“Just be confident bro”

63  2018-05-09 by cold88888

25 comments

ugly men asking women out = rape

PUA idiots saying that women are attracted to confidence = cope

Not really. When a girl sees that you are not acting according to your perceived SMV, she might get confused and believe that you have a higher SMV. It's a smokescreen. It works. It's better than have low SMV and act like you have low SMV.

"chad here" KEK

i have eyes bro

Hunter eyes?

Yeah. I think it's a legit evolutional trait for eye protection, not just aesthetics. When I put my angry face on, my eyebrows obstruct up to 80% of my vision. It's like sudden curtains drop.

https://www.guystuffcounseling.com/hs-fs/hubfs/wife-believes-she-is-married-to-an-angry-man.jpg

Its true though, a confident guy will do better than one who is not. What they didn't tell you is this is assuming you're hot in both case.

Ugly men with confidence are considered “creepy” (that’s why people like Chris Brown are still treated like gods despite the fact that he literally beat the shit out of a women)

I think it would depend how the confidence is displayed for it to be creepy or not.

How to display it then?

If you act like you are confident you can win a girl over by being persistent? That is creepy.

If you act like you are confident within your own skin, that is not creepy.

I know it's a simplification, but it's the very basic short reply

If you act like you are confident you can win a girl over by being persistent? That is creepy.

If you act like you are confident within your own skin, that is not creepy.

In your head it might've been a simplification but it absolutely makes no sense whatsoever.

Hmm... How to describe it better...

If you are totally egotistical, refusing to believe that any woman could possibly turn you down and it just requires persistence from you for her to go from "no" to "yes", that is creepy, because it's usually a precursor to such things as stalking, hate mail, obsessive behaviour, irrational outbursts and possible assault.

If you talk to a woman and have a confident personality that means you are not desperately trying to get her attention, you're casual, funny, willing to engage in conversation, but if she's not interested, willing to walk away with a smile and a "sorry you're not interested" type attitude, that is not creepy.

Ah yes, repeating the same standpoints from the mainstream feminist media.

and it just requires persistence from you for her to go from "no" to "yes", that is creepy,

While I, a man, tend to agree, there's an entire bulk of romcoms, an entire level of human art that describes this situation but more positively.

"At first she didn't see anything in him but he chased her long enough and she fell in love with him forever and ever". The main hero in the story is usually attractive, so yeah, when it's ugly people being persistent - then it's "creepy".

If you talk to a woman and have a confident personality that means you are not desperately trying to get her attention, you're casual, funny, willing to engage in conversation, but if she's not interested, willing to walk away with a smile and a "sorry you're not interested" type attitude, that is not creepy.

Bunch of hollow bullshit, again. You might be 45 but you sure lapse in the same groupthink as the majority of women with an active social position in the West.

Blame the rise in cretins for women being wary of men then. Blame the rise in assaults for women being wary of meeting men. Blame the rise in stalking, aided by the digital universe, for women being afraid of saying a polite no.

I think I'm rather glad I am part of the minority that still values manners, and I'm glad I have friends like that too, of all ages, from 15 upwards (please note, I class the children of my friends as friends too because I sit and chat with them and so on a lot. I don't just have random teenagers as friends)

Blame the rise in cretins for women being wary of men then. Blame the rise in assaults for women being wary of meeting men. Blame the rise in stalking, aided by the digital universe, for women being afraid of saying a polite no.

It's always a man's fault and never woman's. You'd think you have no agency whatsoever but the moment somebody says that a thrill of thousand harpies reminds him otherwise. Thanks for proving my point, you're just like the rest.

So you tell me why women are wary of men?

Besides, this was about a guy being confident but not creepy, ergo looking at it from the male approach side of things.

If you want to talk about women, do lets. We can discuss the silly bitches that cry "rape" because they donlt like a guy, or because they had second thoughts about sex they had with someone the morning after, or even later. How about the ones that now see everything as offensive to the point where two guys who volunteer to save lives were sacked for having naughty mugs in their mess and some bird got sand in her vag about it being a "safeguarding issue"?

Oh yeah, I can go on about those at length too, they just weren't relevant to this particular thread.

You misunderstood. I don't require you to publicly whip women either. I'm well aware that the humanity is shite in general. It's just I was under the impression that in the heat of the discussion you were lapsing into defending "day sisterhood", despite your age (older women are quite pragmatic usually, probably the plus side of decreased libido and extensive experience). If you're willing to recognize bitches from your side of the aisle - I have no problem with that.

Oh, I'm very willing to say that both sexes have a lot to answer for, and things are just getting worse.

I find confidence extremely attractive in a man, but only if they're good looking teehee.

It's clear from experience and observable reality that Femoids distaste ugly confident manlets. Ugly confident manlets would most likely end being "creepy" in the eyes of Femoids.

Having confidence as an incel is delusional narcissism

I'm confident in many of my abilities, but to be able to score decently attractive wymyn, not so much. Landwhales love me lol. I wonder why they love my personality but the prettier girls don't seem to. Shucks, guess I have to make my personality even better than it is.

Where do ugs get they confidence from? Users, gold diggers and settlers giving them a false sense of self worth in order to extract their resources.

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