I mean maybe, I guess everyone is and deals with things differently. I've never gone to a dr to be diagnosed or anything but I'm sure I have some mix of anxiety and depression. But I'm also a pretty insular person so even during relationships I don't go to my partner for support. And often times during those bouts they're the ones trying to have sex but I'm not as interested.
As for confidence, again I think it depends on the cause of your anxiety I guess. Mine isn't about relationships or women - more about my own life goals and the struggle of wether or not those goals are even worthwhile when I could probably focus my time on causes that could maybe help make the world better, etc. I literally went on a date and then slept with this girl a few days ago, and I've only felt worse in the days after - she didn't help or hurt how I felt, she was just insignificant in regards to that.
Anyways, the takeaway here is that we all deal with it differently, but I hope you can work through yours! Good luck!
I mean maybe, I guess everyone is and deals with things differently. I've never gone to a dr to be diagnosed or anything but I'm sure I have some mix of anxiety and depression. But I'm also a pretty insular person so even during relationships I don't go to my partner for support. And often times during those bouts they're the ones trying to have sex but I'm not as interested.
well, of course you don't look for partners for support, nobody does. but that's what they bring. people here don't want just sex, they want a relationship.
As for confidence, again I think it depends on the cause of your anxiety I guess. Mine isn't about relationships or women - more about my own life goals and the struggle of wether or not those goals are even worthwhile when I could probably focus my time on causes that could maybe help make the world better, etc. I literally went on a date and then slept with this girl a few days ago, and I've only felt worse in the days after - she didn't help or hurt how I felt, she was just insignificant in regards to that
well, i have social anxiety. people cause me anxiety. so maybe you don't have it, but its a result of having a low self esteem, and other childhood trauma. either way, a higher confidence level means less anxiety. its just reality.
am not saying getting into a relationship would cure my problems, but there is no denying that it would raise my confidence and happiness levels. so even if it would change me just a little bit, then it would be worth the effort.
If you think you have it rough you know nothing. There are pits of absolute despair far deeper than your weak little mind could ever have the extreme displeasure of imagining. Take me for example. I was once a handsome young man fresh out of high school with a full ride scholarship at a major university and good prospects of being a number one NFL draft pick.
That was before everything went horribly wrong.
I was a pretty regular guy I lost my virginity at 15 but really didn't sleep around much because my girl wanted to save it for marriage and would only give me an occasional old fashioned. Being a healthy young man with growing needs I began to turn to the internet for visual stimulation.
Before long I had fallen down a rabbit hole of ever increasing pornographic perversions and soon gave myself to sickening self abuse until unfortunately the day arrived that my mom and the priest had tried to warn me about.
You don't have it bad at all buddy imagine being me for a day. 2g1c just isn't the same with only audio and when I get a blow job from a hooker I can never really be sure if it's a guy or not without having to pay extra. Go hit the gym, get a better job, lose the fedora, and try hanging out someplace where there are actual women. Or conversely you could sit at home whine on the internet and whack off to anime all day until you become a sadder more pathetic version of me. The choice is yours loser.
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1 uKnowIsOver 2018-03-26
Yes,I have and I have been enlightned by the truth.
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1 Sniveling_Cur 2018-03-26
nah I do it lying in the bed
1 jaghatarhonor 2018-03-26
This was 100% made by a female because females are allowed to not be good enough and still have sex and relationships.
1 still_a_prodigy 2018-03-26
INCELS LITERALLY THINK NOT HAVING SEX IS THE SAME AS SITTING ALONE ON A SATURDAY NIGHT WONDERING WHY YOU'RE NOT GOOD ENOUGH
1 Lovemesometoasts 2018-03-26
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1 AverageJavaJoe 2018-03-26
youre not good enough because of these two reasons
FACE OR HEIGHT
1 TacticalNannerz 2018-03-26
finally a post i can relate to 🙂
1 rest_me123 2018-03-26
You’re wondering?
1 TacticalNannerz 2018-03-26
that was a statement
1 1964spiderman 2018-03-26
Getting laid does not solve anxiety, I would know! :D
1 SerialEL 2018-03-26
confidence does. getting a gf would be like a supporting partner. something i never had.
so getting a gf = higher confidence + support
1 1964spiderman 2018-03-26
I mean maybe, I guess everyone is and deals with things differently. I've never gone to a dr to be diagnosed or anything but I'm sure I have some mix of anxiety and depression. But I'm also a pretty insular person so even during relationships I don't go to my partner for support. And often times during those bouts they're the ones trying to have sex but I'm not as interested.
As for confidence, again I think it depends on the cause of your anxiety I guess. Mine isn't about relationships or women - more about my own life goals and the struggle of wether or not those goals are even worthwhile when I could probably focus my time on causes that could maybe help make the world better, etc. I literally went on a date and then slept with this girl a few days ago, and I've only felt worse in the days after - she didn't help or hurt how I felt, she was just insignificant in regards to that.
Anyways, the takeaway here is that we all deal with it differently, but I hope you can work through yours! Good luck!
1 SerialEL 2018-03-26
well, of course you don't look for partners for support, nobody does. but that's what they bring. people here don't want just sex, they want a relationship.
well, i have social anxiety. people cause me anxiety. so maybe you don't have it, but its a result of having a low self esteem, and other childhood trauma. either way, a higher confidence level means less anxiety. its just reality.
am not saying getting into a relationship would cure my problems, but there is no denying that it would raise my confidence and happiness levels. so even if it would change me just a little bit, then it would be worth the effort.
1 BlindedbyOnanism 2018-03-26
If you think you have it rough you know nothing. There are pits of absolute despair far deeper than your weak little mind could ever have the extreme displeasure of imagining. Take me for example. I was once a handsome young man fresh out of high school with a full ride scholarship at a major university and good prospects of being a number one NFL draft pick. That was before everything went horribly wrong.
I was a pretty regular guy I lost my virginity at 15 but really didn't sleep around much because my girl wanted to save it for marriage and would only give me an occasional old fashioned. Being a healthy young man with growing needs I began to turn to the internet for visual stimulation. Before long I had fallen down a rabbit hole of ever increasing pornographic perversions and soon gave myself to sickening self abuse until unfortunately the day arrived that my mom and the priest had tried to warn me about.
You don't have it bad at all buddy imagine being me for a day. 2g1c just isn't the same with only audio and when I get a blow job from a hooker I can never really be sure if it's a guy or not without having to pay extra. Go hit the gym, get a better job, lose the fedora, and try hanging out someplace where there are actual women. Or conversely you could sit at home whine on the internet and whack off to anime all day until you become a sadder more pathetic version of me. The choice is yours loser.
1 The_Real_Cannaman 2018-03-26
What?
1 IncelistanWillRise 2018-03-26
He's gone insane after taking 1 too many showers, rip in peace norman, he lived as he died, a failure.
1 mangoman30 2018-03-26
Holy shit wtf was this???????????
1 MozzerDozzer 2018-03-26
Sometimes braincels turns into /r/Drama with pasta fresh out of the bakery, I swear.
1 Ultramegasaurus 2018-03-26
I bet the picture will be appropriated by Stacies who are sad about Chad not LTRing them
1 TropicalStormJim 2018-03-26
My Chad friend posted this to his wall, lmao.
1 rest_me123 2018-03-26
You’re wondering?