Only if you want to chance getting stuck with a kid after a one-night stand, or pay more for rising costs of people having kids they can't afford. Birth control is good for economics.
I'm saying birth control makes healthcare costs go down by not supporting babies people can't afford. It's not just about personal responsibility, its economically sound.
Your taxes pay for the welfare system right now. If people have fewer kids, they're less likely to need welfare. It also drives down costs of medical procedures for risky pregnancies. Birth control puts more money in your pocket.
They should just keep their legs closed if they can't afford kids. I never consented to being taxed to pay for your birth control, your welfare, your kids. Its not my problem. You're not entitled to my money.
Sorry bro, you pay taxes, the money goes where it goes, to things you like such as roads and fire departments, and things you don't like welfare. People have sex all the time, have forever. Ignoring it with the idea, 'just don't do it!' is stupid and not based in reality. I'd rather my taxes pay for them a minor amount to not have kids than balloon at the cost of supporting whole families.
That's not how the system is set up though. You don't get to decide where your money goes apart from electing representatives who write the tax laws. Paying a little for everyone to have family planning versus paying for everyone to have a family should be a no brainer.
Funny how "keep your legs closed" is dumb, but when guys say they don't want to be a father yet and shouldn't have to pay child support over an accident, the go to response over child support being unfair is always "then maybe you should have kept your dick in your pants, fuckboy"
I don't have any reason to be a dick to somebody about their reproductive choices unless they are actively trying to give people STDs. People fuck up about fucking, men and women both, since the beginning of time.
Yet men are the ones who ultimately pay. They have no reproductive rights other than condoms or a vasectomy(which btw, married men need their spouse's signed permission to get).
How is it fair that if both parties make the mistake in protection, the man doesn't want to be a dad and doesnt want to be a part of the kids life, the woman has it anyway and forces the man to pay most of his paycheck to her for the next 18 years of his life. That's slavery. Most mothers dont spend the child support on their kids either.
We should not have to subsidize your degeneracy. No one is entitled to birth control. Besides, it only benefits females. Female swill continue to have all the rights but no responsibility.
Birth control only for females? Bro, how often do condoms fail? Like, 30-40% of the time. That's a lot of kids. It's good for everyone to have fewer accidental babies.
Condoms have a 75-90% effective rate if used 100% correctly. The pill/IUD/Depo shot is about 95-99% effective if used 100% correctly. Arm implant is 99%. 1% is still a few hundred to a few thousand kids.
Perfect use stats place it at around 90-95%. Real world/regular use drops that number. I.e. if you use it 100% correctly, yeah it's that level. If not, your risk increases. Lots of users, lots of room for error.
Efficacy for different forms of birth control typically isn't calculated based on each use. It's calculated based on a year.
So the 85% rate for the typical use of condoms means that 85% of people using condoms (sometimes imperfectly) will NOT have a pregnancy in a given year.
Never said anyone was, only that not having randos having babies and not working was better economically. I'll pay for people to not have kids that make everyone pay more. Until they rewrite the tax code, that's the best I can do.
If the pill is not prescribed as birth control though, but instead as for other issues, wouldn't it be covered by health insurance anyway, or the nominal prescription fee in countries with social healthcare?
Yes, if adoption laws were more lax, I’d adopt kids. More than one. Since that is not really an option, I give money to kids in need, that is the most I can do currently.
Also, very nice tactic of shaming me for masturbation, even if you have no idea what my views on that are. You’re a Great debater.
If contraception wasn’t availabe, people would think twice before engaging in sinful behaviour. And in an ideal world, adoption wouldn’t be this hard. I’m not even talking about me, adoption is really hard for couples too. I would ease that a lot. And in an ideal world, a lot more people would give to charity.
As for your second paragraph, that doesn’t even deserve an answer, I’m just going to ignore it, and treat you like a equal partner in dispute despite you not doing the same for me.
I have had sex in the past. I think it wasn’t right for me to do it.
Let me give you an example. We both agree that robbery is a crime. Is it the same as murder? Of course not, but both are crimes. Same way, in my opinion, sex outside of marriage is a sin, like murder. Not the same, but still a sin. We might disagree in it being a sin, but saying that if you are naturally capable of doing something then it isn’t a sin or a crime is foolish.
Well if you disagree with war, then exercise your right to free speech and speak out against it. Just like I speak out against degeneracy.
Also, God doesn’t really judge. You can decide whether you want to sever your relationship with God or not. If you want to sever it, you’re free to do it. The only consequence is that you will live without God. If you prefer that, that is your choice.
The majority benefits that is undeniable. Literally no one aside from victims of rape actually need these services and if they find themselves in need of them they should receive them from the emergency services, not from public institutions.
It is utterly unfair that incels like me have to pay taxes that subsidise those vastly luckier than ourselves.
Excuse me for not enjoying shelling out money from the public purse so other people can have fun.
And yes. It is life. Life is unfair. So fucking what? Is that what you do whenever you see something you think is unfair? Just go "oh well that's life and life is unfair"?
Public education benefits us all. Healthcare benefits us all. Sexual spending benefits some people in ways they don't need.
It's not to.allow people to have sex, it's to allow them to not get pregnant when they unavoidedly do because MEN are pressuring them to have sex. You have no idea how good you incels have it because no one is going you to have sex with them and no one is ruining your life.
And by the way, it takes a MAN and a woman to conceive a child so everytime a contraceptive pill is used for contraception it benefits an equal amount of MEN and women.
Imagine being born a white femoid in a western country living in this day and age. Life’s so easy yet you’ve still failed so bad and you have to resort to trolling incels because they didn’t take your “advice”? Are you really not better than this, pinkgoldrose? I know that you think that you are superior to us but you should reconsider that.
Are you not a white male? And why are you so obsessed with hierarchy and status? I never "thought I was superior to you" and I don't share your obsession with "top 20%" and "bottom 20%" and who is the "superior" person.
I couldn't say no when I was 18 and dating the guy for some months. There were no couples not having sex, I didn't know I could choose, and I didn't know my worth and that I could have left the guy if he was pressuring me.
