It’s a catch-22 honestly. Don’t approach: too shy, will never get a gf. Approach all the time: too creepy, will never get a gf. Approach the perfect amount: I hope you’re attractive or you will never get a gf.
Not that I approach much myself anymore, but unless these are women that know any friends you may have, who cares if they think you're creepy? I at least feel a lot less awkward having tried a few times, as compared to when I hadn't tried at all.
They tell us to be careful, to be introverted, at the same time they say we need more extroverted. As a 5'5 I cannot cold approach but also cannot be noticed otherwise.
And it's not their fault, she's being honest at least.
The starting conceit of this, I agree with – that unattractiveness isn't what makes you creepy – but not the way he reasoned it out, or at least he didn't go far enough in his reasoning. First, body language has a lot to do with it. You want to project cool confidence, without seeming arrogant – stand up straight, make eye contact, etc., which I'm betting a lot of you don't do. You probably approach sheepishly – head down, shoulders forward – and that's never gonna work. So yeah, you and a more attractive guy could both ask to buy a girl a drink, but it's not your necessarily your looks that will give her the creepy vibe, it's the way you approach her. Second is about looks. That shit about boundaries being different for different people is close, but not quite it. For a group of people that are obsessed with "looksmatches," you haven't quite figured it out. Of course the more attractive girls are gonna go for the more attractive guys. That's how the world works. You should not be going for the same girls that guys more attractive than you are going for to begin with. You're never going to win. So that's the second part of what makes it creepy – trying to punch too high above your weight. Stop trying to talk to girls you know are going to reject you, and go for the ones that you might actually have a shot at. You might not think she's super hot, but you will still get a boner when you see her naked, and if you are actually able to form a relationship with a her, regardless of how she looks, you will find her more attractive the more you get to know her as a person. Love goggles are real. Lastly, just talk to them as people – don't talk about your insecurities, and don't talk about how awesome you are either. You'll come off as creepy and/or arrogant. I bet a lot of you approach women with something like, "I know you probably don't want to talk to me but..." or something stupid like that, leading with a negative. It's supremely unattractive, even in nonsexual situations. I know a guy who, among dude friends, is always like, "I can never tell if you guys actually like me," and it comes off creepy and makes me like him less. I like him just fine otherwise, but his lack of confidence is annoying.
tl;dr: don't act sheepish, don't talk about your insecurities, and don't try to approach women you know are out of your league, and you won't be a creep (also forgot to say, don't say weird stuff. A lot of you probably say weird stuff. Best conversation starters are situational, btw.). And don't be afraid to fail!
Fuck wymyn's comfort, try to get in any pussy you want. I'm not saying it will work, but at least you can make her uncomfortable as you mack on her lol.
Guy 1: Yeah, just one condition: you and your teammates must have your shoelaces tied together during the whole game.
Guy 2: Wait, what?
Guy 1: As you heard it.
Guy 2: Well, that's... unfair. So damn unfair. Unbalanced. I don't think I want to play.
Guy 1: Why? Do you not like football?
Guy 2: Yes, yes, I love it. But I don't like these rules.
Guy 1: So you don't like the rules of football?
Guy 2: I do like the rules of football. But I don't like THESE rules that you just made up. If things are going to work like this I don't even want to play.
Guy 1: You can still win if you put a lot of effort and your rivals put none. Small chances, but still.
Guy 2: I know, but that's not the problem. The problem is that the game is rigged. It's unfair. It benefits some players and punishes others for no reason. Why would anyone want to play a game that's rigged?
...
This is why I quit dating. Rules are different for each man. Limits are different for each man. Boundaries vary based on your looks.
13 comments
1 Salvador66 2018-05-16
That's why I never tried. Why the hell should I approach women, if they will automatically assume that I am creepy for trying.
1 NetscapeNavigator9 2018-05-16
It’s a catch-22 honestly. Don’t approach: too shy, will never get a gf. Approach all the time: too creepy, will never get a gf. Approach the perfect amount: I hope you’re attractive or you will never get a gf.
1 Salvador66 2018-05-16
That's the thing. The bashing of short men has made me anxious enough to not approach women.
1 Virion85 2018-05-16
Not that I approach much myself anymore, but unless these are women that know any friends you may have, who cares if they think you're creepy? I at least feel a lot less awkward having tried a few times, as compared to when I hadn't tried at all.
