I have literally never heard any woman say men under 6 ft were not real men. Not being tall is no big deal and most women’s only real criteria on height is that the guy be taller than her and even then I have never seen anyone be super strict on this criteria. Although I DO prefer taller men, my boyfriend happens to be around my height (5’8) and at no point was this ever a dealbreaker. My best friend is 5’1 and her ex is 5’4 and once again this was never a dealbreaker either..
I see you're fighting about a dozen other commenters. And it would appear you haven't been to a sub like this before, so I guess I'll explain some basics.
Anything you say are just words. And one of the first things an incel learns is that words don't match actions. There's no value in what you say from the safe vantage point of a relationship, or even being a single female. You do not see the point of most responses and threads here, there is no polite way to say this, the point is fuck you. Fuck the false positivist bluepill mainstream everyone-has-value culture that will never stop claiming A but in the end doing B. It's a point I very much agree and empathize with, the reason I come to this sub even though I'm not an incel.
"Somebody out there will like you even if you're not tall" is not the same as, but not entirely dissimilar to, telling a black person: "It's sad that your best friend was shot by the cops fourteen times while sitting in his front yard, but things will get better". To call it willful ignorance is charitable.
Thing is, I am giving concrete examples with my point haha. It’s true that height is not what will stop you from getting laid, but of course I guess there are some other factors that come in as well. My boyfriend is neither tall or muscular but he has a very attractive face, a great personality and a great fashion sense. But if you have none of these I guess you really are fucked lol.
Concrete examples of other men getting laid. You're basically rubbing it in while invalidating people's feelings at the same time. And you wonder why your comments don't go over well?
They literally prefer believing women are all shallow rather than admitting there is a problem with themselves and trying to solve it. It’s pathetic haha
I have heard one of my friends say it in a room full of men who weren't 6 feet. She basically went "What do you call men who are under 6 feet? children".
You completely missed my point. God I swear you guys are all assholes. I personally prefer taller guys, but I fell in love with a guy that is shorter and I couldn’t care less about the other guys now, no matter how tall. Just like he prefers bigger boobs while I am completely flat. Same principle. I’m just saying your height definitely doesn’t stop you from getting a girl
Fuck off femoid. If any guy said that girls with small boobs are not girls in a room full of people he'll be burnt alive. It is appropriate to shame men in this toxic feminist cesspit of a culture
You completely missed my point. God I swear you guys are all assholes. I personally prefer taller guys, but I fell in love with a guy that is shorter and I couldn’t care less about the other guys now, no matter how tall. Just like he prefers bigger boobs while I am completely flat. Same principle. I’m just saying your height definitely doesn’t stop you from getting a girl
Nope I feel you are lol obviously you havnt hit on ghirls and been on dating sites where they say they only want tall guys,or if you talk to them they say they usually like taller. Why would everybody just make it up?
I have literally never heard any woman say men under 6 ft were not real men.
Who gives a shit what YOU have "literally" never heard. Irrelevant.
Not being tall is no big deal and most women’s only real criteria on height is that the guy be taller than her and even then I have never seen anyone be super strict on this criteria.
Yet again, who gives a shit what you have or have not seen. Let me ask you this, if I told you I have seen women be vitriolic towards short men, would it change your opinion in any way? Would it make you say "oh clearly I was incorrect because this guy says he has seen women be hateful towards short men." I'm assuming no, you're just gonna say "well of course there's some women who do!" Which completely contradicts your statement. You don't give a fuck about anyone else's personal experience so what makes you think anyone here will give a fuck about yours?
Although I DO prefer taller men, my boyfriend happens to be around my height (5’8) and at no point was this ever a dealbreaker. My best friend is 5’1 and her ex is 5’4 and once again this was never a dealbreaker either..
Congrats for you. You are the exception, and your friends probably are too as it's not at all surprising you'd find friends who have similar tastes and opinions to you.
I think it's because it's towards oneself. Love yourself at any size doesn't mean love others at any size. They are banking on the idea that if you love yourself you have a better chance at succeeding in life, including making others love you and not letting others take advantage of you. It's a message that men could use if you all weren't so reliant on external validation. Why not create your own message about loving yourself at any height instead of waiting for women to do it for you?
I have no idea what this subreddit is. On one had I see the extrem on one side, and on the other we have the other extream. And this here is something in the middle. I think I am leaving, this is a melting pot.
I'm dead serious. I'm 5'6. Is it over? I've been single for 3 years and no one talks to me on Tinder/Bumble and I'm never noticed in public. My life is sad. Plz help.
I'm 5'10", 5'9" at night. I'm relatively okay woth, thoigh an extra inch or two certainly wouldn't hurt. I see men shorter than me with gfs all the time out in public, so my height is neither an asset nor a detriment.
