The real reason people advise against suicide...
137 2018-05-19 by ForceItInCider
The only reason people pull the "don't do it, life IS worth it" card, or spew desperate platitudes like "it gets better," is so they can pat themselves on the back and pretend to be a wholesome human (no such thing). Truth is, nobody would bat a fucking eye.
108 comments
1 qwep-mi 2018-05-19
Virtue signalling
1 allcel 2018-05-19
I fucking hate people and all their bullshit platitudes toward suicide. I sincerely think the world would be a better place if assisted suicide for anyone was legal, and people could just leave by choice without constant pressure by society to keep suffering. Maybe then people would see the overwhelming amount of males opting out and actually think of how fucked everything is.
1 KevinVeneto 2018-05-19
i agree being a libertarian, but then i realize people say that would kill them selves for a failed exam or for one lost job. People think in a short term frame
1 allcel 2018-05-19
Yeah, I did think of that. It's a good point, I think it should be a sort of long (but not too long) process that actually requires some effort e.g. paperwork. If people truly want to do it they will organize it and not withdraw their decision until the time comes.
1 KevinVeneto 2018-05-19
yes this is the thing that doesnt give me peace. i love the libertarian principles but in cases like this or abortions, the idea of having a process where the gov or a group of experts/doctors approve or support the decision seems far better.
idk, i'm just mumbling at this point
1 juancarlos_71 2018-05-19
No people must have access to suicide on demand. The earth is overpopulated anyway, the death of a few thousand incels won’t hurt anybody. It should be an unalienable right to choose whether you want to live or die.
1 KevinVeneto 2018-05-19
it's more probable that stacy and chad commit suicide then incels if it was available and easy accessible.
1 SignorSolitudine 2018-05-19
All the more reason to encourage it
1 KevinVeneto 2018-05-19
now that i think of it yes, imho incels have jokes so much about roping etc and are at such a bottom level that life can become only better. idk like, the second a crise time comes normies will start suicide i bet my ass
1 SignorSolitudine 2018-05-19
What’s it to you when other people want to end their lives?
It’s their lives and not yours
1 KevinVeneto 2018-05-19
it's called simpathy, if i think the reason is stupid and it can be overcome i would try to dissuade the person from suiciding, like for a failed exham.
1 Ji6S4W 2018-05-19
incel is almost (if not entirely) impossible to overcome.
1 deadmedium 2018-05-19
>simpathy
1 SmokeyMcBlunt 2018-05-19
Nah, the unequal distribution would just become even more fucked, so 80/20 would become 95/5. nothing will change
1 PanderjitSingh 2018-05-19
That would be celebrated as a positive outcome given all the money being poured into reducing female suicide.
1 dullsite 2018-05-19
On one hand I agree, but I think a more effective way of letting everyone know that they've gone too far is by having men start killing other people instead of themselves. Not advocating anything, but that's how it goes.
1 ForceItInCider 2018-05-19
I have to disagree there, unfortunately. At the end of the day, human beings are merely animals who happen to be burdened (some would say blessed) by self awareness and intelligence. We will always be a species driven by selfish desires and instincts, and it bothers people that they can't reconcile their primal nature with their morality and higher level of consciousness. They may pretend to care, but would likely just virtue signal some more and then move on with their lives.
1 hello_from_themoon 2018-05-19
why would you let your slaves kill themselves? don't be stupid.
1 friendlypancakes 2018-05-19
Assisted suicide is for someone who is terminal and in lost of pain. You have to go through a few psych evals so that they know it's not just because your depressed. Because while the mental anguish from depression can feel worse than any physical pain immaginable it is still treatable with therapy and medication as opposed to someone where medicine can only make them comfortable as they die. Assisted suicide for depression will never make sense. By definition your thought process is clouded.
Its also plenty easy just to buy a gun and some hollow points in this country. Much quicker than doctors appointments and the like.
1 allcel 2018-05-19
I understand, that's why I said assisted suicide for anyone. I know this shit will never happen. And what "this country"? I don't have easy access to guns or tall buildings where I live.
1 friendlypancakes 2018-05-19
Obviously the US man. You got 50 bucks and know where a pawn shop is? Boom gun. You over 18 and have a Wal-Mart nearby? Boom gun.
But seriously man suicide isn't the way. Get help. Talk to someone in real life. Sifting through this toxic waste dump of a sunreddit won't do you any good.
1 allcel 2018-05-19
I knew it was US, I was more meaning to imply not everyone lives there and has easy access to methods of suicide. If what I said became real, I would apply for it. Actually, maybe the idea that no matter how worse life could get, I always can escape painlessly will actually be comforting and actually lessen my thoughts of suicide. Who knows. And thanks for the four platitudes in a row.
