That was a very well-put and concise statement of your totally reasonable desires, yet you still caught shit for it. When you're arguing with idiots, you can't win.
yes, they come here to our spaces and complain about us complaining lmao. god forbid someone whines on the internet, especially when there's nothing that forces you to read it. incels should just be quiet little dogs who never complain about anything and always stay positive and never show any negative emotions. us incels complaining is VERY straining on poor normies, please think of the poor normies ;(((
Call me a lurker, Canadian and lady, but you can’t call me an Incel; and I’d like to let you know you aren’t entitled to anything from anyone, nobody is (unless you’re payin’ them, of course), but you do deserve to have all of that awesome nice, good romantic shit y’all crave. You deserve it! I’m sorry the public media is using this as the next big craze, like some sort of internet cult, without actually looking at the root- which is rejection sucks and it fucking hurts being alone, feeling that insurmountable anguish that you can’t communicate with anyone about. Even if you’re in a relationship with someone you love, you can feel lonely as hell because you’re not connecting with them like you’d hoped and desired. I wish genuinely nice and honest people come into your lives and show you the ups and downs that makes it enjoyable, albeit painful at times. I’m sorry North America, more so Canada, has its eyes on your backs; just know that a few journalists articles aren’t the general public’s opinions. Outside our phones, it’s all jelly ♥️
Holy shit. Who would read that comment and do ANYTHING but feel bad for the guy?
You have to be a psychopath to read "I just want someone to emotionally support me, to hold hands with, and to be there for me, I am lonely and depressed..." and think "you so lameeeee" ????
Holy shit. Who would read that comment and do ANYTHING but feel bad for the guy?
You have to be a psychopath to read "I just want someone to emotionally support me, to hold hands with, and to be there for me, I am lonely and depressed..." and think "you so lameeeee" ????
That guy wasn’t a troll. The same person wanted to teach in Japan under a year ago because of animoo. He’s punching down because r/japancirclejerk probably punched at him
Look, he doesn't speak for all normies. He's an absolute dickhead for replying like that. You have every right to have those wishes and don't let some prick online make you feel otherwise.
Amen. Assholes are grossly over represented on the internet. Just because some asshole is broadcasting doesn't mean shit nowadays. LOOK AT ME! I AM A BANANA!
Then you have men who actually physically, mentally, and emotionally abuse women but are somehow still in a relationship with them. What a catch right?
Quick review of u/strawberrynight109 's past comments indicates no directed hatred toward women or deep-seated anger issues and you profiled him as someone who would 'throw a tantrum, scream, and call women cum buckets'
'i was kind to you and you resorted to name calling' LMAO the cognitive dissonance is strong with this one
You've somehow convinced yourself that I actually believe this although I haven't said any of this.
Why is that? Oh yeah, so you don't feel bad when calling us losers because we all are evil men who hate women and want to murder people. Fucking delusional.
I'm not even angry. Is this your attempt at maintaning the idea that you're still a good person? I reveal that I'm not this generalization of incels you think I am and all you have to type is this childish reply? Really? You're not gonna confront the fact that you assumed something about me that wasn't true?
Instead you're going to keep acting like you did nothing wrong and that I'm the terrible one here for getting frustrated at you assuming things of me that I haven't even had a chance to reveal my thoughts on. Is it really hard to grasp that people don't want you to prejudge them? Are you too dumb to see how that can be frustrating?
I don't give a shit if you think I'm angry, especially if you're going to keep using it to shy away from what a dishonest and rude person you are. You still avoided everything I wrote, only proving my point. If all you have to point out is how angry I am, now that you can't rely on me hating women, just stop. That's the only argument you people have against us and when it's dismantled you have absolutely nothing to say.
And you still avoided every point I made. Why would I address anything you say when you keep deflecting and saying I'm angry because you have nothing to say. When confronted you immediately move goalposts and ask why I'm an incel so you can blame me for any shortcomings. I've heard every variation of why everything is my fault. I'm a former IT user, which is all that needs to be said. Doubt you'd tell me anything I haven't heard.
