it's an example of people being irrational when a survival related need is not met. the fact you can't draw that from the comment is unforgivably and probably intentionally stupid.
Oh - definitely not saying it’s not a choice - just that the respondent above me seems to think that a brothel would be some sort of necessity in a war zone to folks who are inclined to violence. Not that there aren’t lots of examples of state-sanctioned sexual slavery during times of war. The “comfort women” in Japan and the Jewish women forced into similar positions at the concentration camps in Nazi Germany are just a couple of examples.
He formulated that 'opinion' through a very thorough and in-depth scientific analysis. The entire field of sociology isn't science by your logic. Which is actually a fair argument. But you can't have it both ways. Almost every female issue that has money thrown at it is based on that field of 'science'.
Incels just like it because it lets them claim sex is as necessary as food and water. They don't even look beyond that.
Sex isn't as necessary as food. People voluntarily live without sex. People die after starving.
Regardless, the "soft sciences" of sociology and psychology will always be more speculative than physics and chemistry. There's an abundance of evidence that incels are wrong about every aspect of their belief system. That evidence just gets ignored in favor of memes and reinforcing hopelessness.
its necessary for being mentally healthy, no one is claiming that you'll die from not having sex in the same way as you would if you stopped eating or drinking.
there are reasons to be celibate, sometimes very good ones, but that doesnt change the fact that skin hunger is very real. im not saying they're mentally ill for practicing celibacy, im saying that celibacy can be a risk factor for developing mental illness as biologically we're social animals who require validation from the opposite sex to experience meaning in life.
> im saying that celibacy can be a risk factor for developing mental illness as biologically we're social animals who require validation from the opposite sex to experience meaning in life.
Did you just said Buddha, Tesla, Wright Brothers and several others were on the verge of mental illness?
Yes I do understand it, you think that life is about seeking sex and female validation at any cost, even freedom while ignoring it can lead to mental degradation.
no, feel free to re-read what i stated as you still have a fundamental misunderstanding regarding it. trying reading it as its written instead of reading it as you want it to be written. :2
You won’t die without sex but you won’t do well either. People who voluntarily abstain from sex are almost always women because they don’t have much of a sex drive as it is. Even then, it’s a very very small percentage of the total population. Using them to support your argument is pathetic and reaching
Nah, incels are upset because more than a small percentage of women are terrible people who have no empathy for the opposite gender (save for the most attractive men). A large portion of women are like this. When you are raised to believe that the world owes you everything, you’ll grow up as an entitled bitch who has no sort of decency or gratitude. This describes young women in the West. They simply don’t care about other people, what they feel, what they think. A terrifyingly large percentage of women are borderline sociopaths who are unable to empathize with “ugly” men, aka most males.
Just to get it clear, Maslow's hierarchy of needs isn't science, it's borderline bunk and our psych professor said it was completely baseless back in university. There's valid meaning behind it, but none of it is scientific, it's mainly just the guy's opinion and a useful pyramid.
The highest sexual value is a need to be satiated, through whatever means. Not the need for validation, coupling, and intimacy. That appears on the third tier.
No, fucking is not peer bonding aka romance. You need to have peer bonding to make family units that lead to new family units. That's why family and friends are near it. it clearly means romance, not actual sex.
Very underrated comment. Why get a job if I'm not getting sex and hookers are illegal? No reason. Without sex, everything north of that level gets corrupted. This pyramid completely explains why 'that type' of guy springs up in our current times.
I think the most important thing to take out of the hierarchy is that many of the things people give downtrodden men/incels advice on is quite high up the pyramid.
Speaking of business theory and such, another thing to look into for you guys is Herzberg's twof factor theory. It's interesting in how it splits up factors into motivating and hygiene factors. Basically, motvaing factors are what the name inmplies, but hygiene factors are such that if left unfulfilled, there will be inherent dissatisfaction in the work environment, but naturally a bit of abstraction can apply it to more than the workplace.
