This what happens when you betabux folks. You think your going well at one moment when you're buying her shit at the mall. Next thing you know you're paying for alimony when she divorces you.
Did you read the article? Only asking because you mentioned alimony and the article specifically states that this man won’t have to pay alimony because he’s been married less than 10 years.
jesus. this marketwatch guy that replied to him, I get the feeling that he is lolling and thinking "damn what a cuck, what the fuck did you expect, what kind of advice am I supposed to give you, that money is good as gone"
Not an incel or chad or whatever, don’t really give a fuck. But this isn’t uncommon.
I will never pay off someone debt unless they’re family (cause at the end of the day they are still that.) my mom for instance is only still with this dude until she pays off her debt.
It’s obviously more common in women. I’m grateful that my mom is dating a non working loser so she doesn’t end up doing what this guys ex did to him.
But hasn’t women always married for financial power? To say I’m surprised by this would be a complete lie. I dunno. All I know is that at least millennial and gen z women tend to be more “empowering” of themselves and have no issue fucking a dude over. That’s probably what the black pill is, yeah?
Her own words are: “I just want a fresh start” when I asked the same thing. So I’m assuming once she’s got it all paid off its gonna be like a fresh start to her. She has a lot of money coming from an inheritance, so her plan is to pay off the debt and get a house. For the time being though, I guess she’s just with him for the little money he can scrounge up.
To say he doesn’t work was a bit of an over exaggeration. He works one week out of every month and I guess it’s enough for her to afford the rent. Sucks, but I don’t feel bad for the guy. He’s definitely what you guys would called a chad, and has two kids with two different women, which he has no part in their lives with. Fortunately for my mother, her tubes are tied so the chances of her being knocked up are slim to none (assuming that the procedure was fucked).
There's no way to accumulate "brownie points" with women. It's always "what can you do for me this instant?"
Another scenario I've seen play out multiple times: a husband/boyfriend and wife/girlfriend both want a master's degree or some new vocational training. They agree to take turns going back to school. The husband picks up some extra hours or a second job while the wife studies. She gets a better job/huge raise and when it's his turn to quit his job and study she decides he's a mooch/bum and jettisons him with zero guilt.
This happens and it you're right, it's more likely to be a woman ditching a man in this situation and it's cruel for sure. I think a lot of that has to do with the gender-dynamic we grew up with.
Red Pill for example wants to bring BACK the old dynamic and in the case of THIS ^ happening to a RPer, they deserve it - since it's exactly the kinda shit they preach.
That said - my marriage has existed for 10 years and we've happily supported each other through studies, joblessness caused by depression and all the rest. There's been times we've both had full-time employment and times we don't.
Right now, my wife is the one with FT employment, financially supporting my broke-ass. In the past it's been the other way around.
IMHO - most people just fucking suck. men and woman. Find a good one, basically lol
uh-huh - yes, there are two people in the world; a man and a woman and everyone else is just a clone of one of them. Get a grip, mate.
AWALT, even if she hasn't cucked and/or divorced raped you YET, doesn't mean she has seriously considered the divorce or masturbated to the idea of the cucking, in fact it is naive and inviting disaster to think otherwise.
How's she going to divorce rape me when she bought the house and both our cars lol? I don't even have a fucking job atm - she's also entirely supporting me financially atm.
"And I wasn't betabux, as I was not making a lot of money. There are no good ones. She was using me for something else.
"They don't care.
"She stole my fucking pets too."
If you don't have any money to steal, you can always steal your reputation and future prospects by claiming your abused her somehow, forcing her to provide for your lazy self, so as to justify the breakup to her social media circles.
Uh-huh. I already read that link. That guys an idiot. Prenups exist, he fucked himself. Like half of all marriages end in divorce, he should have thought ahead.
Anyway - you're seriously bitter man. People have individual personalities. Sure - there ARE gender-traits, not going to argue that, it's self-evidently true. But to think everyone of a single gender is the same is just fucking insane man.
Uh-huh. I already read that link. That guys an idiot. Prenups exist, he fucked himself. Like half of all marriages end in divorce, he should have thought ahead.
Prenups exist, as do judges that they will throw them out.
Anyway - you're seriously bitter man. People have individual personalities. Sure - there ARE gender-traits, not going to argue that, it's self-evidently true. But to think everyone of a single gender is the same is just fucking insane man.