You guys complain that you've been raised to be too nice to girls and it makes you a failure, but you forget that women are raised to be too nice to guys. We're raised to think it's their sexuality that matters over ours, that sex is to be had when they want it, that they are owed sex.
Not true. The man i couldn't say no to was worse in many ways than the incels here.
He was 18 years old, 5'5, he was chubby (180?), he hadn't done any sport growing up and he had never visited a gym, all he did was go to school and get mediocre results, he actually failed his science classes while I knew him and I started dating him after that. His hobbies included playing xbox, watching anime and smoking weed. He was very shy and gentle in behavior, like not looking strangers in the eye and being really weird around my parents. He wasn't sexist, he wasn't mysogynistic, he was sweet to his parents and to small animals. Also, he came from a poor family, he was raised by a single mom because his dad was in prison. He had no money, no ambition or future for himself.
In contrast I was on 2 sports teams, top of the school, and I came from a rich family. I was the fittest, smartest, richest person around (granted I should have gotten out of there to find people smarter, fitter and richer than me to push myself but I was clueless about my qualities and so i had no idea where i belonged) and I still couldn't say no to that guy.
Incels have it very easy. If i couldn't say no to that guy it proves i was raised to not say no to any guy.
Fuck off with that Chad bullshit.
He was 18 years old, 5'5, he was chubby (180?), he hadn't done any sport growing up and he had never visited a gym, all he did was go to school and get mediocre results, he actually failed his science classes while I knew him and I started dating him after that. His hobbies included playing xbox, watching anime and smoking weed.
How did you find IncelTears top poster so many years ago?
If i couldn't say no to that guy it proves i was raised to not say no to any guy.
Maybe it proves that you were raised that way. It doesn't prove most women were raised that way. You may be the exception to the rule. Most other women share your people-pleasing deference when it comes to Chad, but take great pleasure in rejecting incels and losers.
Proof? Look at how many nos the guys on this and the other pill subs have collective had. Guys hear no to sex all the time.
I thought you just weren't trying anymore because you're depressed, or were avoiding men due to depression and anxiety. If you used OLD, you would have a much better rate of matches and potential dates than an incel.
I bet I've had more rejections than you. I'm way past the point where TheRedPill would turn to TheRohypnolPill to hold frame past LMR.
Yeah my rejections were in real life + not getting a second date after going on a first date with guys I met online or in person, but that's also in real life.
I don't think an online rejection counts to be honest. A left swipe is nothing, a ghosting can be they just forgot.
It's very hard for an incel to ever get a right swipe though. 1 in 1000 lol. That's not just nothing or they just forgot.
not getting a second date after going on a first date
That's just part of dating though. You're not always compatible with everyone. At least if you get a first date there's an opportunity to get to know each other and see if anything is there. I would consider a first date a success.
I have had hundreds (maybe even over a thousand?) IRL rejections that never even got up to first dates because they were too repulsed by me first.
This is why it makes me so frustrated hearing women accuse us of having too high standards, not trying hard enough, or that women are even more alone.
Yeah, it sucks when you can't find a meaningful connection, true love, just shallow connections. But truecels can't find shallow connections or meaningful ones.
When I said I haven't met an incel who's been rejected by several women, it's because I talked to some and asked around. But you're saying you asked out women and none said yes so that's bad yeah.
Because they think they know they are trucel so it's not even worth trying. They think they know they'd only get no's. They might be right but it's kind of like Shrodingder's cat.
There are a lot of important things that don’t need to be done right now this instant, correct? I’m just really not getting how you could possibly believe you had to do everything a guy said
All I'm saying is that they never told us "if you don't want to have sex with him you can just say no and if he's not okay with that you can just walk away, it's okay to not want to have sex, you shouldn't have sex if you don't want to".
It sounds self-evident for you because you're a man, so if you don't want to have sex with a girl, you don't, but women are socialized to lay down and take the dick.
It sounds to me like you have very low self esteem so I can relate to that. How old are you? The concept of consent has been around for my whole lifetime
Are you facially deformed or something like that? Your story sounds like some slacker's wet dream. I went come from a wealthy background as well, went to business school, have been a promising tennis talent, 6'1 tall and lean. Doesn't do shit for me.
Are you? Because you're tall, athletic and rich, women should be fighting each other to be with you. Like I said, I dated chubby short unemployed sedentary socially reclusive low achievers from non wealthy backgrounds, so I don't know what you could be doing wrong. The bar is low.
I'm not facially deformed, but I have the wrong shape all over. For men all you have to do is be athletic to have the ideal male body. Athleticism is what is considered attractive for men. I was athletic, but I had a rather manly shape, so that made me an ugly woman, along with my ugly (but not deformed) face and my abundance of freckles.
Your story sounds like some slacker's wet dream.
Even slackers dream of perfect bubbly feminine hot-bodied angel-faced softly-curved Stacies, they aren't going to be happy just because they got a Becky with the wrong proportions. Men really don't have to do anything nor to possess any qualities to be loved by women. Men's love for women however is correlated to how pretty she is.
Please don't. Birth control is a misnomer. It should be called a regulatory aide if anything. Until I got migraines and couldn't take it any longer I used it for the following reason: not to have a period. That's it. It let me focus on school and work and pop Advil if it was bad cramps that still happened but never the life halting unstoppable rush of blood and pain that happens for five days off the pill.
It helps prevent various health issues and most women actually don't take it for birth control because we know it's actually almost zero percent effective for that purpose. It has a failure rate. You get warned to remember ONLY abstinence prevents pregnancy when you go for your first consultation.
It also has nasty side effects but it's worth it for avoiding the natural ones.
And plenty of us have never been "active" and just use it to go about our lives.
Yea you’re not entitled to have a migraine free life. Just like incels are not entitled to have sex. Sorry lass, that’s just life, try to get the best out of it :)
Oh I do, frankly I'm trying to figure out the incel thing still because I'm curious. I've never had an interest in sex or dating so the idea of incel has me honestly trying to comprehend it. Overall the take I've gotten so far from this sub is I may need to try and set up people with each other way more than I ever realized..
