My girlfriend often comes home a raging asshole. Believe it or not there's days I wish I could just be alone that night and fap to big titties on the internet alone in the dark.

Nope, not chad or incel. Just average dude. Interestingly it's girlfriend who makes tons more money and supports me somewhat, and she's the one that wants sex more often than me.

inb4 THAT'S IMPOSSIBLE

Possibly taking her anger out on you tbh.

Break up with her, nobody is stopping you. Live our paradise. But no, you won’t do that. If it wasn’t worth it you would, but it is worth it so you stay with her, but then tell incels to not worry about it. Fuck off.

It's almost like pussy has value and the amount of bullshit you're willing to put up with to get it is up to you as a person. Value yourself first and others will see you as someone to value.

“IT’S ALMOST AS IF...” XDXDXD AMIRITE REDDIT? Why all you faggots say this?

It would be easier to try to imagine 4 dimensional space than to try to imagine that..

It's over for tesseractcels.

why would I want to imagine that when I have the blackpill

Having a girlfriend who loves you would make every ounce of bullshit in life worth it.

Thats why we invented marriage to enslave a women to a man . Man was a slave too he worked his ass off for his family and society worked like a clock now its all over the place lmao. Value freedom more than love.she will never love you dude not in the way you do

IncelTears troll over here lmao

Dropping some blackpills for ya

One day I hope you realize that’s not really true.

It is true.

It's not true inasmuch as it implies your life is shit outside of your relationship - that's just bleak as women can smell that shit and will ditch you to wallow in the shit alone.

Better to work for a great, happy life for yourself imo.

Life is shit without a girl. Yes.

Nah I’m volcel and loving life

Guy who had a girlfriend says it's not true.

Guy who never had a girlfriend says it's true.

Logic.

Because you're used to it. Just like how a guy who's been hungry for a week knows how much food can change his life over someone who just got done stuffing his face with it.

No, it's not because I am used to it. It's because I've lived years with anxiety and depression and still have these issues even after I got my first girlfriend at the age of 21. It helps but it doesn't just magically fix everything

I mean yeah. The guy will get hungry again. Doesn't mean food is not important.

Not true. I've had at lease to 3 LTR where the girls definitely loved me and I knew it. While it was very nice and fulfilling, it certainly did NOT fix everything else or even make EVERYTHING more bearable (lots of things yes, but definitely not everything)

This is just not true. Having a girlfriend seems like a panacea for you because you don’t have one. I felt the same way. Once you have one though you realize a relationship can be fulfilling but the shit that sucked still fucking sucks

Yeah this is ridiculous. Having a gf is not the end all. Sometimes they suck. Sometimes they are nice. But it is still another person you have to deal with and compromise with. And hopefully you get a good gf or she can make your life hell.

Fuck off you stupid Norman, you don't know us. I guarantee a girlfriend would fix 100% of my mental problems.

Or make them even worse. My ex almost drove me to suicide.

I guarantee you it wouldn't.

Having a girlfriend doesn't magically fix all your problems. It fixes some and adds some new ones to your plate.

Your job still sucks. You still don't have enough money. You're still tired. Except now, if she had a worse day than you you have to stfu and care for her instead of playing video games to unwind.

I've had many GFs, and even been married. They tend to add drama and problems. Let's not even talk about money..The juice ain't worth the squeeze.

You've obviously never had a gf. Oh wait....

Welcome to working while in college

Your boss shit on you,

And so would she. I can understand if guys who grew up with single mothers don't get this, but if you had a father, did you not see how your mom shit on him as soon as he got home from work?

That's ..not a normal thing to see dude, a normal couple do support each other through lifes bullshit.

That's ..not a normal thing to see dude, a normal couple do support each other through lifes bullshit.

And you say this based on some Hollywood bullshit you saw on TV. That's not real life. That's just the bluepill dream Hollywood sells.

I base it on growing up with my parents,seeing my relatives and friends home lives and my own marriage. Real married life is a very positive thing.

and my own marriage

If you're married, you're lying to assuage your own second thoughts and regrets. Married men always want to convince another sucker, to spread the misery, in order to validate their wrong life choice.

What could you possibly base that on? You think all married people you've ever met are lying to trick other men into making their same mistake?

Yes lol

I'm sorry but what a fucking ridiculous concept. How the fuck would you know what his marriage is like?

If you’re so convinced that relationships are so toxic and awful, why do you care at all that you can’t have one? Aren’t you the lucky one in this scenario?

I’m 37 and have been with the same woman for almost 20 years. One pussy for pretty much my whole adult life, which is odd for living in Los Angeles. I’ve fucked one other woman, once, when I lost my virginity - which was horrifying because during my first time having sex I had brutal flashbacks to when I was molested as a child. It took a couple years and some therapy to get over that.

My wife is my partner, 100%. We’re a team. We watch out for each other. And we’re still attracted to each other - still have sex 3-4 times a week, even after 20 years. Neither of us are what you’d call hot. Just average looking people who love each other.

Be mad all you want about Chads and Beckys, you’re entitled to however you feel. But to dramatically shit on all marriages is simply wrong. Some people have figured it out. I’m sorry that hasn’t happened for you, but you’re flat out wrong when you state that married people are miserable.

If you’re so convinced that relationships are so toxic and awful, why do you care at all that you can’t have one?

I'm not an incel. I don't care about not having one.

I’m 37 and have been with the same woman for almost 20 years.

