I have asked out HUNDREDS of overweight girls, at everywhere from functions to friend groups to clubs.
56 2018-04-03 by rippedrichrespectful
Not a single one has ever said yes.
I normally ask them out after we have a conversation or multiple. Unless at a club I will normally get to know them a bit first, making them laugh or at least engaging their interest in conversation. I don’t just walk up, tip my unwashed fedora and stutter about wanting sum fuk.
All of these humiliating experiences lead me to believe my looks are to blame, but I’m sure a normie will come and explain how it’s my personality.
88 comments
1 PermanentRotter1 2018-04-03
Same
1 ReeseWithoutaspoon 2018-04-03
It’s probably your looks compounded by your personality.
1 MozzerDozzer 2018-04-03
Something something Jeremy Meeks something something Chris Brown.
1 ReeseWithoutaspoon 2018-04-03
Yeah they look good so they don’t have to worry about personality as much. Uggos need to compensate with personality as best they can
1 MozzerDozzer 2018-04-03
Only bending and breaking yourself doesn't really help. Better to accept yourself the way you are: bitter and hateful. It certainly makes your living a lot easier.
1 KingOfCorinth 2018-04-03
Could absolutely be your looks if you're really that ugly. I don't know your case.
Thing is, it's increasingly clear that a significant portion of posters here aren't that ugly, they're just mostly average or slightly below average looking dudes mutually reinforcing each other's pathological self image issues.
1 NearlyFar 2018-04-03
Yea this is definitely one of the next places to be banned. This place is seriously toxic.
2 fuckitidunno 2018-04-03
Well, this sub never wanted to tone down its views a tiny bit to not get banned, so, play stupid games, win stupid prizes, I guess. At least they can say how victimized they are for being banned from a website.
1 undeadcel 2018-04-03
so everything we say is true but normies are just here to save some mental fakecels haha serious blackpill here boyos
1 KingOfCorinth 2018-04-03
Looks matter, lookism is real, definitely true. You just take it to wild, sexist, insanely over generalized extremes,
1 undeadcel 2018-04-03
"Looks matter, lookism is real, definitely true." everything else cope
1 KingOfCorinth 2018-04-03
Not buying into mounds of bullshit isn't coping with anything.
1 undeadcel 2018-04-03
wait how is it bullshit if you said that it is true ?
1 KingOfCorinth 2018-04-03
Ugh. Lookism is real and looks matter. Typical blackpill claims take it to a whole new level. For example:
"Handsome men have more sex more easily" is true.
"Women only want to fuck 8/10s and in every single example otherwise, the woman is lying and just using the man for his money" is a bullshit, baseless extrapolation.
1 undeadcel 2018-04-03
women want to fuck the most attractive guy they can get, the best genes for their offspring, nothing shocking. if there are more attractive guys they will go for these and if they have problems they will settle or/and use the sub 8 guy for his recourcess until they get something better. sure a women can think that shes happy with her sub 8 partner but if there comes a more handsome guy with more cash and with a high status position they will start to think otherwise. women are hypergamous
1 KingOfCorinth 2018-04-03
Perfect example of bullshit. Women are not one dimensional, unscrupulous maximizers. Preferring handsome men as a general rule simply does not mean that every woman will be unhappy and unfaithful if she's not with the most handsome man she knows. Honestly, this should be screamingly obvious.
1 undeadcel 2018-04-03
if shes with a guy that is in the top 20% then she will love him, yes. if not then she will simply use him or "love" him until someone with better looks comes by.
1 KingOfCorinth 2018-04-03
Garbage, bullshit. Stop. The evidence does not support that.
1 MozzerDozzer 2018-04-03
Notice how a lot of them start to finally cave in and accept the truth but still need to call incels SEXIST AND MUHSOGGYKNEEST
1 IncelSlayerZero 2018-04-03
How many times must we repeat this fact? Average. Is. Ugly. To. Wymyn.