It just sounds like you see him primarily as a cute little thing, like a puppy. Shorter men probably have a hard time feeling attractive, and being described as 'adorable' instead of say, 'handsome', or 'hot' by their partner might sting a wee bit.
I understand, but that's not the case. I have a 6'2 friend who I also call adorable. They both are due to their personality, and I simply didn't find it appropriate to call him handsome or hot online in this way.
As a girl myself (I know, I know, stupid femoid), any woman who says that is incredible shallow. I understand having personal preferences, but there's no need to shame anyone's masculinity simply because of a factor they have no control over.
79 comments
1 -steez- 2018-05-11
Said no women.
1 qwep-mi 2018-05-11
How far do you have your head up your ass
1 -steez- 2018-05-11
So far I can see my heart beat
1 qwep-mi 2018-05-11
YOU MADE A FUNNY XD
1 jesuz 2018-05-11
http://www.revelist.com/dating/women-dating-shorter-men/1238/default/2
1 bengalsturntup5532 2018-05-11
Fucking lol wake up
1 NetscapeNavigator9 2018-05-11
I just searched twitter for ‘short men’ and there’s a woman on the first page saying ‘real men aren’t light skinned or short’
1 -steez- 2018-05-11
I searched twitter and some dude said the earth was flat.
1 NetscapeNavigator9 2018-05-11
But I never claimed no man ever said the earth was flat, smart guy
1 dylang92 2018-05-11
Bruh you ever been on Tinder? Or ever spoken to a woman? Because I can tell you that is absolute bs.
1 qwep-mi 2018-05-11
6'2 bro
1 ItsOkToBeBlack 2018-05-11
I'm 6'1 with inserts. It's over?
1 qwep-mi 2018-05-11
Idk bro height isnt the only factor so probably not
1 TehJimmyy 2018-05-11
Watch what they do not what they say bruh
1 harambeazn 2018-05-11
ayee
1 drqxx 2018-05-11
With the right attitude nothing can stop a man. With the wrong attitude you're going to keep fucking your hand.
1 bcat124 2018-05-11
I wish scum like you would be in our shoes for one day so you can witness how EVERY behavior is negatively interpreted when you're ugly.
With the "right attitude", I am seen as an arrogant compensating clown with misplaced confidence.
1 blackpillnormie 2018-05-11
The only right attitude for an ugly guy is to keep his mouth shut and never leave the house.
1 drqxx 2018-05-11
I was once one of you for about 10 years. I was very heavy and gross to look at. Inhated everyone. I had nothing going for me.
Then I started to change my tune.
1 Dellarie 2018-05-11
You actually compare being fat to being short? Gtfo fucking halfwit.
1 Idk12344482305 2018-05-11
Imagine being this deluded
1 drqxx 2018-05-11
Wrong attitude
1 Dellarie 2018-05-11
Yeah nothing stops you from growing a foot taller and changing your facial bones bro, everything is in your hands bro.
1 drqxx 2018-05-11
Wrong attitude.
1 m41aspd 2018-05-11
Reported for glorifying rape
1 drqxx 2018-05-11
It's not rape if they want you to put it in them.
1 Lucas-Lehmer 2018-05-11
I don't think there are many women that would say "Men under 6ft aren't real".
It's a bit like saying all Incels support murder.
1 Guatchman 2018-05-11
7 ft*
1 Cat_the_Cat_ 2018-05-11
I have literally never heard any woman say men under 6 ft were not real men. Not being tall is no big deal and most women’s only real criteria on height is that the guy be taller than her and even then I have never seen anyone be super strict on this criteria. Although I DO prefer taller men, my boyfriend happens to be around my height (5’8) and at no point was this ever a dealbreaker. My best friend is 5’1 and her ex is 5’4 and once again this was never a dealbreaker either..
1 GerardDG 2018-05-11
So you basically admit the point is true even while denying it. Nice hamster.
1 Incelvester 2018-05-11
They're so dumb
1 Cat_the_Cat_ 2018-05-11
I’m saying having a preference for tall guys doesn’t eliminate guys that are not so tall lol but I guess you guys just have no idea how this works
1 GerardDG 2018-05-11
I see you're fighting about a dozen other commenters. And it would appear you haven't been to a sub like this before, so I guess I'll explain some basics.
Anything you say are just words. And one of the first things an incel learns is that words don't match actions. There's no value in what you say from the safe vantage point of a relationship, or even being a single female. You do not see the point of most responses and threads here, there is no polite way to say this, the point is fuck you. Fuck the false positivist bluepill mainstream everyone-has-value culture that will never stop claiming A but in the end doing B. It's a point I very much agree and empathize with, the reason I come to this sub even though I'm not an incel.
