https://i.imgur.com/82XssxW.jpg

Wtf?!

Time to rope.

always wondered what life would be like on easy mode

Just be a white woman in 2018 who doesn't eat like a hippo. Get that degree in Psychology / Female Gender Studies and some university or office will employ you are $80,000. 100s of guys will fight to take you out on dates.

This is not sustainable. The west will be surpassed by hungrier nations. I'm leaving as soon as possible once I graduate.

True, the west is falling apart because of White women and high immigration

Female privilege

goddam life on easy mode

Reminder: while you cry yourself to sleep from loneliness incel get so much chicken tendies from their mom they complain about her.

I tried to date loser incels when I was young fit and successful.

They used me for all they could and then they dumped me.

Now I can't even comment here to tell you how wrong you are.

I'm not trying to be funny, I'm pointing out that you all live with your parents and that you treat your parents like shit and complain about being "lonely".

You don't know loneliness until you're actually alone.

No friends, no family, no human contact for months or years.

tried to date loser incels when I was young fit and successful.

No you didn't.

You dated Chad-lites because Chads were too busy. That's how your viewpoint of the world is.

JFL @ you all who think they are or did date ugly, uglies don't register in your mind. Uglies are NPCs in your life.

i did

Cope.

Juggernaut law proves you wrong.

It's not the prettiest girl that receives more male attention it's the second prettiest girl because guys figure they have a better chance with her.

Third prettiest girl receives more attention than the second prettiest girl.

All the way down.

studies confirm this

Lmao cope.

I'm pointing out that you all live with your parents and that you treat your parents like shit and complain about being "lonely".

Source?

You don't know loneliness until you're actually alone.

No friends, no family, no human contact for months or years.

That's a totally impossible for incels but it's possible for you, a person who probably gets attention just walking on the street?

That's a totally impossible for incels but it's possible for you

Not impossible for incels, but not impossible for me, as it actually happened to me, so can you shut the fuck up about how women can't be lonely? It's hypocritical.

The implication wasn't that you couldn't be lonely, it's the ridiculous statement you made as if ugly people are less likely to be completely isolated. Which is more likely is my point.

No, the statement meant that I've verified before, and all those incels who claim not to have talked to another human being in a few weeks/months/years actually talk to their mom every day and just decide not to count their family as human beings.

You know personal anecdotes mean jackshit when applying them to a general group, correct?

It's a fact. Every incel who has ever complained on the internet that he "didn't talk to another human being in days" actually has his mom cooking his food, washing his clothes and talking to him twice a day. It's a disgrace to then go online and say "no human being".

Every foid who claims to be lonely is just being ignored by chad.

An incel-equivilent to you could make a retort resembling this. It's essentially the same thing. Don't be an ignorant hypocrite.

Who the fuck still lives with their mom? Some of us have lived alone for years.

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You don't have to be lonely though. Get in shape, make a Tinder profile, use some filters, get swarmed with validation.

You chose to date some shitty men. That sucks. They were not Chads, but they probably werent incel-looks either. Just below average looks but very low-status (unemployed losers, etc).

You can get easy validation though.

I mean the point with my ex-boyfriends is that I dated down in social status, fitness, money. I don't see incels trying to date down, they say "I'm only overweight not obese, i deserve a slim woman".

Can you quote where incels are actually saying that? I think that's a common IT misconception, a strawman, but I don't think that reflects their real lives and rejections.

All the incels saying no fat women.

Quote/link, don't generalize

Well okay not You. Do you really want a quote? I've talked to many incels who said no fat women. It's a pretty common opinion here.

I've also talked to many incels who say a lot of shit to feel better (cope), but when it comes down to it they've asked out the obese woman and the bookie nerd and the shy girl and still been rejected.

You were telling someone else to hit the gym?

You women are pathetic cunts. No accountability for your own actions, just coddling and bullshit while men should be responsible. (not you, specifically, but you do excuse other women)

You... who pissed this delusional slop, are calling this person cringy?

Lololololol

Milkies

or

weak attempt

For women the sexual marketplace is such a cake-walk that they have a stomach ache. Meanwhile, men are starving to death.

I was talking with a 7/10 about street harassment and she was complaining about how hard it is being a woman and having dudes hitting on her all the time bla bla bla.

THERE ARE MEN OUT HERE WHO HAVE'NT HAD A GIRL APPROACH OR FLIRT WITH THEM IN DECADES and i'm supposed to be here feeling sorry for a girl who gets too much attention? WTF? that is like feeling sorry for someone who got a stomach ache at a buffet over someone who is starving. Think about it for a moment, human attention is a basic need, like food water shelter etc and we care more about the women who get too much of it than the men who get... none.

