Everyone says Tinder doesn't work for guys

37  2018-05-15 by redditacc1414

But they haven't seen tinder as a 8+/10, 100s of girls DTF the same night.

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Ofc it does work for me. Only with gay men and very few female landwhales.

Yep the only decent girls I’ve met off tinder/bumble acted like they didn’t really want to be there and flaked after 1 or 2 dates.

Mostly only far girls make an effort

Why even bother with females there? It's over.

I never meet women any other way so might as well try it. I’m not averse to dating a cute chubby girl

Yep. Any normie can confirm by using a chad's pictures and just messaging even innocent seeming girls "hey wanna fuck" and they'll say yeah.

But nah, normies and cucks will deny that.

You guys really don't know how flirting works, right?

Enlighten us, then.

Well, shit is way simple. Human being all work in the same criteria, we like things to be interesting and to capture our attention, looks are just one part of the whole process, being interesting and charming using your own habilities and hobbies. That being said, it does not work with everyone nor should it be, people are different, hence they would be interested in different things, that's why knowing different kinds of people increments the chances of finding a partner. But in the development of social habilities, is crucial that just start with friendships and work you way to find a parter, otherwise you most probably will fail and feel like you have achieved nothing.

Of course it would be "way simple", of course everyone understands social cues and is properly socialised!

Last paragraph is good advice, but if you have to put in work to be considered attractive, then you're better off investing your energy into more productive endeavours than chasing skirts.

The "work" really in social habilities is that it is useful for many things other than finding a partner, say in the search for a job, were making yourself interesting it's part of the whole deal. It's not putting any more effort than trusting in your own knowledge, habilities, making them being presented in a good light.

Speed bullshit

And that’s why you are here

Id love to see what kind of old nerd you look like. You actually think hobbies and interests attract women and I guess being a suck up kiss ass with Andy Griffith manners will get you a girlfriend. Your mind is warped .

Yeah, clearly my mind is the one warped. People are different, with so many hobbies and interests, not all would be interested on the same shit, if your interest and hers match, even if not all of them, things will happen. That’s why you need to know many linda of people. And if it makes you feel better imagine me as old, as nerdy and as ugly as you would like, it does not change a damn thing

You're brain is fried dude,too much crack. I seen your pic too,are a delusional black dude ,Arabian or Indian can't tell.

I’m a black, with arabic ascendence born and raised in india, because race is clearly important in this context so I am glad we got it clear. Well mu addiction to drugs, cocaine and weed, come on I am not that poor for crack, has nothing to do with reality, and the fact that none of you knows how woman really think, or how society works for that matter

Also you are from India a shithole!!! What a tard

Jajajajaja, really, man? I basically spelled the sarcasm to you an still you fell for it

I just realized you mist have had tried to get my race by looking at mu dick and hands, good job buddy

Haha you're a fucktard black dude, black people hardly even believe in love ,it's all sex and money

Hahaha really did you falles for the sarcasm? Bruv I literally mentioned all the races you thought I was

I love finding put who I'm really talking too it always makes sense why you talk retarded

Ethnic by dick ia not a highly valued skill

That don't make sense ,do you get stupid checks in the mail?

You are the one who tried to figure out my race by my dick, and completely failed btw, and I’m the stupid. And I do not believe there’s stupid checks or all of you mofos would be mad rich

Oh there is i wish I got one,yeah I can tell by your hands you were black and Arab or Indian idiot

Again, none of the ones you mentioned. Man you are so wrong, but so motherfucking full of yourself

Call me god for now on

Old Testament god, a mysoginistic fuck who never does shit

Bow down

Even a sarcastic response is too much for you, just fuck it. I am of every race you think is inferior, you are right I am wrong. Still you don fuck for shit, if you wish to believe neither do I. You made this a pointless race thing, ignoring the original argument, and would never get back to it. So fuck it, fuck you, fuck me, fuck this and everything

Lol triggered so hard I love it

Yeah whatever, Im triggered sonmad, screaming and shit

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You won an internet argument against a stranger, hurra for you, your cause and your ethnic detective skills. Asi que hijo de toda tu puta madre, puedes irte y meterte una banana por el culo porque ganaste hoy

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Felicitaciones, gastaste la discusión, te llevaras a casa un hermoso refrigerador nuevo para toda tu familia

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Si si, curry y la puta madre. Yeii hurra, viva, bravo. Podemos seguir o dejarlo hasta aquí, me vale madre

I answered to this to remember you that you derailed the conversation to my race, I suppose because of the lack of good arguments

Cause it's funny as fuck some black Indian from India thinks he knows something.you only know India shit.

I would have never made the sarcastic remark if I knew you would not have the proper way of knowing it. I am neither black, arabic or even remotely close to India. Because why would I ever tell you mu race and background, it does not prove or disprove shit

Yeah right quit lieing

Your whole point is that I gave an stranger my background, even accepted doing drugs. I could probe you wrong, but why would I? You are the one who saw hands and went, yeah indian, seems right

You are a turd from India that don't know shit but think you do. You probably worship India women.

That’s the irony, people who complain about being treated bad and called ugly, do the same shit when they think have the “biological superiority”. You are so motherfucking full of yourself, and also a racist fuck, and... you know what, your whole argument speaks for itself, even as an investigator you are a failure

Lol!! Did I hurt your feefees

Nah, like I wnt like fuck it, it does not even deserve and argument, just fuck it

Go cry yourself to sleep pajeet bender

Yes I am the one who cries itself to sleep, you saw through my facade. And fuck it you would believe this shit

Just lol 😂😂😂 just LOL 😂😂😂😂😂

Except some of us, like me, won't ever have the necessary social skills to pull this off. Hell, I've never even had a hobby. I can't develop one.

