This place is amazing, I've never seen a group of people so determined to not hear advice from qualified parties on their exact problem.
Who is going to give better advice about relationships than people in relationships? You can wave all the charts you found on the net around all you want but you're doing it in the face of people willing to help you that are past the exact hurdles you're struggling with.
True but I would have a higher chance than people literally telling why you can't speak German who incidentally can't bloody speak German to keep your analogy going!
You continued it. Either way. Just having sex doesn't make you a foremost authority but if you're so inclined as to give an advice - you'd do well to give tailored advice. Not the usual reductive shit people like you offer.
Why do I have to be foremost authority to talk sense? I will do my level best to offer good advice but on the flip side maybe examine yourself for a second and ask why you build the wall so high that nothing other than magically perfect solutions are good enough?
Why do I have to be foremost authority to talk sense?
Oh, I don't know, all your talk and whatnot made me think you must be an impeccable person and absolutely without a flaw.
I will do my level best to offer good advice
Offer advice only when asked form. Didn't your momma teach you that?
ask why you build the wall so high that nothing other than magically perfect solutions are good enough?
Examine the reason you wrote this. Was this something we said or was it your projection, because you want to sound enlightened, as if you hold the keys to solving the problem?
OMFG no I want to help because I was in the same position as you lot. I was a kissless virgin until I was 25 and now I'm happily married. I would think I more than some random bro would have something useful to offer but if you think not fine enough.
How your personal experience is going to help me, do pray tell.
Aren't humans complicated and every relationship is unique and special? Aren't we all just miserable dumbasses who jerk ourselves to death? So what makes you think you can help a loser that clearly, according to people like you, can help himself?
No one said any given advice would or even has to match 100 percent but it's still good advice.
I was a fucking virgin until 25 who did try self improvement and didn't let negative thoughts consume me and I even did the whole hobbies thing and it worked.
I don't say blind platitudes from my ass I am saying what worked for me, which is all any one man can do. The general counter argument I get on incel boards is a bunch of repeated reasons that giving up is just better and that makes no fucking sense to me.
Your bitterness only hurts you so you act indignant all you want in the end it's a problem you have to over come, no one else owes you anything and beyond nudging in the right direction not much outside help can come either.
Honest question, do you actually think a second before you write platittudes? Or do you normies just copy paste them from the normie hivemind?
Your bitterness only hurts you
How so? I would say being overly optimistic would hurt you more, since at some point reality will hit you like a truck.
Also , things werent much different back when i wasnt bitter.
it's a problem you have to over come
Ok nice platitude, do you also say this to starving children, or stage 4 cancer patients? "its a problem you have to overcome , bro"
no one else owes you anything
another nice platitude, yes no one owes someone else anything and no one is entilted to anything. To bad that you can litteraly justify anything with this sentiment. alek minassian did nothing wrong since he doesnt owe safety and respect for life to other people nor are people entilted to life right?
Is this to imply that incels are the oncologist here? It's more like they're the patient who comes in with WebMD print outs if you want an accurate analogy.
Who is going to give better advice about X than people with extremely subjcetive, anecdotal experience with X?
who indeed
P.S. how many relationships have you been in? Substract 1, and that's how many relationships you have FAILED. Yes, FAILED. So now that you know how many times you have FAILED relationships, are you still confident about giving advice?
Height can be worked from an early age, if your parents are 5'7 it's not like you are going to be a giant but you can manage to be much taller than them. Face problems (at least the bigger ones) are related to poor mouth posture. Bad personalities develop in childhood/adolescense.
There are things that race that you can't change, though. But that's why I said it's overrated, not completely irrelevant.
About 60 to 80 percent of the difference in height between individuals is determined by genetic factors, whereas 20 to 40 percent can be attributed to environmental effects, mainly nutrition. Faces are almost entirely determined by genetics http://www.pnas.org/content/early/2018/01/03/1708207114 If anything, genetics are UNDERRATED lol. Chances are personality is all genetics as well. Its controversial but chances are your DNA determines your life minus dying or getting paralyzed in an accident.
Granted, I have to do this from an alt account that only posts here because I'd get so much shit for the radical idea that women don't like ugly guys.
Brutal. It's just like people who voted for Trump. There's a reason why he won the election (which had nothing to do with the Russians and the bullshit liberal media stating that it was rigged). A lot of people like Trump, yet you never see this in person. They'd get shit on by the crazy fuck liberals who are more vocal.
Seriously though, why marry? Why not just have sex? Yeah, you're a normie so you won't get a lot of sex compared to Chad, but even as a normie you're able to get laid with other women. Why not settle for some cunt who will never look at you the same way she did with guys who are hotter than you? I just don't get it. Most divorces are initiated by women.
It's just not worth it. It's not worth getting married in this day and age.