You're not a special unique snowflake, if you're a man, then you tempted by all the same things other men are. Same applies to women, AWALT. You're projecting bitterness upon me, I'm not bitter at women, anymore than I'm bitter at fire for knowing it can and will burn me under certain scenarios.
Yep. They have no loyalty. You're not building anything with them. You're not building a relationship. There is nothing there. It's a house of cards. I'm more sure of this than anything.
I spent every day of 10 years with my ex. I'm not exaggerating. We did everything together - vacations, camping, hobbies, concerts, festivals, moving across the country. All that bullshit that people on the front page of reddit will tell you is building a forever relationship. We were best friends, too. (Of course, that doesn't actually mean anything to a woman) We grew up together 19-29. She left me at the drop of a hat. Literally, someone dropped a hat somewhere and that's why she left. There was no falling out. There was no period of years where she slowly drifted away. We didn't want different things. We didn't grow apart. She left me to do exactly what I wanted to do with her, except with someone else. She left me her feelings had changed for me for "I don't know, about a month." Her exact words.
Yep. They have no loyalty. You're not building anything with them. You're not building a relationship. There is nothing there. It's a house of cards. I'm more sure of this than anything.
I spent every day of 10 years with my ex. I'm not exaggerating. We did everything together - vacations, camping, hobbies, concerts, festivals, moving across the country. All that bullshit that people on the front page of reddit will tell you is building a forever relationship. We were best friends, too. (Of course, that doesn't actually mean anything to a woman) We grew up together 19-29. She left me at the drop of a hat. Literally, someone dropped a hat somewhere and that's why she left. There was no falling out. There was no period of years where she slowly drifted away. We didn't want different things. We didn't grow apart. She left me to do exactly what I wanted to do with her, except with someone else. She left me her feelings had changed for me for "I don't know, about a month." Her exact words.
And I wasn't betabux, as I was not making a lot of money. There are no good ones. She was using me for something else.
It was more like 6 amazing months, then just normal life. And I've had to pay it all back, with interest. It wasn't worth it in this case. I'm certain of that. All the good feelings were just a set-up to a joke.
There is a very valid argument that by paying the debt on the degrees he is entitled to alimony based on her earnings from the degrees- there are a lot of precedent for this type of divorce where someone supports a spouse through college and then divorced right after, it’s usually a man who does it though, not a women, so he should file that the college degrees she earned that he payed the debt for are communal assets because they where paid off jointly and she entered into the marriage with the sole intent to gain financial support for those degrees
The only good thing to come out of women is they drain cucks and moderators out of their money. I bet board game is sucking the doh right out of some child molester reddit admins dick right now
If a roastie did this to me I would pack her bags, load up her car, drive it into a ditch, cover it in soil, shoot her in the head and then tell everyone she eloped with her secret lover.
Never pay for a woman's shit. They want equality, then can have it: starting with equal responsibility, meaning they can take care of their own shit. And split the bill on dates, too. This is how numales and undesirable men get used and abused.
A ) This can go both ways. For example, I'm married with a house, but my wife brought it into our marriage, not me. I'm legally entitled to half of it too. Although, if we split - depending on how far down the line, I'd walk away and leave it with her - although if it were another 10 years from now (we've been together 10 already) then yeah, I'd take my share.
B ) Pre-Nups exist for a fucking reason. It's hard to sympathise with someone he did this shit to themselves. Be a fucking better judge of character and use your brain.
C ) Half of all marriages (or thereabout) end in divorce. So use your head, ahead of time.
D ) Basically - either you love someone enough that you want them to take half, even if it ends - or you don't (in which case, maybe don't marry them if you don't care for them that much).
E ) That said ^ you can be taken in by deceit and I don't want to blame someone for giving the benefit of the doubt. But again - pre-nups are a thing.
F ) In most countries with marriage-property laws where shit gets divided, you can hire a lawyer and essentially plead a case for what is 'fair'. So long as you're not being greedy or over-estimating your own contribution (paid-work obviously isn't everything. If someone raised your kids, looked after your house and all the rest, at the detriment to their own career - that ain't nothing.) But so long as you go in with reasonable expectations, the law is also there for a reason.
53 comments
1 BRAHMINDEEPSTATE 2018-05-14
Cucks gonna cuck
1 itsbeenover 2018-05-14
cuck
1 BackSeatMotherFucker 2018-05-14
This what happens when you betabux folks. You think your going well at one moment when you're buying her shit at the mall. Next thing you know you're paying for alimony when she divorces you.