The person you’re talking to isn’t debating it very well, but I think what’s clear here is that there are guys who are truly unworthy of relationships that have them anyway and it IS extremely unfair. I completely agree that abusers and cheaters don’t deserve anything. But it doesn’t help to do the same thing as them and hope for the same result. Not only will it likely not work, (I’ll give you that relationships are damn hard to find if you aren’t attractive,) but it cements your fate. It hinders you.
It sucks that there’s no such thing as karma. But in the absence of that, I would think you’d want your absolute best chances?
Posting on an obscure internet forum isn't helping or hurting my chances with women, so why would I stop? I'm still going to be ugly regardless of what I do, so at least by being here I can talk about things that are socially unacceptable for men to do.
Oh I am all for venting and bonding with a community. I just mean if you are outwardly resenting towards females, or if you really do believe they’re all exactly the same and subconsciously treat them as such. I think taking with those who have the same problems as you is good though. As long as it doesn’t hinder your chances.
I am seeing that lots of people are judging you guys without ever really looking at what you say. And of course there are guys posting some questionable stuff which really doesn’t help your case. But most of you seem to just be making jokes at women’s expense to cope and never actually mean any harm. The only reason I’m here is because I didn’t want to make assumptions, and I’m glad I didn’t. I really am not starting with the assumption that incels legitimately hate women, I was only responding to the possibility that those kind of jokes and copes may be hindering. Not saying it is necessarily hindering, just that it’s POSSIBLE that it is. I would only be looking at that on a case by case basis anyway. I don’t like to generalize.
One person trolling you says something, and you blame a group...a non existent group tbh. You are not a victim, if you want something go fucking get it, get off the internet and find whats right for you.
Thats one shitty set of people. I dont know how old you are.. but im close to 50 now and delt wuth this my whole life as well. Im sure every cunt gives you advice, so here is mine. Get really good at something, like really good, coding, art or anything other than what everyone else does fuck them. People like that will not be an issue for you forever, there fucked and are not worth it, get good at stuff and one day u will manage these fucks.
Sex follows a relationship. Unless people are just satisfied with 1. Meaningless one night stands or 2, A relationship with a dead bedroom, it’s obvious people seek both.
Yeah i meant to reply to another comment. And i agree the op has every right and i agree with him. It was another comment i got fired up about. Btw the duxe that replied in the op's post is a fucking nob.
hey, just thinking that whoever replied with the rude comment might be the outlier... I think that wanting companionship is universal for all humans, not just incels :)
sorry for whoever received such a rude response. I hope you can let yourself be honest and vulnerable again in the future! I know it's scary and getting laughed at like this stings, but it's the best way to truly made connections with others.
Jesus Christ fag it's fucking current year and you are still so dense that you don't realize that men are disposable and no one else is ever going to give the slightest fuck about you.
How dumb do you have to be to not know this by now.
You want someone to care about you? Guess what sad sack? Prepare to weep cause hierarchy is gone. No one except you is ever going to care about you. On God how sick. The only worthless pathetic loser faggot who is ever going to care about you is you.
Yeah I know, It’s why I’m here. Fantasy and reality are different, I recognise that. I also don’t have close friends anymore so it’s not as if I don’t undertand how men are disposable in 2018 and I’m alone in caring for myself.
The only hope is we fix it. Note, I did say we. Not you.
Men are disposable, we are born that way. Any man who doesn't accept that is a fool. Pray a man who knows he is disposable finds you, and demands you respect him for it.
I know women are ready for this after the great experiment of hellish egalitarianism creating so much misery. Now we get men ready. There is no other choice.
That person that commented is probably young ,and they don't believe in lovey dovey stuff,they just believe in you sexy lets fuk, now where my otha hoes at feel me pimp
I think that dude's saying it's lame because you're publicly whining about that stuff. Whining in general is not really a great thing to do, but whining about stuff like that, especially in a place known for hyper hatred and frustration, just seems almost two faced.
It's the context. If there was a sub for total femnazis where they preached murdering men with little hyperbole and then simultaneously had threads talking about wanting dick, and how they'd fuck 12 year old boys, then yeah, I'd call that whining.
Sure it's in a post about what incels want, but this community has such a bad reputation that this stuff is going to be seen as pretty pathetic, regardless of the individual post, or poster.
