sad!

I'm so sorry this happened.

Its seriously over.

Your first mistake was talking to her after she sent nudes. Obviously she just wanted to fuck.

You spent 3 weeks texting? I think you took too long, women have the attention span of a goldfish my friend.

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told me she had never sent nudes to anyone before. But I was special...

LOOOOL

Maybe she somehow worked out you are the kind of person that makes comments like this

Whore is an inane insult. If she was a whore she would have had sex with you for money, which is her right.

I will keep sticking up for a woman's right to do whatever the fuck she pleases.

You were special..... And you believed that garbage?

On a completely unrelated note, there's this wonderful beachside property in Florida up for sale. It's practically a steal. Just because I like you, I'll reduce my commission by 1%.

I found an article you might find useful. Not all women are like this, by a long shot. But here's how to recognize when you're getting played by a con artist.

Im so sorry this happened to you what a bitch

you've done the exact same thing before, Stfu

Ive never been on a blind date so no i havent. Leading someone on when you value looks is harsh

lmao letting your orbiters buy you shit isn't much better tho

Thats not really how dates work these days. If you are orbiting a person, spoiling them with no mention of commitment on their part then you are stupid and asking to be taken advantage of. In situations like that its better to use your head than your heart

One brutal blackpill is that females are NEVER talking to only one dude at a time. They have their main, plus side dick orbitors on standby just in case she gets bored or if their main slips up.

there is no main

If you are dating a roastie then you just have to accept that she is also being dicked by multiple chads while you buy her nice things

This is objectively false though. Surprisingly, there are lots of non-shitty people

Is that really shitty to do?

Very few non shitty women though. Also, why are there people like you in this sub and even more puzzling, why do you get upvoted?

Nope, lots of non-shitty women.

Because I felt like an incel for a long time until I changed some things and have since been in 5 years of long term relationships and I’m curious about this community.

And why do I get upvoted? Because I’m right

But you aren’t, so it’s confusing. 🤔

side dick orbitors

Another GREAT punk band name!

She just wanted attention that Chad wouldnt give her. Basically all of them fuck Chads and collect beta orbiters.

Sorry to hear that.

You have been stood up by a bitch and got laughed at by another bitch, a waitress who probably works to buy pleasant thing for her Chad,

dude I've had it worse, Try being turned down by a hooker.. anyway You are Welcome, feel free to speak about your frustrations it helps.

How exactly were your turned down by a hooker?

You come off as someone who is going to hurt or kill her.

Aka you are unattractive.

Contrary to what you seem to believe, somebody's looks are not a good indicator as to whether they're a serial killer or not.

User name checks out.

I didn’t say it had anything to do with looks. In fact, coming off as someone who is going to hurt or kill her has everything to do with the interaction and next to nothing to do with looks.

science-denying retard, look up the halo effect.

you think in a 2 minute interaction wherein you're propositioning a hooker she's making a detailed survey of your personality?

your personality is irrelevent, what matters is your perceived personality which is entirely based on your appearance. a weak jaws, narrow shoulder man is weak, conniving, evil.

Theres a reason monsters are designed to be ugly.

That's why women never turned down Ted Bundy till their dying breath, because they could sense his amazing personality, right?

Retarded normie piece of shit

Fucking kek

Let's look at it the opposite way. Say you want to come off as someone who will hurt or kill her. So, you puff out your chest like some silverback gorilla and beat your fist against your palm, walking up to her slowly. Now, say you're 5'2'', 90 pounds soaking wet, dressed in skinny jeans and a pink My Little Pony t-shirt. You think she'll feel threatened by you?

What probably happened was he hired a hooker who already had plenty of paying clients and could afford to turn down an utterly repulsive person. Most sex workers make between $100 and $200 per session. Most women wouldn't fuck an incel for ten times that amount.

It was graduation day I thought since everyone of my friends had plans with their SO, I said fuck it today to celebrate my graduation I will fuck a high end escort, down a bottle of vodka and take a swim in a nearby beach in that order. Well after i booked her and everything she asked me to text her back when I get to her place which i did. She told me to wait 10 minutes then 20 then 35 min after which She finally texted saying She was sorry I wasn't exactly what She had in mind ...something along those lines....Came back home with a bottle of vodka downed this shit like water and cried myself to sleep.