I have said it, it is possible, therapy would work marvels to work those issues out. Social skills development is a thing in psychology, people

What do you think, what percentage of humans on Earth have access to PROPER therapy? 10%? More? Less? Idk, but I sure as fuck don't. It's a privilege of westerners.

there are many ways to get therapy, a lot of countries have acces to hospitals with psychologists, then again a session is not as expensive as people think it is. Non-governmental organizations also give acces to it

Yeah... In many countries it doesn't exist. Here, the best you could get is one short appointment every 8-10 weeks.

Something is better than nothing, if you are not willing to pay for it, as by the looks of it you are not

Of course I'm not willing to pay for it. It'd cost more than what I'd make if I had a job. Here, private therapy seems to be the plaything of the rich.

You have never even tried to get to therapy haven’t you? Thera are variety of theories and costs. You are ready to complain but not to change anything. By the way “if I had a job” disproves your wholes argument

I live in a small town. Google tells me there are 3 therapists around me. Sll of them way out of what I or my parents could pay for. The state provided one is crap.

The help is still out there, better anything than nothing, besides maybe the state provided is not as bas as you think

Yeah. It's worse. It's a Xan dispenser, pretty much.

Man I have seen poor people work for the therapy because they know they need it. Even people who are alone and no one to support them in the economy. And yet, you are here bursting out excuses to yourself. I made mu point if it reached you good, if not also good

I told you. Even if I had a job, I wouldn't be able to pay for it. It's just math. But I can't have a job. I'm 26 and I never had a job.

You don’t have to convince me, I don’t give a fuck. You are the one complaining about your life how it sucks it every way imaginable to man. Keep it up or don’t, I don’t mind, care or whatever

So... You're ignoring my reasoning because it fits your beliefs about how therapy works.

It fits the reality of how therapy works, your whole reasoning is I am poor and my state gives me shit

It fits the reality WHERE YOU LIVE. I don't live in the western world.

your whole reasoning is I am poor and my state gives me shit

Which is a correct statement. And on top of that comes the fact most here look down on people who use mental health services.

Here’s the beautiful irony of here, blaming the world for looking them down and treating them like trash, but they do the same at the first opportunity. Bruv, drown in your own tears that won’t change shit

Nononono, I don't blame them! At all! I AM trash, therefore I should be treated as such, they're objectively correct in that. That isn't what we're discussing.

Stop grandstanding. It doesn't suit you.

Thank you person of the internet who doesn’t know me to get what suits me

You're welcome.

None of this changes the fact that Chad says “wanna smash” and succeeds

i don’t even know where to start with these one, if you oversimplify it, yea it happens, all the guys have to make the girls interested in them, that how flirting works, even good looking guys have to talk before the proposal, even hot guy can fail and not get far with a girl and get far with others. That’s life, all kinda of people, all linda of tastes

even good looking guys have to talk before the proposal

Literally no. You need to lurk more. We got screenshots for days nigger, of girls saying yes to a chad who’s very first message is a crude proposal to fuck. So sure, we’ll do your song and dance and try flirting and talking about interests, etc...but we still feel like pathetic cucks doing it. Because we are.

First, the nigger part, just why, it’s not only incredibly racist also not usable in this context.

Secondly, yea some woman would say yea at first, but man if you think a few makes them all, you are fooling yourself, a lot pf women a lot pf ways of being, people have variety, you know? Of course you don’t

Again the self loathing and the cucks and that shit, just accept you are bad at it, so you can improve

First, the nigger part, just why, it’s not only incredibly racist also not usable in this context.

Niggerfaggot.

Again the self loathing and the cucks and that shit, just accept you are bad at it, so you can improve

You’re missing the point. We’re not cucks because we’re bad at flirting. We’re cucks because we have to flirt, while superior men can get far more than we can with not even a fraction of the effort. We’ll either LDAR, kill ourselves or try impressing women the way you describe. But we’re still inferior any way. And the women who say yes to Chad right away wouldn’t say yes to us at all. That’s the point. That’s why we’re blackpilled.

Again self loathing, that’s all you guys are all about. Impervious to reality because you are too busy feeling bad of yourself. You could engage ina relationship with a female just for friendship, but no, why would you?

You could engage ina relationship with a female just for friendship, but no, why would you?

Exactly! Now you’re making sense buddy

Is either sarcasm to my sarcasm, but I don’t give a fuck at this point.

Man, in developing social skills you always start with friendship and slowly work your way up to finding a partner, many people start like that, some in puberty some later with help of a therapist. But no, you want everything now, for doing shit and changing nothing. That really is the way to work things, a bunch of people lacking social skills on their way to change the whole social structure, that would work like a charm

tbh i don't even have friends.

And I don’t know why’s that? What’s next water is wet?

yep you don't.

But ONS are all looks. Even women on Trollx and stuff say that ONS are all looks. Most incels want to hook up and have those ONS. What are they supposed to do?

Yes, you can. Well, let me correct that, yes people can, apparently none of you can.

Not an incel, just agreeing with their point of view.

lmao here's how flirting works on tinder: be hot

have fun flirting as a 5'2 indian janitor

The beatiful irony in this argument is really strong

Unless you’re in a huge city there are almost no hot young girls on tinder, at least from my experience. But if you have lowish standards it can be a consistent lay if you’re attractive/tall/NT

My friend is basically a model tall white dude who makes good money and he doesn't have much luck on there either

Chad here: can confirm

Old Testament god, a mysoginistic fuck who never does shit