"You're not entitled to mental health bro!"

57  2018-03-25 by rippedrichascended

77 comments

Still better than actual psychological "advice"

needs an incel.co watermark

INCELS LITERALLY THINK NOT HAVING SEX IS THE SAME AS BEING DEPRESSED

INCELTEARS LITERALLY ARE INCAPABLE OF REALIZING THAT SET 'A' CAN OVERLAP WITH SET 'B'

Yes, and some of the incels here think that their depression can simply be cured by having sex.

No they don't, or otherwise they would have seen a whore already. Getting sex, compassion and love from a woman that loves you however, yes I can definitely see how that might help a depressed incel.

Yes they do, I’ve talked to some of them. What you are saying is true for most, but not everyone is the same. Those things would definitely go a long way to helping but if you are truly depressed, it might not. People in loving healthy relationships get depressed. It’s not always the answer.

Depression isn't the same for everyone, genius. If you're depression is caused by loneliness and the inability to find a loving partner that will a 100% help.

I’m aware it’s not the same for everyone. But depression is caused by hormone imbalances in the brain. Most of the time, just acquiring a loving partner will not fix it. Like I said, it might help, but not 100%.

No, it will help. It might not fix everything but it will help.

I acknowledged, twice, that it might help, just that it would not cure your depression if you truly have it.

Then dont act so fucking surprised if an incel thinks sex will help.

I’m not at all surprised that they do! Some people have some pretty messed up ways of thinking. Normal, Chad, or incel. I’m just trying to explain the fact that sex is not going to fix their issues. That’s all.

You don't know that, it might fix their issues, it will definetly help. You're harming incels by saying that there's no way out of this hell.

I’m saying that getting help for their depression is not going out and having sex! Go to a counselor of psychiatrist. Get the medicine to balance those hormones. I’m not at all saying that their is no way out of this. In fact, people offer up ways to help frequently. No one seems to want to listen though. Getting help mentally will go a long way to get you what you want.

Plenty of incels have said that therapist won't help with the big problem and that's getting a girlfriend.

The big problem is their mental health.

No, it's loneliness.

If they are mentally a mess, it won’t matter if they can attract a partner, because it won’t last long. It will be unhealthy. Then it will start all over again. It will be a terrible cycle. Loneliness is truly awful, yes. But having a partner isn’t going to make them mentally stable. They need to address those issues.

Getting a partner, even temporarily, would already be a huge confidence boost that might encourage them to better their lives.

Unless it ended badly, which it is likely too with terrible mental health. Yes, it would raise confidence in some, but most people here seem to want to better their lives in some way or another. Get better jobs, go to the gym, dress themselves well. A partner for those incels would probably improve confidence. In mentally unstable incels, it will not. They need more help than that. A loving partner is a wonderful addition to anyone’s life. But if you want to keep that partner, work on yourself. Grow, and improve mentally. First, before you are at risk of losing that person.

Anyone will react badly to abuse form a partner, but I'm comfortable saying a relationship will 100% help an incel.

Some, but not all.

The overwhelming majority

Unfortunately I do not believe that is the case.

Well, you're not incel.

Yes they do, I’ve talked to some of them.

You've talked to incels who agree that they'd be perfectly happy if they could just get sex from a whore? But they are still incel and have not fucked a whore yet?

Not a whore. From most any woman in general. Not one you have to pay for.

Not a whore.

Exactly, so what they crave is not just sex. If they crave just sex, and that was all they needed to end depression, they would find a whore.

Or they want to fuck women and leave them Because they don’t think they are worth more than that. I’ve seen it said plenty of times.

What do you think about the sexual experience is the thing that they crave most, the thing that they think would end the depression?

Hint: It's not the physical act of sex, otherwise a whore would meet that need.

Do you think it's dumping a woman and breaking her heart? What's your theory here?

I’m not saying that they don’t actually want the intimacy that goes a long with it. I’m saying that they say all they want is sex. They act like it’s the end all and be all fix for their problems. They are obsessed with the thought of it. Not everyone here acts like this. Most openly acknowledge their desire for love, affection, and intimacy. That’s all anyone really wants. But when I hear people say they want to pump and dump women because they are all sluts and don’t deserve anything other than that, constantly, I believe some of them truly believe it. They have convinced theirselves of it. They are just that angry.

A whore would meet that need for sex but most of them refuse to do that.

A whore would meet that need for sex but most of them refuse to do that.

The refusal should tell you that what they crave goes beyond just the act of sex.

