OP but don't you know that women are fragile creatures who if you hit once they immediately lose the ability to make choices and are stuck with their abusive boyfriend forever?

I see something in him,... I don't know what it is.. could be his jawline, his hunter eyes, his big dick, his height, his money, his job and status,... wait no I know what I see in him! It's his personality! TEEHEE

There's really no correlation between being handsome and being abusive. The stereotype of an abusive asshole is a fat greasy guy in a I've beater because the implications is that he is beater her to break her spirit so that she stays with him.

WRONG

“Perhaps the abuse in some cases has to do with an unconscious fear of losing a partner which is more attractive “on the market” due to her socio-economic status.”

Everytime I see you comment in here, you claim some random shit with no sources, which usually turn out to be wrong.

I never said that there is a correlation between being an abuser and being attractive. And you are wrong, there is no correlation between being unattractive and being an abuser either. Nor do abusers have a set number of characteristics.

What I was implying was that women are more willing to put up with men who are attractive, wealthy and of status. Take for example the recent case of Danry Vasquez was beating his girlfriend for years. In fact he beat her the day he proposed to her, she still said yes. She could have left him but she didn't. He was filthy rich, one of the most famous baseball players, tall, athletic and attractive. That's why she decided to put up with him. Breaking up with him after marriage could make her entitled to alimony too.

neomancr is mentally ill. stop replying.

I know. I argued with her a lot. She always bombards me with shit-tier women's theories, ostly on how ugly men arethe worst. JFL tbh!

It's a him.

What a fucking numale orbiter cuck

Naw, just typical dude who grew up the lowest economic rung and still did fine with women. Ended up hitched to a rich girl.

Go ahead and waste your move side stepping.

Two steps forward for me one step back for you every time.

There is more of a correlation between abuser and self perceived low value.

I cut and pasted the typical profile. You can even see it being systematically applied by red pillers in the form of Dread game. It's the same type of thing. Man thinks he has low "SMV" and so keeps the woman from noticing as a preemptive measure. It stems jealousy insecurity and fear.

you reason you think of a "fat/unattractive" guy when you think of negative personality traits like being abusive is just more proof that the halo effect exists :2

The halo effect does exist and it works both ways.

Yea, there napoleon complexes, there are comic book guy type neck beards, there are mean mugging thuggish black guys, there are dude Bro frat boys, etc etc

All the stereotypes do exist to reaffirm what we call the halo effect but we also have prior who surprise us and aren't how they seem. And when that happens the halo effect works the other way, and like it states an overriding positive trait lends positive bias to app other traits.

Look at how the media used Adam driver to glamorize what used to be dorkish looking guys with long middle faces

https://www.reddit.com/r/Braincels/comments/86gtst/am_i_incel_this_was_my_photo_id_at_my_last_job/dw57el4

How it's suddenly good to be a long middle face guy with a bad attitude. And while the media serve as a constant basis for stereotypes that feed the halo effect I. E. The good is attractive and bad is ugly tropes E. G. Scar is ugly while simba and Mufasa are attractive, Jafar is ugly while Aladdin is attractive etc etc people can and do use the halo effect to make themselves more attractive too.

That's why people so often describe getting crushes in people the never thought they'd be attracted to

Dude, normal guys FANTASIZE about inducing stockholm syndrome in a woman.

No... Not at all. That's pretty dark actually that you think that

I think rape fantasies are more of a women's thing unless the guy is just desperate for sex, but yes, I do think pretty much all men are secretly pedophiles and there is nothing wrong with that Don't tell me you have never seen an attractive underage girl. a lot of us also want virgins and going younger would be one way to get that. I'm not talking hardcore pedophilia like fucking a 5 year old or something but just mild like someone around 14 or so seems reasonable enough to be common and around 16 seems to be around the age most men actually want. That doesn't mean we are fucking kids.

Normie meme,but true.

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lmao truuuu 😂👌💯

I never understood the women’s argument for this, it’s usually “I can’t just leave him”.... like, what the fuck do you mean? Why would you voluntarily stay with a man who beats the shit out of you on a daily basis?

