The strong, silent type vs. the quiet, troubled creep

226  2018-05-20 by DarkCels

142 comments

TEE HEE I love mysterious men. Not the one on the right tho, he's a creep.

also: "I love shy guys, they're so cute!"

shy and bad social skills are different things

Cope.

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"i always knew he'd be the one to shoot up the school... that's why we always mocked him! we knew! we were right! we're good people! see!"

It's weird, I never got called a school shooter, but I did get called sniper because of me being on the rifle team and being good at shooting hoops. Only ever really played 1v1's or small team games though.

Your school had a rifle team?

Yep, good bit of schools in the area have one. Far from being common though, I think only Southwest PA has them. Been in operation since the 60s IIRC.

the rifle team

Americans are a meme

To be fair, some universities have a paint ball team. Look at the US Naval Academy, and West Point (I believe). Hell, even some sponsor national rifle target shooting clubs. They’re sports, really. Nothing wrong with that.

my friend had a big head and we called him a sniper's dream

I take it in jest but I've had two co-workers at two different companies independently tell me that if anyone came into work shooting one day that they thought it would be me. I've never seen the point in suicide and if I did have to go I wouldn't waste my last day at work, but I guess I give that impression.

tom hardy is 5'9 which is manlet status in 2018

It's over for banecels

"What matters is what we want..."

4 U
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Talk about suifuel. He is around my height and looked like a midget in the Taboo tv show.

Whatever happened to Gary Cooper? The strong, silent type.

The fact that either you can't tell the difference between strong and silent vs weird and creepy says more about the people in this sub than any other post.

Dude(tte), I was referencing The Sopranos. I'm not even an incel, I browse this sub because for shits and giggles.

It was hilarious that Tony lamented about the lack of strong, silent men while bitching to a therapist.

He was born in the dark. Molded by it

Get a good haircut, shave that awful neck beard, work out, and you could go from a 3/10-6/10 easy

Just workout, bro, it will reshape your bones, bro.

I love the preconceived notion that you’re doomed to a life of celibacy because you don’t have a perfectly square jaw. It’s seriously laughable.

If that guy just worked on himself and his confidence he could attract women. But not looking like a slouched over neck beard.

You're like a newborn baby.. I.. you.. oh you poor soul.

Cut the condescending shit lmao. That doesn’t give you any leverage here and just makes you look like an ass.

Obviously sexual selection exists. Always has and always will. But the whole idea of incels... a bunch of people resigning to a loveless life because they don’t want to improve themselves in any way or actually pursue a relationship so they turn to their misogyny circle-jerk on Reddit...

Now that’s something else.

Two mistakes here.

  1. You assume we didn't try the self-improvement route.

  2. You assume we were always on r/braincels.

Most of us were blue-pilled and red-pilled much before coming here.

So if you still are fuckin' ugly after "improving yourself" it might just be good, that your Genes get sorted out of the genepool. No one wants ugly children.

I'm not ugly, i'm just unattractive

That means ugly.

I'm 4/10. I'm more like meh. 'He looks too generic, why would i even fuck him'. I'm not repulsive, like truecels.

Yeah, so Tell me, why should a woman fuck a 4/10?

Exactly. Hypergamy.

And that's the fault of women?

Yes

Oh. Just why again?

Are you fucking stupid?

Obviously. So we wouldn't it be nice of you too enlighten me?

Haha...ha...hahahahahahhahahahahahahahahah

Oh. You can't. I understand.

No, it's more like I'm so tired of constantly destroying you normies. We need to have a copypasta here to answer your dumb ass questions. They're so goddamn common, and they get so irritating to respond to.

Don't feel very destroyed yet, tbh. You could try writing you c&p now and had that off your chest, so you could just save it for every dumb ass coming around. I had my answer and you don't have to repeat yourself all over again every time

so you could just save it for every dumb ass coming around.

Like you?

Eventually.

No. It doesn't. Nowadays it means that you don't look like 20 year old Brad Pitt.

