That's really not very unusual. More for girls, but almost every boy in school with me had at least a few girlfriends before college.

So, all the girls are lesbian in your HS. :thinking:

How the fuck does Shazoa's comment make sense then? The boys had girlfriends but the girls didn't have boyfriends?

Dude who do you think these girls are dating? Use your brain

The jocks! You think a percentage of women is dating an equal percentage of men? lol. No. Less men get more women. This is basic, undeniable stuff at this point.

it's really not, considering most men report having at least one relationship before college.

We aren't most men idiot thats why we're on this sub. Tits or gtfo

He's not talking about incels, Hess talking about average dudes. Try to keep up!

most men report

kek. What man do you know that's going to admit to being a loser without a girlfriend? I've lied about that countless times so as not to look pathetic.

Most men aren't pathetic enough to lie about something so small on an anonymous survey.

this insane belief that somehow all girls have boyfriends but no boys have girlfriends is one of the most amusing delusions of this sub

Yes, because single guys and girls never have sex. Hookups and ONS's don't exist.

this insane belief that somehow all girls have boyfriends but no boys have girlfriends

It takes a real asshat to assume that out of everything that's been said.

still doesn’t mean there’s an equal distribution.

Different schools might have different dynamics. In my high school there wasn’t much dating, at least in my grade. The grade below us seemed to have more couples, while our grade never liked each other and most chads preferred to date girls outside of my school. Girls still didn’t go for non chads, despite having no other option. They would rather stay single.

Maybe that's a cultural thing, but here in the UK I'm not joking when I say I can only think of around 4 people in our year that hadn't ever had a girlfriend when we left secondary school.

The couple of dudes I that had the most action were... less than attractive? Very 'funny' though. These days they're not so lucky and it's the real chads that are slaying but back in school that didn't seem to matter as much.

4 people in our year that hadn't ever had a girlfriend when we left secondary school.

Absolute sui fuel. Just off me.

Lol you've got no idea. Guys in my year were "dating" girls from the age of 12, and by the end of school the average guy had probably lost his virginity

When I was at highschool, most of the guys were virgins, except the jocks.

Though the opposite was the case for the girls. They all had multiple relationships with the jocks or jocks from different schools.

In the UK we leave school earlier so college is equivalent (I think) to the end of your high school.

Everyone in my friend group had lost their virginity by the end of college, and I (we) were bullied for being geeky at the start of school, or for looking 'a bit gay'.

We don't really have jocks in the same way either. Our school kind of had a football team but they rarely played and didn't usually have a full squad. There was one really athletic guy but he was a bit strange.

Society is different across the pond. A lot of men are virgins here in North America.

He's larping, most british men are virgins too

They really aren't, and they aren't in the US either - virgins are uncommon in adulthood.

I was fucking a 19yo when I was 30. The competition for girls 18+ is crazy when you consider the math.

Women don’t date younger men, so as women age the pool of potential men becomes smaller. It’s the main reason inceldome is so popular among younger men.

If you’re 23, the available women are 18 to 23 years old. If a woman is 23, the available men are 23 and up.

So you refuse to date a woman older than you? Let's say 1 to 5 years older, would that be unreasonable for you?

Fucking Autists always pop in to say the exception disproves the rule.

Every fucking time, I swear.

I'm not talking about exceptions, I'm just asking about your preference.

Jan’s I’m speaking in generalities. GTFO.

Oh, shit, it looks like there are a million guys competing after this girl and she's totally engrossed/involved with them and has one guy particularly in mind. Okay, I'll just not try with the next girl I like. Damn, her too, a million guys are trying to get at her and she has a certain one in mind she likes most. I guess I'll wait for the next one...

But very soon, you realize that this is how it is with EVERY single girl. Fierce competition between a million guys for her attention, and you literally have to be the best out of her current available options or you'll be batted off like the rest

18 year old girls only date 25+ which is why the market begins to favour men later on

Women are successful by default, a man has to forge himself.

Yes a woman is born with inherent reproductive value and beauty. Both of which fade. Men have to earn it. A life needs a womb to be conceived but the earth is still an unforgiving place. The men build that womb to continue protecting their family. A man with no house, muscles or weapons, no resources, is as valued by society as an old ugly woman with a hysterectomy. This dynamic has been complicated. Pushing women into the work force would be the equivalent of giving every single man a decent looking girlfriend or wife.

Nah, at the age of 15 I had my third gf too (with she until today with 21 yo). But at the same time, i won a competition of the ugliest guy in my classroom.

no you didnt

Sorry for you <3

dude lmao when i was 12 girls stopped counting

Between the ages of 15 and 20 I had 5 boyfriends and 2 girlfriends.

All but 2 were short term and it sucked tbh.

Thats Not very unusually. Most stacies are Like that

ropefuel, we all missed the best time to be in a relationship

Teenage years are a horrible time to be in a relationship

Yes. Teenage years is the ideal time for chad to pump and dump the entire school 12 times over, not relationships. I actually agree with you on that

Im in a teenage year, any advice?

Be handsome

So become redpilled and seek selfimprovment?