And I hope it keeps working out for you. But you're still lying when you say things like :

My wife is my partner, 100%. We’re a team. We watch out for each other.

You know this is a lie. She is your slave master, and you are the work horse, the slave. She bitches at you constantly for not making enough money. She nags about every little thing. She spends way too much money on lots of frivolous crap and drives you crazy. By lying to the incels and giving them this rosy picture of marriage you are giving, you're only making them more depressed and angry. Tell them the truth.

Marriage is a scam, it's just a peice of paper to encourage people to keep a papertrail of their genetic and cultural background. I also think monogamy is a scam, but if it makes him happy, so be it. You don't have to convince anyone what you chose is best, and often the people that yell "I AM HAPPY" the loudest are the most depressed.

Hey, happycheese86, just a quick heads-up:
peice is actually spelled piece. You can remember it by i before e.
Have a nice day!

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What happened in your life to make you this cynical holy shit

Lmao my wife makes 150K a year and I make 65K. Despite the salary gap she’s been encouraging me to quit my toxic job and become a yoga teacher, knowing I will make even less money doing that.

We’ve both worked hard to advance her career as an attorney (again, I did this because I love her and want her to be successful and happy) and we’ve finally made recent strides toward that goal in the form of a new job at a great company. In return, she’s encouraging me to find what makes me happy instead of being concerned with income. “It’s your turn” is her new catchphrase when we discuss my job situation.

What you describe above may very well be true for a lot of marriages. It’s a bit too cliche though, don’t you think? Most people I know my age that are married are pretty happy with it. What you describe may be more accurate of people older than myself, perhaps of the baby boomer generation or GenX. But it doesn’t have to be that way at all.

My own parents marriage isn’t perfect by any means, but looks nothing like what you describe. It can be about love sometimes. Most of the time.

If she is so supportive its out of guilt because she is fucking another man. You better look into that

I’ll upvote that, it made me laugh. Take it easy brother, I sincerely hope things work out and you find all the happiness you want.

So... this is just about wallowing in self-pity.

You have mommy issues

right in the feels tonight

I had a dream the other day that I fell in love with a girl and we hit it off. It was almost like I was back in high school again.

We would hold hands together, kiss each other's neck and cling together like the couples I used to be so jealous of back then. Something I never got to experience. The warmth felt so real. Then I woke up, alone, cuddling a wad of sweaty blanket. Waking up felt bad, but I wouldn't mind having more dreams like that.

Why is your dream that you fell in love with her, and not that she falls in love with you?

and we hit it off

Its kind of implied she did. nb4 "no your dream grill was a roastie whore who would hold hands with anyone"

hands can be washed.

Absolutely nothing like coming home to an empty apartment too burned out by the day to do anything but lay in the dark and wait for work tomorrow. This is how people were meant to live, alone and without a shred of external comfort, validation or kindness.

And right here is all y'alls actual problem. Stop ranting about what women do, accept that we live in a society set up for isolation and depression (especially in the US) and work on dealing with it and undermining it.

You're one of the dumbest people to ever comment here

Why? You are all clearly very lonely, and probably depressed largely because of this.

We live in a society y'all

You do, but one so broken it turns people into people like you. This is the trupill

Get a pet. Cats can be left alone all day.

Chicks don't do that anymore even if they like you. Your mother and dog are the only ones that will do that.

I'm in university and I work. I also have a "cute" girl friend who welcomes me back at the door. Not going to lie it's nice BUT it won't make your exam mark better or your schooling/work less stressful. Having a gf won't instantly make your life do a 180 and make your happy 24/7 365.

Smh you do not appreciate her enough then

Cant imagine tbh, i cant have dat and i never will

you dumb. If you are not the boss, and fail exams, cunt would call you loser and go to chad

"If only I had X, everything would be a rose garden"

More like you come home and talk it out, maybe she makes dinner or maybe you both go out for dinner. Watch some Netflix or whatever, then maybe sex or maybe not depending on how you're both feeling. Sleep. Wake up hating your job, go to work.

You also have to provide the same to her, or she leaves. Lol

Wow a living breathing human requires the same care that you expect from them? Perposterous

Sounds like you want a distraction from your depression. Leave your job when you clock out and find something that you enjoy. Be someone that you would want to be in a relationship with, and put out good vibes and you'll find love!

This was literally me last night. Got rekt (I know its spelled wrecked you englishtards) by the linear algebra exam, had a shit day at work with people being their typical usual entitled assholes, and to top it off I lost $500 in the poker game.

Fucking end it already...

..then you check her fone when she's taking a shit, and find she's been on Chaturbate all day, and has texts from 35 guys, half of them black thugs.

S U I F U E L

S U I F U E L

This is so true. This is what being in a relationship is all about. Having a partner. Someone to help me when I'm down and me to help her when she is down.

People always say a girlfriend won't solve all your problems and for once they are right. Having a shitty day at work with a crappy boss won't go away because you have a girlfriend. No one can say that being able to come home after that shitty day to someone who you love and who loves you compared to being alone wouldn't be immeasurably helpful.

No, it's not because I am used to it. It's because I've lived years with anxiety and depression and still have these issues even after I got my first girlfriend at the age of 21. It helps but it doesn't just magically fix everything

and we hit it off

Its kind of implied she did. nb4 "no your dream grill was a roastie whore who would hold hands with anyone"

If she is so supportive its out of guilt because she is fucking another man. You better look into that