1 KingOfCorinth 2018-04-03
How many times must we repeat this fact? No. It. Isn't. You. Guys. Are. Just. Wallowing. In. Doom. And. Insecurity. While. Bending. Over. Backwards. To. Dismiss. The. Obvious. By. Assuming. Everyone. Is. Cuck. Or. Betabux.
1 IncelSlayerZero 2018-04-03
You're assuming shit about me, actually, I only meant what I said. I didn't mention any cucks or betabux lol.
1 KingOfCorinth 2018-04-03
Okay, then how do you explain the overwhelming majority of male population being average looking and having love loves?
1 IncelSlayerZero 2018-04-03
I don't believe a majority of average looking guys are in relationships.
1 KingOfCorinth 2018-04-03
Most men are average. Most men have sex, girlfriends, wives, etc.
1 fuckitidunno 2018-04-03
So you believe most men are single or that most men are attractive (ironically enough making "average" as you define it, not actually average)?
1 IncelSlayerZero 2018-04-03
All I'm saying is that I do not think that the majority of 5/10 guys are in a relationship. Maybe half of them are? I don't know for certain, but I do know that if it were true, then 1) most of us would not be here and 2) the black pill wouldn't be spreading as far and as wide as it has been.
1 fuckitidunno 2018-04-03
Maybe most of you aren't here because you're ugly or because you're just average, and maybe you're here because this place is an addictive magnate for people with severe depression and low self-esteem. Maybe even, you're actually making it worse by coming here an exacerbating your illnesses?
Most people don't give a shit outside of reddit, most of them don't even know what an incel is.
1 IncelSlayerZero 2018-04-03
Yeah the truth is that it probably does and I've actually been wanting to leave but I'm having trouble. I still don't think most average guys have a girlfriend though. I mean maybe I'm wrong but I don't think I am I don't see a bunch of average guys with girls. Usually those guys are right there with me bitching about women LOL.
1 fuckitidunno 2018-04-03
All men bitch about women, even then, most men about the age of 20 or something like that are in relationships/have an active dating life, and most men are average in looks, so...
1 IncelSlayerZero 2018-04-03
I just don't believe it I was single at that age my brother was single at that age and most of the guys I hung out with where single at that age and a few of them were above average in looks. No I could have had a girlfriend if I didn't foolishly dump my first one when I was chasing my one itis but it doesn't change the fact that most guys I knew didn't have a girlfriend. Most of the people who had girlfriends were the attractive guys. All of the other guys had some Hook-Ups sure but it seemed that gaining a relationship with them was really tough. So when you say most average guys in their twenties are in relationships it just sounds like complete and utter b******* to me and it makes me think that we live on two different planets.
1 fuckitidunno 2018-04-03
Most of the guys I was friends with in high school were also single. But, it wasn't due to looks, they just sucked at flirting, like most high schoolers. Same with college, most young dudes are competing with older men that know how to flirt way better. Also, like, is it possible that like attracts like and, since you yourself are an incel maybe you were attracted to similar people.
1 IncelSlayerZero 2018-04-03
So did you just say that most of them in fact did not have girlfriends LMAO? You really think it changes that much once you become older? And no I didn't hang out with in cell I was actually somewhat popular and ran with a bunch of groups but mostly the townie Tuff kids type
1 fuckitidunno 2018-04-03
Generally yeah, it actually does. Maybe the problem with incels is their refusal to get over high school?
1 IncelSlayerZero 2018-04-03
I hang out with six guys all over the age of 25 only two of us have girlfriends
1 r4risbullshit 2018-04-03
Idk. I'm speaking for myself but I never thought about relationships in high school, I just hung out with my friends.
It wasn't until later in college when I attempted to start dating and develop more insecurities I never knew I had and forced myself to give more effort than I imagined, and then some.
1 TreesnCats 2018-04-03
It's not increasingly clear, you're just falling for bait.
