"you won't die if you don't get laid/get a gf"
38 2018-05-20 by Ji6S4W
Yeah, I won't die from not getting laid or getting a gf, by that same token though, we could say a black person in the 1950's would not die from not being able to use the same public facilities as white people.... So were they whiney and entitled for resisting segregation? Were they just bitter losers who should have just STFU? I'm using normie logic here.... Maybe they shouldn't have separated themselves from others by calling themselves "black"?
Honestly, I have no issue with blacks, or any race in particular. This post is about pointing out a double standard when it comes to incels. By normie logic to incels, if we apply it to blacks, we never "owed" them anything, they should have just accepted their subhumanity and "not cared what white people thought of them."
52 comments
1 noodlewhores 2018-05-20
Right, incels have no advocates because of the universal hatred for low-status men and we will receive no future support. Heck, some twitter harpy wanted to genocide us.
I say fuck the world and do what you want while you're still alive and healthy.
1 MagratM 2018-05-20
Incels could have advocates if they would stop pushing everyone away with their rude behaviour... Oh, and stop acting like the bogeymen people portray them as. That would help too.
1 realmonkeycel 2018-05-20
Agreed. There are more palatable methods of sharing the black pill than "fuck off normie"
1 SkrimpPoBoy 2018-05-20
You have people that sympathize with you, but 'advocates'? If you're looking for someone else to convince a woman to sleep with you I don't think much will ever change. Unless you want to be the next HR poster in the breakroom everyone rolls their eyes at?
1 PanderjitSingh 2018-05-20
All that’s needed is to remove government programs that severely tilt the mating playing field in favor of females. Who’s going to object to increased equality?
1 undeadcel 2018-05-20
or fembots not having the right to vote wasnt going to kill them lol
1 Ji6S4W 2018-05-20
yeah ikr lol
1 Sniveling_Cur 2018-05-20
Why do we have gay marriage rights? Are they going to die without marriage?
1 MagratM 2018-05-20
The issue is one of equality, sure, but it's not to do with anything at a legal level of inequality. Blacks were legislated against. Incels are not.
What you are facing is personal prejudice, just as blacks still face racism.
1 dullsite 2018-05-20
No-fault divorce is legislation against incels.
1 MagratM 2018-05-20
How?
1 dullsite 2018-05-20
The sexual revolution is rooted in the destruction of marriage in legislation. The sexual revolution results in the existence of large numbers of incels.
1 MagratM 2018-05-20
There has been no destruction of marriage in legislation. It's all still there the same as it's always been.
It's just the rise in sexual behaviour because of contraceptives and falling moral standards that have seen a slackening of people getting married and more people just living together.
1 dullsite 2018-05-20
Are you saying that the laws relating to marriage are the same as they have always been? That's not true. Thanks for arguing.
1 MagratM 2018-05-20
It may have been added to for same-sex couples, but it's pretty much the same as always for Heteros.
Are you saying they changed those laws then?
1 dullsite 2018-05-20
"No-fault divorce" and "spousal "rape"" are two direct examples. But you cannot deny that monogamy has gone from an absolute institution to a faded one.
1 MagratM 2018-05-20
"No fault divorce" means neither party is at fault when they separate. I could have done with that as a reason when I split with H1. As it was we went with adultery, and I took the blame (despite it not happening) because it was the easiest way to do it.
Spousal rape is still rape. Wives are not chattel, and men do not have carte blanche to fuck them any time they want to, even against the will of the woman.
I think there's a difference in how monogamy is viewed, because it used to be staying with one man for your life, but now it's being faithful to the guy you are with at the time.
1 dullsite 2018-05-20
Both are rare at this point, and it is entirely as a result of the shift in law and zeitgeist.
1 MagratM 2018-05-20
Men do not have bodily autonomy over their wives. They are not objects or possessions to be used at an owner's whim. A wife is a human being and as such should not be subjected to abuse and rape.
1 dullsite 2018-05-20
Not what St. Paul says, and I respect him a bit more than I respect you.
1 MagratM 2018-05-20
Oh, stuff written down a couple of thousand years ago and translated, retranslated, rewritten by the Catholic church who were rabidly against women, changed to suit an English king, then transferred into modern language has more bearing on a human being than an actual human being with feelings?
It's like saying that you should be taxed for being over the age of 18 and unmarried, because the Romans put a tax on unmarried men.
It has absolutely no bearing in modern life.