Would be a shame if those nude pics ended up online. Yep a real shame.

for him becaus ehe'd probably go to jail over it

Yup, it would be a damn shame

It's not over! Sounds like you need to take a break from dating though. She clearly saw something in you so others will too! I'm here if you need to vent or talk 💜

If she sent you nudes then she clearly thought more of you than that. Idk why she didn't show up but sometimes people are crazy 😕

She just saw a free meal she can get from a beta, nothing else

But she didn't even show up

maybe she's on a diet

you cunts need to stop trying to shove the bluepill down our throats. This happens to us every single time we try.

Tee hee heart heart keep your chin up everything's gonna be fine heart heart.

You ok sweet heart?

sweet heart

Oh sweetie... what a doozie of a fiddly-flap that was. Honestly, Dearie, its ok schnnookums, no need to get cranky wanky in your little pajamy--wammies, did you tinkle your wittle boy undies? Oh lolipop honey muffin, it'll be okay baby bear buttercup sweetie mommy will read you a story and change your diapies so you can stop crying. So show us how much of a big boy you are and don't go kaboom in your baby blanket little sailor big boys dont throw tantrums like that Donny Wonny my little sweetest shnookie dookums butterfly raindrop did you get an outhcie on your butterfly raindrop did you ouchie on your butter baby bottom? Come let mommy put the baby powder on it honey darling sugar plum so you so you won't get a rashy washy on your cheeky weekies mommy doesn't like when her brave little toaster is BABY BOOTY BOTHERED.

Thanks for providing me with this overabundance of unleaded rage fuel. With that many diminutives, I can get to 300m/s in 10 seconds flat.

Only subsonic? You gotta pump those numbers up. Those are rookie numbers!

Uh....what? Lol

oh my jesus how the fuck can be you so delusional

It. Is. Over.

AWALT

Could’ve been a catfish too 😪 that’s sucks though man

either a catfish or she got there, saw him in the flesh and noped out based on looks

or

she was going to show up for the date but a chad showed up at the last second

She probably went to Chads and begged him for sex. He probably made her clean his place and cook for him as well.

noped out based on looks

Yes.

She prolly seen him from a safe distance

And then fled for her life

Protip: never wait more than ten extra minutes for a date. Or even better, make sure she's not a flake beforehand. Or EVEN BETTER, only go on dates to places where you'd enjoy yourself alone anyway.

How do you make sure she's not going to flake, though?

The last protip is solid. Plan for something you want to enjoy. That way she just becomes a secondary character in the plot of your story.

You’re probably a creep let’s be honest here

So this bitch is willing to send you nudes and talk to you a third of a day, and she ghosts you on a date?... Is she stupid? Not only she wasted A LOT of her time, but she also sent her nudes to a guy she did not know. For all she knew you could've uploaded those pics in a porn site.

Oh wait, it's women I'm talking about. My bad.

Hey you never know, she could be sleeping with tyrone

The problem with you guys is that you're just too much in a hurry.

When I finally became uncomfortable with how my feminism and mental health sat with the pleasures of being treated like a human toilet by big, openly toxic men, I decided to settle down with a nice, open minded guy.

We're actually having fun teaching him the nitty gritty of feminist theory right now, my two foot dildo could wait!

You got me, it's actually way over two feet.

Stop shaming plz.

One dumb cunt and you throw in the towel? Look inward young man. Next time try not chatting and going straight out on a date to see if there is a connection. Seriously bruh, talking on the phone sucks. Get back out there and do it again.

As of today I'm volcel

Sorry, but you are coping

your mom is coping

Invest in a pussy hat and some soy, bc no sub8 man could have a woman be genuinely attracted to him anyway.

Betamaxxing is your only hope, if you could take any more degradation that is.

I try to warn incels but they get pussyblinded and try to escape. I'll just write it again.

You 👏 Will 👏 Never 👏 Escape 👏 Inceldom

Yupp we will never escape inceldom...

dont give up, there are girls like that out there but maybe you can find someone loyal someday

Cope

Amen

The possibility that you'd been catfished never crossed your mind?

I mean why does op think any fucking foid want to date an incel. Our fate is to let our genes die out all the while making normies suffer as much as possible along the way. Is probably some troll who wanted to lead an ugly man on

Lol sounds fake.

I will bet you dodged a bullet, you were going to get robbed but the criminals for whatever reason changed their minds.

Be thankful you didn't end up in a shallow grave while they bought baby formula and sneakers with your credit cards.