Societies empathy for males is so zero that we are able to collectively ignore the pain of these "losers" and give our sympathy for the person who is having her basic needs met to the point of over-saturation.

For women the sexual marketplace is such a cake-walk that they have a stomach ache.

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You know, I heard something like 7.1 million people in South Africa are living with HIV....and this is the thing you guys are worried about more....

they all got HIV from fucking their virgin wife and staying faithful ? no?

Or more than a few of them could have been born with it? Or they were raped?

You know, there are something like 7.1 million people in South Africa living with HIV... and you choose to police a reddit incel sub instead. Before you get all self-righteous, you should examine your own life. Why aren't you doing more to solve real global issues?

Certainly more than complaining about how my life is shite because I'm unable to have sex and blaming women for it.

What aspirations and ambitions you have. High value male right here.

Why aren't you doing more to solve real global issues?

Certainly more than complaining about how my life is shite because I'm unable to have sex and blaming women for it.

That's not the answer you know.

I can do about as much as someone who's not in a position of political power can do about global issues, nice attempt to shift the topic there though.

So it's okay for you to make a pointless grandstanding comment about people living with HIV?

Me point was that there's people with vastly bigger problems than your not being able to secure a date. The really messed up thing is that in places like South Africa , the average suicide and depression rate is lower than countries like Canada and the US. These places are riddled with diseases, warlords, corrupt governments, parasites and famines, but they're somehow less down on their lives than you.

Ah, it's a good old-fashioned invalidation. Is it impossible to acknowledge their suffering and our problems at the same time? Does their suffering make ours non-existing?

I can absolutely acknowledge the fact that life has probably dealt you a shit hand , but by no means do I think your problems are near as bad as you think them to be. More than anything it's due to a profoundly negative way of looking at your situation and probably life as a whole. As unfair as the world is , letting it affect you so blatantly that you see your life as just a myriad of suffering and ridicule is the fault of individuals and nothing else. Everyone has their problems and failures, but the way you and others who go about blaming your shit lives on everything they can , is just self centered the way this group tends to carry on like they're the most put upon and miserable people in the world.

Blaming absolutely everything on myself gets quite soul-draining after some time, you know.

I'm not saying you have to blame all of your problems on yourself either. Life is more nuanced than things being squarely to blame on only one person or the other and not to the same degree this subreddit tends to accuse people.

I can absolutely acknowledge the fact that life has probably dealt you a shit hand ,

thanks next time end your comment right here

me point

go over to Africa and volunteer.

Would you use this same argument vs feminists when they complain?

Yes actually

I'm sure you would

And even if you actually would, it's not a actual argument lmao

You know it a incredibly possible to call both sides out on their nonsense right? I said something similar to someone upset during the whole "Tracer's Butt" issue a couple.of years back because my god were there vastly more important things going on in the world

make an anti feminist post somewhere on reddit, link me to it

Calling someone out on nonsense like tracer's butt doesn't make me anti feminist, it's me calling people out on their nonsense. Much like my stance on the whole gun control issue, I'm not anti gun because I think we need more regulation, and I'm not pro gun because I think people should be allowed to have their weapons if they obtain them legally .

Both sides are equally capable of being right and wrong

are you a bot, you never actually reply to the substance of people's messages. sounds like canned responses.

Sounds like someone can't comprehend that not everything is one side or the other

again. bot confirmed. blocked.

Connecting to Skynet

that means they had sex

Or were potentially either raped or born with it.

What a warped world view, being approached unsolicited by weirdos that are twice your size isn't "making a connection" it's scary as fuck. Being raped, harassed, assaulted isn't fucking fun.

Getting murdered is better than being incel. Getting raped is better than being incel.

Define "being incel"

Maybe you have a point, I fucking doubt it though.

Getting murdered:probably takes a few minutes at most and then you’re dead or unconscious, even less if you get shot

Getting raped:Much of the time it’s date rape or something where the girl is knocked out during the rape, where it might has well never happened. Even besides that, it’s just free sex most of the time and barely even lasts a half hour.

Being incel:Being lonely your entire life without orbiters to validate you and serve you and no free sex at call.

Most of the users here would rather get blasted in a mass shooting than live the rest of our lives betaslaving for Chad’s condoms and Stacy’s birth control.

With that thought why live in the first place instead of better yourself?

I’m not against self-improvement, but a lot of the stuff that gets posted is just painfully obvious(shower, haircut, shave, have decent fashion, etc.) The main things that help are getting trim/muscular and having very good social skills, but those aren’t just something you can do in a day. A lot of this sub is just discussion of the reality that physical characteristics(especially face, height, natural frame) are by far the most important traits needed for sexual success.

By far if your only goal is bending over equally sexually liberal 8's and up. That's not what life is, or should be, about.