1 friendlypancakes 2018-05-19
And as someone who's battled depression on and off for many years, you are gonna get platitudes my man. But if you respond with condescension to anyone who gives you some, you will push everyone away and then wont even bother giving you basic advice and platitudes. And while platitudes may be oversimplified and overused they have truth to them. That's why they become overused.
1 allcel 2018-05-19
Lmao at a bunch of heroin, sure I'm going to risk prison to kill myself. Of course I've researched methods of suicide, and what you listed are things I absolutely would not do and I suggest any suicidal person not do. I want to spend my last moments in reflection of my life before an instant decision and quick death, not wallowing and choking, coughing up blood or bleeding out in pain. I am responding in condescension to your platitudes because you are replying to a comment I made about bullshit platitudes. If someone personally knows me, of course I'll accept their platitudes. It means absolutely nothing because you do not know me, and I have heard someone who does not know me say it before.
1 friendlypancakes 2018-05-19
Carbon monoxide is way peaceful. Probably your best bet. You just fall asleep one final time.
1 allcel 2018-05-19
Thanks man I'll look into it.
1 blackpillnormie 2018-05-19
Yeah it's a good one!
1 BitsAndBobs304 2018-05-19
all of them aside from tall building and specific injections are terrible methods to suicide.
if you're dead set on doing it, at least be sure to be educated about the methods and get to know how many people survive in terrible conditions because of bad popular methods
1 chillenyo2 2018-05-19
but then how is a 5/10 woman gonna get 100 matches on tinder in 24 hours to validate her??????
1 allcel 2018-05-19
At this point they're probably a nuisance to her. I wouldn't be surprised if tinder filters out less successful males to make the tinder experience more inviting to women, when the entire success of the app is dependent on their presence.
1 Zandonus 2018-05-19
I only matched with waaay below average.
1 allcel 2018-05-19
Damn man, my friend swiped literally everyone and finally matched a girl who told him to get a haircut and unmatched him. Shit is brutal.
1 PanderjitSingh 2018-05-19
Bots. Russian bots.
1 Hotel_Oblivion 2018-05-19
I came within a few steps of jumping off a bridge. Some stopped me and I’m grateful they did.
1 WhereDidSerotoninGo 2018-05-19
Stopped you online or in person?
1 Hotel_Oblivion 2018-05-19
It was over the phone. They called me. I’m not even sure why, actually.
1 movielover2018 2018-05-19
How are u doing noe
1 Hotel_Oblivion 2018-05-19
Infinitely better. Most of the issues that got me so low are gone. Other things will always be a struggle. Life isn’t perfect, but it never will be, and these days life is good.
1 movielover2018 2018-05-19
Are you still an incel
1 Hotel_Oblivion 2018-05-19
No. The whole idea of being Incel didn’t exist when I was suicidal. This was almost 20 years ago. I didn’t have sex until I was almost 19. And my first real relationship started around that time (with the same girl). Ironically, being in that relationship didn’t stop me from falling into a huge depression that was, in many ways, the result of me feeling like nobody except this one girl could ever love me because of how ugly I was.
1 bigtimegoldrush 2018-05-19
almost 19...lmao
1 Hotel_Oblivion 2018-05-19
I don’t get it.
1 bigtimegoldrush 2018-05-19
You really don't.
1 Hotel_Oblivion 2018-05-19
Okay. Are you much older than 19 or something?
1 Aconserva3 2018-05-19
Everyone here is 37 and the closest they came to sex was when they bumped into a girl at Walmart
1 Hotel_Oblivion 2018-05-19
Honestly, I have a very hard time believing the average poster here is that old. And if Incels.me is representative, the older end will be closer to mid-20s, with 30s and older being real outliers.
1 Aconserva3 2018-05-19
Probably most of them late teens early twenties in reality, yeah. 90%+ wouldn’t be involuntary celibates if they just lost the attitude,
1 movielover2018 2018-05-19
Ah I see
1 zippygraham 2018-05-19
Get the fuck off our sub then you normie bitch, holy shit normie invaders are almost as bad as IT
1 Hotel_Oblivion 2018-05-19
You could just ignore me if you’re that upset about it. I’m not here to start anything. And I don’t think I’ve been anything but respectful to the people here.
1 zippygraham 2018-05-19
Who gives a fuck. This is our space. It's like going to r/suicidewatch and being like "I'm not suicidal, I actually turned my life around and have been doing great since the age of 19. But I totally feel you guys! "
You post on IT, you're a fatass sack of trash. You also literally said "to be silent is to be complicit" on an IT post trashing some retard incel who was into underage girls, expecting incels to start coming in and denouncing him.
