While I don't consider myself to be an incel, I like this sub because many people here have had the same experiences as me.

53  2018-05-22 by throwaway18123455

While I don't agree with everything you guys say, I do share a lot in common with many of you. I'm genetically fucked, I'm ugly and have a small dick. I was literally bullied through all of my schooling which gave me anxiety and made me a person with repressed violent thoughts, most of the people who did that shit to me were popular assholes who everyone thought the world of. This is the closest that there is to a support group for people with similar experiences to me.

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How are you not an incel? My life is better than yours and somehow im incel?

As I said. I don't agree with everything you guys say.

So you are an incel, but you don't agree with many things many people in this subreddit say. That's fine.

If the OP doesn't identify as incel, then they're not an incel.

"Incel" is not an ideology it is a condition, namely of being involuntarily in celibacy. Whether or not he is an incel is therefore independent of what he identifies with.

It's hard to tell if she's serious when she makes such idiotic comments

doesnt work that way you fat retarded cunt

I agree. I had a tough childhood but got very lucky genetically and was a late bloomer. It’s amazing how much better people treat you based off your appearance. Those same popular assholes that gave me shit in middle school are know my “friends” in my fraternity. Honestly they all suck fat dick and fuck em.

I hate them. I barely see them around but I still hate them. I wish something bad would happen to every last one of them. Almost as bad are the dickheads who played everything off about me as just a "joke". By far the people I hate the most are former friends who ditched me.

Yeah I agree. Sometimes I wish bad shit would happen but it’s kind of negative thinking. I would say karma and life had a way of evening itself out but that’s bs and some people just get lucky.

I just made a long post about my last couple of months struggle (hasn’t been posted yet on this sub for some reason) and it sucks.

Yeah fuck friends who ditch you. Despite me “popularity” it happens quite a bit still.

Yeah fuck friends who ditch you. Despite me “popularity” it happens quite a bit still.

The thing that really pisses me off is one of these "friends" turned into a total asshole for a period of time, being a general dick to me, telling me to fuck off etc. When I did a really minor thing to him (and I mean really minor) he got butthurt and ceased being my friend, dude had issues. Then another "friend" who acted as if he was a mediator and some good guy trying to fix things for a bit then kicked me out of our friend group. At least your enemies consistently hate you and don't turn on you.

Yeah I definitely have my fair share of enemies nowadays. Mostly just guys/beta orbiters/white knights I’ve fucked over or cucked (they deserved it). However what I hate is the same middle school gorillas (5’9 and full beard at 13) that bullied me in football now suck my dick when they find out how cool I am in college. They never grew another inch and I sit 4 inches taller than them. At least they are losers now.

Yeah friends get pissed at me for doing little things too. Sucks but guys have such thin skin nowadays.

Sucks but guys have such thin skin nowadays.

Man this wasn't even thin skin, it was just blatant hypocrisy and being a moron. It was the type of stuff that a normal or reasonable person wouldn't worry about.

Yeah my advice is find new guys. Although in 2018 it’s so fucking hard to find cool people. Everyone has some sort of motive behind everything. I’ve made maybe 2 true friends in the past 3 years of college and don’t even trust any of them with my life. Both are great guys but pretty unreliable. Both have their own issues though.

I keep track of them even though I haven't been schoolmates with them for years

Damn, friends with your past bullies in a frat. That must be so fucked up

Yeah it sorta is. I’ve held a decent amount of positions in the house and have done well academically and career wise so they respect me. The main guy tried to forget/erase about it but I know he still gives other people a hard time. Being the social chair last year though I made sure he was always on social probation so he never got to go to parties. Kind of my somewhat revenge to him.

Do u slay

Depends on your definition of slaying. I fuck usually around 5 new girls a quarter. I can get laid in any college party I go to. At random parties I'm usually the top guy or top 2-3 so I can stand there like a garden gnome and the hottest girls will approach and its super easy. At our frat parties I'm just an average guy and been friend zoned by lots of sorority girls which is fine so it depends on the night. Bars are much tougher its usually 1 out of 2-3 nights I go out. I'll get better a that as I get older cuz I'm usually one of the youngest guys there. I never really get rejected by girls but will get friend zoned by some even 4/10 bitches who friend zone me to validate themselves and brag to their friends how they friend zoned me.