1 shockinghillaryquote 2018-05-16
Almost instantly this IT soyboy contradicts himself.
1 undeadcel 2018-05-16
finally, cucks are facing the truth
1 IfIHadANidoran 2018-05-16
I love it.
They tell us to be careful, to be introverted, at the same time they say we need more extroverted. As a 5'5 I cannot cold approach but also cannot be noticed otherwise.
And it's not their fault, she's being honest at least.
1 Space-Pirate-Calico 2018-05-16
More roastie Doublethink
1 GymcellingisCope1 2018-05-16
I mean this is basically what we've been saying.
1 sizuha 2018-05-16
Who in the actual fuck are these people IRL? Can someone with this level of reasoning ability actually hold a job, let alone a non-physical one?
1 justforlulzandkeks 2018-05-16
Truly mental giants
1 PhucCheet 2018-05-16
"Obviously women will set lower boundaries for hot guys than unattractive guys"
Yet they disagree with blackpill.
1 klausdahaus 2018-05-16
The starting conceit of this, I agree with – that unattractiveness isn't what makes you creepy – but not the way he reasoned it out, or at least he didn't go far enough in his reasoning. First, body language has a lot to do with it. You want to project cool confidence, without seeming arrogant – stand up straight, make eye contact, etc., which I'm betting a lot of you don't do. You probably approach sheepishly – head down, shoulders forward – and that's never gonna work. So yeah, you and a more attractive guy could both ask to buy a girl a drink, but it's not your necessarily your looks that will give her the creepy vibe, it's the way you approach her. Second is about looks. That shit about boundaries being different for different people is close, but not quite it. For a group of people that are obsessed with "looksmatches," you haven't quite figured it out. Of course the more attractive girls are gonna go for the more attractive guys. That's how the world works. You should not be going for the same girls that guys more attractive than you are going for to begin with. You're never going to win. So that's the second part of what makes it creepy – trying to punch too high above your weight. Stop trying to talk to girls you know are going to reject you, and go for the ones that you might actually have a shot at. You might not think she's super hot, but you will still get a boner when you see her naked, and if you are actually able to form a relationship with a her, regardless of how she looks, you will find her more attractive the more you get to know her as a person. Love goggles are real. Lastly, just talk to them as people – don't talk about your insecurities, and don't talk about how awesome you are either. You'll come off as creepy and/or arrogant. I bet a lot of you approach women with something like, "I know you probably don't want to talk to me but..." or something stupid like that, leading with a negative. It's supremely unattractive, even in nonsexual situations. I know a guy who, among dude friends, is always like, "I can never tell if you guys actually like me," and it comes off creepy and makes me like him less. I like him just fine otherwise, but his lack of confidence is annoying.
tl;dr: don't act sheepish, don't talk about your insecurities, and don't try to approach women you know are out of your league, and you won't be a creep (also forgot to say, don't say weird stuff. A lot of you probably say weird stuff. Best conversation starters are situational, btw.). And don't be afraid to fail!
1 IncelSlayerZero 2018-05-16
Fuck wymyn's comfort, try to get in any pussy you want. I'm not saying it will work, but at least you can make her uncomfortable as you mack on her lol.
1 LooksMatterToWomen 2018-05-16
That's exactly the same thing incels have been saying for years. If you're ugly, be humble and asexual. You're a potential beta provider, not a lover.
1 EvilBananaManRD 2018-05-16
Follow me on this one:
Guy 1: Hey, let's play football!
Guy 2: Nice! I like football.
Guy 1: Yeah, just one condition: you and your teammates must have your shoelaces tied together during the whole game.
Guy 2: Wait, what?
Guy 1: As you heard it.
Guy 2: Well, that's... unfair. So damn unfair. Unbalanced. I don't think I want to play.
Guy 1: Why? Do you not like football?
Guy 2: Yes, yes, I love it. But I don't like these rules.
Guy 1: So you don't like the rules of football?
Guy 2: I do like the rules of football. But I don't like THESE rules that you just made up. If things are going to work like this I don't even want to play.
Guy 1: You can still win if you put a lot of effort and your rivals put none. Small chances, but still.
Guy 2: I know, but that's not the problem. The problem is that the game is rigged. It's unfair. It benefits some players and punishes others for no reason. Why would anyone want to play a game that's rigged?
...
This is why I quit dating. Rules are different for each man. Limits are different for each man. Boundaries vary based on your looks.
Screw it. I'm out.