1 StoopidSeksyFlanders 2018-05-14
Did you read the article? Only asking because you mentioned alimony and the article specifically states that this man won’t have to pay alimony because he’s been married less than 10 years.
1 trevmon 2018-05-14
he says the judge is unlikely to do that in texas but it doesn't sound for sure
1 CptBeetle 2018-05-14
reading the article? lol - but that would require using a brain!
1 StoopidSeksyFlanders 2018-05-14
Feels like I’m wearing nothing at all!
1 CptBeetle 2018-05-14
Damn you, Flanders!
shudders
1 PhucCheet 2018-05-14
The secret is to reverse-betabux. Get her to pay for you.
1 CptBeetle 2018-05-14
lol my marriage right now. Currently unemployed PLUS my wife bought our cars and house lol
1 balloonanusanimals 2018-05-14
She's still leave you for no reason when something else comes along or she gets bored.
1 PhucCheet 2018-05-14
Who cares. When one of you leaves the other, you're the one ahead in money.
1 Ultramegasaurus 2018-05-14
We don't have the faces for that
1 PhucCheet 2018-05-14
The rope is too short and wide for your face and height. Nothing is in your favor.
1 BRAHMINDEEPSTATE 2018-05-14
Roasties are on damage control. Note the downvotes.
1 acoverover1 2018-05-14
lmao. I will never not think these pathetic weakling bugmen deserve everything that comes to them.
1 genericpajeet 2018-05-14
roasties have no concept of honor
1 trevmon 2018-05-14
jesus. this marketwatch guy that replied to him, I get the feeling that he is lolling and thinking "damn what a cuck, what the fuck did you expect, what kind of advice am I supposed to give you, that money is good as gone"
1 TruthInBlack 2018-05-14
Roasties gonna roast.
1 Idk12344482305 2018-05-14
I feel bad for a guy for going into a relationship thinking this woman might be different. Stupid, but I feel for him.
1 GavinWut 2018-05-14
Not an incel or chad or whatever, don’t really give a fuck. But this isn’t uncommon.
I will never pay off someone debt unless they’re family (cause at the end of the day they are still that.) my mom for instance is only still with this dude until she pays off her debt.
It’s obviously more common in women. I’m grateful that my mom is dating a non working loser so she doesn’t end up doing what this guys ex did to him.
But hasn’t women always married for financial power? To say I’m surprised by this would be a complete lie. I dunno. All I know is that at least millennial and gen z women tend to be more “empowering” of themselves and have no issue fucking a dude over. That’s probably what the black pill is, yeah?
1 TheiWindFelt 2018-05-14
This "black pill" is common fkn sense lol. The only pill that i think exists is the blue pill.
1 trevmon 2018-05-14
why is your mom with a guy till she pays off her debt, he is unworking so not paying it for her right?
1 GavinWut 2018-05-14
Her own words are: “I just want a fresh start” when I asked the same thing. So I’m assuming once she’s got it all paid off its gonna be like a fresh start to her. She has a lot of money coming from an inheritance, so her plan is to pay off the debt and get a house. For the time being though, I guess she’s just with him for the little money he can scrounge up.
To say he doesn’t work was a bit of an over exaggeration. He works one week out of every month and I guess it’s enough for her to afford the rent. Sucks, but I don’t feel bad for the guy. He’s definitely what you guys would called a chad, and has two kids with two different women, which he has no part in their lives with. Fortunately for my mother, her tubes are tied so the chances of her being knocked up are slim to none (assuming that the procedure was fucked).
1 trevmon 2018-05-14
is he tall
1 GavinWut 2018-05-14
I guess. I’m 6’1, taller than him. If I had to guess he’s probably 5’11
1 trevmon 2018-05-14
kek
1 NormansGetOut 2018-05-14
There's no way to accumulate "brownie points" with women. It's always "what can you do for me this instant?"
Another scenario I've seen play out multiple times: a husband/boyfriend and wife/girlfriend both want a master's degree or some new vocational training. They agree to take turns going back to school. The husband picks up some extra hours or a second job while the wife studies. She gets a better job/huge raise and when it's his turn to quit his job and study she decides he's a mooch/bum and jettisons him with zero guilt.
1 guerillahubris00 2018-05-14
This is just pure sociopathy
1 CptBeetle 2018-05-14
This happens and it you're right, it's more likely to be a woman ditching a man in this situation and it's cruel for sure. I think a lot of that has to do with the gender-dynamic we grew up with.