I've slept with 33 girls and lost count with how many girls I've made out with (maybe 150 or so). I'm not a chad (one or two fixes short) though so its not necessarily easy. I just have great social skills and can get people to laugh (really important). One of my childhood buddies is a morph of Jordan Barrett and Sean O'Pry so in any envrionment even at exclusive clubs like 1Oak he stands there and girls throw themselves at him. I've seen 9/10 girls that would give me no attention grab him to leave in 30 seconds. He's a pretty big in the modeling world so kudos to him. Always tough seeing the black pill going out with him when he's in town. He mogs me and my buddies into oblivion.

If you need any advice on slaying though I can definitely help. I'm not a natural like my dad so I learned a lot through years.

Just-stand-there-like-a-garden-gnome game is legit

ok kiddo

Howd that snap girl go bro

snap girl? as in snapchat?

Nvm

Yea

lol i dont even have snapchat? wrong person?

Idk

If u are less than a 4/10 then u r an incel. It's not an ideology but a curse

I'm a 5-6/10 (from several rating subreddits) and I'm an Incel, most of my experiences are similar to the people's here.

Sub8 is incel in 2018

Cope. If you're incel, you're not sub8. You're a 4 who thinks he's a 7 lol.

I am absolutely not an 8 and have had no problems getting dates my whole adult life.

Your whole adult life was before 2018, and in that time you got the nessecary experience to still get dates in 2018 even as a sub8.

Jk it's just a meme bro

If u are less than a 4/10 then u r an incel

I'm 4/10 and incel. U need to be 5/10 at least to stand a chance.

I feel you. As with the other guy, I only started to look good at around 25. The difference in how people socialize with me is palpable, yet as I try to talk about this stuff with my friends they just brush it off as it was fine and normal. At the same time these friends fuel off off the media incelhate and consider anyone calling themselves an "incel" to be a threat to their existence.

Yeah same. I was pretty popular in high school due to my sister and great social skills. No one respected me though. Went from a 3 to 7.5 in about 3 years. My sisters best friend, the same girl who rejected me for prom (I found another girl) came in my room in the middle of the night last summer when she was with my sister and begged me to fuck her. Claimed she always “liked” me when I called her out. So much for her being a goody good “Christian virgin.” Decent fuck but won’t again, heard she’s gotten creative with a few guys. Anyways this shit is total bullshit. Yeah it’s cool that this happens but I’ve experienced both ends and sometimes I wish I only experienced one. It hurts seeing what both sides are like.

May I ask how did you get from 3 to 7.5?

Genetics and luck. My dads a Chad, definitely an 8+ when younger and for his age. Always had same bone structure and frame but had really bad acne and a bad awkward phase. I just looked awkward and was short until senior year. Grew into my frame. I was 130 in high school and now I’m 185.

I like your honesty.

How is it possible to look better after 25 without surgery? I’m asking as a balding recessed chin guy.

It’s probably not unless you are 1 in a billion still going through puberty. I’d get chin surgery. You may be able to through insurance if you claim it’s impacting you. A recessed chin usually leads to breathing problems, especially at night. I’d look into that. You’d go up 3-4 points for sure.

It sucks, doesn't it. Did you notice how all the 'popular kids' were usually 7+ in looks

I did, but I denied it. Back then, I always wanted so badly to believe the lies of the blue pill, I'd go through all the mental gymnastics to justify it all in my head. I'm so glad those days are over, and I can just accept reality; it's over.

Did you have sex now or didn't

Didn't.

Repressed violent thoughts. The only remedy is to actually kill them.

i see you claim you are not an incel only because you don't agree with all the ideologies thrown around here and im right there with you but that doesn't mean you aren't one of us tbh. There is a sub called r/incelswithouthate but it's slow and doesn't provide the same range of posts seen here. I think you can get accustomed to seeing really extreme viewpoints and ones more in line with societal norms, and I think thats most interesting part about subreddit. being exposed to different opinions from people with the same life experiences as us.

i dont like these posts incels are not an ideology its about being a kissless virgin

Agreed, this isn’t some sort of movement, it’s a curse.

People are shallow as fuck and judge by appearances.

Welcome to my life. My own shallow sister didn’t even act like I existed until I became decent looking.

As I said. I don't agree with everything you guys say.

I'm a 5-6/10 (from several rating subreddits) and I'm an Incel, most of my experiences are similar to the people's here.

Sub8 is incel in 2018

If u are less than a 4/10 then u r an incel

I'm 4/10 and incel. U need to be 5/10 at least to stand a chance.