Whether those are real people you know in real life or not - it includes them. So today in this world we rank ourselves as being a part of a society which has a massively inflated baseline of happy, rich, beautiful, brilliant people in it.
And it crushes us.
Here's the thing. Here's where I diverge from this subreddit. It is not anyone's responsibility to make me happy besides myself. Being bitter, angry, blaming, contemptuous- being awful to others to make myself feel better - that's not in any sense healthy, or kind, or good, or even intelligent. It's lazy and selfish and stupid and a trap that locks you in a box of your own making.
So the world is unfair. So what? When has it ever been fair? Who sold you a ticket saying you'd start out from the same baseline as everyone else?
It's not about where you stand with regards to others. It's about where you stand with regards to yourself. So say everyone gets a free car. One free car to last their whole life. Some folks get a Jeep, some get a Lamborghini, some get a Honda Civic, some get a second hand beatup stripped out minivan.
You can spend your whole damn life treating your car like shit and hating the folks who got the keys to the Corvette.
Or you can go, dude! Free car! And work on the engine, give it a bunch if body work and a new paint job, put some sweet ass tweeters and a sub in there, and take pride in your car. So you started from scratch- that just means you can take risks and do shit the fancy car folks never would! And you can drive places they'd never think to go.
It's the same car. The difference is all in the attitude of the driver.
I don't want to be miserable. Everyone here seems to want to wallow and be unhappy, like it's fun or something, like being a victim is the best thing ever. So much so they'll fight to cling to victimhood.
Victim mentality is a state of mind. Been there, got out, never ever going back to that miserable circular self-fulfilling prophecy.
1 FireAlarm911 2018-05-22
The problem I have is society doesn't take a "well, that's just the way the world is, deal it it" approach to everyone. If it was like that, then okay I guess. But they pick and choose groups to say "wait a minute! It's not right you're treated unfair, we need to change that"
1 bookwench 2018-05-22
Lol. Man, that's part of the unfairness. It feels awful to see others getting their pain recognized, watching them get treated better. It feels weird as a grown middle aged person to see kids have opportunities and understanding and support I never got as a kid. Like, am I jealous they got this and I didn't? Seriously? Of a kid?
You can hang onto the jealousy or you can just decide you don't enjoy it much and it doesn't serve your goals.
One of the biggest changes I've seen, for good and bad, over the past couple decades has been people with no voice finding their voice online. Overall I think "fuck, finally." But it comes with a hefty helping of the folks who had a voice but felt constrained against using it by decorum going "no no no that's not how you do things, you complain too much, you're too loud, you have no discipline" and other stuff.
Everyone has a voice now. And they're shouting as loud as they can to be understood. Attention is currency.
I don't mind listening to some of it. It's been educational. Do I think some of it goes too far? Of course. But better some shouting and chaos than enforced silence. We'll come to a new stability, somehow.
1 Reddit5uck5 2018-05-22
Low iq
1 cookin_breakfast 2018-05-22
Proof femoids only view Chads as men
1 bookwench 2018-05-22
Except you envy Chad so much you also only view Chad as a man.
1 cookin_breakfast 2018-05-22
Proof that roasties think so lowly of incels that they think we don't consider our selves men either. GTFO
1 Uqtpa 2018-05-22
Most women wouldn't even last a week as a short man. They would blow their brains out.
1 MyGrumpyVag 2018-05-22
Here's what I would consider a related (but opposite) video I have always loved.
1 randomination 2018-05-22
They're being honest when they say they want to be treated like men. Problem is any male who isn't a chad or chad-lite aren't men in their eyes.
1 MGTOW_is_cucked 2018-05-22
Apex fallacy. Only men at the top are visible to them so of course they think being male is life on easy mode. Women need to be systematically killed and or enslaved
1 haymansafc 2018-05-22
If they had the same treatment as the average man (not the top 20%), I can assure you that there would be additional law changes to ensure improvements when it come to sexism and equality. Very quickly.