I'm asking you to link a post on r/braincels preaching about murdering women in response to this.
If there was a sub for total femnazis where they preached murdering men with little hyperbole and then simultaneously had threads talking about wanting dick, and how they'd fuck 12 year old boys, then yeah, I'd call that whining.
Nobody gives a shit that this isn't on the same sub as the old incels. This was most people's first introduction to the concept of incels, and this is what most people think of when they think of incels. Right now we're talking about perception rather than reality, because perception is what dictates what's pathetic and what's not.
No you implied word for word that this sub preach about murdering women when you made your analogy that if a sub for total femnazis where they preached murdering men with little hyperbole and then simultaneously had threads talking about wanting dick, and how they'd fuck 12 year old boys, then yeah, I'd call that whining. it's a pretty big accusation so I'm asking you to link me such post, don't start moving the goal post at your convenience. So link it to me or shut the fuck up.
This whole thing is about why that post was perceived as pathetic when maybe a chick complaining about feeling alone probably wouldn't be. Maybe the analogy had some imperfections in how it was worded, but the merit is still there.
OP is perfectly reasonable - who wouldn't want that sometimes? And yeah, the comment underneath is not helpful. But the thing about people who support you through tough times, is that bond doesn't come quickly. It takes two people to be open and honest and to trust each other. Which takes time and respect. And you have to be that person to help them through tough times in return. No expectations, just kindness.
In short - misogyny is not great for developing a relationship, but there is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting intimacy.
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1 WahmenMustDIe 2018-05-03
Normies are the lowest form of life on this planet
1 unleashedtech 2018-05-03
What is the name for normies who are empatheitc?
1 MoneyMaize 2018-05-03
Unicorns? Bigfoot? Santa Claus?
1 anex98 2018-05-03
your mom
1 victinigen5 2018-05-03
Ha! . . ..it's funny.
1 victinigen5 2018-05-03
Both on the nose and culturally poignant. Bravo.
1 blackpillnormie 2018-05-03
Blackpilled normies
1 deadmedium 2018-05-03
liars, virtue signalers, concern trolls :2
1 Zeoqu 2018-05-03
Von magnar
1 Hoeasss 2018-05-03
No they aren't, cucks are. Because cucks are the ones who allow feminism and female hypergamy in this society
1 Mest666 2018-05-03
norman = cuck
1 Bovinerifle 2018-05-03
Your a dick.
1 WahmenMustDIe 2018-05-03
You're*
And you're a pussy. Lemme penetrate you.
1 Bovinerifle 2018-05-03
Lol.. ooh normies are the worst... bwaaaa. Fuking hell mate the worst thing... is some self hating person that blames others. Weak game.
1 WahmenMustDIe 2018-05-03
Where am i blaming others. I am just stating the Truth.
1 nah_humbug 2018-05-03
That was a very well-put and concise statement of your totally reasonable desires, yet you still caught shit for it. When you're arguing with idiots, you can't win.
1 CaligulaWasRight 2018-05-03
thats cuz normies believe incels "arent entitled to anything from anyone"
1 nah_humbug 2018-05-03
Apparently incels aren't even entitled to feel their own human emotions. That's fucking vile.
1 justforlulzandkeks 2018-05-03
yes, they come here to our spaces and complain about us complaining lmao. god forbid someone whines on the internet, especially when there's nothing that forces you to read it. incels should just be quiet little dogs who never complain about anything and always stay positive and never show any negative emotions. us incels complaining is VERY straining on poor normies, please think of the poor normies ;(((
1 nah_humbug 2018-05-03
Sending thots and prayers and good vibez 2 da normies <3
1 nuxwcrtns 2018-05-03
Call me a lurker, Canadian and lady, but you can’t call me an Incel; and I’d like to let you know you aren’t entitled to anything from anyone, nobody is (unless you’re payin’ them, of course), but you do deserve to have all of that awesome nice, good romantic shit y’all crave. You deserve it! I’m sorry the public media is using this as the next big craze, like some sort of internet cult, without actually looking at the root- which is rejection sucks and it fucking hurts being alone, feeling that insurmountable anguish that you can’t communicate with anyone about. Even if you’re in a relationship with someone you love, you can feel lonely as hell because you’re not connecting with them like you’d hoped and desired. I wish genuinely nice and honest people come into your lives and show you the ups and downs that makes it enjoyable, albeit painful at times. I’m sorry North America, more so Canada, has its eyes on your backs; just know that a few journalists articles aren’t the general public’s opinions. Outside our phones, it’s all jelly ♥️
1 jaja10 2018-05-03
what did he mean by this?
