I just want a girl to hold my hand. Not even trying to get laid.
47 2018-05-03 by Lonelynaan
Why does everyone think “incels” are so fixated on just getting laid? I just want to find a girl I can actually trust and spend time with. I hate sleeping alone I never sleep well. I sandwich myself between two pillows so I don’t toss and turn. Just discovered ASMR some sound like they’re speaking right in your ear while you sleep. It’s heaven. I’ll never have that. You can feel their breath in your ear and everything sometimes when those chills come it’s feels better than what sex would feel like I think.
When I dream a girl kisses or hugs me everything feels so warm but I always wake up before I realize it. It’s hardly ever sexual. You ever had dreams like that?
I’m 22 and balding and just finished my last semester of uni and still no one. It’s over. College was probably my best shot. I have a car, used to make around 800$ a month and tried to dress well, but nothing ever stuck. One girl avoided me for weeks until she put a post on Facebook about her new boyfriend. I really liked her. Oh well.
34 comments
1 random1234lol 2018-05-03
Same. I just want to hug a girl and hold her hand but that will never happen because of my subhuman face.
1 supermentalcel 2018-05-03
same. feels bad man
1 strawberrynight109 2018-05-03
same
1 shadowcat211 2018-05-03
Same.
1 IncelistanWillRise 2018-05-03
I felt like that for the longest time. Actively trying didn't work. Passively wishing for it didn't work. Nothing works.
Fuck that. I'm buying a wife. I will make it happen
1 Rubissrox 2018-05-03
Won't be the same.
1 IncelistanWillRise 2018-05-03
I don't care. At least it will be something.
1 Rubissrox 2018-05-03
Cope
1 IncelistanWillRise 2018-05-03
I said I didn't care cunt. Leave me alone. You have wasted enough of my time already. Be thankful I don't end you on the spot like the miserable insect that you are.
1 Rubissrox 2018-05-03
You aren't physically capable of doing so.
1 IncelistanWillRise 2018-05-03
Do not trifle with my patience, insect. I advise for you to shut your mouth if you wish to liveok seriously leave me alone now
1 Rubissrox 2018-05-03
This is really cringy.
1 IncelistanWillRise 2018-05-03
You just got a taste of what the entire Inceltears community looks like to us.
Like it?
1 Rubissrox 2018-05-03
I've seen worse. This is more like cringeception. Cringe inside of cringe.
1 andtheywontstopcomin 2018-05-03
Cringe XDXDXDXD
1 Blade22 2018-05-03
Yep! it's the little things that make the difference.
I remember sitting at the back of my friend's car while his girlfriend sat next him in the passenger seat from time to time She would place her hand behind his neck and proceed to massage his neck and hair. to help him relax.
It's the little things folks!
1 bcat124 2018-05-03
I always have dreams like that where I just hold hands with a girl or hug her. Or im on my side and a girl tells me she loves while gazing into my eyes. I feel so happy.
Then I wake up and feel so bad and pathetic, I am so ashamed of how pathetic I am. I would never say this to anyone IRL.
1 Board_Gaming 2018-05-03
There have been women on this sub that have offered hugs and hand holding. But some turn it down because it's not sex.
1 DeadIf 2018-05-03
Why would I hold hands with someone how doesn't like me?
1 Board_Gaming 2018-05-03
How do you know they won't like you unless you give them a chance?
1 just_let_me_sign_up 2018-05-03
Nothing like flying out to a different state/country to hold someones hand
1 191132 2018-05-03
How dare these incels refuse to get doxxed
1 Board_Gaming 2018-05-03
It's the person they would be visiting that would give them their address or a meeting place.
1 191132 2018-05-03
So what? It's still dangerous. You and your IT friends really think we're that stupid huh
1 Board_Gaming 2018-05-03
Everyone has different risk tolerances.
1 incelery33333 2018-05-03
They'd rather hold chad's dick than to hold a hand of an incel. Women know exactly what they are doing.
1 MEME_CEL 2018-05-03
Same
1 thumpar72 2018-05-03
sigh.
Same.
1 PokeMaster420 2018-05-03
It's not that great. You get used to it really quickly. It also gets sweaty unless it's a cool day.
1 IncelSlayerZero 2018-05-03
Here, you can have this cope back. It can be amazing, especially to one so starved for it.
1 BuildAChad 2018-05-03
Walking isn't that great. You get used to it really quickly. Your legs also get tired unless you rest them.
1 lonely_suicidal_cel 2018-05-03
Same. Whenever I go to an escort, the first thing I do is hold her hand because I'll never get an opportunity outside of paying to do so.
1 jacketboundjester 2018-05-03
I held hands with a friend of a friend a few weeks back on a night out. I used the ecsuse that she was warm and I was cold. She wasn't repulsed by it but it's showed me that I'm really fucking starved for human contact.
1 destiny-draw 2018-05-03
Honestly I don't care about having sex. I want to be able to cuddle up and watch a movie. Go for a walk while holding her hand. Have someone that I can hug without worrying about whether or not they will be alright with it. Thats what I want. I don't care to bone some random girl not like its an optiom anyway.
1 IncelistanWillRise 2018-05-03
I don't care. At least it will be something.
1 DeadIf 2018-05-03
Why would I hold hands with someone how doesn't like me?
1 just_let_me_sign_up 2018-05-03
Nothing like flying out to a different state/country to hold someones hand
1 191132 2018-05-03
How dare these incels refuse to get doxxed