1, I was just kidding, in an ideal world, we all have someone who we can share our lives with, or if we don’t want that, we don’t. And also we get medication for what our problems are.
2, Setting up incels with someone doesn’t work because incels are ugly, and the most they can hope for is meeting a woman whose mind is temporarily not in the right place. Women are naturally disgusted by ugly men.
I was put on the pill at 12 for heavy periods. At 14 I was put on them again for ovarian cysts. At 18 I was put on them again because I had a job that didn’t allow me to use the bathroom every hour.
I don’t like medicine. I don’t like knowing drugs are affecting my body. Yet three times I have been put on birth control for three reasons other than to prevent pregnancy.
Lol no, I was put on birth control for having cramps so excruciating I vomited often and missed school because I couldn’t walk. I started by taking pain medicine, but found myself getting dependent and my tolerance increasing so I switched to birth control and it was life changing.
Don't worry guys, you're also getting the benefit of the pill being free by having your hormones absolutely fucked when it's pissed into the water supply.
Why is it my problem that women can’t afford their kids and birth control? Maybe they should have settled down with a steady provider to handle these expenses instead of getting dicked down by poverty Chad’s and Tyrone’s.
thats never going to work just because you dont get sex doesnt mean other people will stop bc you yell at them to, thats never been a thing, people enjoy sex and if society doesnt want a bunch of welfare babies to support there needs to be birth control.
honestly whats more cost effective - birth control or child support for millions of babies?
it makes me really satisfied that you are so frustrated and angry, I think its fitting you are an incel as these are the thoughts you have. I am comforted by the fact that you will never get to touch a woman. Cunt.
I couldn't say no when I was 18 and dating the guy for some months. There were no couples not having sex, I didn't know I could choose, and I didn't know my worth and that I could have left the guy if he was pressuring me.
You guys complain that you've been raised to be too nice to girls and it makes you a failure, but you forget that women are raised to be too nice to guys. We're raised to think it's their sexuality that matters over ours, that sex is to be had when they want it, that they are owed sex.
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1 GymcellingisCope1 2018-05-16
This. Women are not entitled to free birth control.
1 Duracel_Battery 2018-05-16
They are in a country that allows it.
1 ap018734 2018-05-16
The point is that OP believes they shouldn't be entitled to it, that the laws allowing this entitlement should be revoked.
1 Duracel_Battery 2018-05-16
Oh really?
1 trevmon 2018-05-16
is your name because you keep going and going with the numale cuckoldry
1 Duracel_Battery 2018-05-16
My name is what ever you want it to mean, daddy.
1 pinkgoldrose 2018-05-16
Reproduction takes a man and a woman so contraception benefits an equal number of men and women every time.
1 ImGonnaSayTheN-Word 2018-05-16
What about when Chad is having his 10some?
1 pinkgoldrose 2018-05-16
I guess Chad gets ten times the benefit of contraception then.
1 JJarvs 2018-05-16
Chad is already worth 10x genetic trash like me
1 EntroPete 2018-05-16
That's very true.
Why don't men get free condoms then?
1 Starscream-and-Hutch 2018-05-16
Ever been to a planned parenthood, jackass? Loads of free condoms, as far as the eye can see.
1 TommyNobility 2018-05-16
You do realize where you’re asking this question, yes?
1 cockmasterzzzzz 2018-05-16
Do they have those outside of the US?
1 EntroPete 2018-05-16
I live in Germany, so no, I haven't. I assumed it was only for women because I've never seen it mentioned to have condoms too.
1 TreesnCats 2018-05-16
Very polite, my country definitely has planned parenthood.
1 Inloveforever 2018-05-16
Uhhh.. yes they do.
1 pinkgoldrose 2018-05-16
They do...
1 Hopecel 2018-05-16
One man can impregnate thousands of women but a woman can only get impregnated by one man.
1 chillenyo2 2018-05-16
Not when men get no say in what happens idiot
1 changeIsTheWay 2018-05-16
Sure, condoms etc shouldn't be handed out either by the state in high schools.
1 Starscream-and-Hutch 2018-05-16
No. They should get free birth control. End of story.
1 changeIsTheWay 2018-05-16
Yeah we should
1 SSTralala 2018-05-16
Only if you want to chance getting stuck with a kid after a one-night stand, or pay more for rising costs of people having kids they can't afford. Birth control is good for economics.
1 Incelvester 2018-05-16
None of us are having one night stands, we shouldn't have to pay for other peoples bad decisions.
You're not entitled to free birth control, if you don't want to get pregnant, just keep your legs closed.
1 SSTralala 2018-05-16
I'm saying birth control makes healthcare costs go down by not supporting babies people can't afford. It's not just about personal responsibility, its economically sound.
1 Incelvester 2018-05-16
We shouldn't have to support them either. They made their bed, they have to sleep in it. I live in Connecticut, I'm overtaxed already.
1 SSTralala 2018-05-16
Your taxes pay for the welfare system right now. If people have fewer kids, they're less likely to need welfare. It also drives down costs of medical procedures for risky pregnancies. Birth control puts more money in your pocket.
1 Incelvester 2018-05-16
They should just keep their legs closed if they can't afford kids. I never consented to being taxed to pay for your birth control, your welfare, your kids. Its not my problem. You're not entitled to my money.
1 SSTralala 2018-05-16
Sorry bro, you pay taxes, the money goes where it goes, to things you like such as roads and fire departments, and things you don't like welfare. People have sex all the time, have forever. Ignoring it with the idea, 'just don't do it!' is stupid and not based in reality. I'd rather my taxes pay for them a minor amount to not have kids than balloon at the cost of supporting whole families.
1 changeIsTheWay 2018-05-16
Neither should be covered medically. They should pay for it. They are adults.
1 SSTralala 2018-05-16
That's not how the system is set up though. You don't get to decide where your money goes apart from electing representatives who write the tax laws. Paying a little for everyone to have family planning versus paying for everyone to have a family should be a no brainer.
