I have failed myself.

49  2018-05-08 by SadnessMyMiddleName

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well that was a bitch to read

Existence is a bitch.

life's a bitch and then you die

at least we've got each other

I wish I could say something to ease your pain. I know it sucks man. But you haven't failed. Look at all the things you have done, those are successes.

Keep working on yourself and ignore women. Keep yourself occupied so you dont feel the loneliness as much.

Failure would have been giving up on yourself.

Think of it this way...you're just one of the millions of lonely men. Probably average looking...maybe even above average. But average doesn't cut it anymore.

That tables are titled. The game is rigged. No one seems to notice but us.

I know I can't cheer you up, but I just had to try to give you an outside view. Hang in there friend.

Its impossible to amount to anything, really. I work a dead end job and have a sub 90 IQ. I haven't been to college and I don't see myself making any progress for now. Its over.

It's over bro. It's over. No biggie though.

You've earnt the right to LDAR bro. Opt out of a society that has given you absolutely nothing in return for your efforts. It's a rational choice.

how are you a born again incel?

Holy damn I have never seen anyone admit their IQ while it was lower than 130. That's some real honesty

There is hope: Plastic surgery.

Its too expensive for me, man.

Not just expensive, you need to be at least a 6/10 for it to work. If surgery doesn't make you pass the 8/10 barrier, it's not worth it

Eat chickens and lift heavy objects to cope

I gymcope every day and sportcope too. Its all a waste of time though.

I know things can seem really horrible, but your life is far from over, you’re still young. You still have time to find your way, to find your purpose.

You are more accomplished than many people your age, and that is something to be proud of. I’m sorry you feel so down right now, PM me anytime if you need to talk.

How do I do that? How do I find my purpose?

You find something that you enjoy, that makes you feel accomplished. Do you like working on cars? Writing? Computer programming? Painting? Whatever it is that brings you feelings of success, you pursue that doggedly. Self improvement of the type that you enjoy is key.

You aren’t doing it to gain someone else’s approval, or because you think it will attract a woman; but because you actually want to be skilled, and because you enjoy the activity. As you get better and see the fruits of your labor, you’ll be happier. Long term happiness is based primarily on accomplishment.

I’m not saying you should become a MGTOW, but their subreddit can offer good advice in regard to self improvement, and building an accomplished and purposeful life. So it might be worth at least asking around there, even if you don’t fully buy into their philosophy.

Making more male friends is important too. We are strongly shaped by our peers, so you want to surround yourself with people with similar goals and values. Ideally, men who also want to find some purpose and have the drive to do it.

I found religion to be helpful, as it affirmed my worth as a human being, no matter my flaws. And I knew that no matter what, I’d always be loved by God. But if you’ve swallowed the black pill, this probably won’t be your kind of thing; thought I’d throw it out there just in case.

Sorry for the novel. If you want to talk more, or if you have any questions, I’m available.

Become a productive member of society! :D

Yes goyim, Mr. Shekelstein’s new Maseratti isn’t free. Now get back to work.

The curse of eternal sadness and solitude.

Just have to find a worthy cope..but not for others..but for yourself.

I started buying comics that I absolutely loved as a kid you know like , Tintin , asterix & obelisk and the others and I am as happy as a kid again. Stopped gymcelling for hours and now only go for light jogs now.

I hope you find your own cope that makes you happy.

Just shower bro

Im thinking to go full Red pilled & MGTOW become a social & economic hermit, go off grid & ghost

I'm sorry but why did you waste money on a car instead of spending it on a college education or training?

My grades weren't good enough despite trying my hardest. I can't get into an engineering program and that was my only hope.

What race are your parents?

Indian Dad and Arab Mom

I'm sorry

Thank you.

"Just be confident, change your personality"

It is one of the biggest scams out there.

It doesnt work regardless of what they say.

True. People are very shallow.

Have you tried showering once in a while?

Everyday, dude.

Maybe you should focus on improving your personality.

I relate too much to this post, another reminder that I need to hang myself soon. I bought the rope it's just sitting in the closet

Its impossible to amount to anything, really. I work a dead end job and have a sub 90 IQ. I haven't been to college and I don't see myself making any progress for now. Its over.

I gymcope every day and sportcope too. Its all a waste of time though.

My grades weren't good enough despite trying my hardest. I can't get into an engineering program and that was my only hope.

Thank you.