Former volcel to a now chad, you guys are all right.
85 2018-05-16 by ggbissett
A combination of depression bad habits and self loathing caused me to be over 300 pounds I looked and felt like shrek, the world around me treated me as so too. Cashiers were rude, no one was interested in talking to me and people avoided me like the plague.
I hated who I was, how I looked and how people treated me so I made a change. I got my fat ass on my bike at 1 am every night and rode over to the gym and made pools of sweat on the ground. Everyday. For about 8 months. (I went at 1 am so no one would see me since the gym was basically empty)
I lost weight and started to look better, I decided to go to university and I did and I kept lifting weights and trying to get out there I went from 303lbs to 185lbs. Something started to change I started noticing odd things, people would be looking at me...people would initiate conversation with me, people would say “oh sorry” and move out of my way in the grocery store for no reason, the Cinnabon girl with samples would smile at me as if they were meant for me. I would make eye contact with girls consistently. My teachers would be so eager and willing to help me. Why are these people looking at me. Why am I being treated so different I was confused.
I started noticing conversations with people would get awkward, why though I don’t understand why can I no longer hold a conversation with females let alone males. it’s like they would wait for me to talk and I would stare at them waiting for them to say something, it was weird and I didn’t understand why this was happening. I mean that’s how conversations went my entire life they say something and I reciprocate, but now it’s flipped and I’m just realizing that now, I thought I developed some sort of social anxiety recently I’ve actually had panic attacks recently because of it, but I was never socially anxious. I’m just the “alpha” now or that’s how I’m initially perceived, I’m supposed to talk about whatever the hell I want and others will simply listen and give their input at least that’s how it supposed to go majority of time in social interactions with females and males in general. If I don’t adapt this normie/chad entitled personality I’ll come off as socially awkward or weird.
You guys are 100% right, females treat “ugly” males like dogs, it’s pathetic. From dating to buying stuff at the grocery store everything a ugly male does is a challenge compared to what a “chad” has to go through. It honestly makes me furious.
I thought this might be some cope for some of y’all,
84 comments
1 BRAHMINDEEPSTATE 2018-05-16
Damn, you're incel larping as a normie.
1 ggbissett 2018-05-16
6”1, if it wasn’t for my loose skin on my belly I could easily tinder fuck half the girls in my city, it’s hard getting laid for me because of my personality in the works. But if it’s a loud night club where I don’t have to talk it’s quite easy
1 BRAHMINDEEPSTATE 2018-05-16
Damn, you're lucky to be born white.
1 GymcellingisCope1 2018-05-16
6'1" and white means volcel
1 Kwantuum 2018-05-16
Literally in the post title moron.
1 Pantycel 2018-05-16
As a guy who’s starting gymceling it does me give me hope
1 ggbissett 2018-05-16
Keep at it man if you want weight loss tips pm me.
1 TommyNobility 2018-05-16
Gym isn’t a cope, facial gains are real. If you are skinny and bulking you can ask me questions too, I have a feeling OP has more experience cutting lmao
1 Hopecel 2018-05-16
There is no gym for you face, brah. It’s cope.
1 TommyNobility 2018-05-16
Gym does improve facial aesthetics unless you’re already very lean, also having a good body makes the face appear better. It’s extremely rare to have a face so bad that being completely jacked won’t get you laid. However if you’re also short you may be fucked
1 Hopecel 2018-05-16
You don’t need to go to the gym to lose weight, so no, gymming doesn’t improve your facial aesthetics.
Nope. There a reason the “butterface”-meme exists. People can clearly differentiate between face and body.
Not really rare unless you mean steriodcelling for years. If you steroidcel for years you will attract some chicks who go crazy about muscular bodies and don’t care about face.
Most people in this sub are short and ugly.
1 TommyNobility 2018-05-16
Actually that first point I retract, if you’re lean neck gains help too. And by your logic you don’t need the gym for anything because there’s bodyweight fitness. The gym helps. You don’t need to steroid for years to get nice looking. They expedite it but are by no means required. You also need to be exceptionally short for this not to help at all. It’s not just a cope it actually helps. Women find muscles so attractive it’s nutty. Note: This isn’t the normal normie platitudes I KNOW tons of guys here will never be able to get laid, but you’re volcel if you don’t at least try this.
1 Hopecel 2018-05-16
I agree that a bigger neck is usually more attractive but you are also more likely to suffer from sleep apnea if you increase your neck size. Sleep apnea results in less gains overall.