Because it's hot

And they talk about what amazing manipulators abusers are, like abusive men have the manipulative ability of the pale bitch from the last episode of Sherlock.

Abusive men aren't manipulative geniuses, they do what any idiot would do if they were trying to manipulate someone who likes them. Their strategy is so boilerplate that it can be summarized in a single page. The only reason the manipulation works is because the women let it work, that shit wouldn't work if the ugliest bastard alive did it on them.

Can you into detail about these 3 types of abusers?

There aren't exactly three types, but my point is that usually between any 3 abusive guys you'll run the full monty of abusive behaviors and tactics.

Social isolation, verbal threats, physical threats, financial control, using the kids/family as a bargaining chip, intimidating her by acting violently like breaking things, forcing her to be your live in maid

None of these guys are special, except to the women that accept their bullshit

forcing her to be your slave for sex and labor, Social isolation, financial control, using the kids/family as a bargaining chip

No joke that sounds like the dream relationship to me.

Yeah, that does sound about right.

Their attractive faces are super manipulative.

I honestly think women who get into abusive relationships like it, they like the drama and being degraded and having the power to ruin the life of the guy they love with as little as a phone call. The women who get into them are the real manipulators a lot of the time.

The drama

They despise their kind looksmatch.

All of you could use a basic psychology course

Psychology is a Ashkenazi conspiracy meant to drain maximum wage slave bucks out of the medical industry.

Thats...interesting...

I mean I don't know about the ashkenazi bit, but the maximum wageslave bucks for a false service that keeps its users on a short change is a profitable idea and that is what therapy is. Like a drug that has only negative effects that just ruins you until you realize how much you have fucked up and you have nothing left if you are lucky, otherwise you will continue throwing money at it like its going out of style.

Normies tell us that wymyn can sense our misogny, that all our venting on an anonymous internet board bleeds into over everyday interactions but at the same time there are women who fail to see red flags when it comes to abusive bfs/husbands.

Again, take a psych course. It's way too much to try to explain this over reddit.

Women should take a logic course.

Bro, you’ve lost it

Every woman it seems has been in an absuive relationship. I would say the vast majority are distorting it in their minds to make it appear unilaterally abusive when it actually isn't (confirmation bias that excludes their own abusive behavior). Some start fights and take justified accountability for their actions.

Women expect to instigate and abuse men with impunity, but some men won't take the abuse. If women are served justice by men, they define it as abuse and the legal system will too.

Some women instigate arguments and fights with the intention of manipulating police to arrest their boyfriend or husband, and it generally always works.

I fucking hate how we can't do anything to keep women in check without getting arrested these days.

I mean you can do something, law is at times immoral. Morality and law are not synonymous, and doing the moral yet unlawful thing requires sacrifice for the greater good at times.

If would be beneficial to learn how to defend yourself in this day and age, not only from violent bullying whiteknighting Chads, but when you go to jail and must defend yourself. More laws are associated with injustice and mass incarceration, and that is where the West is headed ... while simultaneously raising the value of femoids to that of the French aristocracy before the French Revolution.

The greater good would be beating a woman half to death for cheating on you and recording it on video to make an example of her, but I can guarantee you that is very illegal and more of a sacrifice than I am willing to make. I figure that ideal circumstances in a jail would be solitary confinement so really I'd just have to know how to get that consistently, I know how to defend myself a bit though.

"He called me a whore for sucking tyrones bbc. Sniff ABUSE. "

I dont agree w the ideology but I cant lie man this shit good😂😂

Because it's hot

And they talk about what amazing manipulators abusers are, like abusive men have the manipulative ability of the pale bitch from the last episode of Sherlock.

Abusive men aren't manipulative geniuses, they do what any idiot would do if they were trying to manipulate someone who likes them. Their strategy is so boilerplate that it can be summarized in a single page. The only reason the manipulation works is because the women let it work, that shit wouldn't work if the ugliest bastard alive did it on them.

The drama

No... Not at all. That's pretty dark actually that you think that