Nah. Sorry. Brad Pitt is not my type at all, but I guess 99% on this sub are just ugly. And not "Brad Pitt in his 40s" ugly, but acne fat and no sense of taste and hygiene at all ugly.

You are wrong. Take me. I'm a normal 4X year old, bald, slim, multiple degrees, independent, travel the world, cultured and opinionated. Good in bed. Maybe... ¿A six?

I have no chance nowadays. And I know it.

lmao just be happy you will die alone bro why would you be upset at the fact that no one will ever love you?

please go be autistic somewhere else not everyone is going to be happy and fine with always being ugly and alone.

And yet, if we're not breeding but we're still born, it's not our fault ugly men are born into the world, is it? Almost seems like that blame falls on ugly women, since they don't get selected out of the gene pool.

No one forces you to keep on living, if your life is so damn miserable, only because no one wants to fuck you.

You are a bad person. Are you a writer of "13 Reasons Why" by chance?

Oh no. Bad girly doesn't encourage us all on hating females cuz no one wants to ride our tiny useless dicks attached to our ugly bodies :( so mean!

Confirmed, you are a bad person.

t. typical /r/short roastie

I'm 5'9" so probably bigger than most of you dwarves. That's what's called good genes.

Did you even lurk man.. nobody self improves? Nobody tries/tried? We all just were born misogynists? Do you actually believe all those things hold true for the majority? You can't accept it because it defies your own world view, Same can be said for some people here no doubt. Reality isn't so green for the majority of ACTUAL incels.

I know you weren’t born misogynists, but that doesn’t excuse the fact that it’s absolutely repulsive to adopt that attitude.

Sure, you tried to improve your looks. Good job! But what about your social skills? The way you approach women? Women can smell of a guy is just looking for sex. They know.

I can accept anything and adopt it into my worldview if I can rationalize it and it actually makes sense. The same cannot be said about you all. This is the most obstinate, dogmatic bunch I have ever seen.

That's really what I've done like most others here, life experiences compile into a already bitter world view. But not yet incel and aware, the blackpill and some of the compilations of studies on it people have posted are something that I personally CAN rationalize into my worldview. I also find it to be a sort of darkened light at the end of tunnel that never seemed to end. Fine humour and amusing company in this twisted land may be all we need to live out our cope. Now anyone could get sort absurd luck with 0.001% woman who actually likes them, but that's wishful thinking.

3.5 billion women. Anyone can get one. Literally anyone.

“Fine humor” has a funny definition in this sub - demeaning women and men who have healthy relationships by dichotomizing incels with “roasties, femoids, chads, and Stacie’s”.

It’s all ass-backwards and twisted, dude.

80-20

Source

80:20 is what's socially happening in the western world since the smartphone, Facebook and Tinder. Start reading statistics, dude.

Source?

The famous OKCupid statistics are one of those. Also, direct correlation of perception of "character" to "looks".

Cmon dude, is like negating that women marry up in every society. We have more than a hundred years of studies about assortative mating.

I’m looking for facts to support your 80/20 (4:1) proportion of males to females in the dating pool. Unless you can cite a source for that, you’re spewing bullshit and I just won’t continue to talk to you.

Ufff. Is not the proportion in the dating pool, is the relation of people actually doing the dating. In Tinder terms, the 20 are the guys getting matches. The OK Cupid study comprehends millions of data points and the dude that made it is a specialist in big numbers and data. Of course is about a dating site.

Just take the numbers of never married, and if you can find it the number of lays per year. The trends are obvious. Hypergamy is real.

Green pastures friend, green pastures.

there isn't 3.5 billions women available unless you count children you sick pedo, reported.

Holy shit you got me

Yeah bro women can smell a guy who is looking for sex! Yeah man! Meanwhile Chads are well aware of this and women are well aware of the guys they fuck with, but does that matter? NOPE. And why doesn't? Because they're hot. You're a fucking retard.

A chad is anyone that had sex, yes?

So this chad approaches women, “hey there cutie, are you alone in this bar?”

Does he get laid?

No.

It’s not all about looks, although it obviously helps haha. It’s about your approach and your attitude.

Idk man keep name calling idgaf what you think of me.