This is sad to hear for me because I know it’s true. Women find muscles on good looking guys attractive. It’s a nice bonus but your upper limit is your face.
I’ve tried for years and I’m still going. I went from around 120lbs at 5’8” to about 170lbs at the peak of my bulk and currently I’m down to a leaner 155lbs. So yea, I can evaluate that there are no facial gains. Lifting can only help tall skinny white guys, those are the real volcels.
1 TommyNobility 2018-05-16
Fair enough. At least you know you tried. What are your lifts like after such an insane bulk?
AlsoInb4 have you considered trying harder???
1 Hopecel 2018-05-16
I'm still pretty weak because I started skinny and I'm a framecel. I also never really focused on building strength as I do more of a bodybuilding style training. Here's my transformation. In the left picture I was already lifting for 6 months, so I was even worse than that before. The right picture is from October last year and in pretty bad lighting. I've gotten bigger and leaner since then. I'm not saying that I have the most impressive physique but my body is certainly not holding me back.
1 TommyNobility 2018-05-16
That’s decent lifts for a bodybuilder routine. What sucks too is that even amongst guys your lifts are devalued because of the lower ROM needed for smaller people. How old are you?
1 Hopecel 2018-05-16
Early 20s, bro.
1 TommyNobility 2018-05-16
Rip, you’re about done maturing. Good name though there’s always hope, there’s always a chance
1 Hopecel 2018-05-16
Yea, I hope to get lucky somehow but I'm really not expecting it. For some of us it just isn't meant to be.
1 shockinghillaryquote 2018-05-16
Feels like a larp. 300 pound dudes rarely if ever improve to this extent. it's like 1 in a million.
1 ggbissett 2018-05-16
I’m definitely the 1 in a million, i still have a lot to work on personality wise though it’s honestly a huge fucking change, I feel like im acting through life a lot of the time now.
1 behindcloseddoors1 2018-05-16
Need your height/race before we call you Chad
1 ggbissett 2018-05-16
6”1, Scottish moms side, French Canadian dads side, blue eyes. My only set back is my lose skin on my belly but my mom is going to pay for plastic surgery for me to remove it then I’ll be a “full chad”
1 behindcloseddoors1 2018-05-16
Chad potential all right. You sound like my best friend, through High school he was a chubby nerd that got picked on. Before summer he went hard in the gym and came back a new person, senior year he went from a virgin to balls deep into 6+ sophomores. I was blackpilled long before I found this sub just by being his friend. I am short, ugly, and Indian and he us 6ft, white, blue eyes, and seeing the way girls treat him then the way they treat me, even when I'm right next to him, was brutal. He's even more socially awkward than I am but girls are just so aggressive with him. It's suicide fuel and it's only gotten worse since we went to college.
1 ggbissett 2018-05-16
If that was me I would intentionally get a threesome and I would bounce and let you smash and come back after so she can’t scream rape.
1 behindcloseddoors1 2018-05-16
He's a good friend and he's tried but women are disgusted by my curry skin and my shiteyes.
1 keyandfeels 2018-05-16
MAJOR BLACKPILL NORMIES BTFO
1 Invisible_247 2018-05-16
tfw you have always stayed in shape and are never talked to or looked at
1 ggbissett 2018-05-16
Height? Skin?
1 ImGonnaSayTheN-Word 2018-05-16
Not OP but similar: 6'2", Indian. Although I do have a lotta facial fat to lose. Advice?
1 Invisible_247 2018-05-16
5'10", kind of olive.
1 MEplusYOURMOM 2018-05-16
10/10 read the entire thing
1 CelderSrolls 2018-05-16
🤠
1 bengalsturntup5532 2018-05-16
Now just imagine you don't have to lose that much weight to be treated better,because you are already 180,you've been skinny before and still treated ugly.
1 pinkgoldrose 2018-05-16
I've always been the right weight and in-shape and people never treated me like that. I'm a woman. Men live life on easy mode literally. All he had to do was be not fat.
1 ggbissett 2018-05-16
Women living in western society are the most privileged species of human ever. Sure maybe people don’t bend their knees to you like they seem to do for me but you experience nothing compared to what “incels” experience on a daily basis.
1 pinkgoldrose 2018-05-16
Better to be a top male than a female, but you're not even a top male, you have lose skin (no offense) and I doubt you're like acing your university, yet you get more respect than women.
1 ggbissett 2018-05-16
Yes I can agree that a 10/10 gets more respect than a 10/10 female but as you move down the ladder a 5/10 female will get much more respect than her male counterpart, her life will be leaps and bounds easier than the mans.
