If you missed out on partying and fucking loads of girls between 18-25

31  2018-03-25 by Zyzz123

It's over

There is no recovering.

67 comments

Still got 3 years to make it before roping

Strongly disagree

30 is way, way too late

Edit:

Firstly, over the next five to ten years, youngcels are going to witness an even larger upward leap in the love-alienation threshold, a term I just now made up to refer to the theoretical threshold which females need not stoop below while still being able to satisfy, in full, their sex and relationship needs. Hypergamy in this form will of course be driven by increased social connectedness (via social apps, media, etc), and the nature of males' and females' sexual strategies and goals (see my getting lucky post). Hope dimishes by the minute, and there is nothing worse than competing with a severe disadvantage on a brutal battlefield (basically just watching yourself get slaughtered and knowing the outcome) Personally, 24-30 has been a killer, emotionally and physically. Physical changes have become so dramatic that I don't even recognize myself any longer. I actually always had pretty nice, youthful looking skin up until about the age of 23/24, but just a couple years later and there is literally nothing left to look at, the only visibly appealing aspect of myself has faded away. Also since we are incredibly ugly facially and/or frame-wise, it's not as if we're ever going to reel in some girl <25 who takes care of her body; at best we'll land some ancient roastie who has lost most of her sex appeal as well, and hopefully she isn't obese. At this point in her life, btw, she will be so fucking far ahead of you emotionally and socially that you'll be closer to her firstborn than you are to her. Then there is all the psychological trauma from 24+ years of loneliness. You'll probably have unmanageable PTSD and anxiety. You'd be scared your gf is going to jump ship the second another guy comes within 20 feet of her (I mean, she likely will). When she mentions past boyfriends, basically an unavoidable topic, or even past experiences which were obviously shared with love-interests, you will be reminded of the 25+ fucking years of your life where you suffered alone, only wanting the same experiences (what are you going to say to relate to her experiences, "Oh yeah that one time when I was ldaring in my room on the weekend, I saw a meme of that on reddit!"). Your heart will start racing from the hurt of your past. Thoughts of inferiority, inadequacy, and incompetence will swell. Dating a roastie at any age passed like 25, as an 'incel' with truly subhuman looks, would just be a recipe for a totally dysfunctional and brief relationship. If you are actually a very keen individual who has repeatedly failed with females (I'm talking a shitload of rejection here), then it is best to end it at like 25/26, and not prolong the suffering for five more years of the same. I'm a hypocrite, but I do have my hand on the chord and am basically just working up the courage to pull

lol killer burn. saved.

Firstly, over the next five to ten years, youngcels are going to witness an even larger upward leap in the love-alienation threshold, a term I just now made up to refer to the theoretical threshold which females need not stoop below while still being able to satisfy, in full, their sex and relationship needs. Hypergamy in this form will of course be driven by increased social connectedness (via social apps, media, etc), and the nature of males' and females' sexual strategies and goals (see my getting lucky post). Hope dimishes by the minute, and there is nothing worse than competing with a severe disadvantage on a brutal battlefield (basically just watching yourself get slaughtered and knowing the outcome).

Personally, 24-30 has been a killer, emotionally and physically. Physical changes have become so dramatic that I don't even recognize myself any longer. I actually always had pretty nice, youthful looking skin up until about the age of 23/24, but just a couple years later and there is literally nothing left to look at, the only visibly appealing aspect of myself has faded away. Also since we are incredibly ugly facially and/or frame-wise, it's not as if we're ever going to reel in some girl <25 who takes care of her body; at best we'll land some ancient roastie who has lost most of her sex appeal as well, and hopefully she isn't obese. At this point in her life, btw, she will be so fucking far ahead of you emotionally and socially that you'll be closer to her firstborn than you are to her.

Then there is all the psychological trauma from 24+ years of loneliness. You'll probably have unmanageable PTSD and anxiety. You'd be scared your gf is going to jump ship the second another guy comes within 20 feet of her (I mean, she likely will). When she mentions past boyfriends, basically an unavoidable topic, or even past experiences which were obviously shared with love-interests, you will be reminded of the 25+ fucking years of your life where you suffered alone, only wanting the same experiences (what are you going to say to relate to her experiences, "Oh yeah that one time when I was ldaring in my room on the weekend, I saw a meme of that on reddit!"). Your heart will start racing from the hurt of your past. Thoughts of inferiority, inadequacy, and incompetence will swell. Dating a roastie at any age passed like 25, as an 'incel' with truly subhuman looks, would just be a recipe for a totally dysfunctional and brief relationship.

If you are actually a very keen individual who has repeatedly failed with females (I'm talking a shitload of rejection here), then it is best to end it at like 25/26, and not prolong the suffering for five more years of the same. I'm a hypocrite because of my oldcel status, but I do have my hand on the chord and am basically just working up the courage to pull

I'm 20 and have never been invited to a party. It's already over ngl.

Why not just go to a club? House parties suck anyway.

i have bene invited once. Parties are suasage fests. Avoid them.

I've got a lot of time to not try and just LDAR because that kind of lifestyle doesn't really appeal to me.