Enjoying life is what you should be striving for, which being on site's like this all day isn't really a proactive way to achieve that...

This is all very destructive, wouldn't you agree?

Arguably being alone all the time, bullied throughout school, constantly heartbroken and rejected, depressed, isolated, and struggling to make social connections all makes it hard to enjoy life even if they're not on this sub. People don't come here if their lives aren't already pretty sad. It's not like they could just stop posting here and have great lifes.

They're not just after liberal 8s either. If you read the memes here, there's a common theme that attraction is universal. Even ugly women desire attractive men and don't want to settle because they're empowered. There's the article about fat women who admit they won't date fat men. The Down Syndrome girl who was offended at the thought of her Down Syndrome friend being her bf, dating a tall handsome "normie". The message is that 2s want the same characteristics 8s do, and if they can't get it they'll just stay single rather than date other 2s.

Yes I'm the one with the warped world view. I'm sure you're getting raped and assaulted. I totally believe you. It's so scary that girls are dressing up as sluts and going out trying to meet guys. They must be fearless! Such warriors of our age.

Dressing up as sluts😂 yeah okay mate.

I know women who voluntarily sabotaged their looks to get less attention from men. It's that real.

And the same women regret it and admit it after doing so.

What did they do? Did they sabotage their looks for specific men or for males in general?

Males in general. Girls who are in serious relationships and got tired of getting catcalled.

give me one woman that killed herself from receiving attention. lol

It probably never happened. Receiving too much attention/validation is a beautiful problem compared to loneliness.

Some girls I know (average looking)have thousands of matches on tinder, if they swipe right it’s a match.

My fake 3/10 female on Tinder had 10 swipes on her within 30 seconds of me signing up. There's no such thing as a female incel in our world.

There is no god!

Maybe God is a femoid

I think god is a male but he was created by an ever higher female god. that is why god is so cucked and made this cucked reality

Where are my hundreds of men?

In your 20s, when you had your pick of chads to fuck and nice betas to marry

I never fucked Chad. Plus I didn't have the internet. I had to actually go out and meet people, you know, make an effort, in order to get a date.

The only effort a girl needs to make is to look like a pretty object. After that , guys do all the work

Girls have no skills to get a guy. Your "skill" is to say "I'm gonna catch that guys attention, then he can come over to me and show me his skills"

Oh, I had to go after more than one guy in my time rather than just catch his attention and let him do the work. I think it's probably generational. Men in my day weren't all dogs trailing around after women like they were bitches in heat.

It was different in those days. Today women don't need to put effort. Just take a selfie, use a filter, and make a Tinder profile.

Get OFF tinder. It's useless unless you're a Chad or a woman. Get out and meet people, like we did in the bad old days before the internet and smartphones.

Incels arent on Tinder. They're out there struggling IRL and failing. This post is just about how much easier it is today for women to get validation and how frustrating that is when you're so lonely every day.

And I sleep alone every night too, unless the dog is sleeping on the bed, but she's hardly a substitute.

I know the frustrations, but you will deny that one. Everyone always does.

They mean today's generation of young women who can use Tinder and social media for easy validation.

They're not talking about lonely 70 year old widows.

I'm not 70, nor am I a widow.

Google "hyperbole".

Women under 45 can get validation through social media. If you're above a certain age and of a different generation, it gets harder. But they're talking about people in their own generation, not old people.

I'm 45. I can't have sex. I'm looking for a relationship, not validation, so I don't use shit apps like tinder.

Me: young women can find validation easily

You: not true. my life is different. I'm unwanted and alone.

Me: elaborate

You: Ok I can get validation, I just don't want it so I don't even use tools that would give me easy validation.

You: So frustrating being lonely

Me: I get lonely too

You: just use tinder. You can get validation

Me: I don't want validation, I want a relationship and I won't find that using tinder

You: REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

Quite.

You: So frustrating being lonely

I never said that part. That was some other poster. I just said women can get easy validation and that's the point of this OP topic.

"Just use tinder"... And tinder is used by people wanting sex. Much like most online dating is used by people wanting sex. So for those of us who can't have sex, all we'd be doing is getting ghosted.

Stop being such a fucking pedant.

Can you even read context, pedant?

"Just use tinder" as proof that young women can get easy validation, not to find a relationship if that is your goal and you're asexual.

The old days are gone, just like you will be soon. That’s the fucking point.

Blah, blah, blah.

And my point is that the bad old days of meeting people off the net is still a valid way to meet people, and is much less superficial.

Putting a smile on your face and wait to be approached is not effort.

Let's see... I showered before going out, did my hair, put on make up, chose nice clothes, then went out, smiled at guys, then went over and talked to them because I decided not to bother sitting and waiting, as that really wasn't my style.