Don't give up. You dodged a bullet. There are red flags about this woman from the behavior you described. Any profile that says "wanting a good guy who wouldnt break her heart and give her the attention she needs" is a crazy person. Texting with you for 8 hours a day for that long is a red flag. Why didn't she have a life? Sending you nudes before she met you is a red flag. Saying you are perfect, and wants to spend her life with you, before she's met you in person is a HUGE red flag. This is someone with a personality disorder. You're lucky she chickened out. Or maybe she just needed a pen pal, and the attention of a fake relationship without the commitment of being rejected for real. Guys do that too. Women are advised to forget a guy if he won't ask you to meet in person pretty early on. He probably just wants the attention, but not the commitment.

Anyway, don't date people without good boundaries. It's the fastest way to end up with your pet rabbit in a stovepot, your car keyed, or your house burned down.

how the fuck is a girl who texts 8 hours a day with you is mental illness? all females in 2018 are texting 90+ males on a daily basis at least 12 hours a day. jfl.

How old are they? Do they have school or jobs? How can a person dedicate 12 hours of their life to texting and be working on their future?

i'd say starting at the age of about 9 or 10 all females are texting 1781760768176387681376801616718671867831631767318673816718638161673816861768768176813 boys and of course their girlfriends as well.

every single time i have seen the phone of a girl (who sat next to me on the bus/train, whatever) they literally had like 76381671386781713671386713867138671836781 contacts. it's fucking ridiculous how much validation and attention they get. meanwhile the only text i get is "thanks for your payment"

The only calls I've had in the last 5 years are from my Mum and debt collectors.

ouch.. I've had some calls from some friends for sure but mainly mum. Luckily no debt collectors. Sadly 0 foids

Young girls are naturally chatty. And they were on the bus. What else are they going to do? Doesn't mean they were texting 8-12 hours a day. And it doesn't mean an older woman, like college age and up, is normal to act that way. But, on the bus, sure.

Read this

These are all things I would say to a girl if I talked to her, I'm not a psychopath jfl.

Sounds like you're a narcissist manipulator if you tell a girl all that stuff when you hardly know here. Sorry. That's the way psychology works. You may not know you're a narcissist, but other people do. If it walks like a duck, and quacks like a duck, it's a duck.

no i mean if i ever got a girlfriend, then again i never spoke to a girl so all that stuff would be legit, unlike this faggot psychopath talking about his "exes"

and jfl, i'm not a narcissist manipulator. i'm the most docile self-loathing faggot in existence. if they fucked up my order at mcdonald's, i wouldn't even muster the courage to take it back and complain.

I did say IF you said all that stuff to a girl you don't know well. Even if you've been on 3 dates with her, saying all that stuff is craycray. It's the same when women say it. It takes time to really know, and trust, a person.

You can still be a narcissist even if you don't have assertiveness skills. Assertive conflict resolution is the most useful emotional intelligence skill to have. Look into that. Being able to talk to fast food workers, ask to have your needs met, and having healthy boundaries, is great practice for being in a relationship.

How do you know this information?

You're a cuck.

Establish a date within 5 texts. Anything beyond that and you're fucked, because she's already found a guy that did exactly what I'm saying.

Missed the lesson, bro. Girls tend to go out on dates these days. Go for something low key for the first one. Meet for coffee. Meet at a place for drinks.

It was shitty of her to stand you up. Learn the lesson and try again.

Wow, what a horrendous piece of shit for doing that to you. I’m really sorry to hear that happened dude. She was clearly a horrible person, and it’s hard to see it this way without the saddening part of it but you dodged a clear bullet. I know it sounds ridiculous because of what happened and how you feel, but I hope you don’t give up. Maybe keep the POF account and check it sparingly, or delete it if it brings you down.

None the less, she’s clearly a fucked up person, and her most favorable attribute will fade in years and she’ll have nothing. It’s a fucked thing to do, but take solace in that. If you ever want to vent and talk about how shitty people are you can always pm me (no, I’m not out to doxx you or anything. I just know the pain of being treated like shit and I like listening.)

tee hee

hey gambler is back

It's over

My advice. Plan to meet first weekend you make contact, if they don’t want to, move on. Who cares how hot they are, they aren’t interested. Keep them on the roster but look at them as backups and don’t give them attention. Never.Invest.Time.From.A.Distance (texting) if you haven’t met in person yet. Lower standards and trade up until you meet someone special. Love/Dating is a game until you find the right person. Don’t think they aren’t playing it too. When you go meet, choose a place you can watch from the lot or outside so you don’t end up inside alone. Get on Reddit and chill. If they don’t show up, go grab a beer or go to the gym to relieve stress as you see fit.