1 chadbhava 2018-05-03
Femmaggots trying to communicate
1 CowRiverDown 2018-05-03
fucking normies, they enjoy punching down
1 tropical_cockonut 2018-05-03
They’re not punching down. Most of them are incels in denial
1 victinigen5 2018-05-03
Bam! nailed it. We are all the same. Most incels are just plain old boring normal.
1 xxxrivenmainxxx 2018-05-03
remember: if you dont beat her up she gets bored.
1 LeFumes 2018-05-03
Is this true
1 labonnelicorne 2018-05-03
No it's not true, unless you come across a very masochistic women. Most wouldn't like that at all
1 xxxrivenmainxxx 2018-05-03
most also dont care enough to just leave the men.
1 mikepencetheincel 2018-05-03
legit wtf
1 bcat124 2018-05-03
If chad wants to fuck around, he's wild and free, a dominant independent man.
If chad wants to have a romantic LTR, he's a prince charming with a pure heart.
Whatever we do, we're pathetic either way. You can't win if you already lost the genetic lotttery.
1 Zyros_ 2018-05-03
i hate chad and his privilege so much
1 changeIsTheWay 2018-05-03
Callate!
1 GeneticCleansing 2018-05-03
Holy shit. Who would read that comment and do ANYTHING but feel bad for the guy?
You have to be a psychopath to read "I just want someone to emotionally support me, to hold hands with, and to be there for me, I am lonely and depressed..." and think "you so lameeeee" ????
1 GeneticCleansing 2018-05-03
Holy shit. Who would read that comment and do ANYTHING but feel bad for the guy?
You have to be a psychopath to read "I just want someone to emotionally support me, to hold hands with, and to be there for me, I am lonely and depressed..." and think "you so lameeeee" ????
1 pepe_the_third 2018-05-03
FTFY
1 shadowcat211 2018-05-03
And then normal people virtual signal by pretending they care when in reality this is just the next level of hating male virgins.
1 geneticwaste43 2018-05-03
Dont worry guys IT is here to help
1 tyrone_pepinanjo 2018-05-03
r/wooosh
1 strawberrynight109 2018-05-03
That guy wasn’t a troll. The same person wanted to teach in Japan under a year ago because of animoo. He’s punching down because r/japancirclejerk probably punched at him
1 tyrone_pepinanjo 2018-05-03
Damn, why would anybody be that bad?
1 RuthlessBalloon 2018-05-03
Look, he doesn't speak for all normies. He's an absolute dickhead for replying like that. You have every right to have those wishes and don't let some prick online make you feel otherwise.
1 victinigen5 2018-05-03
Amen. Assholes are grossly over represented on the internet. Just because some asshole is broadcasting doesn't mean shit nowadays. LOOK AT ME! I AM A BANANA!
1 victinigen5 2018-05-03
sucking own cock. . . Pow.
1 Vaporiform 2018-05-03
... And when you don't get that, you throw a tantrum, scream and call women cum buckets.
Yeah, what a catch.
1 BF8211 2018-05-03
Then you have men who actually physically, mentally, and emotionally abuse women but are somehow still in a relationship with them. What a catch right?
1 Vaporiform 2018-05-03
Why do you want to be with a woman who stays out of fear? Are you really that desperate?
1 BF8211 2018-05-03
Holy shit you're dumb.
1 Vaporiform 2018-05-03
Oh look! I was kind to you, and you resorted to name calling. I can't understsnd why you're single, hmmm...
1 retarded_dumbshit 2018-05-03
That's not kindness lol.
1 adventurous_arachnid 2018-05-03
Quick review of u/strawberrynight109 's past comments indicates no directed hatred toward women or deep-seated anger issues and you profiled him as someone who would 'throw a tantrum, scream, and call women cum buckets'
'i was kind to you and you resorted to name calling' LMAO the cognitive dissonance is strong with this one
1 Uggocel 2018-05-03
Alright, I was on the fence, but I officially hate normies now.