1 dullsite 2018-05-20
Why not? All you've told me is that it's old, that's not an argument. St. Paul actually substantiates all his arguments, that's what I like so much about him.
1 MagratM 2018-05-20
So you're basing your views of bodily autonomy on the teachings of a misogynist schizophrenic who heard voices and ascribed them to a "sky fairy", who then wrote it all down, which then got picked apart by a misogynist Church in order to keep women as slaves, and which then got picked apart by a King in the late 16th/early 17th century...
Okay...
I think I'll stick with being an atheist and seeing people as equals who have their own bodily autonomy...
1 dullsite 2018-05-20
Again, ad hom.
1 MagratM 2018-05-20
How? That's an exact representation of the book your views come from. I disagree with it, hence my atheism and view that people have a right to decline to consent to sex.
1 dullsite 2018-05-20
That's why it's ad hom. You attack where it comes from, not what it is.
1 MagratM 2018-05-20
The argument is that some guy who has probably been mistranslated to hell and back, who was a complete misogynist decided that women were chattel to be used as the "owner" liked.
How about if we said that as your parents "own" you, they can do what they like to you and wouldn't get accused of child abuse or anything?
1 dullsite 2018-05-20
The notable thing about the Bible is that it's the best instance of this not happening.
He also said the reverse for men unto their wives. St. Paul, what a terrible misandrist.
Laws against spousal abuse and child abuse both existed while there was no law against spousal "rape".
1 MagratM 2018-05-20
So you don't see "rape" as abuse then?
And the bible has been translated, copied, come from word of mouth, picked apart by cardinals and Kings, whittled down from several hundred different sources... It's hardly pure.
1 dullsite 2018-05-20
I don't see rape as a possibility in a marriage.
It's exceptional for how pure of a historical document it is despite it's age.
1 MagratM 2018-05-20
If assault is possible, then so is rape. Rape is sexual assault.
1 dullsite 2018-05-20
A distinction has been held historically, and I agree with that distinction.
1 MagratM 2018-05-20
A distinction was held historically about slavery too. Own any of those?
1 dullsite 2018-05-20
Nah, I wouldn't mind a couple though tbh.
1 SkrimpPoBoy 2018-05-20
Ah yes, theocratic morality. Different from any form of morality tied to independent thought because the only justification needed to show something is 'good' is that God's supposed representative gave me the ol thumbs up.
I see you enjoy pointing out different types of fallacies below. In case you're wondering, your St Paul comment is an appeal to authority fallacy. If I tried to tell you that you were wrong by quoting a prominent figure from another religion, you probably wouldn't give a shit as it would be completely irrelevant to you as that isn't where you get your instructions feeding you what to believe is right or wrong. Something to keep in mind when bringing your faith up in a debate unless you're talking to another Christian.
1 dullsite 2018-05-20
You miss the bit where I said I like St.Paul because he makes arguments?
1 nudiecale 2018-05-20
Then why are you incel? Idiot.
1 dullsite 2018-05-20
I'm not
1 Kneejerk_Nihilist 2018-05-20
So... a rapist then?
1 PopLegion 2018-05-20
By that logic If I have a kid it's my kid so I can just blow his fucking head of cause he's my kid so I get to do what I want with him. Marriage doesn't mean you have bought a person, the person still exists once they are married, and you're retarded for trying to argue that a husband can fuck his wife whenever he wants.
1 dullsite 2018-05-20
Read the rest of the chain, I already addressed that.
1 PanderjitSingh 2018-05-20
I think these disruptive feminists ought to barred. They contribute nothing and only exist to derail important conversation. Often they do so while being paid with men’s tax dollars.
1 MagratM 2018-05-20
Derail important conversation? HA! You don't think discussing the relative merits of the bible versus secular law regarding spousal rape to be important?
1 -SpinxS 2018-05-20
its over from me. being black and an incel.
1 Ji6S4W 2018-05-20
yeah bro, it's over for all of us incels, I don't want you to think I'm putting you down for being black. I'm opposed to discrimination against things people have no control over. That being said I also don't understand why any incel, no matter if they are black, white, asian, hispanic, whatever, would feel any loyalty to a race that exiled them and evicted them. We as incels are basically evicted from the human race.
1 Kneejerk_Nihilist 2018-05-20
If bathrooms were sentient beings that could have a preference over who they want inside them, you wouldn't be a complete moron for making this argument.
In this reality however, you are a complete moron for making this argument.