That's like saying Muslims are complicit when ISIS murders a ton of innocent people because Muslims aren't marching in the streets denouncing the acts of ISIS. You're a fucking retard if you think that's true.
1 Hotel_Oblivion 2018-05-19
I apologize for not thinking that through before posting it.
1 zippygraham 2018-05-19
Fuck off back to IT. You're a disgusting two-faced excuse of a man for posting here pretending to sympathize with incels and then turning face on IT to go and make fun of them.
1 Hotel_Oblivion 2018-05-19
Since you’ve been reading my posts, I think you’ll see they’ve trended towards a different tone of response. I decided I wasn’t being fair, so I changed.
1 cmonmanjuststop 2018-05-19
Lmao might as well join in.
Eat a dick hotel_oblivion u stank ass fuck nigga
1 Hotel_Oblivion 2018-05-19
Just curious: how old are you?
1 Sniveling_Cur 2018-05-19
Then you're a retard and you'd be better off jumping.
1 andinuad 2018-05-19
That's not true. Whenever someone in a community you know of vanishes to the rope, people actually mourn that person.
They may not care to the extent of caring about a family member or a close friend, but it is more than a random stranger.
Memes and pets are good copes. Noone knows for certain if it will get better, but personally I think that not-existing is the worst state any human can be in, so by choosing the rope you put yourself in a worse position.
1 GIisto 2018-05-19
How is being dead worse than being incel?You can't regret dying once your dead and being incel means no love and no sex.
"so by choosing the rope you put yourself in a worse position" A position that once you are in you won't know your in.
1 andinuad 2018-05-19
Because I consider "not existing" to be one of the absolutely worst conditions possible.
1 itsbeenover 2018-05-19
What happens when you die naturally after a full, long, miserable life of suffering as an incel
Congrats you managed to live the most absolutely, extremely, worst, bad condition possible
Rope is the fucking pope
1 Jhhhhhk 2018-05-19
but when you’re alive there’s always a chance of improvement. It’s possible in absolute hopelessness that you’ll see something entirely new. basically you might think you’re hopeless mow but you could certainly be more hopeless lmfao
1 itsbeenover 2018-05-19
rope is the pope
1 andinuad 2018-05-19
That incel is when dead at an even worse state than when he was alive. Not existing is really that horrible in my opinion.
1 itsbeenover 2018-05-19
and i'm saying a horrible life + nonexistence is the ultimate worst thing to ever happen..
so if you can end the horrible life and just go on to the nonexistence, that'd be objectively better
so suicide is highly recommended for incels
1 andinuad 2018-05-19
Yes, you hold the opinion that a horrible life is better than not existing and I disagree because I value existence too highly. We just have a difference of opinion due to different valuations.
1 justforlulzandkeks 2018-05-19
Even if it was "extremely bad" you can never experience because you're dead
1 andinuad 2018-05-19
Sure but you can compare that state to alive states and judge which one is worse. Worst doesn't just mean "Which has most pain".
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1 shockinghillaryquote 2018-05-19
That, and they see a weak person and they say, "Cool, I'll always be better than them, so I want them around so I can look at them and feel better... about me."
People are insanely selfish and disgusting. That doesn't mean ALL people and certainly not all men.
1 IncelistanWillRise 2018-05-19
The only reason the government doesn't want people to kill themselves around age 25 is because they miss out (on average) on about a million and a half dollars worth of tax money. You're not productive if you're dead.
1 SkyrimEnthusiast 2018-05-19
I mean, you’re not wrong.
1 inuyoshi 2018-05-19
Taxes, the society needs a bunch of males with low status to work
1 PathOfDesire 2018-05-19
I tell people not to do it because I was depressed once and felt the same way. Completely hopeless and I hated everyone and didn't think they understood. I've pulled my life together but I never forget how lost I was and how many times I wanted to go through with it.
1 Zippy1avion 2018-05-19
So much this. "I urged someone to continue living in severe pain without even blinking at the issue that made him suicidal in the first place. I did a good job!!"
1 Rammspieler 2018-05-19
I just find it weird how even atheists and agnostics in the West are against suicide, which stems from Judeo-Christian notions of sanctity of life, when in Eastern secular philosophies, suicide wasn't a big deal.