Maybe he is actually attractive but doesn’t want to call himself chad because it’s a dumb specification that will only make people ask for pics which you need to believe they won’t dox you using. I put pics up on r/incels and got doxxed and people pretended to be me until it was banned
99% of the incels here are hopeless morons who shouldn't be given advice at all and should just suffer and die without passing on their horrible genes. The 1% who aren't morons should leave this cesspool and go to /r/WhitePill where they can get advice on solving incel.
That subreddit is trash and garbage information. I went from being a 4/10 to a 7.5/10 (physical fitness, mouth and jaw muscle training, health, ice cold showers 3x a day)... and I jerked off frequently. In fact, I was depressed when I started.. I actually gave myself HOMEWORK to masturbate. Slowly but surely, my libido rose and I became more confident.
I keep hearing these 'success stories' about NoFap. But do you ever see the speaker? They are a fucking loser who you can tell are faking it til they make it. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xtuIjcga7E4
Does that look like someone who is taking life by the horns? No, it doesn't. I go on streaks where I go on dates with Tinder chicks and pick up girls at bars near my apartment, but when I'm not doing that.. if I don't masturbate it is detrimental to my soul. Masturbation is showing yourself love in many ways. If you are being lazy as fuck and haven't earned it.. then it can be bad. Anyhow, IDK why I'm preaching to someone who is clearly an idiot. All I know is NoFap is a joke and should only be pursued if you are locked in your chair jerking off all day with no motivation.
You have to accept 99.99 percent of everything is bullshit and there are people in life that will make your life a living hell just because they feel like it.
Yeah well I'm a cook and you're not so.... maybe you should listen to me when I tell you a well-done steak should be bleeding like a woman during her once-a-month!
OMFG no I want to help because I was in the same position as you lot. I was a kissless virgin until I was 25 and now I'm happily married. I would think I more than some random bro would have something useful to offer but if you think not fine enough.
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1 m41aspd 2018-05-09
...because i got my dick wet once, so that makes me an expert
1 PotatoSilencer 2018-05-09
This place is amazing, I've never seen a group of people so determined to not hear advice from qualified parties on their exact problem.
Who is going to give better advice about relationships than people in relationships? You can wave all the charts you found on the net around all you want but you're doing it in the face of people willing to help you that are past the exact hurdles you're struggling with.
1 Idk12344482305 2018-05-09
Just because you speak German doesn’t mean you can give good advice about how to learn it.
1 PotatoSilencer 2018-05-09
True but I would have a higher chance than people literally telling why you can't speak German who incidentally can't bloody speak German to keep your analogy going!
1 MozzerDozzer 2018-05-09
Schade, weil deine Analogie ist Kacke.
1 PotatoSilencer 2018-05-09
Not my analogy.
1 MozzerDozzer 2018-05-09
You continued it. Either way. Just having sex doesn't make you a foremost authority but if you're so inclined as to give an advice - you'd do well to give tailored advice. Not the usual reductive shit people like you offer.
1 PotatoSilencer 2018-05-09
Why do I have to be foremost authority to talk sense? I will do my level best to offer good advice but on the flip side maybe examine yourself for a second and ask why you build the wall so high that nothing other than magically perfect solutions are good enough?
1 MozzerDozzer 2018-05-09
Oh, I don't know, all your talk and whatnot made me think you must be an impeccable person and absolutely without a flaw.
Offer advice only when asked form. Didn't your momma teach you that?
Examine the reason you wrote this. Was this something we said or was it your projection, because you want to sound enlightened, as if you hold the keys to solving the problem?
1 PotatoSilencer 2018-05-09
OMFG no I want to help because I was in the same position as you lot. I was a kissless virgin until I was 25 and now I'm happily married. I would think I more than some random bro would have something useful to offer but if you think not fine enough.
1 MozzerDozzer 2018-05-09
How your personal experience is going to help me, do pray tell.
Aren't humans complicated and every relationship is unique and special? Aren't we all just miserable dumbasses who jerk ourselves to death? So what makes you think you can help a loser that clearly, according to people like you, can help himself?
1 PotatoSilencer 2018-05-09
Alright you win, no more word gymnastics for me. We don't have to interact anymore.
1 MozzerDozzer 2018-05-09
Yeah, go away.
1 r4risbullshit 2018-05-09
Wouldn't you just be a random bro on the Internet too?
1 VartanX 2018-05-09
It's not that we're determined to not hear your advice. It's the fact that your advice is utterly useless and not based on factual evidence.
You've just proved my point. Everyone's hurdles are different, they're not exact. What works for one person my not work for someone else.
1 PotatoSilencer 2018-05-09
No one said any given advice would or even has to match 100 percent but it's still good advice.
I was a fucking virgin until 25 who did try self improvement and didn't let negative thoughts consume me and I even did the whole hobbies thing and it worked.
