My father truly believes that personality is what attracts women, not looks. In fact, he definitely fits the description of the typical nice guy. I've talked to him about how I feel about life, but the result ends up in him acting like an Inceltears member trying to mock my experience in life.

Well, your dad (a man who has presumably had relationships and sex) knows you better than a whole bunch of strangers.

He also knows how you act IRL.

So he would be the best person to tell you if you’re acting like a twat, or to give you advice.

Obviously he’s had sex AT LEAST once.

Flair checks in.

You betcha bucko

So how are the incels-in-denial coping in your sub so far?

I don’t own any subs. Nor do I moderate any subs.

I know that. I am just saying that because you just like to butt in to our discussions and I know you come from Inceltears. Anyways, I love the roast that Inceltears received days ago. How does it feel to be in a more hated sub (IT) than ours?

You mean how does it feel to have clicked on 75% of the users that commented and realize they were all braincels users?

It felt just fine, because I’m not a fucking moron, and don’t give a fuck about Reddit outside of Reddit.

Oh please! If we piss you off so much, why don't you just leave this place? We don't want your hatred here.

I don’t want incels hatred on Reddit.

You’re here, I’m here.

As my flair says, “Deal with it”

Then what's your problem. You must enjoy bullying us, don't you?

Oh im sorry, since when is literally quoting back the terrible shit most incels come up with bullying?

Don’t say the nasty shit if you don’t want it thrown back in your face, maybe?

What? Now you are just stereotyping incels. I've never said anything offensive or violent. You are just being a bitch in this group. Just get out, you lousy person.

I didn’t say all. I said most.

If you feel stereotyped against perhaps you have something in your post history you feel guilty about?

About what? I don't have anything to feel guilty about. Go ahead and check it if you please. I don't care.

You’re the one saying I’m stereotyping incels.

I’m not. I’m stating exactly what I see here, day in and day out.

You admit to stereotyping incels, then?

Not anymore.

Testing.

As for the reasoning: If you're gonna use the flair as a way to bully people, then you will lose your flair.

Incels have lost their flairs for much less.

That wasn’t bullying GC.

I was telling him to deal with the fact that I exist on this subreddit.

You were telling him to deal with the fact that you are a self-proclaimed bitch.

No, I wasn’t, and I’m sorry my intention wasn’t clear.

I’ll state if I’m being a bitch.

I literally, in that comment, meant “deal with the fact that I’m here”

Can you please explain how I had to report 5 threads to day for harassment, and only one mod responded each time?

If you report a thread and a mod deals with it, then the other mods don't need to.

Unless you're asking your question wrong / I'm misunderstanding it.

I’m asking why Board_Gaming is the ONLY moderator who responds to me when I report a thread for harassment.

I’m also wondering why Fusio_Souls was allowed to repeatedly tell me over and over again he wants my husband to die, or wants my hypothetical children to die upon exiting my womb, but he was banned.

AFAIK, you can't tell when a moderator is responding to reports, unless the mod writes a comment or tells you.

I very rarely write up comments when I am removing things.

And consistently, BG is the one who removed the posts I report.

I check, and they all have her tell tale comment.

She is pretty much the only one writing up those comments.

What even is your point? Have you been drinking too much tonight?

I don’t drink. It’s been over a year since the last time I was drunk.

My point is that I do not feel like some of you mods are actively helping when someone who is NOT an incel has problem.

I had asked in the past that all posts that feature me (as in my pictures) be removed from this subreddit.

And then in one day my pictures go up five or six different times.

And that's very fucking stupid, because I cannot tell who is reporting what. When I am looking through the mod queue, I indiscriminately remove whatever is breaking the rules, and I give a ban when I feel like a particular user is just too far gone. Of course, right now I am not looking through the mod queue, since I am typing this comment.

Where did you ask this? I've never seen it. I'll remove targeted harassment towards you when I see it.

I do believe it was before you were made mod, as that was recent, yes?

But I did tell AA, IQ, and BG. And sc2 (I believe), although it doesn’t seem like he’s active anymore.

Here’s where my problem lies. I don’t give two flying fucks if they make text threads about me.

It’s when users here post my pictures to braincels. They were never intended for this sub. But every time one of my pictures is posted here, I get death threats in my PMs, or even in the comments. I also get rape threats. Assault comments.

And yet, I have been told “this isn’t harassment”.

I want it to be perfectly clear that my pictures are not intended for braincels, but I get the shit end of the stick when YOUR users post them here.

Report users who give you death/rape threats in PM's to the admins.

I also would recommend against posting pictures of yourself on the same account that you're using to bully depressed and lonely virgins - not because I am blaming you, but because it would simply help you to avoid these issues.

I sure as hell know that I wouldn't post my pictures if I was gonna go into every left-wing sub and talk about how much I hate blacks. Sure, the people shouldn't harass me for my pics, but we all know that they would.

I do report them to the admins.

I do not bully or harass ANY of you guys.

You don’t like what I have to say? Fine. I get that.