1 changeIsTheWay 2018-05-16
I don’t care. They choose to have families.
The government should fund intense research for future plastic surgery tech then.
1 The_Real_Cannaman 2018-05-16
They should
1 changeIsTheWay 2018-05-16
Yup.
1 Incelvester 2018-05-16
Funny how "keep your legs closed" is dumb, but when guys say they don't want to be a father yet and shouldn't have to pay child support over an accident, the go to response over child support being unfair is always "then maybe you should have kept your dick in your pants, fuckboy"
Willing to bet you yourself have said this.
1 SSTralala 2018-05-16
I've never said that in my life. I've said, "Well shit, that sucks." Guys and girls share equal responsibility for safe sex.
1 Incelvester 2018-05-16
(X) - Doubt
1 SSTralala 2018-05-16
I don't have any reason to be a dick to somebody about their reproductive choices unless they are actively trying to give people STDs. People fuck up about fucking, men and women both, since the beginning of time.
1 Incelvester 2018-05-16
Yet men are the ones who ultimately pay. They have no reproductive rights other than condoms or a vasectomy(which btw, married men need their spouse's signed permission to get).
How is it fair that if both parties make the mistake in protection, the man doesn't want to be a dad and doesnt want to be a part of the kids life, the woman has it anyway and forces the man to pay most of his paycheck to her for the next 18 years of his life. That's slavery. Most mothers dont spend the child support on their kids either.
1 The_Real_Cannaman 2018-05-16
Then i'm entitled to monthly free 1hour sex with a prostitute
1 SSTralala 2018-05-16
That's not remotely the same thing.
1 The_Real_Cannaman 2018-05-16
Yeah but men fuck coz of genetics, and we have laws to equalize nature's inequality. That is way i'm right
1 waffleflavouredfloss 2018-05-16
you taxes pay mostly for corporate subsidies maybe you should be more angry about something that actually matters
1 Incelvester 2018-05-16
Like angry virgins saying mean things about women on an obscure subreddit?
1 striaghtWHITEmale 2018-05-16
Amen
1 ShinJoe 2018-05-16
We should not have to subsidize your degeneracy. No one is entitled to birth control. Besides, it only benefits females. Female swill continue to have all the rights but no responsibility.
1 SSTralala 2018-05-16
Birth control only for females? Bro, how often do condoms fail? Like, 30-40% of the time. That's a lot of kids. It's good for everyone to have fewer accidental babies.
1 changeIsTheWay 2018-05-16
It fails like 10% of the time. But plan B reduces that.
1 SSTralala 2018-05-16
Condoms have a 75-90% effective rate if used 100% correctly. The pill/IUD/Depo shot is about 95-99% effective if used 100% correctly. Arm implant is 99%. 1% is still a few hundred to a few thousand kids.
1 changeIsTheWay 2018-05-16
Ok
1 CountyMcCounterson 2018-05-16
Oh sweetie, condoms are 98% effective, you're just too stupid to use them correctly.
If you are breaking condoms 50% of the time then I hope you aren't driving a car jesus christ I bet you crash daily.
1 SSTralala 2018-05-16
That statistic is only if they're used 100% correctly. Normal use drops that number. SWEETIE.
1 SSTralala 2018-05-16
https://www.cyclebeads.com/blog/673/birth-control-effectiveness_how-risky-is-your-birth-control
Read. Learn something.
1 cockmasterzzzzz 2018-05-16
Lol if 75% is true then people who have sex 10 times with a condom the chance they would have at least one pregnancy is 94%. Stop being retarded.
1 SSTralala 2018-05-16
Perfect use stats place it at around 90-95%. Real world/regular use drops that number. I.e. if you use it 100% correctly, yeah it's that level. If not, your risk increases. Lots of users, lots of room for error.
1 cockmasterzzzzz 2018-05-16
Planned parenthood and webmd say 98%, what source did you use for 90-95%?
1 SSTralala 2018-05-16
http://www.arhp.org/Publications-and-Resources/Quick-Reference-Guide-for-Clinicians/choosing/failure-rates-table
An 18% failure rate for male condoms, so my number was high. It's more like 82%
1 bungo_baggins 2018-05-16
Efficacy for different forms of birth control typically isn't calculated based on each use. It's calculated based on a year.
So the 85% rate for the typical use of condoms means that 85% of people using condoms (sometimes imperfectly) will NOT have a pregnancy in a given year.
1 midget_gemski 2018-05-16
Well, it benefits females and sexually actively males.
It doesn’t benefit you though, does it?
1 lonely_suicidal_cel 2018-05-16
You aren't entitled to that though
1 SSTralala 2018-05-16
Never said anyone was, only that not having randos having babies and not working was better economically. I'll pay for people to not have kids that make everyone pay more. Until they rewrite the tax code, that's the best I can do.
1 changeIsTheWay 2018-05-16
I don’t care about economics. Let the world burn.
1 IncelSlayerZero 2018-05-16
I can pay for all that, though.
1 Duracel_Battery 2018-05-16
Move to a different country, or try to elect a government that will change the law.
1 trevmon 2018-05-16
nah let's stay here and continue using free speech to criticize degeneracy
1 Duracel_Battery 2018-05-16
Ok. See how far that gets you.
1 MagratM 2018-05-16
If you're just talking about the Pill, it's used for more things than just birth control.
If not, then you can take the viagra out of the equation as well, since that also comes government funded.
1 chadbhava 2018-05-16
JFL viagra is literally blue pill
1 The_Real_Cannaman 2018-05-16
True
1 changeIsTheWay 2018-05-16
Sure viagra too
1 MagratM 2018-05-16
So what about the use of the pill for other conditions? Could they just re-market it for those conditions with temporary sterility as a side-effect?
1 changeIsTheWay 2018-05-16
Maybe
1 MagratM 2018-05-16
Still getting birth control then.
1 cockmasterzzzzz 2018-05-16
Then a doctor prescribes them the pills for that condition. That's how it works.