Sure bro! All about your approach bro! Wrong, wrong. So much wrong.

You’re a 5. You approach a 5. 100% potential. If you fuck up the approach then it’s your fault...

That is not true at all. Jesus Christ, this is why I rather not even give legitimate serious responses at all. That's so completely fucking wrong.

Why is it not true? Take me through the logical steps of why this is not true if you approach a girl who is of the same level of looks as you and is open to meeting guys.

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A chad isn't anyone who has had sex you tard. Lurk more before you post dumb comments.

More hateful bullshit. I’d expect nothing else from you all lol

The only reason you think he isn't confident is because he has no forward growth and negative canthal tilt. He could be the most confident guy in the world, and you're assuming he's not because of his facial features.

The reason I think he’s not confident is his slouching posture, the “I masturbate way too much” look in his eyes, and his overcompensation of messy hair and messy beard.... not the maxilla and cantonal tilt shit that the lot of you always try to pull.

The look in his eyes has nothing to do with his masturbation habits... it has to do with his recessed orbital bones

Check it out, he took your advice and stopped jerking off and and started flirting with women and now he has confidence

https://i.imgur.com/lkilmjt.jpg

you can tell how much people masturbate just by looking at them?

He has that glazed over look in his eyes as if he masturbates a lot.

He has that glazed over look in his eyes as if he masturbates a lot.

WE'RE THE LOGICAL, SCIENCE BASED PEEPS FIGHTING THE INCELS.

It’s a simile for fucks sake. Why is everyone taking that so literally

Answer the question, faggot. Do you also acknowledge the existence and prevalence of the 1000 cock stare?

literally how is his hair messy lmao

His overgrown greasy bad styled hair?

His hair seems pretty well-groomed imo. Cleanly brushed, and I'm not sure how it seems greasy or overgrown. His hair is pretty short and just looks like it was washed recently or he put some gel in it.

Justin briber cut repels women very effectively

So why did tons of women obsess over Justin Bieber?

🎙+$

"Woah, thinking that women are so shallow as to want a person just because of their status and wealth is pretty misogynistic of you. Fuck off back to r/braincels and r/blackpillscience. I bet you're just bitter that women don't want to fuck you after smelling your misogyny. teehee."

Anyways, yeah so like ANY pop star, women idolized him for his talent and his status.

Women are evolutionarily wired to be attracted to a male that can provide safety and resources. Fact.

"Woah, facts and science? Fuck off misogynistic pig I'm going to screenshot this and post it onto IT so my wife's boyfriend and I can laugh at it."

What are you even trying to prove here, dude.

i just wanna shitpost tbh

Ok well this guy’s hair is bad. Fact.

no u

I've been saying it before and I'll say it again: it's over for baldcels.

Old friend I used to know was bald at 23- still got pussy.

No excuse.

He was probably dark skinned, had a great face, or was tall. Plus, I'm 3 years younger, at 20.

He was white, 5’11”, bald as fuck, not the best facial bones- married now. Honestly stop fucking whining. All of you. Whine about not getting pussy and nothing gets better.

Fucking do something about it for fucks sake.

I was just like you guys. Whined at 18 because I hadn’t gotten pussy and thought no girl would ever like me. I looked in the mirror. No style. Acne. Overweight. No muscle definition. Bad hygiene. No idea how to form positive relationships with the opposite sex.

Improved myself and now have had two partners by age 21. Did I post on /r/braincels about how evil Stacies and roasties are?

No.

I fucking did something about it. Stop being pathetic and do something or else stop bitching about your celibacy. All incels are volcels, swallow that rainbow colored pill and fucking get off your ass.

I already improved myself. I have better style, took care of acne (which ironically caused me to lose my hair, don't take accutane), started working out, joined clubs, etc. Hasn't helped. Why do you imply that incels haven't done anything to help themselves? I am an incel, not a volcel. I have taken real, demonstrable steps to improve myself, and I have had no success with women because I have Asperger's, and because I am bald.

You’re not trying hard enough then.