Yes, good luck bud. If it fails, do not be upset, you are not alone. I'm not trying to be like an MGTOW coping oldcel but I've recently noticed, there are many beautiful things in life, love may be one of them that is hard to obtain for reasons you/I cannot control, but that doesn't mean you should give up on life. Good luck ;)

Imo its a not a problem to get a gf for me, i just dont have the confidence I think, not sure tho :) one day ill be ready to go MGTOW, thanks!

It’s the only time in your life when you could expect to be on relatively equal footing with your prospective mate

Most likely either the girl you date is also a virgin or equally inexperienced. So you can discover and learn together. Not so if you’re a late bloomer trying to navigate the adult dating world

Im in a teenage year, any advice?

Best time to be in a relationship is long after high school imo

You get compliments?

GET THE FUCK OUT OF HERE FAKECEL

That's conservative nowadays for women. She could easily be riding a different cock every month.

I remember this happening because my native country's age of consent is 14 and it was extremely common for the prettiest girls in school were dating guys that were in College and sometimes even 30.

This was before Tinder, Instagram and even Smartphones so make it what you will.

A few years back, when I was still minimum wage-celing, trying to finish college, I had a crush on this girl at work. She was still in high school, but already 18. Being nice enough to actually talk to me, I found out a bit about here over the few months we worked together. I lost count of how many boyfriends she had had. I think it was at least 5. I know they weren't all "real" relationships, but she hadn't been single for more than a few weeks since she was like 12.

That's pretty common bro...sorry

Having a boyfriend doesn't mean she gets dick especially as a teenager.But not getting dick doesn't mean she doesn't have a boyfriend either.

And you are such an expert to know that statistic,judging from your post.

If your ignorance makes you feel better,so be it.

According to a study done by Durex in 37 countries,on average,people lose their virginty at ~17.So 17 to 20 is 3 years and getting 4 dicks in 3 years is reasonable.I'm just stating facts.

Why would they lie in an anonymous service?

It is different for everyone.

I just didn't want to discourage you even more,that's why I said that.But yeah,cope my friend.

"After 1-2 months of dating sex is guaranteed." Objectively false, sex is never guaranteed.

Ok "bro," it's almost not like every individual is different and wants different things out of a relationship. Maybe you incels would understand that if you had actually ever talked to a woman, or even befriended one lmfao

you're referring to a "friendship", a relationship is sexual by nature - any relationship that isnt predicated on the expectation that sex will occur isnt a genuine relationship.

If that is your foundation you will never build a house.

the foundation has to be the expectation for sex eventually otherwise youre just opening yourself up to exploitation. Ive vetted this concept through women and they agree when its said with a smile, if women get what they want without having sex with a guy for what purpose would they?

Sex is important for a relationship, but to throw companionship to the wayside is denying yourself the full experience. You need a balance for things to work

2 months is way too long. If it's gonna be a month the bitch better be a dime piece.

Incels talking about when sex happens in a relationship and how often. My god.

My one and only ex-girlfriend was 21 when we got together, and she already had 3 boyfriends. When we broke up, she got another one immediately.

But women can be lonely too, lel

too real, bro, too real.

Girls like this get thrown dick every second of their goddamn life

This subreddit is just hilarious

I can't disprove that. It's also true that men get less compliments than women, from either gender.

Still, I find the exaggeration funny, how it's worded.

In Italy it doesn't sound that impressive, at 19 people usually have had a lot more relationships that three, some of them just lasting a month or two. I don't know if it is different in the country you're from but here it's like that

ONLY 3?!

only 3, most girls where i live got pregnant by middle school or are thots

I’ve never heard of a place (in a developed nation) where most girls got pregnant in middle school

But yes girls do get pregnant in middle school. The youngest my mother ever heard of in the US was a 12 and a half year old girl getting knocked up in Washington, she had the baby at 13

This is totally common. Seems like a low number actually.

Dude, I had more than 3 girlfriends between 16 and 19 years of age. I didn't fuck any of them, but we fooled around in various ways. I'm not a football jock Chad stereotype. Maybe being in to theater helped, since there were way more girls than guys.

This isn't that unreasonable. And the people saying that even the Chads in their school didn't manage that are full of shit. They just weren't socially aware enough to comprehend what was happening.

Do you realize that most normies won'r even get a gf buy age 20 or 21.

Then how do most men lose their virginity at age 17?

If you think most guys aren't able to get the attention of a single woman during those years then you simply aren't socially aware enough to see what's going on around you.

Then how do the majority of men lose their virginity during that time?

And do you think that your experience is what everyone else experiences? I was friends with all the geekiest, nerdiest, bottom of the food chain types. Most of them didn't date in high school, but they all did fine once they got to college.

Pretty much everyone above that social level had some amount of success in high school, though.

So what are you doing to change that other than blaming your looks and blaming women for only wanting Chad?

I knew a girl that was 18 and had been with over 20 guys

Women I went to school with were losing their virginities at 12-14 and doing drugs/drinking

Huge blackpill for me

Fucking Autists always pop in to say the exception disproves the rule.

Every fucking time, I swear.

Jan’s I’m speaking in generalities. GTFO.

They really aren't, and they aren't in the US either - virgins are uncommon in adulthood.