1 MagratM 2018-05-16
OK, so the doctor can prescribe them the pill for their condition. Fab.
1 cockmasterzzzzz 2018-05-16
Yeah I just said that.
1 MagratM 2018-05-16
I was just double checking, because I discussed it with someone else earlier and we came to that conclusion too
1 CountyMcCounterson 2018-05-16
Viagra isn't birth control sweetie
1 MagratM 2018-05-16
From the title. If sex isn't important then viagra is unnecessary. Honeybunch.
1 IncelSlayerZero 2018-05-16
Sure. I can buy it if I want. You know, because I'm a man who's expected to cover everything out of my own pocket, unlike ahem some people.
1 MagratM 2018-05-16
If the pill is not prescribed as birth control though, but instead as for other issues, wouldn't it be covered by health insurance anyway, or the nominal prescription fee in countries with social healthcare?
1 chillenyo2 2018-05-16
good point. to increase taking responsibility birth control should be very expensive
1 MagratM 2018-05-16
And it won't change a thing in the short term other than to add to an already overburdened welfare system with the extra kids.
1 CountyMcCounterson 2018-05-16
Why would offal qualify for welfare?
1 MagratM 2018-05-16
Because children already get benefits paid to their parents.
1 theemperorhirohito 2018-05-16
My university used to spend thousands of pounds every year on sexual health clinics, free condoms and "mental health" counsellors.
Utter dross all of it.
1 midget_gemski 2018-05-16
Those who will never benefit from contraception and sexual health centres will never see them as important.
1 theemperorhirohito 2018-05-16
Well of course not. Why should the public coffers subsidise something people don't actually need?
1 midget_gemski 2018-05-16
Correction:
Something that YOU don’t need.
Condoms: needed for protection against STIs and pregnancy.
Birth control: needed to prevent pregnancy and to treat and ease the symptoms of other health complaints.
Sexual Health centres: Needed to treat STIs, prescribe birth control, test of for cancers, deal with unwanted pregnancies and to offer information.
Sexual health counselling: needed to help those who have suffered sexual abuse and for those who have unhealthy perceptions of the opposite sex.
These ‘unnecessary’ things are good for public health, autonomy, mental wellbeing and the economy.
The vast majority of the population benefits from these services and should never be revoked because a small minority can’t get laid.
1 Idk12344482305 2018-05-16
No one benefits from birth control. It only promotes degeneracy.
1 midget_gemski 2018-05-16
You offering to adopt some unwanted kids then?
Are you gonna say that to the women who use contraceptives to ease Polycystic ovary syndrome?
Just because you’re celibate doesn’t mean everyone else should be.
Finally, I’d stop typing silly responses if I were you, you need to save your hand’s energy for all that wanking you have to do.
1 Idk12344482305 2018-05-16
Yes, if adoption laws were more lax, I’d adopt kids. More than one. Since that is not really an option, I give money to kids in need, that is the most I can do currently.
Also, very nice tactic of shaming me for masturbation, even if you have no idea what my views on that are. You’re a Great debater.
1 midget_gemski 2018-05-16
So you think it’s okay, that if contraception wasn’t available, for more children to be living reliant upon charitable donations?
Of course I shamed you, you’re shaming women for using contraception. With your views, you should never consider adopting.
1 Idk12344482305 2018-05-16
If contraception wasn’t availabe, people would think twice before engaging in sinful behaviour. And in an ideal world, adoption wouldn’t be this hard. I’m not even talking about me, adoption is really hard for couples too. I would ease that a lot. And in an ideal world, a lot more people would give to charity.
As for your second paragraph, that doesn’t even deserve an answer, I’m just going to ignore it, and treat you like a equal partner in dispute despite you not doing the same for me.
1 midget_gemski 2018-05-16
Sexual activity is not immoral or sinful.
Adoption is hard to protect children.
In an ideal world there wouldn’t be a need for charity.
1 Idk12344482305 2018-05-16
Sexual activity outside of marriage is sinful and immoral.
Yet no one is vetting couples who have children naturally.
True. I’m talking about something that is achievable.
1 midget_gemski 2018-05-16
Well, I guess we are all going to hell for doing that thing our bodies are designed to do.
Oh well.
1 Idk12344482305 2018-05-16
Your body is also capable of killing. Is it also ok to do that?
Just because you can do something doesn’t mean that it’s not immoral or sinful.
1 midget_gemski 2018-05-16
Comparing sex to murder is a moot point.
1 Idk12344482305 2018-05-16
I’m sorry you’re incapable of forming coherent thoughts.
1 midget_gemski 2018-05-16
You are literally suggesting that sex is on par with murder.
Think about what you are saying.
If you were capable of not hating women, then sex my be possible for you AND you actually not equate sex with murder.
1 Idk12344482305 2018-05-16
I have had sex in the past. I think it wasn’t right for me to do it.
Let me give you an example. We both agree that robbery is a crime. Is it the same as murder? Of course not, but both are crimes. Same way, in my opinion, sex outside of marriage is a sin, like murder. Not the same, but still a sin. We might disagree in it being a sin, but saying that if you are naturally capable of doing something then it isn’t a sin or a crime is foolish.
1 midget_gemski 2018-05-16
You’re still comparing sex with murder.
You are comparing sex with murder.
Solution: you think sex outside of marriage is sin, so don’t do it then. But don’t get pissy at the thought of others having a bloody good time.
Also, define sin
1 Idk12344482305 2018-05-16
Sin is a crime that is destroys your healthy relationship with God and other people. It’s not a legal, but a religious term.
People can have sex outside of marriage. But why should my tax forints fund their adventures when I think their actions are sinful?
1 midget_gemski 2018-05-16
You live in fear of God’s judgement, that’s not a healthy relationship.
I disagree with war, yet my taxes pay for the army. Am I whinging? No, because I understand those taxes go towards the benefit of society...
You know, because the picture is bigger than my beliefs.
Suck it up and deal with it.