I never implied incels haven’t done anything to help themselves. I’m saying resigning to a life of celibacy and misogyny is pathetic, and is why everyone hates this sub.

Not all of us have fully bought into the LDAR concept. A lot of us aren't "resigned" to celibacy, which is why you see a ton of gymcels and improvementcels on the sub.

So you're saying "I'm not trying hard enough." Quick question, if someone is poor, do you insinuate that it's because they aren't trying hard enough? If someone is autistic, is their lack of friends because they aren't trying hard enough? Some things are beyond our control. Is inceldom? Maybe, maybe not. I think it's arrogant to assume one way or another for every person without knowing their background.

Yes inceldom is not beyond your control. Ever hear people whining about being incels 50 years ago? No. People had enough common sense to realize that it’s their own fault and they need to do better.

If you don’t attract people of the opposite sex, it’s your fault (not roasties, not chads).

Yes inceldom is not beyond your control. Ever hear people whining about being incels 50 years ago? No. People had enough common sense to realize that it’s their own fault and they need to do better.

I'm sorry but I don't really agree with this logic. First of all, the dating dynamic was different 50 years ago. Secondly, there was no Internet forum for them, so of course you didn't hear about it. Third of all, it did exist, maybe not 50 years ago, but quite recently, they just weren't called incels. But there have always been men who have been unable to get with women since the dawn of time. Maybe 50 years ago those guys would have been thought of as shy people who always had their nose in a book.

How can you possibly claim that inceldom is beyond my control without even knowing me? That seems a little presumptuous.

3.5bn women. Inceldom is not beyond anyones control.

3 billion people aren't in poverty. Escaping poverty is not beyond anyones control. Do you agree with the above? What about in China, where there are like 70 million more men than women?

  1. Poverty- bad analogy.
  2. China - so what? This isn’t your current situation.
  3. Not going to meet the vast majority - sounds like an attitude problem.

Go out there and get your dick sucked bro. You can do it

What more do you want me to do? I HAVE been trying, very hard, to get with girls for years. And yet, I haven't had much success. How much harder do I need to try? What more do I need to do? How is that an attitude problem? I'm pointing out why your reasoning is flawed. Do you think anyone has the capability of meeting 3 billion women? At most, people generally meet/get to know probably a couple thousand.

You say I don't try hard enough. It's pretty much one of the main goals in my life. I devote part of every day to becoming better educated, getting in better shape, developing more hobbies, becoming more interesting, socializing more, for the sole purpose of getting with girls. How much more do I need to try before it pays off? What if I keep putting in the same amount of work I am now, and I turn 30 and I still haven't met anyone. What then? Is it still my fault, even when people who have put in way less effort have done so when they were 15 years younger?

Yes it is still your fault. It’s all in the way you present yourself and your approach. If you haven’t had one successful partner by age 30 it is your fault.

It’s all in the way you present yourself and your approach.

I have Asperger's so it's extremely difficult for me to read social cues and fit in socially. Is it still my fault? Tell me exactly how hard I need to try to that I will succeed. What more do I need to do? Be specific.

Eye contact. Smile. Laugh. Common interests. Make yourself interesting

I already do all of those things. Doesn't stop me from being bald and autistic. Like I said, you guys assume that we haven't done anything to try and better ourselves. I always try to make good eye contact and have "interesting" conversations with people. Is it still my fault that I've done that and haven't had a relationship?

Regardless of whether you’ve done anything or not to improve your situation, posting on a misogynistic, hateful online forum for lonely people who think they’re owed sex is fucking deplorable.

You're posting on it right now, lol. Are you deplorable? I'm not a misogynist, and I'm not hateful. Check my post history. I have never said anything misogynistic or hateful on this subreddit. To me, the black pill is reality. I don't think I'm owed sex, I don't think women are inherently evil, I don't want to commit violent acts, etc. I always interact with normies in a calm, respectful fashion.