The fundamental idea of certain fundamental needs being required for motivation and engagement is pretty much accepted social science at this point, but people can be surprisingly callous and act like people are simply weak minded losers for feeling unmotivated and having low engagement.
Remember, corporations have spent huge amounts of money researching and restructuring their practices to fulful needs for their employees in a more holistic fashion, because science flat out shows it increases engagement/motivation and thus productivity; but apparently the idea that society and people should work on creating such an environment for one another (and this isn't from a socialism perspective, I just mean decent behaviour towards those around you) is suddenly an alien concept.
Masturbation is a good stand in for sex. If you need validation from other people, join a group of ugly people and comfort each other. Have hugging circles or hold hands. Volunteer to help the needy, i know first hand they will hug the SHIT out of you. Take sex off the menu cause u cant whine till you get it. But you can get love and comfort in many other ways.
Funny that. Tell that to my brain when I finish fapping and it realizes that I've been doing the same thing since I was 8 years old and I still haven't done the real thing.
Thats just shame kicking in. Lots of dudes have fucked someone and felt that shame. You experiencing the same emotion as a stacy who wants to commit but loves fucking around.
Bull. With a real woman it feels 100x better which makes for a better climax, which in turn leads to more dopamine released I would imagine. Also the whole "being wanted" thing would add to that. The closest you can get without a partner is a onahole and its not really the same since there is no heat or pheromones involved.
I agree but I believe the "being wanted" part falls under sexual intimacy. "Sex" on the lowest tier involves sex with a partner only, masturbation isn't nearly the same.
Because sexual release is a base need, but sexual intimacy (emotional) is a higher order need. Release can be achieved solo (masturbation), but intimacy requires a partner.
if you don't do the other 5 things on the bottom tier your body will cease to function within minutes to weeks and yet all you dipshits are still alive and shitposting
So why not go have sex with each other? You said it yourself, sex is essential to life. Why not drop your standards and give each other this essential service
There's a lot of misconceptions about maslow's.
Its not like the food pyramid where you need less of a thing as you climb it.
its not inherently a claim of importance where the bottom is the most important and the top is the least.
It is best to think of it as stairs.
Humans have needs concerning their psychological development, and cannot obtain the next step of needs until the current step is at least mostly met. This is actually rather common sense. If you are starving, which would you choose? an iphone or a bigmac? If you had food at home and you just had to deal with being a little hangry for a 30 minute drive, and were offered the same choice, which would you take? That's really all that maslows is. If your physiological needs are not at least mostly met, you will not seek safety. If your needs for safety are not mostly met, you will not seek love or belonging. etc. You cannot obtain self actualization if you lack esteem.
So why is sex on there? Well we need sex. No i'm not saying "without sex you will die" like food or water, I am stating that we have a physiological drive for it and if that drive is not satisfied, it will interfere with obtaining the next step. Might not prevent obtaining it, but it will make it harder to obtain.
He formulated that 'opinion' through a very thorough and in-depth scientific analysis. The entire field of sociology isn't science by your logic. Which is actually a fair argument. But you can't have it both ways. Almost every female issue that has money thrown at it is based on that field of 'science'.
You won’t die without sex but you won’t do well either. People who voluntarily abstain from sex are almost always women because they don’t have much of a sex drive as it is. Even then, it’s a very very small percentage of the total population. Using them to support your argument is pathetic and reaching
it's an example of people being irrational when a survival related need is not met. the fact you can't draw that from the comment is unforgivably and probably intentionally stupid.
Oh - definitely not saying it’s not a choice - just that the respondent above me seems to think that a brothel would be some sort of necessity in a war zone to folks who are inclined to violence. Not that there aren’t lots of examples of state-sanctioned sexual slavery during times of war. The “comfort women” in Japan and the Jewish women forced into similar positions at the concentration camps in Nazi Germany are just a couple of examples.