1 Idk12344482305 2018-05-16
Well if you disagree with war, then exercise your right to free speech and speak out against it. Just like I speak out against degeneracy.
Also, God doesn’t really judge. You can decide whether you want to sever your relationship with God or not. If you want to sever it, you’re free to do it. The only consequence is that you will live without God. If you prefer that, that is your choice.
1 midget_gemski 2018-05-16
Degeneracy in the context of consensual sex between adults doesn’t exist.
1 Idk12344482305 2018-05-16
That type of sentence is usually followed by saying why.
1 midget_gemski 2018-05-16
No, it’s not.
1 Idk12344482305 2018-05-16
I’m sorry I assumed you were capable of intelligent debate.
I will refrain from responding to you from now on. Have a nice day, and I hope you will find happiness.
1 midget_gemski 2018-05-16
YOU COMPARED SEX TO MURDER!
1 Idk12344482305 2018-05-16
I’m breaking my promise to say this:
You have a cute dog.
1 midget_gemski 2018-05-16
I know, she’s the best.
1 TurboTrashman 2018-05-16
Does this qualify as virgin shaming?
1 midget_gemski 2018-05-16
No, it qualifies as wanker shaming
1 cockmasterzzzzz 2018-05-16
They can get it prescribed by a doctor for medical conditions obviously. Nobody's saying the pill needs to be banned 100%.
1 DoshLaunderSpic 2018-05-16
Enjoy your ban
1 midget_gemski 2018-05-16
Oh no, banned from celibate, woman hating club...
Oh no.
Hey guys, guess what?
I’m having sex tonight, maybe twice.
1 theemperorhirohito 2018-05-16
The majority benefits that is undeniable. Literally no one aside from victims of rape actually need these services and if they find themselves in need of them they should receive them from the emergency services, not from public institutions.
It is utterly unfair that incels like me have to pay taxes that subsidise those vastly luckier than ourselves.
1 midget_gemski 2018-05-16
Emergency services are public institutions.
Unless you live in the USA of course, then it’s private...but a rape victim shouldn’t be expected to be burdened with paying for their treatment.
It’s not unfair, it’s life. We all pay taxes for things we don’t all benefit from, but we do so for the benefit of society as a whole.
Seriously, do you guys ever fail to find new things to whinge about because you’re celibate?
1 theemperorhirohito 2018-05-16
Excuse me for not enjoying shelling out money from the public purse so other people can have fun.
And yes. It is life. Life is unfair. So fucking what? Is that what you do whenever you see something you think is unfair? Just go "oh well that's life and life is unfair"?
Public education benefits us all. Healthcare benefits us all. Sexual spending benefits some people in ways they don't need.
1 midget_gemski 2018-05-16
We all benefit from good sexual health services...
Some more than others, but still.
1 theemperorhirohito 2018-05-16
No. Some benefit from it immensely some actually are harmed by it. No one on this sub has even come close to benefitting from it.
1 ap018734 2018-05-16
Why can't the people who use thsee services pay for them? Why me?
1 waffleflavouredfloss 2018-05-16
https://i.pinimg.com/originals/17/61/45/1761454bd1f948465e4df420abfe2fe8.jpg
almost the same reason for birth control as i dont want to have to support a bunch of welfare babies which is much more expensive.
1 waffleflavouredfloss 2018-05-16
https://i.pinimg.com/originals/17/61/45/1761454bd1f948465e4df420abfe2fe8.jpg
almost the same reason for birth control as i dont want to have to support a bunch of welfare babies which is much more expensive.
1 pinkgoldrose 2018-05-16
It's not to.allow people to have sex, it's to allow them to not get pregnant when they unavoidedly do because MEN are pressuring them to have sex. You have no idea how good you incels have it because no one is going you to have sex with them and no one is ruining your life.
And by the way, it takes a MAN and a woman to conceive a child so everytime a contraceptive pill is used for contraception it benefits an equal amount of MEN and women.
1 niveasoftt 2018-05-16
you are not entitled to birth control
1 IncelSlayerZero 2018-05-16
It's all the men's fault eh? Sack up and pay for your own shit. Y'all are empowered now, go make that money.
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1 Hopecel 2018-05-16
Imagine being born a white femoid in a western country living in this day and age. Life’s so easy yet you’ve still failed so bad and you have to resort to trolling incels because they didn’t take your “advice”? Are you really not better than this, pinkgoldrose? I know that you think that you are superior to us but you should reconsider that.
1 pinkgoldrose 2018-05-16
Are you not a white male? And why are you so obsessed with hierarchy and status? I never "thought I was superior to you" and I don't share your obsession with "top 20%" and "bottom 20%" and who is the "superior" person.
1 changeIsTheWay 2018-05-16
You fucking dipshit. WOMEN also LOVE having sex. They all aren't pinkgoldrose. Women can be horny and enjoy sex. They aren't all asexuals like you.
You literally are one of the most dense, self centered cunt out there.
1 NetscapeNavigator9 2018-05-16
Guess what you can do if a man pressures you into sex? Say no.
1 pinkgoldrose 2018-05-16
I couldn't say no when I was 18 and dating the guy for some months. There were no couples not having sex, I didn't know I could choose, and I didn't know my worth and that I could have left the guy if he was pressuring me.
You guys complain that you've been raised to be too nice to girls and it makes you a failure, but you forget that women are raised to be too nice to guys. We're raised to think it's their sexuality that matters over ours, that sex is to be had when they want it, that they are owed sex.
1 PhucCheet 2018-05-16
Funny how women are raised to be too nice and think sex is to be had when men want it, but have NO problem saying no to incels 100% of the time.
Really what you mean is you were raised to never say no to Chad. Women love saying no to incels, nerds, niceguys, betas, etc.
1 pinkgoldrose 2018-05-16
Not true. The man i couldn't say no to was worse in many ways than the incels here.
