I used to have a lot of female friends. This is what got me blackpilled long before I even know what r/incels was.
85 2018-05-14 by GymcellingisCope1
Being short (5'5") with a babyface, girls who were around my age (this happened when I was around 18, I'm 21 now) didn't even see me as a man but as a child. I was automatically friendzoned. This allowed me to easily become friends with women, and I had a lot of female friends before I got blackpilled and realized their friendships were useless.
When women get in a group and talk about guys, they are absolutely cruel. They will criticize virtually everything about that guy; His nose, jawline, race sometimes, and height the most. Two different girls in one sitting shared a story about their supposed Tinder date who they ended up being grossed out me just because they were the same height as them, and mind you, they said this knowing that I'm just as tall as they are.
The only time they would want to hang out with me is if I was taking them somewhere and paying for it. Or if they wanted someone to listen to their stupid problems, like the drama they had with this other girl, or the fight they had with their boyfriend or their rant about fuccbois.
I didn't get much benefit from their friendship in exchange. They wouldn't do favours for me back, didn't go to my birthdays, didn't help me what I was in need of aid. When I opened up to one of them that I was having issues finding a girl to date she just said use Tinder and didn't offer to Wing-woman me. None of them invited me to any parties they went to or when they hanged out of a club, so no having female friends didn't increase my social status. When I asked one of them why, she said, "I wouldn't want to me seen in a party with you, but let's hang out at Froyos sometime! (Of course I'd be paying for that)"
The straw that broke my back was when I sat again with my "female friends" in a group, and they all ultimately agreed that guys shorter than them are little boys who really shouldn't bother trying. I didn't argue with them, but if that's what my own "Friends" really think about me, then are they really my friends?
At that point it didn't even feel like a friendship with them anymore. It felt like I was their tool, ATM and emotional tampon. AND the worst part of it all is that they didn't respect me either.
I slowly started talking with them less and less. A few tried texting me trying to repair our "Friendship", and that they really enjoyed hanging out with me because I had a "Great personality". I told them that nothing's wrong but I didn't hang out with any of them after that. I stopped saying hi to them on campus (they notice this, some asked me about it, I didn't respond).
Once they were out of my life I started to feel better about myself, as if I removed a parasite from my body. Long before I even knew what inceldom was, it was women that taught me that all they care about is looks, and not personality.
The best lesson they taught me was to have to self-respect and not befriend anybody that does not respect me.
36 comments
1 PM_ME_TENDIE_STORIES 2018-05-14
Great post and also pretty relatable.
The more time I spent with females the more I realized how shallow they were. Now I keep to myself for the most part.
1 GymcellingisCope1 2018-05-14
I still have some female friends, but I keep my distance. Most of my friends are guys nowadays.
1 IncelSlayerZero 2018-05-14
I won't hang out with wymyn unless they're sucking this cawk. Fulfilling friendships, lol. What a fucking crock.
1 geneticwaste43 2018-05-14
Same.
1 AbuIncelAlAustrali 2018-05-14
Around the foid be paranoid
1 Hoeasss 2018-05-14
Women make consistently awful friends, why anyone would want to be friends with femoids is a mystery to me
1 bcat124 2018-05-14
Damn dude, I relate so much to this. I used to have lots of female "friends" too like this.
This happened to me so much as well. I was always left out from social events where I could meet a girl. They viewed me as this complete asexual being, it felt so bad.
I asked one female friend I was very close to about this, and she was honest enough to tell me to my face that it was because I was ugly and just didn't belong there.
Ropeful memories
1 GymcellingisCope1 2018-05-14
What annoys me is that a common advice given is to just make friends with girls. If you're attractive, then it is good advice, because your girl friends see you as a sexual being, and will try to pair you up with some of their shier friends.
If you aren't attractive/short, then having girl friends is not good advice. If a girl can only see you as a friend, then she won't want to wingwoman you. Nor will she help you find a girlfriend. If you ask her to connect you with any single girls she knows she'll either say, "I don't have any single friends" or "You aren't any of their type."
Ugly men don't get any benefits from being friends with women.
1 ap018734 2018-05-14
Well said. There is little point in an ugly incel having female friends.
1 bengalsturntup5532 2018-05-14
Brutal
1 trevmon 2018-05-14
men and women can't be friends
unless the guy is gay
1 celaway1696 2018-05-14
Foids are constantly looking for ways to make sub8 men miserable.
I bet they hated on CurryCels and SandCels, yeah? All foids are like this. Always keep them at arm's length.
This is especially true for ethnics. If you ever drop your guard around them, they'll slit your throat just to watch the life drain out of you. Killing ethnics gives them the most intense orgasms in the world, so they keep chasing it.
1 GymcellingisCope1 2018-05-14
Not sandcels so much, but definitely currycels and ricecels.
1 celaway1696 2018-05-14
Life is brutal for subhuman ethnics in 2018? Can you post some of the things they said? I'm a SandCel myself, I need the suicide fuel.