And no I’m not a top male I’m probably a 8-8.5/10 maybe a 9 with my loose skin gone
1 ggbissett 2018-05-16
Yes your right a 10/10 male will get much more respect and authority than a 10/10 female, but as you move down the ladder a 5/10 girl will have it much easier in every aspect of life then a 5/10 male.
How do people shit on you? If you’re actually a thin fit girl who does well in school there’s no way in hell you’ve had a rough going in life.
1 pinkgoldrose 2018-05-16
Not a rough going, but like what you described. People not approaching me and not taking an initial liking to me. I was never approached by men during high school / college / med school. The kicker though is that I was never approached by women to be friends either. I always had to seek out friends and force my way in by offering favors and keeping myself relevant.
Being fit doesn't make you pretty. I swam and played rugby competitively, then did ultimate frisbee and amateur triathlon. I still had an ogre face and body with an awful amount of freckles.
1 ggbissett 2018-05-16
Uh if you just admited you had an ogre face and body that’s probably your answer no offence.
1 ayobeslim 2018-05-16
It's all ogre now.
1 __endmysuffering__ 2018-05-16
The ceiling is lower for women and the floor is lower for men
1 GeneticCleansing 2018-05-16
Yup. Lookism is well established among those who are actually ugly.
It is the average-looking normies who tell us that it is all in our heads.
1 TheAngelHD 2018-05-16
Social habilities, There's the solution to everyones problems
1 genetically_cursed 2018-05-16
lol if anyone believed this shit
1 ggbissett 2018-05-16
Why would I lie? Lmao
1 Kar98kSnipe 2018-05-16
I doubt you’re Chad. You just feel like Chad because you’re not an elephant anymore. Good for you tho
1 ggbissett 2018-05-16
Got laid at a party and literally said nothing to the girl, I had fucked a girl I met at a strip club and Almost a threesome with her friend and she bought me over 100$ in drinks and let me stay at her house, I doubt a normie is getting that. Not tooting my own horn but I’m not normie looking.
1 Kar98kSnipe 2018-05-16
Hmmmm were they good looking girls and would you mind sharing a pic of yourself
1 ggbissett 2018-05-16
Girl at the party was a solid 6/10 meh face good body, the strip club girl was smoking fucking hot 8/10 for sure, as for the pics I’ll think I’ll have to show my face as it’s my key feature and tbh I think only bad things will potentially come of showing it
1 harambeazn 2018-05-16
Just show us your jaw and well decide :))
1 MgtowEuphoria 2018-05-16
Photos or shut the fuck up. When I read bodybuilding forum there's always guys bragging "she's a 6/10" and then when he posts the photo of her she's actually a 2/10 `~ LOL
1 LinksLight 2018-05-16
even if they're ugly, it's still an interesting story/life change.
1 minoxidilcel 2018-05-16
just censor your eye area and show the rest. surely you have a strong jaw if chad.
1 uglyloser567 2018-05-16
Dude, you can send you pics to me and I'll tell the community an accurate rating of you.
You can expect 100% confidentiality with me.
1 Rotciv_IRL 2018-05-16
had a similar experience after getting my shit together. People react very different to you when you are not an ugly fuck. But also... it seems to me most people react positively to attractive people because it looks as if they worry about themselves. I have to admit I do it too, after all this time not being an ugly fuck I do get exasperated or am simply not interested in talking to someone that looks like a sad sack.
1 ggbissett 2018-05-16
I can agree I definitely would rather talk with a sexy ass girl than some ogre, but I will not be intentionally rude because of the way she looks.
1 Rotciv_IRL 2018-05-16
yeah, same here. I do feel like some women resort to act like total bitches as a defense mechanism. My own country right now is going through a phase similar to #metoo, but focused in higher education and fucking professors acting like complete perverts. I don't know, truth is, we don't know how women feel or why they act like they act. I just know people react to their enviroment, that's all they can do, so I'm guessing their view of things is very different than ours. Like, this guys paint women like privileged assholes, but my own sister told me about her experiences in the street, being followed by creepy old men yelling stuff since she was 12 years old... Is that privilege? is that the attention they should be oh so thankful for?
1 CommonMisspellingBot 2018-05-16
Hey, Rotciv_IRL, just a quick heads-up:
enviroment is actually spelled environment. You can remember it by n before the m.
Have a nice day!