He was 18 years old, 5'5, he was chubby (180?), he hadn't done any sport growing up and he had never visited a gym, all he did was go to school and get mediocre results, he actually failed his science classes while I knew him and I started dating him after that. His hobbies included playing xbox, watching anime and smoking weed. He was very shy and gentle in behavior, like not looking strangers in the eye and being really weird around my parents. He wasn't sexist, he wasn't mysogynistic, he was sweet to his parents and to small animals. Also, he came from a poor family, he was raised by a single mom because his dad was in prison. He had no money, no ambition or future for himself.
In contrast I was on 2 sports teams, top of the school, and I came from a rich family. I was the fittest, smartest, richest person around (granted I should have gotten out of there to find people smarter, fitter and richer than me to push myself but I was clueless about my qualities and so i had no idea where i belonged) and I still couldn't say no to that guy.
Incels have it very easy. If i couldn't say no to that guy it proves i was raised to not say no to any guy. Fuck off with that Chad bullshit.
1 PhucCheet 2018-05-16
How did you find IncelTears top poster so many years ago?
Maybe it proves that you were raised that way. It doesn't prove most women were raised that way. You may be the exception to the rule. Most other women share your people-pleasing deference when it comes to Chad, but take great pleasure in rejecting incels and losers.
Proof? Look at how many nos the guys on this and the other pill subs have collective had. Guys hear no to sex all the time.
1 pinkgoldrose 2018-05-16
Funny you mention that because I've had more rejections than any incel i know.
1 PhucCheet 2018-05-16
I thought you just weren't trying anymore because you're depressed, or were avoiding men due to depression and anxiety. If you used OLD, you would have a much better rate of matches and potential dates than an incel.
I bet I've had more rejections than you. I'm way past the point where TheRedPill would turn to TheRohypnolPill to hold frame past LMR.
1 pinkgoldrose 2018-05-16
Yeah my rejections were in real life + not getting a second date after going on a first date with guys I met online or in person, but that's also in real life.
I don't think an online rejection counts to be honest. A left swipe is nothing, a ghosting can be they just forgot.
1 PhucCheet 2018-05-16
It's very hard for an incel to ever get a right swipe though. 1 in 1000 lol. That's not just nothing or they just forgot.
That's just part of dating though. You're not always compatible with everyone. At least if you get a first date there's an opportunity to get to know each other and see if anything is there. I would consider a first date a success.
I have had hundreds (maybe even over a thousand?) IRL rejections that never even got up to first dates because they were too repulsed by me first.
1 pinkgoldrose 2018-05-16
You're a trucel. Respect.
1 PhucCheet 2018-05-16
This is why it makes me so frustrated hearing women accuse us of having too high standards, not trying hard enough, or that women are even more alone.
Yeah, it sucks when you can't find a meaningful connection, true love, just shallow connections. But truecels can't find shallow connections or meaningful ones.
1 pinkgoldrose 2018-05-16
When I said I haven't met an incel who's been rejected by several women, it's because I talked to some and asked around. But you're saying you asked out women and none said yes so that's bad yeah.
1 PhucCheet 2018-05-16
Which ones never even asked any women? How would they know lol? Fakecels
1 pinkgoldrose 2018-05-16
Because they think they know they are trucel so it's not even worth trying. They think they know they'd only get no's. They might be right but it's kind of like Shrodingder's cat.
1 PhucCheet 2018-05-16
Yeah those aren't trucels, just insecure fakecels
1 pinkgoldrose 2018-05-16
Yeah you have it extremely bad.
1 tellmewhatididwrong0 2018-05-16
Shut the fuck up
1 NetscapeNavigator9 2018-05-16
If he was so nice why did he pressure you into sex?
1 pinkgoldrose 2018-05-16
Cause sex drive?
1 NetscapeNavigator9 2018-05-16
And that’s when you break up
1 pinkgoldrose 2018-05-16
Because everyone says sex is very important?
1 NetscapeNavigator9 2018-05-16
There are a lot of important things that don’t need to be done right now this instant, correct? I’m just really not getting how you could possibly believe you had to do everything a guy said
1 pinkgoldrose 2018-05-16
But who breaks up over not wanting to have sex? It was a foreign idea to me. Every kid around was having sex.
1 NetscapeNavigator9 2018-05-16
Well, who has a boyfriend without sex?
1 pinkgoldrose 2018-05-16
All I'm saying is that they never told us "if you don't want to have sex with him you can just say no and if he's not okay with that you can just walk away, it's okay to not want to have sex, you shouldn't have sex if you don't want to".
It sounds self-evident for you because you're a man, so if you don't want to have sex with a girl, you don't, but women are socialized to lay down and take the dick.
1 NetscapeNavigator9 2018-05-16
It sounds to me like you have very low self esteem so I can relate to that. How old are you? The concept of consent has been around for my whole lifetime
1 Hal_Inceldenza 2018-05-16
Are you facially deformed or something like that? Your story sounds like some slacker's wet dream. I went come from a wealthy background as well, went to business school, have been a promising tennis talent, 6'1 tall and lean. Doesn't do shit for me.
1 pinkgoldrose 2018-05-16
Are you? Because you're tall, athletic and rich, women should be fighting each other to be with you. Like I said, I dated chubby short unemployed sedentary socially reclusive low achievers from non wealthy backgrounds, so I don't know what you could be doing wrong. The bar is low.
I'm not facially deformed, but I have the wrong shape all over. For men all you have to do is be athletic to have the ideal male body. Athleticism is what is considered attractive for men. I was athletic, but I had a rather manly shape, so that made me an ugly woman, along with my ugly (but not deformed) face and my abundance of freckles.
Even slackers dream of perfect bubbly feminine hot-bodied angel-faced softly-curved Stacies, they aren't going to be happy just because they got a Becky with the wrong proportions. Men really don't have to do anything nor to possess any qualities to be loved by women. Men's love for women however is correlated to how pretty she is.
1 Pantycel 2018-05-16
I’m gonna disagree with this. Don’t want uglies reproducing.