1 KingOfCorinth 2018-04-03
No, based on the pictures of incels I've seen (yes yes, selection bias, but also:) and how overwhelmingly negative and hopeless the ratings are from the general population of incels, the pervasive image/perception issues are obvious.
1 TreesnCats 2018-04-03
And all of that is increasing? It's not.
1 KingOfCorinth 2018-04-03
Okay, it's not increasingly clear, it's clear. Better?
1 TreesnCats 2018-04-03
Not until you edit your original comment, asshole.
1 KingOfCorinth 2018-04-03
Sure, done. Better?
1 geneticwaste43 2018-04-03
Its over
1 Zangano1 2018-04-03
Landwhales are the most entitled whores on earth, never speak to one again.
1 empatheticapathetic 2018-04-03
Lower SMV girls past a threshold only accept Chad because of FOMO.
Girls who can land Chad easily aren't as heavily entitled.
1 StoopidSeksyFlanders 2018-04-03
Absolutely. The level of men expected by lower SMV women does not scale with the bell curve of attractive distribution.
Plus OP was looking in a club, where he’s gauranteed to be the bottom rung of men. Seriously, clubs attract chads and stacies. You’re being judged next to everyone else in the room. It’s like IRL Tinder.
1 Mest666 2018-04-03
anybody who is interested in overweight girls for real is subhuman
1 OldcelGirl27 2018-04-03
What's your definition of overweight?? In my experience i never saw an actual obese woman at a club ( I admit I don't go out that often so I probably missed a lot of them, but its still hard to find hundreds of them )
1 prophetpepe 2018-04-03
fat girls are in clubs all the time. Usually wear skimpy clothes and are in groups.
2 OldcelGirl27 2018-04-03
Yes but fat doesn't necessarily means unattractive, That's why i asked what does OP considers fat.
1 PermanentRotter1 2018-04-03
Yes, it does automatically mean unattractive.
1 OldcelGirl27 2018-04-03
No it does not
3 Invisible_247 2018-04-03
To many men it does. Not being overweight is basically the only requirement for "attractive" to many. This is good news, not bad news, because you can achieve this through effort; it doesn't matter about your face, your height, your frame, your god-damned jaw not being up to par.
1 OldcelGirl27 2018-04-03
Too many men you mean incels and average joes lol honestly i saw too many times chubbier girls get more attention from hotties at clubs than thin ones.
1 r2401 2018-04-03
Fat definitely means unattractive. But the reason you incels don't understand why a high smv male would slum it up with a fatty is bc you're incel. You don't understand the day to day realities of getting sex.
It's like in baseball, do you try to hit a home run every at bat? Or do you sometimes want a single or just good contact or even sometimes you lay down a bunt?
Or maybe I can put it in terms you understand, when you play videogames do you always play on the hardest difficulty level? Or do you sometimes want to take it easy and have a guarantee that you'll beat the game?
If you've never been able to play a video game or had an at bat I'd see why you think every time out you go 100%. But that's not reality.
1 r4risbullshit 2018-04-03
I'm pretty certain some of us do tbh. Personally, I'm not surprised if I see a good looking male with a girl clearly inferior to him in terms of looks. Sex is sex.
1 PermanentRotter1 2018-04-03
Yes, it does.
1 IncelSlayerZero 2018-04-03
Landwhales essentially have the same SMV as fit wymyn. They'll just feel the difference with Chads and chadlites, they'll be more likely to not commit. They sure as shit will still fuck them lol.
1 IncelSlayerZero 2018-04-03
weren't you copefident?
2 r4risbullshit 2018-04-03
fucking kek
1 Swordsman007 2018-04-03
Stop looking in clubs. No one gets anywhere there unless you're straight up Chad - and even then most women are on their guard there. Ask them out in neutral locations like the grocery store, meetups, social networking places.
1 GoodbyeYall333 2018-04-03
LMAO at this cope.
2 Swordsman007 2018-04-03
Yeah but that c(h)ope is better than rope...all it takes for OP is for ONE to finally say yes, right?