1 baronofmoldova 2018-05-19
suicide is the only real mgtow
1 itsbeenover 2018-05-19
The rope is the only hope
Euthanasia for incels need to be a thing
1 LooksMatterToWomen 2018-05-19
Yeah really. The best thing to say to a suicidal incel? "Livestream it". Imagine if all those incels who killed themselves livestreamed it and explained their situations on camera before doing the deed. Listening to the guy's horror stories about what life is like as an uggo, shorty or cripple, then actually seeing the blood spurting out of his neck after blowing his head off with a shotgun...yeah, that might help bring more sympathetic attention to the plight of romantically worthless males.
1 Ji6S4W 2018-05-19
I was thinking about this too.
1 deadmedium 2018-05-19
humans are evolutionary incapable of being empathetic to low value men -_-
1 Aconserva3 2018-05-19
NOT killing yourself is an even better options n. No one will care.
1 Ji6S4W 2018-05-19
I'm assuming, you are a normie?
1 Aconserva3 2018-05-19
Imagine being such a loser that you use think calling someone normal is an insult
1 Ji6S4W 2018-05-19
So calling people losers is how you talk them down from suicide? I mean don't get me wrong, I could care less rather you endorse doing it or not. But if no one will care, then, you shouldn't care either.
1 moonpodrising 2018-05-19
What if one looks beyond individual motivation to find the reason the anti-suicide meme? A permissive attitude toward suicide is symptomatic of weak will to life. If such a sentiment is allowed to spread through a society uncensured, you get increased pessimism, defeatism. Such societies will tend to get pwned by societies dominated by more uplifting, energising, vivifying memes. Evolution, man.
1 Throwaway1337145317 2018-05-19
As someone who believes that suicide should be permissible and destigmatized, your post offers a brilliant counter argument I had never considered.
1 suicidal-pothead 2018-05-19
If you want more proof of this, just ask them for more help after they try to convince you suicide isn't worth it and watch as they say "aha...haha.. yeah I have things to do sorry bye" Just let me fucking leave goddammit.
1 Ji6S4W 2018-05-19
I'm a pothead incel too bro :) Definitely helps the cope, as you get into your 30's your sex drive starts to die down, the incel thing gets easier. However, the years of damage and abuse will still haunt you, even when you stop caring or giving a fuck about women anymore.
1 bengalsturntup5532 2018-05-19
I'm an incel and I say it,because I value life even though it's horrible .
1 gufestus2 2018-05-19
I'm an advocate for universal voluntary euthanasia. Every adult should have the right to peacefully kill himself without any pain and suffering. My only dream is to see this become a thing before I die.
1 eyewant 2018-05-19
If there's a hell, its better not to suicide.
1 RegisteredLolicon 2018-05-19
I have a really hard time relating to caring about others and have dulled emotion but I 'feel' you should give cope a chance, you might find the supreme cope.
1 randomeiffel 2018-05-19
People who express all these fluffy platitudes, especially over the internet, probably mean well....but yeah, I also can't help but groan when I see shit like that.
"I understand!!! I was sad for three days one time 17 years ago but I started doing yoga and I PROMISE life gets better! My messages are always open if you wanna talk!" Okay ya sure, someone who already considers their life a burden is definitely gonna go slide into some random nt LeRedditor's dm box.
I just took my ADHD meds on an empty stomach, so excuse my word-vomit here.
But, at the risk of being one of those curséd LeRedditors; one of my close friends died by suicide a few years ago, when we were in high-school. Her death affected and hurt so many people. I won't get into details....but jesus.
Now when I am in the darkest and deepest of depression-holes, sometimes the only glimpse of rationality that I can cling to is knowing that ending my own life will not end the pain. The pain that we feel in this life will not vanish alongside our corporeal bodies. The magnitude of suffering will only increase tremendously, and the burden will be felt by so many others--even people we've never met, or barely talked to. (Can speak from experience.)
Life shouldn't be lived just because we feel guilted out of death, though. These thoughts are just what get me, personally, out of that hole. Similarly, death shouldn't be thought of as a token of revenge, as a way to inflict "deserved pain" onto others. Why would you expend your life, the only thing you've ever known, just so that other people can feel pain?
So why the hell do "normies" and neurotypicals keep on living? Living these monotonous, draining, wretchedly absent-minded lives? It's Hope, I guess; that it'll get better on the weekend, or on their vacation days, or after retirement....And then the weekend arrives, they go on the vacation, they're happy for a bit....They're old, they retire....but they've already wasted their whole life hoping it'll get better.
Personally, I subscribe to the same ignorant ideal. I keep living because I cling to the hope that "it'll get better" someday. Though I must recognize that this hope comes from an immense place of privilege. No one can promise us that it will get better. But I think it is part of our nature to hope that it will, and to keep on living to strive for betterment.
Might get a little preachy here, oops, but....