I don't say blind platitudes from my ass I am saying what worked for me, which is all any one man can do. The general counter argument I get on incel boards is a bunch of repeated reasons that giving up is just better and that makes no fucking sense to me.
1 xxxrivenmainxxx 2018-05-09
implying incels never tried le self improvment already
1 PotatoSilencer 2018-05-09
No I didn't the point is you don't stop and you don't get bitter on the way.
1 xxxrivenmainxxx 2018-05-09
yes, how dare people get bitter for having to work very hard for a basic need that allmost everbody else achieves naturally.
I bet starving african childs shouldnt be bitter either and just find food,right?
1 PotatoSilencer 2018-05-09
Your bitterness only hurts you so you act indignant all you want in the end it's a problem you have to over come, no one else owes you anything and beyond nudging in the right direction not much outside help can come either.
You have to fix you.
1 xxxrivenmainxxx 2018-05-09
Honest question, do you actually think a second before you write platittudes? Or do you normies just copy paste them from the normie hivemind?
How so? I would say being overly optimistic would hurt you more, since at some point reality will hit you like a truck. Also , things werent much different back when i wasnt bitter.
Ok nice platitude, do you also say this to starving children, or stage 4 cancer patients? "its a problem you have to overcome , bro"
another nice platitude, yes no one owes someone else anything and no one is entilted to anything. To bad that you can litteraly justify anything with this sentiment. alek minassian did nothing wrong since he doesnt owe safety and respect for life to other people nor are people entilted to life right?
1 mu_mikami 2018-05-09
>a person with cancer
>knowing more than an oncologist
sure thing
1 Ihate25gaugeNeedles 2018-05-09
Is this to imply that incels are the oncologist here? It's more like they're the patient who comes in with WebMD print outs if you want an accurate analogy.
1 Sniveling_Cur 2018-05-09
who indeed
P.S. how many relationships have you been in? Substract 1, and that's how many relationships you have FAILED. Yes, FAILED. So now that you know how many times you have FAILED relationships, are you still confident about giving advice?
1 Westcoastincel 2018-05-09
if you got laid once then youre not a fucking incel
1 IfIHadANidoran 2018-05-09
I do not defend numales, but psychology is bullshit. And the genetics thing is overrated.
1 Chinese_Crimson 2018-05-09
genetics determine who you are down to a molecule. "genetics thing is overrated"
1 IfIHadANidoran 2018-05-09
Height can be worked from an early age, if your parents are 5'7 it's not like you are going to be a giant but you can manage to be much taller than them. Face problems (at least the bigger ones) are related to poor mouth posture. Bad personalities develop in childhood/adolescense.
There are things that race that you can't change, though. But that's why I said it's overrated, not completely irrelevant.
1 Chinese_Crimson 2018-05-09
About 60 to 80 percent of the difference in height between individuals is determined by genetic factors, whereas 20 to 40 percent can be attributed to environmental effects, mainly nutrition. Faces are almost entirely determined by genetics http://www.pnas.org/content/early/2018/01/03/1708207114 If anything, genetics are UNDERRATED lol. Chances are personality is all genetics as well. Its controversial but chances are your DNA determines your life minus dying or getting paralyzed in an accident.
1 thisnameisunique123 2018-05-09
Blackpilled normie here. Glad to give whatever advice anyone could want on anything.
Modern dating is trash. 99% of the shit on here rings pretty damn true. I sympathize and would be trully ecstatic if I managed to help anyone here.
1 subhumanforever 2018-05-09
Blackpilled normies are cool people.
1 thisnameisunique123 2018-05-09
Thanks man. I figured someone from the other side needs to say y'all™ have it right.
Granted, I have to do this from an alt account that only posts here because I'd get so much shit for the radical idea that women don't like ugly guys.
1 subhumanforever 2018-05-09
Brutal. It's just like people who voted for Trump. There's a reason why he won the election (which had nothing to do with the Russians and the bullshit liberal media stating that it was rigged). A lot of people like Trump, yet you never see this in person. They'd get shit on by the crazy fuck liberals who are more vocal.
1 trevmon 2018-05-09
heh I sad about the same as you without seeing you said this, kek, trump winning shows many are blackpilled. it was all backlash against sjw bullshit.
1 TommyNobility 2018-05-09
Understandable, I get shit for posting here from everyone on this damn site
1 trevmon 2018-05-09
they keep a database and I'm in it and follow me around in other subs trying to make me question my sanity, I just say kek or reeeee then block them
1 bigman4004 2018-05-09
In a way maybe we are. I'm a married normie who has seen how superficial women are and has grown cynical as a result.
1 subhumanforever 2018-05-09
Seriously though, why marry? Why not just have sex? Yeah, you're a normie so you won't get a lot of sex compared to Chad, but even as a normie you're able to get laid with other women. Why not settle for some cunt who will never look at you the same way she did with guys who are hotter than you? I just don't get it. Most divorces are initiated by women.