Red Pill for example wants to bring BACK the old dynamic and in the case of THIS ^ happening to a RPer, they deserve it - since it's exactly the kinda shit they preach.
That said - my marriage has existed for 10 years and we've happily supported each other through studies, joblessness caused by depression and all the rest. There's been times we've both had full-time employment and times we don't.
Right now, my wife is the one with FT employment, financially supporting my broke-ass. In the past it's been the other way around.
IMHO - most people just fucking suck. men and woman. Find a good one, basically lol
1 lonely_suicidal_cel 2018-05-14
AWALT
1 CptBeetle 2018-05-14
uh-huh - yes, there are two people in the world; a man and a woman and everyone else is just a clone of one of the. Get a grip, mate.
1 Incel9876 2018-05-14
AWALT, even if she hasn't cucked and/or divorced raped you YET, doesn't mean she has seriously considered the divorce or masturbated to the idea of the cucking, in fact it is naive and inviting disaster to think otherwise.
1 CptBeetle 2018-05-14
How's she going to divorce rape me when she bought the house and both our cars lol?
1 Incel9876 2018-05-14
You'll see:
https://old.reddit.com/r/Braincels/comments/8je2hw/i_paid_off_my_wifes_student_loans_then_she_filed/dyzwslt/
"And I wasn't betabux, as I was not making a lot of money. There are no good ones. She was using me for something else.
"They don't care.
"She stole my fucking pets too."
If you don't have any money to steal, you can always steal your reputation and future prospects by claiming your abused her somehow, forcing her to provide for your lazy self, so as to justify the breakup to her social media circles.
1 CptBeetle 2018-05-14
Uh-huh. I already read that link. That guys an idiot. Prenups exist, he fucked himself. Like half of all marriages end in divorce, he should have thought ahead.
Anyway - you're seriously bitter man. People have individual personalities. Sure - there ARE gender-traits, not going to argue that, it's self-evidently true. But to think everyone of a single gender is the same is just fucking insane man.
1 Incel9876 2018-05-14
Prenups exist, as do judges that they will throw them out.
You're not a special unique snowflake, if you're a man, then you tempted by all the same things other men are. Same applies to women, AWALT. You're projecting bitterness upon me, I'm not bitter at women, anymore than I'm bitter at fire for knowing it can and will burn me under certain scenarios.
1 CptBeetle 2018-05-14
You deliberately ignored the part where I said that gender-specific traits are self-evident.
Troll status confirmed.
1 morthond 2018-05-14
Yep. They have no loyalty. You're not building anything with them. You're not building a relationship. There is nothing there. It's a house of cards. I'm more sure of this than anything.
I spent every day of 10 years with my ex. I'm not exaggerating. We did everything together - vacations, camping, hobbies, concerts, festivals, moving across the country. All that bullshit that people on the front page of reddit will tell you is building a forever relationship. We were best friends, too. (Of course, that doesn't actually mean anything to a woman) We grew up together 19-29. She left me at the drop of a hat. Literally, someone dropped a hat somewhere and that's why she left. There was no falling out. There was no period of years where she slowly drifted away. We didn't want different things. We didn't grow apart. She left me to do exactly what I wanted to do with her, except with someone else. She left me her feelings had changed for me for "I don't know, about a month." Her exact words.
They don't care.
1 balloonanusanimals 2018-05-14
Yep. They have no loyalty. You're not building anything with them. You're not building a relationship. There is nothing there. It's a house of cards. I'm more sure of this than anything.
I spent every day of 10 years with my ex. I'm not exaggerating. We did everything together - vacations, camping, hobbies, concerts, festivals, moving across the country. All that bullshit that people on the front page of reddit will tell you is building a forever relationship. We were best friends, too. (Of course, that doesn't actually mean anything to a woman) We grew up together 19-29. She left me at the drop of a hat. Literally, someone dropped a hat somewhere and that's why she left. There was no falling out. There was no period of years where she slowly drifted away. We didn't want different things. We didn't grow apart. She left me to do exactly what I wanted to do with her, except with someone else. She left me her feelings had changed for me for "I don't know, about a month." Her exact words.
And I wasn't betabux, as I was not making a lot of money. There are no good ones. She was using me for something else.
They don't care.
She stole my fucking pets too.