Good luck

But everything becomes excruciatingly boring when you don't get to experience it with a person you want to

Take this from an oldcel

I hope you find someone

Yeah, no gf by 25 causes permanent damage

There is no doubt about that

I'm 21.

It's over

Im 20 its over.

I'm 11 it's fucking over lads

If you're not slinging dick and getting pussy wet by age 9, IT'S ALL ORGE.

pass me the rope coz i cant cope

This is why i'm just going to ldar and let life pass by. Can't kill self now because that what non-cels would want.

Yep this. I basically just exist and not much else.

I'm 24

fakecel

I’m 24 as well

I say I am 21/22 tho

I have the feeling you base your life around 80s movies... Don't do that, man! There's still a chance, LOTS of chances, really.

LOTS of chances ? Oh boy.. don't get op's hopes up it's still over.

D'oh don't be like that. Confidence is never bad! ...Okay, atleast not always

I missed out on girls, but not partying.

cope

Me too

The partying starts at 15. Most of the roasties in my class started getting pumped from that age.

Why does it end at 25 specifically? Why not say, 24 or 26? Just curious.

Because OP is in his late 20s and wants to blame society instead of looking at himself and changing the thing(s) necessary for a healthy, happy life.

I’m not an incel per se, but I sympathize with their cause because I understand that woman choose male partners exclusively on facial appearance.

“Normies” who refuse to accept this harsh reality are ironically, the ones deluding themselves.

I understand that women choose male partners exclusively on facial appearance.

Oh, is that so? Well have fun around here. Watch for your debut on r/inceltears!

Imagine if it one day, just happened to be proven true academically. What would happen

Umm well I would question the validity of that study because it is demonstrably untrue.

There are already studies about that

And yet beer is continuing to help uggos bone.

It isn’t out yet

No, it's because people stop partying until 2+am around 25. The ability to experiment and blame mistakes on alcohol expires probably even earlier than 25. I work with hundreds of millennials and I have yet to see an exception to this rule.

Did your parents drop you when you were a baby, or were you born this retarded?

I warm up with ur one rep maxes

Don't @ me

Yup, I'll just make some changes and then I can go back to being an 18 year old and do all those things I missed out on.

I was hoping that it was a reference to the 25 to life prison sentence.

I'm 17 and scared that it's already over for me.

it will be if you keep frequenting this trainwreck of a community lol

Me too.

females cant be incel

Yes they can.

have you ever asked out a guy?

No. sigh

Okay. Guys ask me out. But I turned them down. They don’t count.

lold

You know that stupid to them, right? This is braincels not inceltears. If you want to have a discussion, talk with them on your logic.

An incel is someone who's involuntary celibate. You're VOLUNTARY celibate. You even said it yourself on another post, your parents would kill you if you weren't a Virgin but it's clear you want sex and tbh, you can defintely make the choice to because as you said "guys ask me out".

Also don't give me the whole "well it's my perference" you're not giving yourself any favours. And I do agree that women can be incels but you cannot be an incel.

I admitted I was a volcel.

Then let me get from this angle. Why do you argue back based on your experience reinforcing their view that there can't be female incels? Is it because you genuinely believe there aren't female incels or you don't know how to challenge people's views tactfully?

It's not mate. Some people are late bloomers. I know it seems like you've missed the boat but you haven't. I thought it was over for me at your age however if you commit to practicing social skills constantly things will change. I know this seems unfair (at least it did to me) how some people just seem to have them naturally, it's unfair some people are better looking/taller than othersbut at the end of the day you gotta do the best with what you have, for your own personal happiness. 17 is waaay to young to throw in the towel. Hang in there bud

I first had sex with my girlfriend at 15 which is also around when I started partying. I'm not sure if I'm a chad but I asked my current girlfriend and she says I'm a chad.

Then you woke up

Literally never done this - engaged

Well lucky u...

Honest question: what’s the point of posts like this? Or the “daily reminders...” posts? Does posting stuff like this genuinely make you feel better about your situation? It seems like just perpetuating a cycle of depression, so what’s the point?

Cause it reminds us of how pathetic we are. Fucking normcunt

It's the truth

Our reality perpetuates the cycle of depression.

Do i still have a chance? I’m turning 19 by June and i haven’t gone to a single party in high school or college

It says until 25 so you still have 6 years :3

There's lots of 25+ year old virgins out there that get action eventually. Maybe they just didn't seek bitches out and focused on other things, or perhaps they just watched a lot of porn and developed some fucked up fetishes that Stacies aren't enough to please them. Either way, there's a lot of factors here.

Also, if you think your worth in life is determined by your indulgence in debauchery I highly suggest re-evaluating your state of mind.

Yeah they got sex by becoming a betabuxx husband for some Becky who use to be a chad cumbucket.

Then eventually the former whore wife divorces her betabuxx husband because he doesn't give her the tingles her genetically superior 6'3 aryan Chad fuckbuddies gave her in college. That's the reason America has a 50% divorce rate and some European countries it'd as high as 80%.

There are already studies about that

It isn’t out yet

I say I am 21/22 tho