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1 GeneticCleansing 2018-05-05
1 lpo33 2018-05-05
Yeah I doubt people wandered through a war zone in search of a brothel. That quote kind of defeats your point.
1 Eastbound_Stumptown 2018-05-05
Search for a brothel? In many war zones one of the most common offenses is rape.
1 lpo33 2018-05-05
That's usually a "spoils of war" type thing. So again, something you have control over unlike hunger.
1 LegendofMilkies 2018-05-05
it's an example of people being irrational when a survival related need is not met. the fact you can't draw that from the comment is unforgivably and probably intentionally stupid.
1 Eastbound_Stumptown 2018-05-05
Oh - definitely not saying it’s not a choice - just that the respondent above me seems to think that a brothel would be some sort of necessity in a war zone to folks who are inclined to violence. Not that there aren’t lots of examples of state-sanctioned sexual slavery during times of war. The “comfort women” in Japan and the Jewish women forced into similar positions at the concentration camps in Nazi Germany are just a couple of examples.
1 LegendofMilkies 2018-05-05
that person is wilfully ignoring your point, don't even bother. it's a very clear example to any reasonable observer.
1 bengalsturntup5532 2018-05-05
Also love and belonging ,and esteem
1 Toolman890 2018-05-05
And as Redditors always say, you can't argue with science! xD
Yet they continue to try and deny our issues. Why are they such science deniers? Are they living in the stone age? smh, come on people! It's 2018!
1 XupaCudeGoianinha 2018-05-05
Come on people! It's the current year!
1 Toolman890 2018-05-05
xD
1 anonymousvirgin88 2018-05-05
FTFY
1 WhoaItsAFactorial 2018-05-05
3! = 6
1 nicqui 2018-05-05
This model has actually never been proven (pisses me off that it’s still taught).
It’s 100+ years old and they can’t prove it’s anything beyond some dude’s guess.
1 Build_that_Bear 2018-05-05
Despite what incels claim, this isn't science.
You can live without sex. Some people do it voluntarily for various reasons.
Maslow's heirarchy is one man's opinion of what things need to be fulfilled before the next level of his heirarchy can be considered.
1 Toolman890 2018-05-05
He formulated that 'opinion' through a very thorough and in-depth scientific analysis. The entire field of sociology isn't science by your logic. Which is actually a fair argument. But you can't have it both ways. Almost every female issue that has money thrown at it is based on that field of 'science'.
1 Build_that_Bear 2018-05-05
Incels just like it because it lets them claim sex is as necessary as food and water. They don't even look beyond that.
Sex isn't as necessary as food. People voluntarily live without sex. People die after starving.
Regardless, the "soft sciences" of sociology and psychology will always be more speculative than physics and chemistry. There's an abundance of evidence that incels are wrong about every aspect of their belief system. That evidence just gets ignored in favor of memes and reinforcing hopelessness.
1 deadmedium 2018-05-05
its necessary for being mentally healthy, no one is claiming that you'll die from not having sex in the same way as you would if you stopped eating or drinking.
regardless, there is evidence that there are physiological consequences to being sexually isolated, feel free to watch this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MoqOm_EVR_g
1 Dickwraith93 2018-05-05
> its necessary for being mentally healthy
Are you telling me, monks/those who are celibate are mentally ill?
1 deadmedium 2018-05-05
there are reasons to be celibate, sometimes very good ones, but that doesnt change the fact that skin hunger is very real. im not saying they're mentally ill for practicing celibacy, im saying that celibacy can be a risk factor for developing mental illness as biologically we're social animals who require validation from the opposite sex to experience meaning in life.
1 Dickwraith93 2018-05-05
> im saying that celibacy can be a risk factor for developing mental illness as biologically we're social animals who require validation from the opposite sex to experience meaning in life.
Did you just said Buddha, Tesla, Wright Brothers and several others were on the verge of mental illness?
1 deadmedium 2018-05-05
no, that isnt what i said, feel free to re-read it until you understand properly. :2
1 Dickwraith93 2018-05-05
I understand it, you think that we need validation from women to prevent mental degradation which far from the truth.