1 Shazig 2018-05-14
I'm so sorry, you deserved better than that.
1 SoonelyDoodely 2018-05-14
at least u enjoyed 10 amazing years that I'd kill to enjoy just 1 like that
1 balloonanusanimals 2018-05-14
It was more like 6 amazing months, then just normal life. And I've had to pay it all back, with interest. It wasn't worth it in this case. I'm certain of that. All the good feelings were just a set-up to a joke.
1 ghiknfrtf 2018-05-14
There is a very valid argument that by paying the debt on the degrees he is entitled to alimony based on her earnings from the degrees- there are a lot of precedent for this type of divorce where someone supports a spouse through college and then divorced right after, it’s usually a man who does it though, not a women, so he should file that the college degrees she earned that he payed the debt for are communal assets because they where paid off jointly and she entered into the marriage with the sole intent to gain financial support for those degrees
Again, it’s actually fairly common
I am a lawyer
1 movielover2018 2018-05-14
lifefuel
1 lonely_suicidal_cel 2018-05-14
Cuck
1 Mr-Mercedes- 2018-05-14
Your fault for cucking
1 geoffreylambert 2018-05-14
I would actually murder her. How could you not?
1 StoopidSeksyFlanders 2018-05-14
I wonder how her threat of taking the house will actually play out. Like most places Texas is a community property state.
1 JamesLucratif 2018-05-14
The only good thing to come out of women is they drain cucks and moderators out of their money. I bet board game is sucking the doh right out of some child molester reddit admins dick right now
1 BRAHMINDEEPSTATE 2018-05-14
She's a black female.
1 JarlPaul 2018-05-14
stron' g an d'e-pndatn wamen
1 AskToSeeMyTinyPenis 2018-05-14
Lol if you get married
1 CountyMcCounterson 2018-05-14
If a roastie did this to me I would pack her bags, load up her car, drive it into a ditch, cover it in soil, shoot her in the head and then tell everyone she eloped with her secret lover.
1 BetterIncel 2018-05-14
What's the points of marriage actually? If you really love each other you wouldn't need to marry.
1 bigantennaemay1 2018-05-14
Never pay for a woman's shit. They want equality, then can have it: starting with equal responsibility, meaning they can take care of their own shit. And split the bill on dates, too. This is how numales and undesirable men get used and abused.
1 CptBeetle 2018-05-14
A few things here:
A ) This can go both ways. For example, I'm married with a house, but my wife brought it into our marriage, not me. I'm legally entitled to half of it too. Although, if we split - depending on how far down the line, I'd walk away and leave it with her - although if it were another 10 years from now (we've been together 10 already) then yeah, I'd take my share.
B ) Pre-Nups exist for a fucking reason. It's hard to sympathise with someone he did this shit to themselves. Be a fucking better judge of character and use your brain.
C ) Half of all marriages (or thereabout) end in divorce. So use your head, ahead of time.
D ) Basically - either you love someone enough that you want them to take half, even if it ends - or you don't (in which case, maybe don't marry them if you don't care for them that much).
E ) That said ^ you can be taken in by deceit and I don't want to blame someone for giving the benefit of the doubt. But again - pre-nups are a thing.
F ) In most countries with marriage-property laws where shit gets divided, you can hire a lawyer and essentially plead a case for what is 'fair'. So long as you're not being greedy or over-estimating your own contribution (paid-work obviously isn't everything. If someone raised your kids, looked after your house and all the rest, at the detriment to their own career - that ain't nothing.) But so long as you go in with reasonable expectations, the law is also there for a reason.
1 failednormiecel 2018-05-14
Women are cunts who are undeserving of empathy.
1 jewishsupremacist88 2018-05-14
sugar babies, fellowcels.
1 coke_and_rum 2018-05-14
Imagine being such a cunt that you want to take someone's retirement money. Femoids have no shame.
1 SlapmyFace 2018-05-14
Are people in this sub actually serious or are you just all in for osme kind of inside ellaborate joke
1 Wateryoudoinglater 2018-05-14
I remember when I got screwed out of something and blamed every person that shares anything remotely the same as them. I hate all people now.
1 CptBeetle 2018-05-14
How's she going to divorce rape me when she bought the house and both our cars lol?
1 Shazig 2018-05-14
I'm so sorry, you deserved better than that.
1 SoonelyDoodely 2018-05-14
at least u enjoyed 10 amazing years that I'd kill to enjoy just 1 like that