1 docarwell 2018-04-03
This was deep
1 omgmakeanamealready 2018-04-03
What is cope?
1 MozzerDozzer 2018-04-03
Riiiight. I like your advice about approaching women in grocery stores. Totes nothing could go wrong. Totes.
1 edefaecam 2018-04-03
Be me, approach woman in grocery store. Ask her opinion on what the best sauce is for making spaghetti (we're in the sauce aisle). She says she doesn't know and quickly walks away.
Minutes later manager of grocery store walks up to me, says I am banned from the store for harassing women. Threatens to call police.
Go home, log onto Reddit and browse r/Twox just for fun. A recent thread by a female is there detailing how a creepy guy walked up to her in a grocery store and asked her how to make spaghetti. Says she is there to shop, not to be hit on by entitled men who feel privileged to her time, and that she had him banned. All posters agree and congratulate on getting the creep banned and that she should make a police report too.
1 MyFavoriteDude 2018-04-03
That is incredible but totally believable.
1 mindmonkey00 2018-04-03
I really can't tell if a lot of this sub is satire or not.
1 throwaway18143 2018-04-03
This you? https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/3def1k/a_stranger_just_grabbed_and_tried_to_kiss_me_in/ ;)
1 edefaecam 2018-04-03
Sounds like a senile old man. LMAO.
If I did something like that, I'd be charged with attempted sexual assault, abduction, and everything else white knight cops can throw at me to ensure I never get a bail.
1 Swordsman007 2018-04-03
TwoX is a circle jerk. Also if that happened to you for reals, then that's complete BS.
1 edefaecam 2018-04-03
I have had similar things happen to me. It usually follows talking to a woman, she excuses herself, next thing you know a white knight tells you you're banned from the store, bar, etc...
I can understand if I said something harassing, sexual, or something, but the times it happened it was a pretty casual conversation. Not even a "hey baby" or "I wanna eat your pussy your little bitch! Argh!" I should say that shit though.
1 HydraRuler 2018-04-03
How fat were the girls? Were they just a little plump or like /u/Board_Gaming fat?
1 StoopidSeksyFlanders 2018-04-03
It’s at least someone objective. How good looking was the hottest guy in the club compared to you?
1 SlashSero 2018-04-03
There are a ton of really attractive men that are obsessed with boning fat chicks. Accept the truth and concede yourself to the fact that while men like a very wide variety of different women, women really like only one type of man. They don't want you and don't need you. As long as they open their legs they can attract such a genetically superior man until they hit the wall. Only then they will, with great contempt, accept you as long as you provide for them.
1 MyFavoriteDude 2018-04-03
So cold and so true.
1 Godhelpus1990 2018-04-03
To be fair it could be their personality.
Clubs suck.
1 lady_baphomet 2018-04-03
Your first mistake was going for a fatty, maybe 10 years ago you would have had some luck. But sadly my gender has become way too ego eccentric, especially the ham beasts, with HASE and FA creating unwarranted self importance.
Clubs are also the WORST places now at days to pick up chicks, even if you are a Chad, it's a bust. Best chances to pick up a chick? From my experience, how most guys got me was either online, or through mutual interests. Maybe see if there are any clubs, or events for a thing that you like.
1 r4risbullshit 2018-04-03
Thank you for a realistic answer.
I've tried online dating but that got nowhere past basic conversations(that I initiated most of the time) and mutual interests made me more female friends(who already are taken).
Maybe OP's luck could be better than mine, but best of luck to him.
1 lady_baphomet 2018-04-03
Hmm, why are you not using these female friends as wing men? Seriously, women will go after guys who tend to hang around other females. It shows that 1. you aren't a creep, 2. women are VERY sexually competitive, we tend to want to steal away another woman's mate, as it assures our ego, and destroys our competition's ego when we steal away their chad. Food for thought.
