It happens so rarely that any women who treats me with basic decency can make me fall for her. It's quite sad

Yeah it suck.

Luckily i managed to supress that shit over the years.

But you should feel good that you are even at this point of awareness. There are still many people who can’t tell the difference between someone being nice to them and someone flirting. You really are leaps and bounds ahead of that!

i never experienced what this "crush" thing feels like. i was always an outcast, so i grew up hating people in general.

...or you learn more quickly than others. As a child, I had a crush on the girl who was the ringleader of all the other bullies (all of whom were female).

haven't had a crush in years. I got rejected hard by a girl I had a crush on years ago who ended up only going for chads.

now I just look at women for just sex and cooking food

This is exactly the position I'm in right now

Prostitutes are the only hope.

That means you haven't fully accepted the blackpill.

Yes I assume any woman that doesnt recoil in fear immediately wants to bang me. Ironically its usually a stacy.

Remember reading in one Soviet musician's autobiography how he noticed that mental hospitals always have the hottest nurses. He was trying to evade military service through being mentally unfit, so he got quite a lot of experience being in a mental hospital lmao.

This is the core issue of the Nice Guy debate actually.

While women say "nice is the baseline" when deriding nice guys, they do so from a position of privilege. Yes, people are nice by default to them, but average and below men do not enjoy said privilege. Most men are invisible and when the odd woman does show kindness to such a man, he mistakes that with romantic interest.

High IQ comment

Can someone explain this “high IQ” shit I keep seeing on this sub? It seems like this sub is just dickriding each other for being so smart, and of course everyone has a similar mindset and upvotes the comments leading everyone to think they’re geniuses

its a meme u stupid fucking normie

Lurk more then Phaggit.

This is a low IQ comment.

nice comment smoothbrain

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Yea man that’s some real shit. Sometimes being treated with rare kindness can make someone feel like they walked out of the Sahara desert into an air conditioned scented lobby of a five star resort.

Not all girls are treated nicely, because not all guys are nice, and vice versa. Having a uterus isn't enough to make people treat you nicely: you need good looks and social skills, which not all women have.

I'm glad someone here gets it.

You mean by a female shop keeper, receptionist, ticket seller? Yeah, I feel that, I don't have crushes on them, but it feels so good you know, being invisible most of your life and someone notices you and give you a smile or just an act of kindness, even if sometimes their job requires, but not everyone smiles at us.

You're thinking like a woman. Think like a man. Don't crush on them, talk to them like they are crushing on you and you're giving them your attention out of the goodness of your heart.

Are you red pill lol

I SmellAPua

I've been holding frame for years lol

Hi, roastie here. Could you please hold my frame, too? Teehee!

Kek

You've been watching that youtube 'pickup artist' that hires girls to talk to him at bars, haven't you? I've seen a video of his.. fake as fuck. Like any hot chick wants to date a balding ginger in skinny jeans with a belly.

I think I know who you're talking about. Those guys fall into three categories: scammer, delusional, or self help speaker with a PUA skin. Not sure which category he's in.

>tfw when a qt3.14159265359 barista remembers your order and smiles at you, so you can't go back to a good coffee place for a year until she has found another job lest the crush becomes too painful and you might act on it

This shit happened to me before. The girl at chick fil a remembered what I usually ordered and gave me a free drink. I never went back after that day. I couldn't handle falling for some girl I didn't even know who was bound to reject me.

Me too. Can't help but develop onenitis for the Russian Stacy at work. Her little jokes, warm smile, tiny pats to my back. Bet she does it to every CO worker, but since I have been starved of female attention I fall like a bitcj for her.

Fall like a bitch? We don’t fall. We drown.

Just assume none of them are into you

Same. I Always have some Hope for a Split second

Keyword: Split Second.

I honestly hate that shit. They treat me like I'm their little buddy or something. I always give them the evil eye and make them uncomfortable. It's hilarious to see them squirm, they aren't used to someone not giving them attention or validation, especially someone who isn't Chad.

I am typically ignored or treated like shit, so when a woman even acknowledges my existence without shitting on me I immediately become a little excited. Even if it's just a polite smile. I'm so goddamn pathetic.

Idk what to do anymore. I started college late so I'm just now graduating at 25. Nearly all my friends here are 22 and almost all of them are in relationships and many are engaged or will be engaged soon. Some are even getting married soon and I'm stuck here with the emotional maturity of a fucking middle schooler because I never got to experience so many of the things that help people grow through high school and college. It's over for me. The rope isn't far away. I already think about it everyday.

I remember this girl who used to work at my gym at the desk. She has the face of an angel. I've seen a lot of legitimately beautiful women, but she by far takes the lead. Even without makeup she has flawless skin. She was introverted.

It got to a point where it started to physically hurt to even look at her. Why, you may wonder? How could gazing upon the visage of such heavenly splendor bring such discomfort and physical pain even?

Because she personified every pleasure and joy in life that I could never hope to have. Whenever I would look at her it would be a cruel reminder that I could never have her or somebody like her in my life. Just writing this is tear inducing.