Some may not want the intimacy, just a pump and dump. But it's still more than just sex. I think what we all really crave is selection and validation. The act of a woman choosing to have sex with you confers value on you, tells you that you are sexy, attractive, valuable, a worthwhile human adult male.

Man's fundamental prerogative on this planet is to impregnate a woman. We have other purposes, but they're all secondary to this primary evolutionary purpose of being selected for sex by a woman. Not all women will want us, and we're OK with that. But if NO women want us then it means we've failed at our primary purpose on earth, we are subhuman. Whether or not all incels think about it that way, that's what's happening on a biological level and it's easy to lead to feelings of depression.

Depressed women often seek male validation and attention to feel better. But they can actually go out and get it easily. It's not a substitute for genuine love, but it does help alleviate the loneliness to some degree (otherwise so many women wouldn't keep doing it). Depressed incels do not have that option. We cannot get easy validation if we feel down about ourselves. So there's also female envy that depressed women have options that depressed incels do not, which leads many to resent Stacies and roasties.

I will absolutely not argue with this. You’re right. My whole point was to combat the “sex is all I need” statement.

No. They see inability to get female approval as an indicator that they are subhuman genetic trash, and they're depressed about being useless trash. People who think they're useless trash (for whatever reason) tend to get depressed.

I’m sure being a twenty something year old virgin unable to attract anyone would lend itself to depression

I’m 22 and a virgin. Not depressed. Not angry at the opposite gender. Not mad at the world.

You missed the words "unable to attract anyone".

Fair point. I did miss that.

Also, "You're not entitled to being neurotypical, bro!"

:(

Here is why it's not equivalent. Ugly and attractive people have depression.

People with depression dont go out saying rape would make them feel better. They dont ask people to give them women as if those women are chattel.

But that's just stuff you can easily prove.

Here's another thing I forgot to mention.

UGLY PEOPLE GET LAID ALL THE TIME! IF CHAD WAS REAL YOU WOULDNT EXIST! WHEN YOU SAY YOU ARE JUST UGLY YOU ALWAYS FORGET TO MENTION HOW FAT, ACNE RIDDEN, SUPER YOUNG, ANTISOCIAL, AWKWARD AND SHALLOW YOU ACTUALLY ARE.

TO MENTION HOW FAT, ACNE RIDDEN, SUPER YOUNG, ANTISOCIAL, AWKWARD AND SHALLOW YOU ACTUALLY ARE.

I'm lower body fat and more muscular than you. I have perfect skin and an expensive skin care regime. I am relatively old. I have more friends and larger social circles than you. I am very sociable, and my ability to be funny and social is the reason for my financial success. I also do not care about how a woman looks so long as she would desire me.

You dont even know me. Do you have any proof to these claims?

Probability. I am wealthier than 99.9% of people. I am more muscular and lower bf than 99% of people. I literally have perfect skin, so it would impossible for you to be better than me in that regard, only equal. I have posted proof many times in the past.

FUCK THAT NONSENSE IF YOU HAVE DONE IT BEFORE DO IT AGAIN.

Here's me pulling this same shit to you. Im richer than two african countries, my dick is 15 inches, I trained with Dwayne Johnson and I fuck models as side girls, i have posted proof many times in the past

Im richer than two african countries,

I too have £5 to my name.

Damn bro those are some cool stories, I'm impressed!

Post proof or stop roleplaying you crybaby cunt

Respect our leader RippedRichandIncel, he is not making up stories like you bunch of stupid people that come here everyday to bully us, he made his name here in the community because he has already proved his worth to the blackpill community

so why no proof?

If you are wealthier than 99.9% of people you should be on a yacht right now, surrounded by at least a dozen models and showering them with the most expensive champagne there is. You don't need muscles, face, personality, height etc.

The fucking irony lmfao

The intent of the post is that when incels cry about being just normal looking average people, they neglect to mention some feature about themselves. Not that they all have these attributes at once.

when incels cry about being just normal looking average people

Jesus Christ

Searching for specific criticisms for self pity

When incels cry that they are normal people but just ugly they often leave out other flaws

You dont even know ~~me~ them. Do you have any proof to these claims?

WHEN YOU SAY YOU ARE JUST UGLY YOU ALWAYS FORGET TO MENTION HOW FAT, ACNE RIDDEN, SUPER YOUNG, ANTISOCIAL, AWKWARD AND SHALLOW YOU ACTUALLY ARE.

Do you have any proof of these claims?

People with depression dont go out saying rape would make them feel better.

I've been on this sub for months on end and I've never said anyone say that. Maybe it's happened a few times spanned over months, but that's a fabrication.