1 r4risbullshit 2018-04-03
Hmm, those girlfriends aren't really into scenes aside from really specific nerd events that are basically sausage fests. I could try the next time we go to a bar, but it's been months since we went out...(busy schedules and all that)
They don't really think about inviting their respective female friends to our outings either. Can I ask them to invite them without sounding like a desperate moron?
1 lady_baphomet 2018-04-03
Fair enough, though I'd say avoid bars for hook ups, women are already expecting to get hit on, so her bitch shields will be already at max. You want a more even playing field, where she won't be expecting male attention.
Perhaps two options I could recommend in your situation:
Talk to your female friends, chances are likely that they will have a few single friends, better yet you'd have direct intel. on said girls through your friends. Bitches LOVE to gossip, and if you get them in the right zone, you can get them to spill their guts on their friends. Networking in the dating world can get you really far!
Try and orchestrate a get together, something like a BBQ, or a brunch, the key is that you don't want to let on to your intentions, the more casual you look, he less desperate you appear. Also casual events also will lower a females bitch shield, due to less attention.
I hope this helps, or at least gets your foot in the door. Best of luck!!!
1 AmpedEdge 2018-04-03
In the same paragraph too. We've reached the peak of shitposting. Wrap it up boys, our work is done here.
1 lady_baphomet 2018-04-03
When I said clubs in the second sentence, I was not referring to "the club" and more like collage clubs, you know groups centered around activities, and being social. :)
1 advancedatheist 2018-04-03
So much for "lowering your standards."
As I keep pointing out, we're scolded all the time to adopt high standards for our health by eating vegetables and fruits, exercising, getting enough sleep and so forth.
But if you're an incel who isn't attracted to repulsive slumpbusters, you're mocked for having standards, and you're told that you need to throw these standards away.
So what if the slumpbusters still don't want anything to do with you?
1 MyFavoriteDude 2018-04-03
Of course it's your looks. If you had a terrible personality but was physically attractive, 99% of those fat chicks would have said yes. It's just the way it is and funny how people try to deny that.
1 LooksMatterToWomen 2018-04-03
I suggest looking for deformed, disfigured or severely disabled women. If you're both ugly and poor, you really gotta scrape the veeerrrry bottom of the barrel.
1 Sabanade 2018-04-03
Nothing worse than a fat chick with confidence.
1 KingOfCorinth 2018-04-03
Most men are average. Most men have sex, girlfriends, wives, etc.
1 fuckitidunno 2018-04-03
So you believe most men are single or that most men are attractive (ironically enough making "average" as you define it, not actually average)?
1 MozzerDozzer 2018-04-03
Only bending and breaking yourself doesn't really help. Better to accept yourself the way you are: bitter and hateful. It certainly makes your living a lot easier.
1 StoopidSeksyFlanders 2018-04-03
Absolutely. The level of men expected by lower SMV women does not scale with the bell curve of attractive distribution.
Plus OP was looking in a club, where he’s gauranteed to be the bottom rung of men. Seriously, clubs attract chads and stacies. You’re being judged next to everyone else in the room. It’s like IRL Tinder.
1 MyFavoriteDude 2018-04-03
That is incredible but totally believable.
1 mindmonkey00 2018-04-03
I really can't tell if a lot of this sub is satire or not.
1 throwaway18143 2018-04-03
This you? https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/3def1k/a_stranger_just_grabbed_and_tried_to_kiss_me_in/ ;)
1 undeadcel 2018-04-03
if shes with a guy that is in the top 20% then she will love him, yes. if not then she will simply use him or "love" him until someone with better looks comes by.
1 edefaecam 2018-04-03
Sounds like a senile old man. LMAO.
If I did something like that, I'd be charged with attempted sexual assault, abduction, and everything else white knight cops can throw at me to ensure I never get a bail.
1 Swordsman007 2018-04-03
TwoX is a circle jerk. Also if that happened to you for reals, then that's complete BS.
1 KingOfCorinth 2018-04-03
Garbage, bullshit. Stop. The evidence does not support that.