Eh.. a friend I made within the last 2 years is ugly as fuck and short. He's a cool guy. We go to bars sometimes but usually just chill and play some video games and talk about life. Maybe you're just a weirdo or have bad hygiene? He's ugly as fuck but he's not obese. Obese people smell fucking weird and it feels unhealthy hanging out with them by instinct so I don't. Ugly is different from obese.
Fuuuck this hits too close to home. I struck up a conveesation with an amateur photographer at a social event my mom invited me to about three weeks ago. Built decent rapport with him and talked about all the photos he took while we reminisced over high school since we went to the same alma mater. I thought I had really made a new friend for the first time in ages, and he even offered to hang out around town that night. His cellphone was out of service, so he told me to jot my number down on a piece of napkin and he'd call me later from his home phone. Like I said, it's been three weeks and I haven't heard a peep from him since. So tired of this, it happens too often
Shoot. Better luck next time bro. When it comes to making friends I will say that you have to make it happen. most people won’t go out of their way to hang out with a new person
You need to not take it so hard. I've met tons of cool people and gotten their number and we've never spoken again. Taking on a new friend especially when someone is older and busier can be stressful for some reason. You have to learn more about that person.. might not seem like it but you are investing some emotional connection into that person. In 2018 more than ever that's bigger and bigger. I've had a long day, do I want to meet this new friend who could turn out to be weird.. or go on a Tinder date or out to a bar with good friends I already have or simply watch TV.
I think this is just a part of some cultures in general, people saying "let's do coffee sometime" has been made to be one of the most meaningless, empty expressions alongside "how are you".
49 comments
1 RightHandoftheJhereg 2018-05-15
So you’re a misogynist who wants a fascist state and sharia law, and you can’t figure out why nobody likes you?
1 failednormiecel 2018-05-15
Out
1 RightHandoftheJhereg 2018-05-15
Does that normally work for you?
1 failednormiecel 2018-05-15
Normans are absolute fucking retards so no. I still have to say it.
1 RightHandoftheJhereg 2018-05-15
Stupid normans, why can’t they just let you radicalize in your echo chamber in peace?
1 failednormiecel 2018-05-15
Jfl if you think this is an echo chamber. This place is 70% normies.
1 trevmon 2018-05-15
radical dude! totally tubular! cowabunga!
over for nigga turtles
1 Carkudo 2018-05-15
Well, he did manage to get you angry and change topics, so yeah, it definitely worked lol.
1 RightHandoftheJhereg 2018-05-15
I’m still here, I’m not angry, and I never changed topics. What I said was relevant. So how did saying “out” “work?”
1 Carkudo 2018-05-15
Here you are stomping your feet, trying to convince people you're not angry, instead of shitposting. So yeah, it worked pretty good.
1 RightHandoftheJhereg 2018-05-15
He said “out.” I’m not out. Keep trying sweaty
1 subhumanforever 2018-05-15
Look how mad you are. Just lol.
1 RightHandoftheJhereg 2018-05-15
So mad that OP’s account is toast. Just raging over here.
1 subhumanforever 2018-05-15
1 Blade22 2018-05-15
Out
1 RightHandoftheJhereg 2018-05-15
Ban me.
1 failednormiecel 2018-05-15
u/board_gaming
He asked for it.
1 trevmon 2018-05-15
she'll make him a supermod
1 failednormiecel 2018-05-15
Yep. It’s over.
1 trevmon 2018-05-15
reeeeeee
1 Hoeasss 2018-05-15
Out
1 RightHandoftheJhereg 2018-05-15
No, you
1 mittrinilli 2018-05-15
OUT FAGGOT
1 Zangano1 2018-05-15
It's over for friendcels
1 -SpinxS 2018-05-15
yeah. all my friends ghosted me. they would litlerly plan weekend while me being there and not invite me.
1 Flojoe420 2018-05-15
Time to make some new ones. Maybe buy some tickets to a local game and ask around.