How do you know she wasn't in reality a catfish ? Maybe all the photos she sent were not from her and now that she had to meet you for real, she panicked ?

Trying once and giving up because you get stood up....once. This is called being a quitter

Or she was just catfishing?

I have no doubt in mind she was fucking Chad when she stood me up.

Very likely bloke. You were giving her the validation and most likely being her emotional tampon. Chad doesn't have time for that but she does want to her on her knees gobbling his cock. Most women have multiple men on the go. Often with a back up man and orbiters to meet all their needs. You learned a valuable lesson. Embrace the black pill.

She met a Chadchad, and was too spineless to tell you. RIGHT NOW, this very second, she is either draining his balls, or thinking about it.

If you're chatting with a roastie for 8 hours..then it's obvious you're her beta orbiter.

Chad texts for a minute and then proceeds to fuck the living daylights out of her.

If you don't actually give up, maybe try meeting someone not on a dating app? I guess I'm the last one to give advice since I've never had a gf or sought one out because mentalcel but who knows, maybe you'll find a girl by expanding your network of friends. If you don't have any friends, mmos are a good place to start. At least they were for me.

Also unless you actually saw the waitress laughing its best not to assume. She probably just wanted you to order something.

Its my first time on here. Am i allowed to throw some advice your way if you are interested? You only have one finite existence within an infinite of nothingness. It is all meaningless but atleast you can take advantage of pleasure through the innate desires and reward systems within the brain that you as energy between synaptic gaps inhabit.

1. This is advice if you are 21 and over and have some sort of disposable income or savings you can use and a car or live in a city with public transportation.

2. First thing is start getting an hour body rub with happy ending once a week. It feels good and it helps you get used to being in a sexual situation with pretty and different girls. Also there is no pressure to perform you are just laying there relaxing.

3. Stop using online dating sites for now.

4. Go to Macys and buy a pair of good fitting jeans. Levis are good. If you are overweight buy a black v neck shirt. Also get some brown shoes which could be boat shoes.

5. If you are alone all the time start eating out restaurants at the bar by yourself. Do this 3 nights a week. Make sure you switch off restaurants. It is fine for men to eat a bar alone and have a drink. 9/10 times nothing will happen but eventually a girl will be next to you alone or with friends and she will talk to you. Offer to buy her and friends drinks. If she asks why you are alone say your friends cancelled on you or you were working nearby.

6. Optional but you can get a dog or if you already have one bring your dog on a leash out to whatever downtown area is nearby you. Walk your dog and sit down in a different areas and literally dozens of girls will stop by and pet your dog and converse with you.

7. Try drinking alot of caffeine right before you go out so you are extrenely talkative and dont get lost in your own thoughts.

Hey, AlvinItchyCock, just a quick heads-up:
alot is actually spelled a lot. You can remember it by it is one lot, 'a lot'.
Have a nice day!

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wtf did I just read

Was just trying to be helpful. Maybe i missed the point of this subreddit. I was very alone when i was out of college at 22 and those are some of things I can remember I did that changed things. Im 26 now and have been in a relationship with a barista i used to buy coffee at for a year and a half now. Just going out to places even if your alone works. You meet people.

For incels life is a bottomless pit. And we were thrown in to it the moment we were conceived. There is no getting out.

any girl with that shit in her profile is bad news. sorry

No one can't escape the inceldom

for him becaus ehe'd probably go to jail over it

Yup, it would be a damn shame

You come off as someone who is going to hurt or kill her.

It was graduation day I thought since everyone of my friends had plans with their SO, I said fuck it today to celebrate my graduation I will fuck a high end escort, down a bottle of vodka and take a swim in a nearby beach in that order. Well after i booked her and everything she asked me to text her back when I get to her place which i did. She told me to wait 10 minutes then 20 then 35 min after which She finally texted saying She was sorry I wasn't exactly what She had in mind ...something along those lines....Came back home with a bottle of vodka downed this shit like water and cried myself to sleep.

You got me, it's actually way over two feet.

Stop shaming plz.