I put effort in. I didn't just sit and wait.

Getting dressed is effort to you? If you’re at least half good looking, the second if not first guy you talk to will be interested.

I do what I can to look as good as I possibly can when I go out, and I’m still not as good looking as some guys and that’s an instant red flag for most women. They won’t even give you the time of day. If you’re lucky enough to get to talk to a woman then you have to be witty and say the right things or they leave. There’s no room for error or human mistake. As men we have to be on the ball and have the stars align, etc, to get a girl.

Your Friday night “effort” is minimal compared to what most men go through on a daily basis

And now I have even more effort, but that's another story.

Everyone should be making an effort to enjoy themselves first and foremost, and then figuring out if any girls around are worth going for later. If you look like you're sharking, you immediately cut your chances.

When you realise women repeat shower meme so much because it's basically all they have to do to get laid.

And yet some of us just went out to have fun and never mind trying to get laid.

These days I only do that to go out and have fun, since I can't get laid.

Of course, as a woman you don't have to actively try getting laid. All you have to do is go out and men will be the ones that will try getting laid with you.

And I still can't get laid.

You'd think you would remember by now.

Well you're old, remember? I remember and thought I didn't need to mention it. When I talk about women not having to put in effort so as to get attention from men I'm talking about women our age.

Now that I think about it, didn't you talk about how X amount of male friends of yours like you? What do you mean you can't have sex? You've previously definitely talked about receiving positive male attention that you don't correspond. Are these friends of yours not up to your expectations?

No, it means I can't have sex. At all. Because of pain. Pain that has kept me up all night because the painkillers I have only took the edge off the pain. Pain that has me wondering if I need to go to the hospital type pain.

As for my male friends, they are that: friends. They are not prospective anything in my books, because they are friends. They are people I am not sexually attracted to anyway, even when I could have sex, an it hasn't changed now I can't.

What is so difficult to understand about having friends that you don't want to have a relationship with?

Oh, so you can't have sex because you're physically unable to. That must put you in the same position as us which must mean you understand us, tbh.

Obvious sarcasm is obvious.

It's not exactly the same position, but I am having trouble finding an emotional relationship because guys want sex as part of the package and ghost when they find it's not on offer. So I do understand some of the frustrations.

Not that any of you care, or would agree. But hey, I'm just a female, so not worth caring about anyway, right?

On Tinder

White women have completely destroyed western society and everything White men built for them, its over. The west will be a third world shithole within 50 years anyways, start learning Chinese.

I really don't think this is the case for all women. I've noticed that Reddit users tend to VASTLY overestimate the amount of attention that women get. I think that it's true that attractive females are bombarded with attention, but for average-looking women, the attention is really not that significant (or maybe I'm just a lot more ugly that I realize). I'm not saying this to invalidate your feelings, because I still think they're perfectly justified. I agree that in general it's a lot easier for women to get laid than men. However, demonizing and overexaggerating the other side looks doesn't do any good. Sounds like it just makes you beat yourself up harder.

Yeah, that's my Tinder profile. I'm pretty average, but by no means "hot." I swipe right on the majority of people but don't get a lot of matches (got about 30–40 matches after a year). Even with the matches I do get, most people don't reply to my message or only reply once or twice. For some reason, there are people who firmly believe that all women are bombarded with attention and refuse to acknowledge anything to the contrary.

you must be ugly as a troll then. send pics in PM?

I really don't think I am. I'm not fat either. I'm guessing I'm just not a lot of people's type. I'd prefer not to send pics cause I'm not looking for validation or anything. My main point is that I think lots of people overestimate the attention and it ends up just hurting them.

we've done experiments on this very site with ugly women and the results are always the same, flooded with matches in a matter of hours.

Link?

you already know this is true stop playing dumb

I'm not playing dumb. Just speaker my experience.

stop lying or show proof

I posted a screenshot of my Tinder matches on another comment

I'm in a town with a university that has about 20,000 students. I swipe left if someone's religious, but outside of that I'd say I still swipe right the majority of the time. What would someone even do with 30–40 a day? That seems mind-boggling to me.

show a proof of a tinder snapshot, you can blur out your face, I just want to see this less than 30 a day you claim to get

https://imgur.com/gvmGADp

easy to prove it make a catfish account with an avg female pic.

Certainly more than complaining about how my life is shite because I'm unable to have sex and blaming women for it.

we've done experiments on this very site with ugly women and the results are always the same, flooded with matches in a matter of hours.

stop lying or show proof

show a proof of a tinder snapshot, you can blur out your face, I just want to see this less than 30 a day you claim to get

And I still can't get laid.

You'd think you would remember by now.