1 subhumanforever 2018-05-15
Yeah bro! It's THAT easy. Fucking idiot.
1 i-t-s-o-v-e-r 2018-05-15
Just leave your house and ask random people on the street if they want to join a local game! Don't wallow in self-pity.
1 WhyNotLayDownAndRot 2018-05-15
lol what does that even mean? a local game of what?
1 35yoGeneticTrash 2018-05-15
My God. Being this autistic.
1 subhumanforever 2018-05-15
Same here.
1 haymansafc 2018-05-15
Indeed - and yet we're deemed to make 'no effort' with people. The truth of the matter is that our efforts are ignored, because we're so stigmatised.
That's the real problem...and it remains ignored or deemed 'wrong'.
1 TruthbeTold9999 2018-05-15
Eh.. a friend I made within the last 2 years is ugly as fuck and short. He's a cool guy. We go to bars sometimes but usually just chill and play some video games and talk about life. Maybe you're just a weirdo or have bad hygiene? He's ugly as fuck but he's not obese. Obese people smell fucking weird and it feels unhealthy hanging out with them by instinct so I don't. Ugly is different from obese.
1 haymansafc 2018-05-15
More of the usual falsehoods spoken about me...
1 endmysuffering1 2018-05-15
me
1 CupOfCope 2018-05-15
Fuuuck this hits too close to home. I struck up a conveesation with an amateur photographer at a social event my mom invited me to about three weeks ago. Built decent rapport with him and talked about all the photos he took while we reminisced over high school since we went to the same alma mater. I thought I had really made a new friend for the first time in ages, and he even offered to hang out around town that night. His cellphone was out of service, so he told me to jot my number down on a piece of napkin and he'd call me later from his home phone. Like I said, it's been three weeks and I haven't heard a peep from him since. So tired of this, it happens too often
1 NetscapeNavigator9 2018-05-15
Find him on Facebook and send him a friend request
1 CupOfCope 2018-05-15
I couldn't find him on FB
1 NetscapeNavigator9 2018-05-15
Shoot. Better luck next time bro. When it comes to making friends I will say that you have to make it happen. most people won’t go out of their way to hang out with a new person
1 BloodSurgery 2018-05-15
Just like with women, you are supposed to get their number. If they ask you your number no eay hes gonna call lmao.
1 TruthbeTold9999 2018-05-15
You need to not take it so hard. I've met tons of cool people and gotten their number and we've never spoken again. Taking on a new friend especially when someone is older and busier can be stressful for some reason. You have to learn more about that person.. might not seem like it but you are investing some emotional connection into that person. In 2018 more than ever that's bigger and bigger. I've had a long day, do I want to meet this new friend who could turn out to be weird.. or go on a Tinder date or out to a bar with good friends I already have or simply watch TV.
1 MgtowEuphoria 2018-05-15
Looks like my life after High School. I was always a person's backup option or backup backup backup backup option.
1 GrinchBear 2018-05-15
So did they never actually make plans or...
1 grimm_ghost 2018-05-15
Should have used Beavis and Butthead, they’re the ultimate incels lol.
1 GaryMckinnon 2018-05-15
Even they had each other though lol
1 Cristookie 2018-05-15
I just invite people to do things. People like to be told what to do cuz their lazy or boring.
1 SnowGetsMeWet 2018-05-15
I wish I could make friends.
1 TObestcityinworld 2018-05-15
I think this is just a part of some cultures in general, people saying "let's do coffee sometime" has been made to be one of the most meaningless, empty expressions alongside "how are you".
1 SpecialistWerewolf 2018-05-15
If he had just said “we should hang out FRIDAY NIGHT” he would have smashed.
1 RightHandoftheJhereg 2018-05-15
I’m still here, I’m not angry, and I never changed topics. What I said was relevant. So how did saying “out” “work?”
1 Carkudo 2018-05-15
Here you are stomping your feet, trying to convince people you're not angry, instead of shitposting. So yeah, it worked pretty good.