1 victinigen5 2018-05-03
u/Vaporiform has lots of advice for everyone. is she sue johannsen?
1 Vaporiform 2018-05-03
I'm flattered. Boy, everyone was right. Chuck you guys a fish and watch you slap your fins together. 😂😂
1 Uggocel 2018-05-03
Well look at what we have to deal with. You have absolutely no self-awareness.
1 Vaporiform 2018-05-03
You've somehow convinced yourself that a woman's free choice is a personal slight against you.
Why is that? Why is a woman's choice immediately offensive to you?
1 Uggocel 2018-05-03
You've somehow convinced yourself that I actually believe this although I haven't said any of this.
Why is that? Oh yeah, so you don't feel bad when calling us losers because we all are evil men who hate women and want to murder people. Fucking delusional.
1 Vaporiform 2018-05-03
Temper, temper! A lot of anger there.
1 Uggocel 2018-05-03
I'm not even angry. Is this your attempt at maintaning the idea that you're still a good person? I reveal that I'm not this generalization of incels you think I am and all you have to type is this childish reply? Really? You're not gonna confront the fact that you assumed something about me that wasn't true?
Instead you're going to keep acting like you did nothing wrong and that I'm the terrible one here for getting frustrated at you assuming things of me that I haven't even had a chance to reveal my thoughts on. Is it really hard to grasp that people don't want you to prejudge them? Are you too dumb to see how that can be frustrating?
1 Vaporiform 2018-05-03
All evidence to the contrary.
1 Uggocel 2018-05-03
I don't give a shit if you think I'm angry, especially if you're going to keep using it to shy away from what a dishonest and rude person you are. You still avoided everything I wrote, only proving my point. If all you have to point out is how angry I am, now that you can't rely on me hating women, just stop. That's the only argument you people have against us and when it's dismantled you have absolutely nothing to say.
1 Vaporiform 2018-05-03
I've got plenty to say. But you take a contrary opinion to yours as bullying.
Why are you an incel?
1 Uggocel 2018-05-03
Yeah nothing useful will come from this conversation. You're such a rude person.
1 Vaporiform 2018-05-03
You're still engaging in it, though.
1 Uggocel 2018-05-03
And you still avoided every point I made. Why would I address anything you say when you keep deflecting and saying I'm angry because you have nothing to say. When confronted you immediately move goalposts and ask why I'm an incel so you can blame me for any shortcomings. I've heard every variation of why everything is my fault. I'm a former IT user, which is all that needs to be said. Doubt you'd tell me anything I haven't heard.
1 Vaporiform 2018-05-03
It's because "incel" doesn't exist. They're just choosy with a chip on their shoulder.
1 Uggocel 2018-05-03
Can you try making sense?
1 Vaporiform 2018-05-03
You're the only one not making sense here. Your posts are just vague rants.
1 Uggocel 2018-05-03
How delusional can you be? All of your only replies are assumptions that make no sense in context.
Followed by you calling me angry when I point out you being a piece of shit.
1 sfcel 2018-05-03
You realize you're mentally ill?
1 adventurous_arachnid 2018-05-03
Me trying to figure out where anyone mentioned women's choices: https://media.giphy.com/media/hEc4k5pN17GZq/giphy.gif
Stick to r/relationships you philistine, I promise you'll get more upvotes there
1 Vaporiform 2018-05-03
Nah. Reddit's a free space. 😁
1 r4risbullshit 2018-05-03
Ditto. I was getting sick of this shit back on the OG sub. It's such a repetitive pattern.
1 r4risbullshit 2018-05-03
Condescension =/= kindness
Saying mean things in response is not an exclusive incel thing. Regular people do that too, genius.
1 sychosomaticBlonde 2018-05-03
The person you’re talking to isn’t debating it very well, but I think what’s clear here is that there are guys who are truly unworthy of relationships that have them anyway and it IS extremely unfair. I completely agree that abusers and cheaters don’t deserve anything. But it doesn’t help to do the same thing as them and hope for the same result. Not only will it likely not work, (I’ll give you that relationships are damn hard to find if you aren’t attractive,) but it cements your fate. It hinders you.