They dont ask people to give them women as if those women are chattel.

We just don't want to be an incel, ffs. What's with the fabrications and shit. Female incels don't exist. Every time a female has ever posted "I'm lonely and want a bf, I think I'm an incel", there are DOZENS of men who line up. Nobody lines up if the opposite happens.

UGLY PEOPLE GET LAID ALL THE TIME!

Proof? Just because some people won the lottery doesn't mean everyone does. And that's literally life as an ugly male. Trust me, I am trying to win that lottery. But for every 1 ugly guy that manages to escape, there are dozens who don't, and cannot.

And how many of these marriages are betabuxx? Something like 15-20% of all marriages are sexless. I'm very sure that Chad isn't the one that is making up the majortiy of those statistics

IF CHAD WAS REAL YOU WOULDNT EXIST!

Pure delusion. Read the instagram of male models. The things women post expose their true nature. Their primitive, animalistic desire for chad. Literally hundreds of thousands of women post about how they wish that they could find a guy like him, that he is the perfect man, that that's what she wishes she had, etc.

Need me to give you links?

WHEN YOU SAY YOU ARE JUST UGLY YOU ALWAYS FORGET TO MENTION HOW FAT, ACNE RIDDEN, SUPER YOUNG, ANTISOCIAL, AWKWARD AND SHALLOW YOU ACTUALLY ARE.

No, nope, nah, maybe, and no, respectively.

Ive seen rape wishing more than once and ive been here a week.

Three people have said "the only way to help is to give me a girlfriend" its been a week.

Im sorry sex is different for boys and girls and Im sorry that men have higher drives than women. Im sorry women have an easier time finding just anyone to fuck them. But it is not proof you cant get laid to say women get laid easier.

"The ugliness lottery."

I know plenty of people who aren't attractive who are dating. They are dating people who also arent attractive though. Looksmatch isnt a thing, and if you think an ugly person would ever get someone who thinks beauty is core to their personality is retarded. Here's what I notice about them. They arent mad at the world. They didnt give up and just say "fuck women!" They have a personality that you would like to date. They dont have animosity towards the other gender.

betabuxxx. Shut the fuck up with your stupid buzzwords. If someone marries outside of their means, marries only because they are attracted, the marriage fails no matter if hes a "beta" or an "alpha"

If you believe in these two concepts (Which werent even lifted from biology correctly) You would know they relate to the pure concept of animal sex, which is weird because you claim to want love as well.

"Read this male model post! Its totally not like female model posts" (Even though it is)

In order for chad to exist and ugly people to exist, chad would have to have ugly children. It's impossible for it to be that chad fucks even ugly chicks because there would be too much attractive competition. More likely, two socially well adjusted and attractive people had a kid and now he's a socially awkward kid who may or may not be thinned skin or just plain cowardly and instead of working out his problems he just blames women.

"Nah nah nah."

Tell me you have none of these problems. More, prove it.

Ive seen rape wishing more than once and ive been here a week.

You must really be searching, I live on this sub and rarely see it.

I know plenty of people who aren't attractive who are dating.

Not attractive to you. Come back when you are dating some one you find unattractive.

Im married.

ive been here a week

"I'm not a kid, mommy. I'm twelve!"

But it is not proof you cant get laid to say women get laid easier.

Pareto principle. Women are selling, and men are buying, in a seller's market. It's to be expected that the bottom 40% of men get nothing.

If someone marries outside of their means, marries only because they are attracted, the marriage fails

Nobody who's blackpilled wants to get hitched. Maybe, maybe, with a prenup that's been looked over multiple drafts by multiple lawyers. There is just too much at stake with paternity fraud, gold digging, and sheer human fickleness, for the reward to be worth the risk.

(Even though it is)

Difference is average and even homely women get flooded with validation online. You would know this if you were around long enough to see the pig lady experiment, or just made an online dating account as a woman.

chad would have to have ugly children

Beauty and ugliness don't exist on some binary sliding scale like in a video game. It's very possible for an attractive man and an attractive woman to have an ugly kid because the genes just didn't combine very well, or if both parents (the mother especially) were old. Chad pumping and dumping a homely chick is, indeed, likely to produce an incel, especially if the girl doesn't kick her partying and drinking habits during pregnancy.

Ive been here a week and seen RAPE aspirations. Why defend rape?

"Muh pareto principle" People are not stocks. for the 5000+ years of human civilization ugly people have existed. Genetics means ugly people reproduce ugly people. If you are ugly then your parents must be sort of ugly too.