1 Ji6S4W 2018-05-20
way to miss the point einstein, the point was, "you won't die without it," I never suggested forcing a woman to do anything with me, although it would be nice to have a fair chance and not be automatically evicted. I'm also certain most incels never chose to be universally bullied and mocked for life (even with a "positive attitude").
1 Kneejerk_Nihilist 2018-05-20
If I take your point, you're making the comparison between "not having sex when you want to sucks but won't kill you" and "being discriminated against sucks but won't kill you."
Okay, a lot of things suck but won't kill you. Many of them outside of your or anyone else's control. When you bring up comparisons to civil rights, it's easy to assume a desire to force social changes to rectify the situation, but if we're just whining about stuff that sucks but won't kill you, I don't see the point.
1 Ji6S4W 2018-05-20
It's beyond sucking, thousands of men are committing suicide. And yet once again, the only people who take it seriously are those on the losing end of it. So "normal" people say this isn't their fault or they aren't rigging the dating/mating scene, okay fine. But then these same people mock, bully, shame, ridicule, and at best pity and talk down on low status men like we're children or like we're some lower form of life, and expect total deference. I hear "normal" people telling me I'm not "entitled" to have a fair chance at establishing a relationship or gaining any status, and I am not "entitled" to KINDNESS... YET these same folks (maybe folks like you?) get flustered when we are not kind to you..... Well, you know, we don't owe you kindness.
It seems every possible avenue of trying to fix this problem, be it sexual redistribution, legalizing prostitution, or even legalizing suicide, any solution we come up with is met with hostility. I've heard people getting banned on some of the FA/Incel/TFL (whatever name you wanna give it) forums for being fucking suicidal.
Chances are you've never lived with this problem, and even if you did and you "overcame it out of highschool" (whatever that shit is supposed to mean), you were an anomaly. Yeah a few people will be okay with this lifestyle, but most won't and there are biological reasons for this. It would be more humane to give us the option of standing before a firing squad.
1 Ji6S4W 2018-05-20
although I dunno why I'm arguing with someone who has dare I say, such a negative attitude, to go under the name of "Knee-jerk nihilist" kinda implies you are an impulsive reactionary idiot.
1 Kneejerk_Nihilist 2018-05-20
Meh, it started as a novelty account for answering Askreddit questions with shit like "doesn't matter, we're all going to die." I kinda got bored with that and started using this as my main.
1 Kneejerk_Nihilist 2018-05-20
I'm 100% on board that people should not think less of anyone because they haven't had sex. Furthermore, "status" shouldn't be connected to sex. Even furthermore, most concepts of "status" are things we, as a society could do without, but I digress...
Yes, you are entitled to have a chance at a relationship, and you have that chance. No, you are not entitled to kindness from anyone, but being kind is its own reward, so I'd advise everyone do it. This has nothing to do with sex though.
On the other hand, when you're capable of non-ironically using the phrase "sexual redistribution," you come off as pathetic and disturbed. If that's not a euphamism for legalized rape, I'd like you to explain what it is.
Yes, there was a time I wanted sex but had not had it. It went on long enough that I concluded it would never happen. This wasn't a happy time for me at all, but I never concluded it was society's fault or that I was being victimized, I just hadn't found someone yet who wanted to have sex with me, and in a world where most people don't want to have sex with most people, this wasn't a surprising situation to be in.
1 Ji6S4W 2018-05-20
sexual redistribution is not rape, it's not forcing women into relationships, it only means putting meritocratic social practices in place such as social reinforcement of monogamy, to inhibit hypergamy. So a female 3/10 isn't exclusively banging Chad and leaving the male 3/10s with nothing. It doesn't mean forcing anyone to be with anyone. There was a time when slut shaming was practiced against both men and women, again, this is about keeping hypergamy in check so everyone gets a fair chance. That's not rape, or forcing anyone into a relationship.
Either way rather we are talking about that or legalizing prostitution, or sex surrogacy, or any number of other potential ways to fix this problem, hell we're taking heat just for acknowledging the problem or giving at any name at all (there are probably a dozen names for this issue, incel, Forever Alone, TFL, love-shy, perpetual celibacy, etc).
As for kindness, yeah in this sense it does have something to do with sex. The reason why I am considered low status, and hence, okay to disrespect, is because I am incel. And in our society, the "normal" people shit on incels no matter if we "have a positive attitude" or not, I see it every day.
1 MagratM 2018-05-20
Derail important conversation? HA! You don't think discussing the relative merits of the bible versus secular law regarding spousal rape to be important?