It sucks that there’s no such thing as karma. But in the absence of that, I would think you’d want your absolute best chances?
1 BF8211 2018-05-03
Posting on an obscure internet forum isn't helping or hurting my chances with women, so why would I stop? I'm still going to be ugly regardless of what I do, so at least by being here I can talk about things that are socially unacceptable for men to do.
1 sychosomaticBlonde 2018-05-03
Oh I am all for venting and bonding with a community. I just mean if you are outwardly resenting towards females, or if you really do believe they’re all exactly the same and subconsciously treat them as such. I think taking with those who have the same problems as you is good though. As long as it doesn’t hinder your chances.
1 r4risbullshit 2018-05-03
The problem is that, many people believe this when I would bet my life that is not the case at all.
A lot of outsiders go off of this premise, and from there the judgements happen and assumptions are thrown.
1 sychosomaticBlonde 2018-05-03
I am seeing that lots of people are judging you guys without ever really looking at what you say. And of course there are guys posting some questionable stuff which really doesn’t help your case. But most of you seem to just be making jokes at women’s expense to cope and never actually mean any harm. The only reason I’m here is because I didn’t want to make assumptions, and I’m glad I didn’t. I really am not starting with the assumption that incels legitimately hate women, I was only responding to the possibility that those kind of jokes and copes may be hindering. Not saying it is necessarily hindering, just that it’s POSSIBLE that it is. I would only be looking at that on a case by case basis anyway. I don’t like to generalize.
1 strawberrynight109 2018-05-03
I have never lashed out at women.
1 tarzanboyo 2018-05-03
One person trolling you says something, and you blame a group...a non existent group tbh. You are not a victim, if you want something go fucking get it, get off the internet and find whats right for you.
1 Hopecel 2018-05-03
So the people who laugh at my face in real life is a non existent group?
1 Bovinerifle 2018-05-03
Why are they laughing at you? You must be doing something odd. Maybe they are not laughing at you even if not.. fuck them.
1 Hopecel 2018-05-03
They are laughing at me because of my face, not my behavior.
1 Bovinerifle 2018-05-03
Thats one shitty set of people. I dont know how old you are.. but im close to 50 now and delt wuth this my whole life as well. Im sure every cunt gives you advice, so here is mine. Get really good at something, like really good, coding, art or anything other than what everyone else does fuck them. People like that will not be an issue for you forever, there fucked and are not worth it, get good at stuff and one day u will manage these fucks.
1 Bovinerifle 2018-05-03
Thing is normies dont fucking even think of you. You dont rate at all. And who you trying to kid a normal relationship is ALL u want.
1 strawberrynight109 2018-05-03
Sex follows a relationship. Unless people are just satisfied with 1. Meaningless one night stands or 2, A relationship with a dead bedroom, it’s obvious people seek both.
1 Bovinerifle 2018-05-03
Yeah i meant to reply to another comment. And i agree the op has every right and i agree with him. It was another comment i got fired up about. Btw the duxe that replied in the op's post is a fucking nob.
1 HydradenitisSuppura 2018-05-03
That's not a "normie".
1 labonnelicorne 2018-05-03
hey, just thinking that whoever replied with the rude comment might be the outlier... I think that wanting companionship is universal for all humans, not just incels :)
sorry for whoever received such a rude response. I hope you can let yourself be honest and vulnerable again in the future! I know it's scary and getting laughed at like this stings, but it's the best way to truly made connections with others.
1 sychosomaticBlonde 2018-05-03
Orange is a bitch. Orange is the kind of girl you all are talking about when you say they only want the chad dick.
1 oneredguy 2018-05-03
Jesus Christ fag it's fucking current year and you are still so dense that you don't realize that men are disposable and no one else is ever going to give the slightest fuck about you.
How dumb do you have to be to not know this by now.
You want someone to care about you? Guess what sad sack? Prepare to weep cause hierarchy is gone. No one except you is ever going to care about you. On God how sick. The only worthless pathetic loser faggot who is ever going to care about you is you.