"blackpill"

I dont have any trouble meeting people. Ugly people I know dont have any trouble meeting people. I wouldn't have gotten married if I didnt care for the person. The issue you are describing is not just for incels, it happens to "chads" too.

"make a female account"

Im sorry that females are in control of sex and vaginas. Why do you keep switching from just sex and back to relationships. Yeah, guys are very willing to just fuck some girl. Promise you its not because they want to date.

"Chad did it"

No it isnt. You get how you look from your parents. Age doesn't change how you genetically look if you have the same facial features. Since you all post chins and facial features, im sure you believe in them. You cant say superior facial features dont mix well. If chads had so much to do with it, half of his chad genes would make everyone average. This is not my opinion. It doesnt even happen in nature, where chads really exist.

I like how subtle the woman hate is though.

"Shes a party slut, old women wombs are the CAUSE of deformity"

hi sure you believe in them

its just a prank, bot.

Ive been here a week

If you think this is an achievement, I can only imagine what other risible "achievements" have bloated your ego this badly.

for the 5000+ years of human civilization ugly people have existed. Genetics means ugly people reproduce ugly people.

That's not how genes work. Genetic code is swapped and arranged randomly on conception. It's how two siblings with the same parents can have different hair colors. If genes worked the way you think they do, all siblings would be identical.

Why do you keep switching from just sex and back to relationships.

Jesus Christ learn to read.

No it isnt. You get how you look from your parents.

See above

You cant say superior facial features dont mix well. If chads had so much to do with it, half of his chad genes would make everyone average.

Facial harmony matters. Favorable features can combine in an unfavorable way. "Good genes" can also combine to create unfavorable features. Again, you don't know shit about genetics.

"Shes a party slut, old women wombs are the CAUSE of deformity"

Alcohol consumption during pregnancy is known to cause complications in the fetus, including but not limited to premature birth, mental retardation, and down's syndrome. Old women eggs are also a known risk factor for complications. Do your homework, dumbass.

Its not an achievement. Im trying to explain how easy it was to find a wannabe rapist.

"genes"

Well i didnt mean everything is identical. I meant you have a set gene pool, you cant go from ugly to beautiful randomly.

"Learn to read"

fuck off. I read just fine

"facial harmony matters"

why do incels just post chins then? Genetics is not just "ugly today, beautiful next generation" You notice that the incel community is not very big right? if it worked the way you say there would be plenty more incels. You get a random child based on parameters set by parent dna. You dont get a fucking lottery. Or are you telling me your parents are chad and stacy and you just fell out backwards? More likely you are a single mothers kid. Would explain the inceldom

"eggs"

I know that women's ages can affect people negatively but it rarely gives you an entirely different fucking face.

Im trying to explain how easy it was to find a wannabe rapist.

Then it's a non sequitur

I meant you have a set gene pool, you cant go from ugly to beautiful randomly

Well, no shit, two sets of good genes are more likely to get a good phenotype than two sets of bad ones, but because the RNA assembly is rendom, the whole can be either less or greater than the sum of its parts.

You notice that the incel community is not very big right? if it worked the way you say there would be plenty more incels.

First, not all incels are part of the incel community. (In fact, a lot of them are opposed to it. See Inceltears.) Two, nobody is saying it's completely random. Even actual lotteries have results based on set parameters. Three, people aren't divided into Chads and incels. Most people are average, and it's also not uncommon for an ugly person to reproduce with an average person, which even by your own rigid view of genetics, will create an ugly phenotype.

I know that women's ages can affect people negatively but it rarely gives you an entirely different fucking face.

It can, however, give you autism.

None of this says anything remotely close to an explanation about why you cant get laid.

The answer to that is complicated, but the short of it is, it's because I'm ugly. Same as any other incel.

attractive people have depression.

won't somebody PLEASE think of the attractive people

MENTION HOW FAT

hey i only got fat after i found this sub, i can lose it anytime i want

i'm not even fat i just have a bit of a paunch now

stop calling me fat

Literally not a single thing on your list after "ugly".

so what do you think is your flaw?

Genuine unattractiveness if I'm honest. A lot of people assume if you identify as incel, you have a horrible personality and condone every single thing that's said here.

I wish my psychiatrist touched me like this we don't sit on the the same couch I just get a chair

Paint skills on point

Not trying to be a dick, BUT if you actually base your entire happiness over wether or not you have a girlfriend, maybe you need to reconsider a few things.

The answer to that is complicated, but the short of it is, it's because I'm ugly. Same as any other incel.