1 AuntyAce 2018-05-16
Please don't. Birth control is a misnomer. It should be called a regulatory aide if anything. Until I got migraines and couldn't take it any longer I used it for the following reason: not to have a period. That's it. It let me focus on school and work and pop Advil if it was bad cramps that still happened but never the life halting unstoppable rush of blood and pain that happens for five days off the pill.
It helps prevent various health issues and most women actually don't take it for birth control because we know it's actually almost zero percent effective for that purpose. It has a failure rate. You get warned to remember ONLY abstinence prevents pregnancy when you go for your first consultation.
It also has nasty side effects but it's worth it for avoiding the natural ones.
And plenty of us have never been "active" and just use it to go about our lives.
1 trevmon 2018-05-16
you're entitled to those migraines, lucky
1 AuntyAce 2018-05-16
Hey if you want my migraines you absolutely could have them! Trust me I don't want them!
1 Idk12344482305 2018-05-16
Yea you’re not entitled to have a migraine free life. Just like incels are not entitled to have sex. Sorry lass, that’s just life, try to get the best out of it :)
1 AuntyAce 2018-05-16
Oh I do, frankly I'm trying to figure out the incel thing still because I'm curious. I've never had an interest in sex or dating so the idea of incel has me honestly trying to comprehend it. Overall the take I've gotten so far from this sub is I may need to try and set up people with each other way more than I ever realized..
1 Idk12344482305 2018-05-16
1, I was just kidding, in an ideal world, we all have someone who we can share our lives with, or if we don’t want that, we don’t. And also we get medication for what our problems are.
2, Setting up incels with someone doesn’t work because incels are ugly, and the most they can hope for is meeting a woman whose mind is temporarily not in the right place. Women are naturally disgusted by ugly men.
1 SavageTimmy 2018-05-16
You realize birth control can help women with a lot of other things then just not having kids right
1 IncelSlayerZero 2018-05-16
Not my problem.
1 wodie504 2018-05-16
Move then you bitter infant.
1 luckyyyyyy53 2018-05-16
You know people use birth control for a number of medical reasons right?
1 Hopecel 2018-05-16
Is that what your 13 year old slutty sister told you? And you believe her, really?
1 Happiness_isa_choice 2018-05-16
I was put on the pill at 12 for heavy periods. At 14 I was put on them again for ovarian cysts. At 18 I was put on them again because I had a job that didn’t allow me to use the bathroom every hour.
I don’t like medicine. I don’t like knowing drugs are affecting my body. Yet three times I have been put on birth control for three reasons other than to prevent pregnancy.
1 changeIsTheWay 2018-05-16
Sure, then you can get it for that. But if its for just preventing pregnancies, then no.
1 waffleflavouredfloss 2018-05-16
yall are insane
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1 changeIsTheWay 2018-05-16
no
1 luckyyyyyy53 2018-05-16
Lol no, I was put on birth control for having cramps so excruciating I vomited often and missed school because I couldn’t walk. I started by taking pain medicine, but found myself getting dependent and my tolerance increasing so I switched to birth control and it was life changing.
1 ILiekPlantz 2018-05-16
All those millions spent on whores so that they can whore around and chads so that they can dick around could be spent on the environment. disgusting.
1 Happiness_isa_choice 2018-05-16
Without bc that money would be going towards the kids caused by sex and then some.
1 tellmewhatididwrong0 2018-05-16
Shhhh
1 Jet20 2018-05-16
Don't worry guys, you're also getting the benefit of the pill being free by having your hormones absolutely fucked when it's pissed into the water supply.
1 mdtvs 2018-05-16
Lol no. Think of the children.
1 changeIsTheWay 2018-05-16
If its good looking men and women having sex, they are already ahead of everyone in life just from looks.
Its possible to break from that mold when you look good since looks are the only thing that matters in life.
1 Mrplum 2018-05-16
Why is it my problem that women can’t afford their kids and birth control? Maybe they should have settled down with a steady provider to handle these expenses instead of getting dicked down by poverty Chad’s and Tyrone’s.
1 Build_that_Bear 2018-05-16
Boohoo, you're paying $1 more in taxes to avoid paying $10 more in taxes to support all those unwanted children.
I know you want to find every possible way to demonize women, but this is fucking stupid.
1 SaltShaker8383 2018-05-16
Free birth control has always existed. It's called KEEP YOUR FUCKING LEGS CLOSED. CUNT!
1 waffleflavouredfloss 2018-05-16
thats never going to work just because you dont get sex doesnt mean other people will stop bc you yell at them to, thats never been a thing, people enjoy sex and if society doesnt want a bunch of welfare babies to support there needs to be birth control.
honestly whats more cost effective - birth control or child support for millions of babies?
1 SaltShaker8383 2018-05-16
Keeping your legs closed, death penalty for those who have sex before marriage. Works fine in the middle East. Women are fucking property, cunt.
1 waffleflavouredfloss 2018-05-16
it makes me really satisfied that you are so frustrated and angry, I think its fitting you are an incel as these are the thoughts you have. I am comforted by the fact that you will never get to touch a woman. Cunt.
1 waffleflavouredfloss 2018-05-16
https://i.pinimg.com/originals/17/61/45/1761454bd1f948465e4df420abfe2fe8.jpg
almost the same reason for birth control as i dont want to have to support a bunch of welfare babies which is much more expensive.
1 MagratM 2018-05-16
And it won't change a thing in the short term other than to add to an already overburdened welfare system with the extra kids.
1 MagratM 2018-05-16
OK, so the doctor can prescribe them the pill for their condition. Fab.
1 midget_gemski 2018-05-16
I know, she’s the best.
1 pinkgoldrose 2018-05-16
I couldn't say no when I was 18 and dating the guy for some months. There were no couples not having sex, I didn't know I could choose, and I didn't know my worth and that I could have left the guy if he was pressuring me.
You guys complain that you've been raised to be too nice to girls and it makes you a failure, but you forget that women are raised to be too nice to guys. We're raised to think it's their sexuality that matters over ours, that sex is to be had when they want it, that they are owed sex.
1 Incelvester 2018-05-16
Like angry virgins saying mean things about women on an obscure subreddit?