I don’t reach out into peoples PMs and mock them or harass them. I don’t make fun of their looks. I do not mock or shame ANY of you for being virgins. (No I take that back. The guys that deliberately message me and call me a cunt or a whore, I might mock.) I was a virgin once and I was shamed for it. There’d be no point in shaming you guys for something that is 50% out of your control.

And yes, you ARE blaming me. It is 100% not my fault you house users who think this kind of behavior is acceptable.

I fundamentally disagre that you don't harass incels here.

You are correct that incels shouldn't be doing that, and as I said, we ban those that break the rules. I don't see how that constitutes "housing" them, but hey, I do what I can.

Nope, not blaming you. Just telling you how to keep yourself safe on the internet.

Why is it harassing just because I call out what I perceive to be bullshit?

https://old.reddit.com/r/Braincels/comments/8gdm9o/the_only_reasons_niceguystm_exists_is_because/dyav25c/?st=jgoip2cu&sh=ff5e75b3

How is that harassment?

His dad knows him better than any of us. His dad has obviously had sex, and has obviously been in a relationship.

Ergo, he should LISTEN to his dad.

Acting like your parents aren’t the best people to go to for advice, especially if you specifically went to them for advice, is dumb.

You took the fact that his father believes that personality is all that matters to mock and insult Salv, using his dad as a proxy ("twat" "he's had sex at least once")

So because I said his dad would know if he’s acting like a twat in real life, unlike a bunch of internet strangers, that’s mocking him?

It’s the truth, FFS. His dad WOULD know much better than us if he’s acting like a twat.

His dad would know better than any of us is he’s a high holy saint.

And I firmly believe NONE of you should be taking relationship advice from each other.

Why would a bunch of people who freely admit to having 0 idea how something works at the basic level be in any way credible sources for getting that knowledge?

And I just saw your last paragraph.

I thank you.

No problem, I'll do what I can to uphold the rules of the subreddit and of reddit in general.

What a surprise, a woman wants special attention from the mods. We all report things, move to the back of the queue like all of us. I don't get replies to things I report either.

TIL I have a tell-tale signature.

Just your sticky comment, since yes, I’m pretty you’re the only mod that does that. (Here anyway.)

There didn't seem to be reports on those comments. This has been dealt with.

That’s strange. I definitely reported them.

Mods = gods

reddit doesn't want inceltears users on reddit, that was almost uniformly agreed upon in the SROTD thread. You are worse than incels, deal with it.

That was almost uniformly agreed with... mostly by users that had direct profile links back to braincels.

And SROTD is not exactly r/reddit is it?

It’s not u/spez or any of the admin, so I don’t really give two shits.

Your whole existence on reddit was BTFO, accept it. You get off on trying to kick people when they're down, you are worse than the incels you think are the villains. Must be a tough pill to swallow.

disowned IT after the great cuckening it suffered in SROTD, huh? don't blame you, that was downright embarrassing as the normies of reddit confirmed that you are objectively worse than incels.

I’ve never owned or moderated any subs.

And no. When 75% of the negative commenters profiles lead directly back to braincels or incel subreddits, I don’t think it was in any way embarrassing.

Appeal to authority fallacy.

Reminder: she cheated on her husband and he still married her

My father is the same way. If my mother married my father because he was such a nice guy (and she didn't), then my father got fucking lucky. And betting on windfalls is a horrible way to do anything in life, especially finding love.

My father is quite short but has a very handsome face.

He is blackpilled as fuck and never asks me anything about relationships or girlfriends.

lol @ only seeing 2 comments out for 42

Nice guys are incels in denial.

Anyone who doesn't think it's looks at this point isn't worth taking seriously.

I look at people who say "it's not your looks" with the same viewpoint as people who believe the Earth is flat.

Fucking lunatics.

I agree!

This is true, but there is also another reason that nice guys exist. Men are so quick to believe that affected can be earned just by being nice because they themselves would be affectionate towards someone who was nice to them. Generally speaking, femoids aren't nice to men. They are only nice to Chad but not any other man. This is why non-Chads are so appreciative when a femoid is nice to them and they truly believe that femoids will see their niceness in the same light. But femoids won't because everyone is nice to femoids because everyone wants to fuck those worthless holes.

But either way you're a misogynist. You guys can't win

As for the reasoning: If you're gonna use the flair as a way to bully people, then you will lose your flair.

Incels have lost their flairs for much less.

I do report them to the admins.

I do not bully or harass ANY of you guys.

You don’t like what I have to say? Fine. I get that.

I don’t reach out into peoples PMs and mock them or harass them. I don’t make fun of their looks. I do not mock or shame ANY of you for being virgins. (No I take that back. The guys that deliberately message me and call me a cunt or a whore, I might mock.) I was a virgin once and I was shamed for it. There’d be no point in shaming you guys for something that is 50% out of your control.

And yes, you ARE blaming me. It is 100% not my fault you house users who think this kind of behavior is acceptable.

And I just saw your last paragraph.

I thank you.

No problem, I'll do what I can to uphold the rules of the subreddit and of reddit in general.

That was almost uniformly agreed with... mostly by users that had direct profile links back to braincels.

And SROTD is not exactly r/reddit is it?

It’s not u/spez or any of the admin, so I don’t really give two shits.