1 GymcellingisCope1 2018-05-14
In my experience, a lot of these women are still afraid of being racist, so they will not flat out say something racist. Instead they will:
Call a certain race creepy ("Brown guys at the club are soo creepy, they shouldn't like hit on anyone.")
Point out that a certain race is full of short men ("I like Asian guys but most of them are short.")
Make fun of a certain nose or face shape that is common in a certain ethnic group ("Arab guys have big noses.")
1 celaway1696 2018-05-14
Yeah. They use all these dog whistles for their racism. They do this shit to dehumanise us ethnics so they can butcher us.
1 behindcloseddoors1 2018-05-14
I'm a curry, anything specific they said about us?
1 GymcellingisCope1 2018-05-14
Just comments about curries being creepy. Which is far from the truth. Even curries at a club wallflower at most.
1 Hoeasss 2018-05-14
Why was I cursed with my big jew nose and thicc lips, I need a rope
1 IncelSlayerZero 2018-05-14
WHITE IS KING, to foids.
1 celaway1696 2018-05-14
Pretty much.
1 Zyklon_Bae 2018-05-14
Women are largely useless, this is a fact.
1 The_Real_Cannaman 2018-05-14
They're good for fucking and cooking, not much else...
1 ibtem 2018-05-14
You paid for their stuff ? wut man
1 GymcellingisCope1 2018-05-14
They wouldn't hang out with me unless I paid for their frozen yogurts. At that time I thought that doing this was part of what being a good friend was, and that if I become their good friend, then they can help me with other things in life.
Spoiler alert: They never returned the favours or became friendlier with me. I was essentially their asexual meal ticket.
1 UKLankancel 2018-05-14
They probably had you down as "free food" in their contacts
1 GymcellingisCope1 2018-05-14
Don't care anymore. I'm glad that they're out of my life.
1 literallyarealperson 2018-05-14
All because of height.
All they care about is looks, until they want resources. There is no love in them. Being short is the worst thing a man could be in the eyes of women, not only because of how our culture values height, but because of how badly women feel the need to use men to impress people.
If a man can help a woman impress other women, then he is not a man to themselves. Men are literally objects to women: the size of a man's bones is the most important aspect in attracting most of them by far.
1 dumb_intj 2018-05-14
It's only acceptable to have female friends online, not irl.
1 Hopecel 2018-05-14
Congrats on becoming an e-orbiter. Very proud of you, boyo.
1 user032000161 2018-05-14
kek
1 GuyFromDaStore 2018-05-14
I only have female friends when I consider them not worth fucking.
1 takkun22 2018-05-14
How are men any different though?
1 Tha_Crock 2018-05-14
You're kidding me, right?
Imagine a group of men exploiting an ugly girl for her money and talking shit about people that look like her right in front of her. I've never heard of a case like that happening, men have some awareness.
1 GymcellingisCope1 2018-05-14
I have never had a guy be as cruel to me as those girls were. Yeah sometimes a guy will ask you to pay for their beer at the bar but at least they will return the favor and buy you wings.
And when guys talk about girls, they are nowhere near as shallow, nitpicking every single fault about a woman. It's mostly shit like, "She has huge tits." Or "Her face is pretty."
And guys will always invite you to places. Even Chad friends won't hesitate to invite you to a party or club.
Men are just overall better, more valuable friends in my experience.
1 EverythingIsSoSincur 2018-05-14
Yeah, the most guys will do is just make fun of fat chicks.
1 Hopecel 2018-05-14
Very relatable. Hand me the rope.
1 michaelochurch 2018-05-14
It sounds like you hung around with terrible people. The fact that they're women is incidental. There are men just as bad.
I'm an old man and the distribution of traits across genders is remarkably similar. Women don't seem to be better or worse on the whole than men. Some of them are amazing people, and some are terrible.
This. Take this away and remember it forever. Don't hate all women, though. Just as most men aren't rapists, most women aren't shallow evil cunts.
1 jacketboundjester 2018-05-14
Stop playing devils advocate you pathetic fucker.
1 acoverover1 2018-05-14
Vantablack pill. they literally didn't even perceive you as even conceivably being romanticosexual competition and therefore had no inhibitions in essentially insulting your physicality second-hand.
1 IncelSlayerZero 2018-05-14
Suddenly I don't feel so bad about being a little abuse lol. Taste my hate, bitches.
1 Malmalam 2018-05-14
And they said that while you were here? Talk about some thoughful friends.
And damn, these girls sound like bitches.
1 IncelSlayerZero 2018-05-14
FEMALE FRIENDS LOL
1 SoonelyDoodely 2018-05-14
there's no such thing as female ''friends''. They are only using, manipulating you while your useful to them. The only way into a foids good graces is good looks.
1 Petherow 2018-05-14
Same story here
1 justforlulzandkeks 2018-05-14
These weren't friends. You were their orbiter lol
1 GymcellingisCope1 2018-05-14
This
1 harambeazn 2018-05-14
What exactly is a babyface just curious.
1 Hoeasss 2018-05-14
Women make consistently awful friends, why anyone would want to be friends with femoids is a mystery to me