It's just not worth it. It's not worth getting married in this day and age.
1 TommyNobility 2018-05-09
Maybe he is actually attractive but doesn’t want to call himself chad because it’s a dumb specification that will only make people ask for pics which you need to believe they won’t dox you using. I put pics up on r/incels and got doxxed and people pretended to be me until it was banned
1 trevmon 2018-05-09
no chads post on internet, too busy slaying, he's a normie and realizes his wife wants chad
1 TommyNobility 2018-05-09
Very low IQ post friend
1 trevmon 2018-05-09
blackpilled normies are secretly a pretty large group and are why trump won
we got a lot of cucked normieds here on reddit but that is not an overall huge representation.
1 blackpillnormie 2018-05-09
Hehe we are!
1 fschmidt 2018-05-09
99% of the incels here are hopeless morons who shouldn't be given advice at all and should just suffer and die without passing on their horrible genes. The 1% who aren't morons should leave this cesspool and go to /r/WhitePill where they can get advice on solving incel.
1 MozzerDozzer 2018-05-09
Islamofag is calling someone a moron. Isn't that rich. Tell me dude, are you an ISIS recruiter by any chance?
1 fschmidt 2018-05-09
I am not even Muslim, moron.
1 MozzerDozzer 2018-05-09
Yeah you are, porkchops. Out out out.
1 TruthbeTold9999 2018-05-09
That subreddit is trash and garbage information. I went from being a 4/10 to a 7.5/10 (physical fitness, mouth and jaw muscle training, health, ice cold showers 3x a day)... and I jerked off frequently. In fact, I was depressed when I started.. I actually gave myself HOMEWORK to masturbate. Slowly but surely, my libido rose and I became more confident.
I keep hearing these 'success stories' about NoFap. But do you ever see the speaker? They are a fucking loser who you can tell are faking it til they make it. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xtuIjcga7E4
Does that look like someone who is taking life by the horns? No, it doesn't. I go on streaks where I go on dates with Tinder chicks and pick up girls at bars near my apartment, but when I'm not doing that.. if I don't masturbate it is detrimental to my soul. Masturbation is showing yourself love in many ways. If you are being lazy as fuck and haven't earned it.. then it can be bad. Anyhow, IDK why I'm preaching to someone who is clearly an idiot. All I know is NoFap is a joke and should only be pursued if you are locked in your chair jerking off all day with no motivation.
1 fschmidt 2018-05-09
Why are you telling me this? The no-fap post isn't mine. I have no opinion on the matter.
There is one no-fap post in the whole sub and you call the sub trash based on that. That makes you a moron.
1 TruthbeTold9999 2018-05-09
You directed people to a subreddit that promotes NoFap you fucking moron.
1 fschmidt 2018-05-09
Moron, can you read? The sub does not promote NoFap, there is only one post on that subject.
1 Muscalp 2018-05-09
I mean, 99% of Incels lack a Basic understanding of psychlogy, anatomy etc. too
1 IncelSlayerZero 2018-05-09
I tried to help but you either don't want it or are too pussy to follow through lmao so I'm done. Let the shit poasting commence.
1 AntiAbleism 2018-05-09
You have to accept 99.99 percent of everything is bullshit and there are people in life that will make your life a living hell just because they feel like it.
1 FreedomBullets 2018-05-09
Yeah well I'm getting laid and you're not so..... maybe take some goddamn advice!!!
1 bigantennaemay1 2018-05-09
Yeah well I'm a cook and you're not so.... maybe you should listen to me when I tell you a well-done steak should be bleeding like a woman during her once-a-month!
1 FreedomBullets 2018-05-09
What the fuck??
1 Chinese_Crimson 2018-05-09
what a dumb comment. im tall so let me give u advice on being short
1 FreedomBullets 2018-05-09
Go jerk off you worthless fucking incel. I hate you people.
1 Chinese_Crimson 2018-05-09
Not an incel, but i see you are angry. have a hard time coping with being unattractive and undesired? thats why you come here to bully incels? loll
1 Sniveling_Cur 2018-05-09
"Because I have unattractive friends on Facebook who said they were happily married"
1 GuyFromDaStore 2018-05-09
I've fucked about 225 times last year, and about 64 times this year so I can give y'all some pointers.
1 GrinchBear 2018-05-09
As well as a great deal of the posts you people make
1 PotatoSilencer 2018-05-09
No I didn't the point is you don't stop and you don't get bitter on the way.
1 PotatoSilencer 2018-05-09
OMFG no I want to help because I was in the same position as you lot. I was a kissless virgin until I was 25 and now I'm happily married. I would think I more than some random bro would have something useful to offer but if you think not fine enough.