1 deadmedium 2018-05-05
no, you're not fully understanding what im saying, feel free to re-read it :2
1 Dickwraith93 2018-05-05
Yes I do understand it, you think that life is about seeking sex and female validation at any cost, even freedom while ignoring it can lead to mental degradation.
1 deadmedium 2018-05-05
no, feel free to re-read what i stated as you still have a fundamental misunderstanding regarding it. trying reading it as its written instead of reading it as you want it to be written. :2
1 Dickwraith93 2018-05-05
Feel free to re-read, re-read and re-read my posts as you have no idea about freedom.
1 nicqui 2018-05-05
Right but Maslow’s isn’t proven (they’ve tried and “it works sometimes” lol).
Most social psychology is one man’s opinion from decades ago.
1 andtheywontstopcomin 2018-05-05
You won’t die without sex but you won’t do well either. People who voluntarily abstain from sex are almost always women because they don’t have much of a sex drive as it is. Even then, it’s a very very small percentage of the total population. Using them to support your argument is pathetic and reaching
1 Build_that_Bear 2018-05-05
Using the actions of a very small percentage of women to support your arguments = totally valid
Using a small percentage of people so support my argument = reaching
Incel science at work.
1 andtheywontstopcomin 2018-05-05
Nah, incels are upset because more than a small percentage of women are terrible people who have no empathy for the opposite gender (save for the most attractive men). A large portion of women are like this. When you are raised to believe that the world owes you everything, you’ll grow up as an entitled bitch who has no sort of decency or gratitude. This describes young women in the West. They simply don’t care about other people, what they feel, what they think. A terrifyingly large percentage of women are borderline sociopaths who are unable to empathize with “ugly” men, aka most males.
1 neetrobot 2018-05-05
Humans don't even exist typically without first sex, baka.
1 wangsneeze 2018-05-05
I don’t deny your pain, but your collective coping mechanisms are fucking pathological.
1 neetrobot 2018-05-05
Not really, no.
1 WarAndGeese 2018-05-05
Just to get it clear, Maslow's hierarchy of needs isn't science, it's borderline bunk and our psych professor said it was completely baseless back in university. There's valid meaning behind it, but none of it is scientific, it's mainly just the guy's opinion and a useful pyramid.
1 its_a_fishing_show 2018-05-05
No
"Sex" is with the first order needs, meaning personal release, the desire for expression, with or without an outside actor
"Sexual Intimacy" is in the third order. That means fucking.
1 dasyhdskj 2018-05-05
then why do shitstains on this board try to peddle nofap or giving up porn as any kind of meaningful solution
1 its_a_fishing_show 2018-05-05
Easily misled
1 Idk12344482305 2018-05-05
nofap is great if you can only get it up to tranny midget porn and jerk off 4 times a day. if you beat it 1-2 times a week, you don't need it.
1 SaltShaker8383 2018-05-05
Masturbation isn't sex, fool
1 its_a_fishing_show 2018-05-05
Your missing the point.
The highest sexual value is a need to be satiated, through whatever means. Not the need for validation, coupling, and intimacy. That appears on the third tier.
1 Joemo55 2018-05-05
OK, even then, sexual intimacy is needed for self esteem
1 its_a_fishing_show 2018-05-05
Sure, but even self-esteem isn't a base need. It's fourth tier.
1 Joemo55 2018-05-05
Just be confident, bro... Maslow says thats impossible for us
1 neetrobot 2018-05-05
No, fucking is not peer bonding aka romance. You need to have peer bonding to make family units that lead to new family units. That's why family and friends are near it. it clearly means romance, not actual sex.
1 GuyFromDaStore 2018-05-05
Sex is like oxygen, its no big deal until you're not getting any
1 neetrobot 2018-05-05
Very underrated comment. Why get a job if I'm not getting sex and hookers are illegal? No reason. Without sex, everything north of that level gets corrupted. This pyramid completely explains why 'that type' of guy springs up in our current times.
