I just want a girl to hold my hand. Not even trying to get laid.

47  2018-05-03 by Lonelynaan

Why does everyone think “incels” are so fixated on just getting laid? I just want to find a girl I can actually trust and spend time with. I hate sleeping alone I never sleep well. I sandwich myself between two pillows so I don’t toss and turn. Just discovered ASMR some sound like they’re speaking right in your ear while you sleep. It’s heaven. I’ll never have that. You can feel their breath in your ear and everything sometimes when those chills come it’s feels better than what sex would feel like I think.

When I dream a girl kisses or hugs me everything feels so warm but I always wake up before I realize it. It’s hardly ever sexual. You ever had dreams like that?

I’m 22 and balding and just finished my last semester of uni and still no one. It’s over. College was probably my best shot. I have a car, used to make around 800$ a month and tried to dress well, but nothing ever stuck. One girl avoided me for weeks until she put a post on Facebook about her new boyfriend. I really liked her. Oh well.

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Same. I just want to hug a girl and hold her hand but that will never happen because of my subhuman face.

same. feels bad man

same

Same.

I felt like that for the longest time. Actively trying didn't work. Passively wishing for it didn't work. Nothing works.

Fuck that. I'm buying a wife. I will make it happen

Won't be the same.

I don't care. At least it will be something.

Cope

I said I didn't care cunt. Leave me alone. You have wasted enough of my time already. Be thankful I don't end you on the spot like the miserable insect that you are.

You aren't physically capable of doing so.

Do not trifle with my patience, insect. I advise for you to shut your mouth if you wish to liveok seriously leave me alone now

This is really cringy.

You just got a taste of what the entire Inceltears community looks like to us.

Like it?

I've seen worse. This is more like cringeception. Cringe inside of cringe.

Cringe XDXDXDXD

Yep! it's the little things that make the difference.

I remember sitting at the back of my friend's car while his girlfriend sat next him in the passenger seat from time to time She would place her hand behind his neck and proceed to massage his neck and hair. to help him relax.

It's the little things folks!

I always have dreams like that where I just hold hands with a girl or hug her. Or im on my side and a girl tells me she loves while gazing into my eyes. I feel so happy.

Then I wake up and feel so bad and pathetic, I am so ashamed of how pathetic I am. I would never say this to anyone IRL.

There have been women on this sub that have offered hugs and hand holding. But some turn it down because it's not sex.

Why would I hold hands with someone how doesn't like me?

How do you know they won't like you unless you give them a chance?

Nothing like flying out to a different state/country to hold someones hand

How dare these incels refuse to get doxxed

It's the person they would be visiting that would give them their address or a meeting place.

So what? It's still dangerous. You and your IT friends really think we're that stupid huh

Everyone has different risk tolerances.

They'd rather hold chad's dick than to hold a hand of an incel. Women know exactly what they are doing.

Same

sigh.

Same.

It's not that great. You get used to it really quickly. It also gets sweaty unless it's a cool day.

Here, you can have this cope back. It can be amazing, especially to one so starved for it.

Walking isn't that great. You get used to it really quickly. Your legs also get tired unless you rest them.

Same. Whenever I go to an escort, the first thing I do is hold her hand because I'll never get an opportunity outside of paying to do so.

I held hands with a friend of a friend a few weeks back on a night out. I used the ecsuse that she was warm and I was cold. She wasn't repulsed by it but it's showed me that I'm really fucking starved for human contact.

Honestly I don't care about having sex. I want to be able to cuddle up and watch a movie. Go for a walk while holding her hand. Have someone that I can hug without worrying about whether or not they will be alright with it. Thats what I want. I don't care to bone some random girl not like its an optiom anyway.

I don't care. At least it will be something.

Why would I hold hands with someone how doesn't like me?

Nothing like flying out to a different state/country to hold someones hand

How dare these incels refuse to get doxxed