Could you answer my question, then? I've done pretty much all of the things you have listed that I needed to do to get a gf. Is it still my fault I haven't had a relationship? In my opinion, it's impossible to really know, especially for you, someone who doesn't know me. It's possible that it is my fault somehow, it's possible that I have done everything right and still failed because of my looks and social disability. It's like poverty. If some guy grew up in a poor household, dropped out of high school due to bullying and having a learning disability, and now has a minimum wage job, is it his fault? There are tons of poor people who self taught themselves CS and are making bank. That doesn't mean that it's possible for every poor person to improve their situations, although some definitely can. Do you understand my point?

Being poor and improving that situation is not at all equivocal to inceldom. But yeah I see the point you are trying to make.

I post here for the lulz. That’s why I’m here.

Being poor and improving that situation is not at all equivocal to inceldom.

Could you explain how? Because I think they are comparable situations. Theoretically, there is a pathway for poor people to get out of poverty, just like there is a pathway for incels to get laid. Any poor person can study computer science in their free time, right? And they can learn enough to get a decent paying job, right? Just like any incel can work on himself and improve his looks. It doesn't mean that the advice will always pan out. It doesn't mean it's anyone's fault for being unable to improve their lifestyle despite their best efforts. Sometimes, we need to remember that humans aren't machines. We can't do literally everything right, and that's OK, and not anyone's fault.

You can have fun making fun of incels if you wish. Just keep in mind that many of the points we make are valid.

I don’t make fun of incels, they’re cool. I make fun of /r/braincels because it’s a misogynistic hate-fueled circle jerk of fuckheads.

Not everyone in /r/braincels is misogynistic. Some are, but many others aren't. I encourage you not to paint us all with the same brush. The only thing we all have in common is that we're incels.

Then how come misogynistic posts get hundreds of upvotes?

Top kek

Which misogynist votes get upvoted?

This is honestly fucked up dude, you're making cels look good lmao. You're thinking seems absurdly stubborn. You just cannot comprehend it, I don't you ever will. Just move on and keep living your life. You cannot help anyone here, just causing more depression.

I get the black pill. Totally understandable.

What I don’t get is why you all don’t do shit about it lmao. You’re only an incel until you’ve had sex. There’s women out there just waiting to be fucked by anyone that can get their dick up and have an intelligent conversation.

Incels = volcels

Yes it is still your fault

Piece of shit degenerate trash that you are.

Why are you attacking me personally lmfao.

The common theme here seems to be that its women’s and/or genetics fault for not having successful relationships.

That’s just not true. It’s your fault. You. Work on it.

You are an asshole. I have lots more partners that you will ever have in five lifetimes and I still agree with what the incels are trying to tell you. You sound like those Repúblican "meritocratic" bastards that actually believe that poor people deserve to be poor.

I sympathize with incels. I really do. What I don’t get is the LDAR mentality that spreads like cancer on here.

However I don’t understand how you defend people that post overwhelmingly misogynistic bullshit on here. I really don’t.

I defend ideas.

lmao I love volcels who actually try putting in effort once, succeed and act as if they've solved the fucking life. You're retarded.

Please don’t associate me with terms such as volcel. I’m not an anything -cel, because, well, I’m a well adjusted adult.

The guy on the left in the OP has a haircut, looks like he trimmed his neck beard. Still a 3/10.

Kek

That awful neck beard is the only thing that's giving his chin definition. Shave it off and you're looking at a human sloth.

How are we defining good haircut here? The in vogue style of undercut would accentuate his long narrow face, further emphasizing his weak jaw.

I don't like compensation beards teehee who are you fooling?

Compensation beards are just fucking lol.

better than average upper face, surgery will work wonders

I actually like the guy on the right more. Teehee xDD

"Woah, facts and science? Fuck off misogynistic pig I'm going to screenshot this and post it onto IT so my wife's boyfriend and I can laugh at it."

I sympathize with incels. I really do. What I don’t get is the LDAR mentality that spreads like cancer on here.

However I don’t understand how you defend people that post overwhelmingly misogynistic bullshit on here. I really don’t.

The famous OKCupid statistics are one of those. Also, direct correlation of perception of "character" to "looks".

Cmon dude, is like negating that women marry up in every society. We have more than a hundred years of studies about assortative mating.