1 LinksLight 2018-05-05
yeah, anti incel feminists on Twitter are now doing an Anti-Maslow thing because he said people need sex so he was rapey. I saw it yesterday.
1 horacre 2018-05-05
Why is sex and sexual intimacy two separate categories?
1 innocent_butungu 2018-05-05
I suppose sex intended as masturbation
1 innocent_butungu 2018-05-05
I suppose sex intended as masturbation
1 neetrobot 2018-05-05
It means romance, why it is on the social life level.
1 Wateryoudoinglater 2018-05-05
You can fufill that need through masturbation
Because sex is required to have two partners, its not the same as giving you food or water.
Just because some trash people get free stuff doesnt mean we all do, I work for my food water and sex.
1 zacnsnsd 2018-05-05
It is sex is entitled so if u want it take it Disney may say no but just hold her down
1 Cock_Demon 2018-05-05
I think the most important thing to take out of the hierarchy is that many of the things people give downtrodden men/incels advice on is quite high up the pyramid.
Speaking of business theory and such, another thing to look into for you guys is Herzberg's twof factor theory. It's interesting in how it splits up factors into motivating and hygiene factors. Basically, motvaing factors are what the name inmplies, but hygiene factors are such that if left unfulfilled, there will be inherent dissatisfaction in the work environment, but naturally a bit of abstraction can apply it to more than the workplace.
The fundamental idea of certain fundamental needs being required for motivation and engagement is pretty much accepted social science at this point, but people can be surprisingly callous and act like people are simply weak minded losers for feeling unmotivated and having low engagement.
Remember, corporations have spent huge amounts of money researching and restructuring their practices to fulful needs for their employees in a more holistic fashion, because science flat out shows it increases engagement/motivation and thus productivity; but apparently the idea that society and people should work on creating such an environment for one another (and this isn't from a socialism perspective, I just mean decent behaviour towards those around you) is suddenly an alien concept.
1 Supreme_Salt_Lord 2018-05-05
Masturbation is a good stand in for sex. If you need validation from other people, join a group of ugly people and comfort each other. Have hugging circles or hold hands. Volunteer to help the needy, i know first hand they will hug the SHIT out of you. Take sex off the menu cause u cant whine till you get it. But you can get love and comfort in many other ways.
1 Rammspieler 2018-05-05
Your body eventually realizes that all that fapping isn't the real thing.
1 Supreme_Salt_Lord 2018-05-05
It does not. Dopamine still flows the same as it does with women.
1 Rammspieler 2018-05-05
Funny that. Tell that to my brain when I finish fapping and it realizes that I've been doing the same thing since I was 8 years old and I still haven't done the real thing.
1 Supreme_Salt_Lord 2018-05-05
Thats just shame kicking in. Lots of dudes have fucked someone and felt that shame. You experiencing the same emotion as a stacy who wants to commit but loves fucking around.
1 HydradenitisSuppura 2018-05-05
Bull. With a real woman it feels 100x better which makes for a better climax, which in turn leads to more dopamine released I would imagine. Also the whole "being wanted" thing would add to that. The closest you can get without a partner is a onahole and its not really the same since there is no heat or pheromones involved.
1 mightbebutter 2018-05-05
I agree but I believe the "being wanted" part falls under sexual intimacy. "Sex" on the lowest tier involves sex with a partner only, masturbation isn't nearly the same.
1 lori171717 2018-05-05
Whats the big difference between sexual intimacy and Sex ?
1 Eastbound_Stumptown 2018-05-05
Really?
1 lori171717 2018-05-05
i know theres a difference. butwhy does that matter in this context
1 Eastbound_Stumptown 2018-05-05
Because sexual release is a base need, but sexual intimacy (emotional) is a higher order need. Release can be achieved solo (masturbation), but intimacy requires a partner.
