What do you guys call someone who's effectively incel but doesn't give a shit?

36  2018-05-20 by NonIncelThrowaway

I'm likely too fucked in the head and socially awkward to ever have a normal relationship with a female human but I legitimately just don't give a shit. I'm a complete introvert and don't feel like I'm missing out at all. It wouldn't occur to me to attach any feelings of bitterness or social/political meaning to it, and I don't get the self-pitying death spiral of this incel thing.

Am I nihilcel? Life has no meaning so just say fuck it and make the most of it? If I can't get a girlfriend I don't see any reason to wallow in it. Just enjoying every other part of life I can.

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Copecel

Is coping really bad though? I feel like the term cope gets thrown around all the time as if it's something you shouldn't do, but if it's all you can do then you may as well tbh fam

Can do whatever. Turbo rotting is the last stop before rope

Can’t I insert a heroin binge in between the rope and the rot

It's thrown around because people make ridiculous statements (basically on par with 1. Eat grass 2. ??? 3. Profit) or think that small changes or an uplifting sense/worldview they thought up that day will somehow change the entire trajectory of their lives.

Doesnt matter, you will be called incel by normies, and as you can see incels will tell you are just "coping"

When has a normie ever uttered the word "incel" besides in relation to truck of peace news events

They use the term, "virgin" and "creep"

But why should I give a shit about them? I hang out with other misfits.

a coper, head on over to r/mgtow and pretend you don't give a shit about being sent your own way.

You could go to r/deadbedrooms and r/whereareallthegoodmen and cope about what you aren’t missing too.

You're still incel.

MGTOW

Those guys are dopey though

You are just blackpilled my dude.

Realizing that blaming yourself or women for being an incel just means you have actually accepted that being an incel is a real and naturally occurring thing that some people are forced to accept in their lives.

I am not a nhilist but I feel the same way you do. I like me. If women do not approve or feel inconvenienced by my existence too bad. We live in an enlightened age, I have a right to exist and make the most of my life with or without female validation and approval.

Yeah this is basically where I’m at.

I wish I could love myself as much as you

I wish you could too.

At least someone's wishing me well.

Some people genuinely stop caring about women. Monk-mode. This is true ascension, in my book. I respect these dudes.

In reality, most of us can't do that. The biological urge for women is simply too strong for the vast majority of men.

Yea that's me! Incel for many years but fine with it. 'S cool; whatevs.

There's food, and escorts... life's not too bad, really...

Doesntgiveafuckcel

asexual?

Im kinda in the same boat. Despair has turned into indifference. Now i just want to live life in maximum comf and of least resistance.

Yeah, I feel the same way. I can remember as far back as last year of high school thinking that I'll never get a gf, and being oddly fine with it.

I read posts here from other incels about how lonely they are, getting mad at everyone around for being incel... and I just don't get it. Not feeling these feels. What's really funny is, technically speaking I'm more incel than most people here, KHHV at 30+.

Guess I got lucky. "Just be a sociopath bro"

By doing so you have taken control. You do not sit and obsess,ruminate, grumble whine or moan about something that if many here are to be believed,is completely out of your control. I view this as emotional stability, confidence, and would expect you to be happier and more goal focused=higher achieving at life than otherwise if you turned inward and angry at something that others here readily state as outside of ones ability to change. If it is such, then why pout about it for years? If this is a fact of nature, a genetic lottery outside of your ability to influence, why try or care at all? Why be indignant and bitter about something you did not cause and cannot influence or change? Pity yourself to sooth the bitterness sure. That's normal. But also normal is the emotional composure and maturity to accept self Respect and self esteem, to value yourself, to focus on yourself and your goals in life. Anyone who says that an unattractive man with money cant get laid or chased by women is delusional. You cannot say on one hand that women are biologically driven and programmed(as are men of course) and also say that you cannot attain your goals of high caliber women by means of material acquisition. There are PLENTY of 7/8/9/10's with little else to offer other than looks that would chase,and scheme to be with a high intellect man with money-something genetic lottery offered him the ability to do via intelligence- While Chad ages with multiple baby mamas and alcholism and child support and little to zero career prospects due to his disproportionate genetic gifts being looks and not intelligence. Further, these 7/8/9/10's almost always have low self esteem and are terrified of being cheated on or dumped for something better. A man who is lower on the looks chart is perceived as "safe" and less likely to cheat. NOT ALL have children as many are terrified to ruin their bodies.

A man who has an air of DOES NOT GIVE A SHIT about chasing women is INSANELY panty wetting for women. That says" STRENGTH" and our ovaries go nuts. A man who bitterly and betta-ly chases and begs..we see them as weak. We have been chased and pawed and have had to fend off countless males for years all because we have a vagina. A vagina that loses value every time it is used.They beg "please ma'am, may I have some pussy?" And we see them wanting to be pitied. Feel bad for me, I'm a nice guy, gimmie some pussy" my God. ....we want to WANT sex. Not give it out of pity. And my vagina is attracted to strength. Not weakness.

But again, if the idea of using your superior intelligence to win at life and acquire wealth so that you can be secure in life, and have security to offer a mate, then that's nothing more than useless self pity and moaning. We get it. You didnt get to born Brad Pit. You didnt choose your parents and Chad didnt get to choose his. It is what it is. The question is, what are you going to do with what you have?

Wokecel.

If you're celibate you're still incel at the end of the day. If not, according this, scientifically proven, chart you are probably a cyborg.

I scored in the 60s so yeah good call

I don't give a fuck about relationships either. It is just that I am young and I don't want my "prime" years wasted with no experience or sex. I just want to get laid.