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1 andrethehill 2018-05-16
Send selfie please need to jerk off
1 TheBottomeOnePercent 2018-05-16
pic of before and after plz
1 ggbissett 2018-05-16
I’ll have to show my face since my belly is loose skin, and to be honest I feel like showing my face is a bad idea. I’ll think about it though
1 tpotts16 2018-05-16
Bro don't show your face its a horrible idea, why do you feel the need to prove yourself to them. Congrats on your weight loss and joining the rest of us normiedom. As to the way you look and carrying yourself being per se immutable you prove that that is not the case.
1 Nancy125 2018-05-16
u would have posted a pic for maximal humble brag if u were actually goodlooking
instead ur a depressed loser larping on this shitty subreddit
Its over, done, ur finished, terminado
1 ggbissett 2018-05-16
I’ll repost in about 8 weeks for sure showing off my six pack after my surgery. As for the face I’m still debating if that’s a good idea.
1 Nancy125 2018-05-16
who cares about ur abdomen i have a six pack too
CHAD does not hesitate to show his face
1 ggbissett 2018-05-16
This Chad has the intelligence of which the normie chads don’t and doesn’t post a picture to prove how alpha he is because he realizes the amount of people lurking here who could fuck up his life by knowing his identity.
1 Nancy125 2018-05-16
chad is not familiar with fear or anxiety as his face has always comforted him
chad's life cannot be fucked up as he will always have his looks
1 ggbissett 2018-05-16
Liberals would beg to differ.
1 Nancy125 2018-05-16
idk what ur talking about but chad wouldnt know what a liberal is if he facefucked one [which he has]
politics do not concern chad, chad does as he pleases
1 ggbissett 2018-05-16
Chad fucks liberals quite literally, but chad will not give a liberal the opportunity to fuck him. That’s what makes chad a chad.
1 Nancy125 2018-05-16
ok?
changing the subject will not make me believe u larper
1 ggbissett 2018-05-16
I don’t you need you to believe me I don’t give a fuck. Funny thing is I googled what larper was I didn’t even know what it meant.
1 zippygraham 2018-05-16
"Hey guys, Chad here"
lmao pics or gtfo, anyone can say they're Chad on the internet
But thanks for confirming the blackpill to us, we already knew
1 pinkgoldrose 2018-05-16
Moids live life on easy mode. Depressed fat guy loses weight and goes to university on the late, has world at his feet and everyone listening to him.
1 Monkey_Jerk 2018-05-16
Apex fallacy. Nice try though.
1 PartTimeNormie 2018-05-16
As someone who went back and forth between a little overweight and obese many times (5'8", 180-220 pounds range) I can confirm this. People were always a lot nicer to me when I was close to my ideal weight and I got smiles from random girls once in a while. It's not that surprising though.
If you're tall, proportionally fat with a good face you can still do decent and have attraction. However if under average height and skinny fat you'll be pretty much treated like garbage.
1 celaway1696 2018-05-16
Losing weight, especially if you go from fatcel to chad, is the most black pilled experience.
1 wont_tell_i_refuse_ 2018-05-16
Shoulda stayed 300 pounds and tried Shrek Game
1 MgtowEuphoria 2018-05-16
Sounds like you were just a FatCel. Your advice or story isn't applicable to other guys. There's guys taller than you, more educated than you, more fit than you and they aren't getting anything (or only the bottom 20% of women) because of FaceCel.
1 StBlackOps2Cel 2018-05-16
Que “hey guys, im what you call a chad now...”
1 TruthbeTold9999 2018-05-16
Buddy, you are not even close to a fucking Chad. You're some dude with stretch marks over his stomach making this post to live out a fantasy.
1 ggbissett 2018-05-16
Nothing plastic surgery can’t fix.
1 Chad_Lite 2018-05-16
This is nothing. I get stares requests numbers etc only thing that matters if JB's actually want to suck ure dick
1 LinksLight 2018-05-16
normies runnin' and hidin'
normies got no comeback, normies got nothin'
1 theaspiringfilmmaker 2018-05-16
Pics
1 SoonelyDoodely 2018-05-16
Congrats but still I envy your genetics.
1 CockInMyBalls 2018-05-16
You're probably not a Chad. Chads don't know what Reddit is and they've been attractive their whole lives. Volcels can become chad-lite at best
1 CelderSrolls 2018-05-16
🤠
1 ggbissett 2018-05-16
If that was me I would intentionally get a threesome and I would bounce and let you smash and come back after so she can’t scream rape.
1 ggbissett 2018-05-16
Uh if you just admited you had an ogre face and body that’s probably your answer no offence.