1 pandathrowaway 2018-05-05
if you don't do the other 5 things on the bottom tier your body will cease to function within minutes to weeks and yet all you dipshits are still alive and shitposting
1 Mest666 2018-05-05
masturbation = sex
1 satanshonda 2018-05-05
So why not go have sex with each other? You said it yourself, sex is essential to life. Why not drop your standards and give each other this essential service
1 amatos34 2018-05-05
dude you dont need sex , priests and nuns are celibate their whole lives and they live productive lives
1 HydradenitisSuppura 2018-05-05
( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
1 The-Drapery-Falls 2018-05-05
Hahahaha, what a crock of shit. Go 1 week without sex, then go 1 week without water, and tell me how it goes.
1 Ryzasu 2018-05-05
Yes but sex in this case can be masturbation too. The real "sex" belongs in the "love" category. I'm still blackpilled though don't worry
1 otter6461a 2018-05-05
Suddenly this revered hierarchy of needs is meaningless drivel now that it effects incels, go figure
1 InFin0819 2018-05-05
This has sex on there twice in different levels.
1 my_jokes 2018-05-05
sex is only on this list because you literally need to do it to keep the human race alive....... he isn't talking about sex for pleasure only..
1 IncelSlayerZero 2018-05-05
In b4 this thing gets deleted from the internet a la OKC.
1 mhannuhdea1 2018-05-05
There's a lot of misconceptions about maslow's.
Its not like the food pyramid where you need less of a thing as you climb it.
its not inherently a claim of importance where the bottom is the most important and the top is the least.
It is best to think of it as stairs.
Humans have needs concerning their psychological development, and cannot obtain the next step of needs until the current step is at least mostly met. This is actually rather common sense. If you are starving, which would you choose? an iphone or a bigmac? If you had food at home and you just had to deal with being a little hangry for a 30 minute drive, and were offered the same choice, which would you take? That's really all that maslows is. If your physiological needs are not at least mostly met, you will not seek safety. If your needs for safety are not mostly met, you will not seek love or belonging. etc. You cannot obtain self actualization if you lack esteem.
So why is sex on there? Well we need sex. No i'm not saying "without sex you will die" like food or water, I am stating that we have a physiological drive for it and if that drive is not satisfied, it will interfere with obtaining the next step. Might not prevent obtaining it, but it will make it harder to obtain.
1 Toolman890 2018-05-05
He formulated that 'opinion' through a very thorough and in-depth scientific analysis. The entire field of sociology isn't science by your logic. Which is actually a fair argument. But you can't have it both ways. Almost every female issue that has money thrown at it is based on that field of 'science'.
1 andtheywontstopcomin 2018-05-05
You won’t die without sex but you won’t do well either. People who voluntarily abstain from sex are almost always women because they don’t have much of a sex drive as it is. Even then, it’s a very very small percentage of the total population. Using them to support your argument is pathetic and reaching
1 lpo33 2018-05-05
That's usually a "spoils of war" type thing. So again, something you have control over unlike hunger.
1 LegendofMilkies 2018-05-05
it's an example of people being irrational when a survival related need is not met. the fact you can't draw that from the comment is unforgivably and probably intentionally stupid.
1 Eastbound_Stumptown 2018-05-05
Oh - definitely not saying it’s not a choice - just that the respondent above me seems to think that a brothel would be some sort of necessity in a war zone to folks who are inclined to violence. Not that there aren’t lots of examples of state-sanctioned sexual slavery during times of war. The “comfort women” in Japan and the Jewish women forced into similar positions at the concentration camps in Nazi Germany are just a couple of examples.
1 neetrobot 2018-05-05
Humans don't even exist typically without first sex, baka.
1 Dickwraith93 2018-05-05
> its necessary for being mentally healthy
Are you telling me, monks/those who are celibate are mentally ill?
1 Dickwraith93 2018-05-05
Feel free to re-read, re-read and re-read my posts as you have no idea about freedom.