"Somebody out there will like you even if you're not tall" is not the same as, but not entirely dissimilar to, telling a black person: "It's sad that your best friend was shot by the cops fourteen times while sitting in his front yard, but things will get better". To call it willful ignorance is charitable.
1 Cat_the_Cat_ 2018-05-11
Thing is, I am giving concrete examples with my point haha. It’s true that height is not what will stop you from getting laid, but of course I guess there are some other factors that come in as well. My boyfriend is neither tall or muscular but he has a very attractive face, a great personality and a great fashion sense. But if you have none of these I guess you really are fucked lol.
1 GerardDG 2018-05-11
Concrete examples of other men getting laid. You're basically rubbing it in while invalidating people's feelings at the same time. And you wonder why your comments don't go over well?
1 Cat_the_Cat_ 2018-05-11
They literally prefer believing women are all shallow rather than admitting there is a problem with themselves and trying to solve it. It’s pathetic haha
1 GerardDG 2018-05-11
Maybe the problem really is them, so there's nothing you can do to fix it so why don't you fuck off.
Or maybe the problem is you. In which case the solution is, you guessed it, fuck off.
1 retarded_dumbshit 2018-05-11
.
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Are you literally retarded? You don't even agree with yourself. Am I supposed to take advice from you? Give me a fucking break, woman.
1 hugeostrichegg 2018-05-11
Commit sudoku
1 keyandfeels 2018-05-11
haha
1 ummyourdaddy 2018-05-11
yes, we are fucked. now that we've established nothing you can say is applicable to us why don't you fuck off.
1 CupOfCope 2018-05-11
Does your boyfriend approve of you selling your panties and lewdly chatting with random men from Reddit on Kik?
1 Cat_the_Cat_ 2018-05-11
Yep he even helps me take my pics
1 CupOfCope 2018-05-11
lmao quite a a business endeavor you two are running
1 DrillWormBazookaMan 2018-05-11
Boyfriends a cuck.
1 Drylymoist 2018-05-11
I concur. Guys usually are intimidated by a lady taller than them.
1 GymcellingisCope1 2018-05-11
Find me a lady that dates girls shorter than her. I'll date her.
1 fukworld_2 2018-05-11
I have heard one of my friends say it in a room full of men who weren't 6 feet. She basically went "What do you call men who are under 6 feet? children".
1 Cat_the_Cat_ 2018-05-11
You completely missed my point. God I swear you guys are all assholes. I personally prefer taller guys, but I fell in love with a guy that is shorter and I couldn’t care less about the other guys now, no matter how tall. Just like he prefers bigger boobs while I am completely flat. Same principle. I’m just saying your height definitely doesn’t stop you from getting a girl
1 DonaldNeedsAFatBitch 2018-05-11
You guys settled and u fantasize about chad and he fantasizes of banging ur hotter friend! Sad!
1 Cat_the_Cat_ 2018-05-11
You just don’t get any human intimacy at all. Sad!
1 DonaldNeedsAFatBitch 2018-05-11
You’re living with a fantasy relationship. Guaranteed your boyfriend thinks about other women 100% of the time with you. Nice life roastie!!
1 Cat_the_Cat_ 2018-05-11
Haha I like how mature your comment is
1 fukworld_2 2018-05-11
Fuck off femoid. If any guy said that girls with small boobs are not girls in a room full of people he'll be burnt alive. It is appropriate to shame men in this toxic feminist cesspit of a culture
1 bengalsturntup5532 2018-05-11
"Never heard of this in my life" "Although I do prefer taller men I do have a cuck manlet"
1 Cat_the_Cat_ 2018-05-11
You completely missed my point. God I swear you guys are all assholes. I personally prefer taller guys, but I fell in love with a guy that is shorter and I couldn’t care less about the other guys now, no matter how tall. Just like he prefers bigger boobs while I am completely flat. Same principle. I’m just saying your height definitely doesn’t stop you from getting a girl
1 bengalsturntup5532 2018-05-11
You won't be with him long...
1 bengalsturntup5532 2018-05-11
And how the hell would you know?? You want to deny women are shallow with height?
1 Cat_the_Cat_ 2018-05-11
I know because that’s how it works for me and for every one of my female friends..... god I feel like you’re just arguing for the fun of it.
1 bengalsturntup5532 2018-05-11
Nope I feel you are lol obviously you havnt hit on ghirls and been on dating sites where they say they only want tall guys,or if you talk to them they say they usually like taller. Why would everybody just make it up?
1 Dingus_Incel 2018-05-11
I've heard when say it. One girl in high school said that it was embarrassing for a man to be under 6 ft.