If in the end, we find that it won't get better after all...instead of trying to escape this life, we can try to embrace it....accept the pain and suffering, and try to make as much use of this life we were given. Maybe we can't "make life better" for us, but we can use the bodies and brains we were given to try to make it a little less painful for other people that are worse-off, in whatever way that we can.
1 Yemanthing 2018-05-19
The only reason these dynamics exist is because the organisms that would be likely to kill themselves will not pass on their genes as often. That "hope" is just a neurological inhibitor that resulted out of a necessity for self-sustaining life in order for it to ever propagate.
1 JamesLucratif 2018-05-19
Also society thinks you're a nigger and own you and your labor.
I'm serious. Its why you're not (((entitled))) to anything but crybaby when you doxx them for banning you, shoot up schools for being apeshit incel, whatever whenever. Anything that involves the nigger saying no to his ma'ssa is a crime and a tragedy.
But the nigger is just expected to work and EVENTUALLY die. Not right now...but afyer thirty or so years of good pack muling. The buck niggers or "Chads" will reproduce but unsightly niggers just work and do their best to stay invisible.
1 downtownMalone09 2018-05-19
The world needs worker bees to make it go round
1 Severian_The_Sleeper 2018-05-19
Come up with a reason to live then. If you're unhappy with your life, make it different. Quit your bad habits. Quit looking at porn and playing video games and feeling bad for yourself. Go out and do something with your life. If you aren't trying to change it, you have nobody to blame but yourself.
1 _neutral_username_ 2018-05-19
Why dont you go fuck yourself
1 chillenyo2 2018-05-19
its a good way to prevent focusing on an actual problem
1 chillenyo2 2018-05-19
but then how is a 5/10 woman gonna get 100 matches on tinder in 24 hours to validate her??????
1 PermanentRotter1 2018-05-19
Actually, the reason is they need the wagecuck labor for the economy.
1 Hotel_Oblivion 2018-05-19
No. The whole idea of being Incel didn’t exist when I was suicidal. This was almost 20 years ago. I didn’t have sex until I was almost 19. And my first real relationship started around that time (with the same girl). Ironically, being in that relationship didn’t stop me from falling into a huge depression that was, in many ways, the result of me feeling like nobody except this one girl could ever love me because of how ugly I was.
1 x19DALTRON91x 2018-05-19
This post and the comments in support of it are fucking disgusting and you should feel ashamed of yourself.
1 ForceItInCider 2018-05-19
I don't.
1 x19DALTRON91x 2018-05-19
Because you’re a piece of shit.
1 ForceItInCider 2018-05-19
Ok?
1 100PERCENTREASONTORE 2018-05-19
Eh, you’re completely right that I personally wouldn’t notice your absence (how can I when I don’t even know you), suicide is nevertheless an extremely permanent solution to problems that are almost certainly not as permanent.
1 based_meme 2018-05-19
All jokes and memes aside, suicide illogical, you don't have all of the data at hand to determine if suicide would be the mathematically correct decision. There is potential future utility and happiness that is lost. Happiness has many sources. Think of your favourite foods, games, movies etc. Now realize that there will be more of those in the future.
Don't let the lack of some femoids in your life deprive you of the happiness you get from other things.
1 Aconserva3 2018-05-19
Jesus christ I never released how pathetic you people are until this post.
1 pimpdaddy_69 2018-05-19
exactly
its all self righteous nonsense
if people want to die its their choice
why do they care about you as soon as you say you're gonna kill your self but never bother to help you or care about you when you're alive?
they just need you around for their convenience as a wage slave or other use
1 Ji6S4W 2018-05-19
I've actually figured, if I rope, all the family members who fed me platitudes and victim-blamed me, and all this other shit, I'd write in my suicide note that they are NOT allowed at my funeral. My parents, uncles, aunts, etc.... If they didn't care about my problems when I was alive, they don't get to automatically give a shit when I am dead.
1 gnovos 2018-05-19
If you live in a big city somebody may be happy to have the apartment available.
1 allcel 2018-05-19
At this point they're probably a nuisance to her. I wouldn't be surprised if tinder filters out less successful males to make the tinder experience more inviting to women, when the entire success of the app is dependent on their presence.
1 Hotel_Oblivion 2018-05-19
Honestly, I have a very hard time believing the average poster here is that old. And if Incels.me is representative, the older end will be closer to mid-20s, with 30s and older being real outliers.
1 PanderjitSingh 2018-05-19
Bots. Russian bots.
1 Aconserva3 2018-05-19
Probably most of them late teens early twenties in reality, yeah. 90%+ wouldn’t be involuntary celibates if they just lost the attitude,
1 _neutral_username_ 2018-05-19
Why dont you go fuck yourself