Sick. #theillest
1 strawberrynight109 2018-05-03
Yeah I know, It’s why I’m here. Fantasy and reality are different, I recognise that. I also don’t have close friends anymore so it’s not as if I don’t undertand how men are disposable in 2018 and I’m alone in caring for myself.
1 oneredguy 2018-05-03
The only hope is we fix it. Note, I did say we. Not you.
Men are disposable, we are born that way. Any man who doesn't accept that is a fool. Pray a man who knows he is disposable finds you, and demands you respect him for it.
I know women are ready for this after the great experiment of hellish egalitarianism creating so much misery. Now we get men ready. There is no other choice.
1 strawberrynight109 2018-05-03
agreed.
1 bengalsturntup5532 2018-05-03
That person that commented is probably young ,and they don't believe in lovey dovey stuff,they just believe in you sexy lets fuk, now where my otha hoes at feel me pimp
1 BlossomSamurai 2018-05-03
I think that dude's saying it's lame because you're publicly whining about that stuff. Whining in general is not really a great thing to do, but whining about stuff like that, especially in a place known for hyper hatred and frustration, just seems almost two faced.
1 strawberrynight109 2018-05-03
That was a response to a post about what incels want. How is it whining? If I was a female whining, would you give me the same response you just did?
1 BlossomSamurai 2018-05-03
It's the context. If there was a sub for total femnazis where they preached murdering men with little hyperbole and then simultaneously had threads talking about wanting dick, and how they'd fuck 12 year old boys, then yeah, I'd call that whining.
Sure it's in a post about what incels want, but this community has such a bad reputation that this stuff is going to be seen as pretty pathetic, regardless of the individual post, or poster.
1 sfcel 2018-05-03
Link me a single post preaching about murdering women.
1 BlossomSamurai 2018-05-03
https://youtu.be/G-gQ3aAdhIo
1 sfcel 2018-05-03
I'm asking you to link a post on r/braincels preaching about murdering women in response to this.
Oh and about fucking 12 years old too.
1 BlossomSamurai 2018-05-03
Nobody gives a shit that this isn't on the same sub as the old incels. This was most people's first introduction to the concept of incels, and this is what most people think of when they think of incels. Right now we're talking about perception rather than reality, because perception is what dictates what's pathetic and what's not.
1 sfcel 2018-05-03
No you implied word for word that this sub preach about murdering women when you made your analogy that if a sub for total femnazis where they preached murdering men with little hyperbole and then simultaneously had threads talking about wanting dick, and how they'd fuck 12 year old boys, then yeah, I'd call that whining. it's a pretty big accusation so I'm asking you to link me such post, don't start moving the goal post at your convenience. So link it to me or shut the fuck up.
1 BlossomSamurai 2018-05-03
*community
There. Fixed. You don't have to get semantic on me.
1 BlossomSamurai 2018-05-03
This whole thing is about why that post was perceived as pathetic when maybe a chick complaining about feeling alone probably wouldn't be. Maybe the analogy had some imperfections in how it was worded, but the merit is still there.
1 BlossomSamurai 2018-05-03
Oh yeah, and about the 12 year olds I was referring to lolis.
1 velocirodent 2018-05-03
OP is perfectly reasonable - who wouldn't want that sometimes? And yeah, the comment underneath is not helpful. But the thing about people who support you through tough times, is that bond doesn't come quickly. It takes two people to be open and honest and to trust each other. Which takes time and respect. And you have to be that person to help them through tough times in return. No expectations, just kindness.
In short - misogyny is not great for developing a relationship, but there is absolutely nothing wrong with wanting intimacy.
1 100ProofBlood 2018-05-03
That sounds lame the way he put it, but those are exactly the kind of things people miss and complain about when they lose a relationship.
1 JackhusChanhus 2018-05-03
That commenter was an eejit
1 MoneyMaize 2018-05-03
Unicorns? Bigfoot? Santa Claus?
1 anex98 2018-05-03
your mom
1 Zyros_ 2018-05-03
i hate chad and his privilege so much
1 blackpillnormie 2018-05-03
Blackpilled normies
1 deadmedium 2018-05-03
liars, virtue signalers, concern trolls :2
1 Zeoqu 2018-05-03
Von magnar