1 Cat_the_Cat_ 2018-05-11
Well she was a bitch. Slut shaming is being a bitch too btw
1 retarded_dumbshit 2018-05-11
Are you aware that the more sexual partners youve had, the more likely it is you'll be in an unhappy marriage? I wonder why...
Maybe sex is a very important part of relationships and thus casual sex is psychologically unhealthy in the long run. Idk.
1 DrillWormBazookaMan 2018-05-11
Who gives a shit what YOU have "literally" never heard. Irrelevant.
Yet again, who gives a shit what you have or have not seen. Let me ask you this, if I told you I have seen women be vitriolic towards short men, would it change your opinion in any way? Would it make you say "oh clearly I was incorrect because this guy says he has seen women be hateful towards short men." I'm assuming no, you're just gonna say "well of course there's some women who do!" Which completely contradicts your statement. You don't give a fuck about anyone else's personal experience so what makes you think anyone here will give a fuck about yours?
Congrats for you. You are the exception, and your friends probably are too as it's not at all surprising you'd find friends who have similar tastes and opinions to you.
1 Throwaway060896 2018-05-11
So why are girls asking me to fuck them if im not a real man?
1 geneticwaste43 2018-05-11
Your waifu doesn't count
1 Throwaway060896 2018-05-11
Whats that?
1 GrooseIsGod 2018-05-11
Anime crush
1 Throwaway060896 2018-05-11
Well i dont watch anime
1 GrooseIsGod 2018-05-11
Ok
1 pinkgoldrose 2018-05-11
I think it's because it's towards oneself. Love yourself at any size doesn't mean love others at any size. They are banking on the idea that if you love yourself you have a better chance at succeeding in life, including making others love you and not letting others take advantage of you. It's a message that men could use if you all weren't so reliant on external validation. Why not create your own message about loving yourself at any height instead of waiting for women to do it for you?
1 Rotciv_IRL 2018-05-11
Yeah, I know it's current but from a few talks I've had with this guys, they place validation in external sources and that just doesn't end well
1 behindcloseddoors1 2018-05-11
Newsflash, everyone does that until they build enough confidence to start loving themselves
1 TheHappyKraken 2018-05-11
I have no idea what this subreddit is. On one had I see the extrem on one side, and on the other we have the other extream. And this here is something in the middle. I think I am leaving, this is a melting pot.
1 lambcel 2018-05-11
That's literally the definition of cope, no thanks stupid cunt.
1 Veganeta 2018-05-11
When will manlets ever learn? When they take the black pill
1 TheiWindFelt 2018-05-11
You can reach 7 feet if you jump bro.
1 StoopidSeksyFlanders 2018-05-11
Height is like money and sex; it only matters when you don’t have any.
1 GymcellingisCope1 2018-05-11
tru
1 foursquare07 2018-05-11
I'm dead serious. I'm 5'6. Is it over? I've been single for 3 years and no one talks to me on Tinder/Bumble and I'm never noticed in public. My life is sad. Plz help.
1 GymcellingisCope1 2018-05-11
I'm 5'5".
I can't say it's over, it's just really difficult.
1 meinheggerss 2018-05-11
It's basically over if your face is not at least 5-6/10. It's not over if you want to be a betabux for a used up average slut.
1 CupOfCope 2018-05-11
I'm 5'10", 5'9" at night. I'm relatively okay woth, thoigh an extra inch or two certainly wouldn't hurt. I see men shorter than me with gfs all the time out in public, so my height is neither an asset nor a detriment.
1 xOwlyx 2018-05-11
Im 5"11 and dating a guy whos 5"4 hes adorable
1 Invisible_247 2018-05-11
"adorable"
1 xOwlyx 2018-05-11
Why are you mimicking me?
1 Invisible_247 2018-05-11
It just sounds like you see him primarily as a cute little thing, like a puppy. Shorter men probably have a hard time feeling attractive, and being described as 'adorable' instead of say, 'handsome', or 'hot' by their partner might sting a wee bit.
1 xOwlyx 2018-05-11
I understand, but that's not the case. I have a 6'2 friend who I also call adorable. They both are due to their personality, and I simply didn't find it appropriate to call him handsome or hot online in this way.
1 Invisible_247 2018-05-11
Fair enough.
1 Hannah_Lynn1998 2018-05-11
As a girl myself (I know, I know, stupid femoid), any woman who says that is incredible shallow. I understand having personal preferences, but there's no need to shame anyone's masculinity simply because of a factor they have no control over.
1 bengalsturntup5532 2018-05-11
You won't be with him long...
1 bengalsturntup5532 2018-05-11
And how the hell would you know?? You want to deny women are shallow with height?
1 drqxx 2018-05-11
Wrong attitude.