Is it wierd that I can't jack off to porn anymore because I get sad that I'll never have sex with a hot girl?

42  2018-05-22 by Hoeasss

It's been like this since at least a year, it's just made me more frustrated at life than I already am.

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Idk, I don't care.

maybe it is weird.

One step closer to suicide

Lol I gave up porn when I was about 25, frankly it just became so damn silly and cheesy to me when I watched it that I'd end up laughing so hard I'd go soft lol.

Def wierd m8

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Yes and no. It means your insecurity about your incelibacy has grown. It isn't weird because you have good reason to feel bad about it, and it isn't a rare phenomenon. It is "weird" in the sense that makes you feel bad (source of angst) and the hypothetical healthy man shouldn't feel that way. There's only two ways out of it, cope or rope. I can tell you what's helped me but it'll only make you feel better, incel is for life and it never even began for us.

don't sweat it girls in porn are average af

Cope, even sex with an average girl is something I could never get

Just spike bro.

WOW these responses are trash. Is this usual for this sub? (It sounds like loneliness is motivating you more than your sex drive, but you've become self-aware while you watch it and so are becoming more lonely and less aroused. Do you have friends that think about you? You could take up that project of finding those people. Also, you might respect yourself more for cutting out the porn as an act of restraint, and remaining agnostic about your chances of finding a hot girl. Besides, the porn is really setting you up for failure with girls by inviting you to pity yourself, making you very sex-fixated, and making your brain unattracted to any girl below a 9. I'm not your judge at all, I'm just saying that if you tried to connect more with the people you can find and restrained yourself from looking at naked 10 bodies as a challenge, your chances with girls will steadily climb and the girls themselves would become more "hot" to you over time. Obviously that doesn't cover everything, but its a solid move.

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This is all normie bs. It was over before it even started for me

....*Sigh* Alright dude. I hope you give it a good test sometime.

Same here, I stopped enjoying masturbation, because it reminds me that I am not good enough for the real thing.

same man

No , itsnt

I don't think that is the reason. The girls in porn haven't been hot for a long time. They are average like the guys. Also, do you want sex or a relationship? If you want sex, that's easy. If you want a relationship that's different. Also, looks shouldn't be everything. Sometimes their intelligence and personality can really make a person hot or not. In addition, you might have desensitized yourself to sex and that's your fault.

I want the relationship, and the amateur stuff has coupled basically displaying the most raw form of affection and it angers me

Then I recommend watching the solo or lesbian stuff. Then again, I am more feminine despite appearing to be masculine.

Right in the feels

Are you totally nofap, or do you just not fap to porn? If it’s the former, it would be very blackpill that you’ve been nofap for a year and it still hasn’t helped you.

I do agree with you. But it's just the latter

I don't watch porn anymore. But back when I still did, I often got seriously depressed because I knew watching two people have sex on a screen while sitting alone in a dark room was the most action I'm ever going to get.

This is how I feel

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