Why do I get the feeling those two don't go together. Mmm it's almost as if reading more and studying more gave you a better perspective of how things work.
I've noticed this is a very common argument from normies. It can be countered by educating them on the halo effect. If someone isn't physically attractive, you will look for reasons not to like them. The only reason you might think those guys aren't very nice is because of their appearance. If they were good looking and said the exact same thing, you would construe them as positive. It's impossible to deny that a lot of shitty guys get girls because of their appearance and a lot of nice guys don't get girls because they're not attractive. Life isn't fair.
It's called Just World Hypothesis: people hate injustice, they hate seeing it, they hate feeling it. So when they encounter it and can't fix it, they refuse to acknowledge it as injustice in order to avoid having to the awful, depressing reality (hence why the term Blue Pill is so damn fitting). "If someone is disgraced or unsuccessful, they must deserve it."
Taking white lies is easier than confronting the disgusting reality of the world. BluePillers are children: they refuse to grow up and recognize the world isn't shiny and beautiful, but unjust and brutal.
Look at Donald Trump. He’s proven to be a terrible person but because he was born with money he’s had three wives. He’s cheated multiple times. Yet he’s the president.
If I had hot Melania at home, I wouldn’t be looking for a side chick.
I'm putting up a terribly long file with I don't even know how many studies. I'll post it when it's done.
It includes 10 studies indicating predatory behavior (aggressive, unapologetic, dominant, careless) makes good-looking men even more attractive. u/-Archea- will want to take a look when it's done; I'll mention her in the comments to let her know.
This is a well studied psychological phenomenon. The black pill creates heavy cognitive dissonance, especially for bluepill/inceltears/feminists/IT people. The brain will naturally respond to get rid of the dissonance in different ways.
Several of those ways include ignoring/ denying the facts, distorting facts to more accurately fit your belief system (also called confirmation bias), or justifying the facts with additional info.
We see all of this routinely on inceltears and comments on this sub.
A fourth way to ease the tension caused by the cognitive dissonance is to change one’s beliefs to fit the facts that they are presented with. This is least likely to happen based off of how strongly a particular belief is held.
So essentially, society has forced this nice guy/nice personality narrative down there throats so hard that it is embedded deeply into their belief system making it very difficult for them to think otherwise.
This is why I kept bluepilled and redpilled studies in the compilation I just posted. I try to avoid confirmation bias: some of those studies and articles contradict part of my points, but I'm keeping that research anyway. I want the truth and only the truth, and not pushing some narrative by picking just the stuff that supports my views.
23 comments
1 -Archea- 2018-05-15
You become a reasonable human?
1 qwep-mi 2018-05-15
Shut up dumbass
1 -Archea- 2018-05-15
You really just proved my point.
1 qwep-mi 2018-05-15
Shutup dumbass
1 justforlulzandkeks 2018-05-15
https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0191886913012245
1 EvilBananaManRD 2018-05-15
Link that user to r/BlackPillScience
1 EvilBananaManRD 2018-05-15
Why do I get the feeling those two don't go together. Mmm it's almost as if reading more and studying more gave you a better perspective of how things work.
1 Jsm96 2018-05-15
I've noticed this is a very common argument from normies. It can be countered by educating them on the halo effect. If someone isn't physically attractive, you will look for reasons not to like them. The only reason you might think those guys aren't very nice is because of their appearance. If they were good looking and said the exact same thing, you would construe them as positive. It's impossible to deny that a lot of shitty guys get girls because of their appearance and a lot of nice guys don't get girls because they're not attractive. Life isn't fair.
1 EvilBananaManRD 2018-05-15
It's called Just World Hypothesis: people hate injustice, they hate seeing it, they hate feeling it. So when they encounter it and can't fix it, they refuse to acknowledge it as injustice in order to avoid having to the awful, depressing reality (hence why the term Blue Pill is so damn fitting). "If someone is disgraced or unsuccessful, they must deserve it."
Taking white lies is easier than confronting the disgusting reality of the world. BluePillers are children: they refuse to grow up and recognize the world isn't shiny and beautiful, but unjust and brutal.
1 vampirewarlock666 2018-05-15
Look at Donald Trump. He’s proven to be a terrible person but because he was born with money he’s had three wives. He’s cheated multiple times. Yet he’s the president.
If I had hot Melania at home, I wouldn’t be looking for a side chick.
1 Electronic_Bunny 2018-05-15
The halo effect only has a basis in initial interaction. Any social relationships after a few hours has shown to lose such effects.
1 justforlulzandkeks 2018-05-15
absolute fucking coping retards
1 Idk12344482305 2018-05-15
Nice guys get laid all the time.
Good-looking nice guys.
1 Sniveling_Cur 2018-05-15
This whole "nice guys" meme is probably the single most ass-backwards, denialist, bluepilled faggotry to ever come out of normtards.
1 EvilBananaManRD 2018-05-15
I'm putting up a terribly long file with I don't even know how many studies. I'll post it when it's done.
It includes 10 studies indicating predatory behavior (aggressive, unapologetic, dominant, careless) makes good-looking men even more attractive. u/-Archea- will want to take a look when it's done; I'll mention her in the comments to let her know.
1 DankIncel 2018-05-15
Girls don't like nice guys or assholes or whatever. They like ATTRACTIVE men. If you're attractive you make the cut if you're ugly you don't.
1 t-away3 2018-05-15
This is a well studied psychological phenomenon. The black pill creates heavy cognitive dissonance, especially for bluepill/inceltears/feminists/IT people. The brain will naturally respond to get rid of the dissonance in different ways.
Several of those ways include ignoring/ denying the facts, distorting facts to more accurately fit your belief system (also called confirmation bias), or justifying the facts with additional info.
We see all of this routinely on inceltears and comments on this sub.
A fourth way to ease the tension caused by the cognitive dissonance is to change one’s beliefs to fit the facts that they are presented with. This is least likely to happen based off of how strongly a particular belief is held.
So essentially, society has forced this nice guy/nice personality narrative down there throats so hard that it is embedded deeply into their belief system making it very difficult for them to think otherwise.
1 EvilBananaManRD 2018-05-15
This is why I kept bluepilled and redpilled studies in the compilation I just posted. I try to avoid confirmation bias: some of those studies and articles contradict part of my points, but I'm keeping that research anyway. I want the truth and only the truth, and not pushing some narrative by picking just the stuff that supports my views.
1 normieanathema 2018-05-15
That's one way to keep guys chasing the figurative carrot on a stick Lmfao.
"You're not being nice enough-- no, now you're just acting nice! It has to be genuine! Girls can tell, you know?!"
Unbelievably stupid.
1 t-away3 2018-05-15
Don’t forget “you’re being too nice, it’s creepy”
1 EvilBananaManRD 2018-05-15
Women don't want sex from ugly men but they want their attention. For validation and feeling of self-worth.
Telling men they can get the girl if they're nice enough is an effective way to keep them in line. "Be a good boy. Do what you're told."
1 DocHoladay 2018-05-15
You mean the ones that are photoshopped and faked? Those studies and albums?
1 EvilBananaManRD 2018-05-15
This is just a level of delusion and denial I didn't know was possible.
1 hara-kiri-enthusiast 2018-05-15
You are going so far to believe every woman is good and morally righteous by default, that you're willing to claim all those tinder matches are fake?