one of the worst part of being incel is how touch starved you get.

110  2018-05-19 by Grand_boy

I have not felt the warmth of someone in such a long time, at least not of the opposite sex (And i don't even mean intimately since i have never had that). Every time I see people hugging or touching I try to ignore it cause it reminds me of how touch starved I am. Its insane that i feel this way. It gets even worse when i think about how it must feel to be intimate with someone and to feel there inner warmth. And how i will probably never come close to experiencing it without paying for it. It just shatters my emotional state into a sea of depression.

33 comments

1  supermentalcel 2018-05-19

i can remember all of the few times ive been touched by a woman in any way. i honestly cant imagine what it would be like to hug a woman you love each day and then hold hands. it makes me so sad

women would rather hug a touch-starved ugly dog from a shelter than an ugly male.

1  Grand_boy 2018-05-19

I once got to lie next to a female friend of mine when she was semi-drunk for a longish bit. It was legitimately one of the greatest moments of my life. And makes me feel pathetic that its the truth.

1  VodKA_1488 2018-05-19

Get a heated blanket, I put mine over a body pillow and cuddle it at night, with a bit of imagination it feels remotely similar to being alive

1  FuckYourselfUCunt 2018-05-19

Jesus fuck my dude is it really this bad

1  Master_of_Monsters 2018-05-19

Yes

1  SquiffyAbyss000 2018-05-19

Best feeling ever.

1  PanderjitSingh 2018-05-19

It’s wonderful until they turn... then the relationship can become the worst experience of your life.

1  allcel 2018-05-19

I've been hugged by a woman once, 3 years ago when she tried dating me for a single day. It was out of nowhere, and I honestly now think she was doing it out of pity. But at the time it was like an instant warm, accepted feeling, a hazy rush to my brain that made me feel more content with life than I ever had. I sometimes wish I didn't even know that feeling because it's what I think about a lot now, and I just hate myself for being too ugly for it. No wonder most people can find happiness in life, if that is a normal thing for them.

1  Grand_boy 2018-05-19

getting to hug a female that's actually willing to hug you is such a wonderful feeling.

1  shockinghillaryquote 2018-05-19

We're like that video of an abused dog being given love for the first time. Seen it? So sad. He cries and cries, but then he's happy.

1  Grand_boy 2018-05-19

That video crashed my heart. it reminded me of my self a bit but i buried those emotions

1  foreignincel4 2018-05-19

i always remember that video

1  ricoue 2018-05-19

link?

1  Mrplum 2018-05-19

https://youtu.be/h5XzGyjEkkc

1  ricoue 2018-05-19

Thanks, really touching. They named him Kanye lmao

1  random1234lol 2018-05-19

I have never hugged a girl before tbh (family doesn't count). It's over for touchstarvedcels.

1  Grand_boy 2018-05-19

I'm not gonna lie to you, it's a wonderful thing. It's sad that so many men are denied it every day.

1  -SpinxS 2018-05-19

no. i won't experience that.

1  chadthemadlad 2018-05-19

Just take a shower and get a new shirt bro. Also, lower your standards and make a female friend and y'all can cuddle.

1  Mr_StealYoGirl69 2018-05-19

go full monk.

1  ekg_three 2018-05-19

Exactly... yet I can't handle touch at all. Nothing flares up my anxiety as much as touch.

1  MightyMeket 2018-05-19

sounds gay af

1  hello_from_themoon 2018-05-19

go to a massage parlour and get a fullbody massage.

1  IncelsNeedLuvToo 2018-05-19

Have you tried looking into cuddle parties? They're very popular, in many cities and can be found with a simple online search. They're non-sexual and some have specific rules, but if you can abide, you can participate.

1  _neutral_username_ 2018-05-19

Cool suggestion

1  hirayama_ronin 2018-05-19

followed by two hours of freestyle cuddling where participants can practice saying yes and no to requests for touch.

Just go to a massage parlor so you don't have to deal with Yes Means No type feminists.

1  Gravel_Roads 2018-05-19

This is a brilliant suggestion. Cuddle parties are also safe places to be vulnerable and talk about struggles with finding intimacy. I’ve known a few people that went and they said it really helped relax them. Free touch and empathy in exchange for the same. (Just... y’know try not to talk about hating women or winning the Oppression Olympics. That kills the buzz in mixed company.)

1  An_Anonymous_Phaggot 2018-05-19

Of fuck off with that oppression Olympics bullshit. Your just saying that because you don't like it when an ugly make complains about his dating problems. Die in a house fire faggot

1  zZacharyChad 2018-05-19

Life is about more than vital, healing touch! LOL

1  NerdWerl 2018-05-19

I guess I'm anomaly then.

1  hirayama_ronin 2018-05-19

Its insane that i feel this way.

No it's not. Your society is malfunctioning and disordered.

You need to treat this like a medical issue.

Go to a proper massage place. It's worth it.

1  GuyFromDaStore 2018-05-19

I don't like to be touched unless its romantically. No massages, no strange doctors sticking fingers up my butt. Stay the fuck away.

1  millionairegrind 2018-05-19

Literally better than starving from food or dieing of a disease. All you fuckers gotta do is stop whining.

1  noodlewhores 2018-05-19

You aren't alone and the demand is high - there are actually women who provide non-sexual cuddling services.

https://www.cuddlecareconnections.com/

This woman wants 70 dollars an hour in Chadstralia.

1  Grand_boy 2018-05-19

That video crashed my heart. it reminded me of my self a bit but i buried those emotions

1  foreignincel4 2018-05-19

i always remember that video

1  ricoue 2018-05-19

link?