Confronting abusive men would require our valiant keyboard crusaders to leaver their basements and stand up to strong, aggressive men - not an attractive prospect for the kind of cucky soyboy that white knights on IncelTears.
Yeah, why go against dangerous but significant societal problems, when you can spend all day bullying internet virgins until they kill themselves for being misogynists?
Also, women factually love jerks and bullies, and hate men they see as pathetic. So obviously they'll come after us and not people far more toxic and actually harmful to others in society.
You for real? You can realize incels are delusional and be against abusers too. I'm on reddit to have fun and be entertained. I don't care to see things about abusers or even abused victims here.
I also don't post on /pol and it doesn't mean I don't care about justice. Honestly this is as retarded as saying someone who posts pictures of their dog on a dog subreddit hates cats because they didn't post the cat picture there.
The lengths some incels go for to reinforce their childish, bitter world view is amazing.
Before I got into college I volunteered in an abused women's shelter because a childhood friend of mine had lifelong issues with abusive boyfriends. I did this in Mexico, one of the countries with the highest spousal abuse rates on Earth, and a place were standing up for that can get you murdered by an angry batterer.
My "childish, bitter" ass has done more than the keyboard commandoes of your faggot subreddit probably ever will, but you people have the gall to come here and call us all woman haters for calling them femoids and being angry at being lonely. Before you bring up the "legalize rape" posts, I want you to know that's not even 5% of the Incels here.
Comparing a literal handful of posts here that got backlash from the community to a well documented and concerning societal trend is disingenuous at best.
It may not be genetics leading women into abusive relationships but it is a trend, and it is worrying.
Are you actually trying to imply women being abused by their spouse is not a worrying trend? What am I saying, of course you are! Why worry about non-issues like battered women when you can really make an impact on society by bullying internet virgins?
I never said that, what? You expect me to go out and change the world, maybe volunteer to a charity? Just got off work and am heading home. Of course I sympathize with abused women. I sympathize with diabetics too. But it doesn't mean I have to actively volunteer my time and energy combating these things. What kind of retarded logic are you on? Instead of being an incel why not dedicate your time less on "rope and cope" cringe and go volunteer at an animal shelter?
Because I'm enrolled full time in university with a high GPA, and because I volunteered at an abused women's shelter for quite a while in my teens + I donate money to several charities.
You keyboard crusaders always go for the low hanging fruit lmao.
There is such a thing as mobile browsing reddit. Fucking lmao go back to IT to lick your wounds, cuck. An Incel has done more for charity than you and you're assmad that you lost the moral high ground. Piss off.
Lol so when you do it you're browsing mobile reddit. But when I do it I'm... Not?
Oh lord. I haven't lost any moral high ground. My morals have not been shaken or questioned from this little exchange. It's good that you donate to charity. Even better that you use it to claim moral superiority. Guess every little win is very important to an incel.
You stupid fucking moron. This post was to point out the retardation of the users at inceltears who like to virtue signal about the shit we say here even tho there are real life ppl being abused as i type this. Most of the women who were abused that i know of irl were from normies and chads. But a fuckin internet person post some mean things about girls and all of sudden the keyboard sjw come out to play. Ppl laugh at incels yes. But ppl have good reason to laugh sjw and beta male feminists.
As they should. If you're dumb you should be laughed and corrected to improve.
Also it's very retarded to expect people to actively fight a cause just because they are against it. You expect too much from people. I'm against rape but I won't spend time seeking out rapist to stop them. It's being realistic. I'm on a subreddit posting. You expect me to go out and change the world on my lunch break?
It would also mean running afoul of a lot of their SJW "allies" too since actually standing up against such men would mean standing up against traditional male gender roles, and most 'progressive' women are all about that traditional macho masculinity.
Euh what? Inceltears is about making fun of incel culture, why the hell do you expect them to criticise abusers; that's just not what the sub is about.
In what world do you live? "Attractive dudes doing awful shit" get all the (well deserved) hate in the world, but not on /r/inceltears because that just isn't the point of the sub. The two aren't mutually exclusive; you can be against domestic abuse like everyone and criticise people who think women owe them their body for no tangible reason
I have found NO users at r/IncelTears who are subscribed to r/DomesticViolence, r/EmotionalAbuse or any subreddit about helping people with those problems (BTW: those subreddits are poorly active, which is sad).
It's pure virtue signaling. Real problems aren't addressed while lonely men in their houses is apparently cancer.
Attractive dudes doing awful shit get all the hate
“physically attractive people get much better treatment from society than physically unattractive people”
Huh... I thought it was only “physical attractive men” because all women get better treatment... silly science, it makes such big mistakes all the time! /s
And let's be honest, you've just stated that you wonder why a sub created to mock another sub full of socially retarded virgins hasn't solved world hunger. If you're allowed to make stuff up why can't I?
inceltears should somehow engage aggressive abusers in real life, because??
because you guys claim to not be making fun of lonely virgins. you claim to be champions of making the world a better place for foids. If the latter was true, you should have a track record to prove it. If not, then the default position is:
you're a pathetic person who is bullying lonely virgins for no good reason
Lmao. No one is bullying lonely virgins. People are extremely concerned about a community that completely dehumanizes 50% of humanity, celebrates murder and abuse of that part of humanity, specifically celebrates some mass murderers, and actually celebrates when people commit suicide.
It's not just the internet, and it's not an autist thing. I have several friends with various degrees of autism, met many more, and they wouldn't never treat other men and women that badly for their gender. Not badmouth them, nor treat them poorly to their face just for e.g. being handsome/pretty men/women (nor for being "ugly" such).
Especially if you're autistic, you're not going to be good at being an amazing actor who keeps their true feelings locked up deep deep inside except for when visiting one specific online forum. So even if they're autistic that doesn't mean it's limited to just online or that forum. It would take very socially skilled sociopaths (and expertise in faces - which is exactly the opposite of one of the hallmarks for autism) to fake "being decent people" daily around people except for when being online.
I'm not saying that bullying bullies is a good thing to do at all, but that people who are extremely vicious in their minds often constantly leak that attitude even when they don't mean to. That it isn't just an "online" thing. Neurotypical people can pick up on micro-expressions even without being consciously aware of that they did, so it isn't strange that very miserable people who exude hostility at others make others not want to be around them. This is not because of how they look in terms of bone structure and so on, but because of their behavior and body language. This doesn't mean that harassing them is good, but that is not the point I am addressing. I am addressing the misconception that it's "just online".
Even if it had been "just online" the internet stopped being inconsequential to "real life" like a decade ago.
I have found NO users at r/IncelTears who are subscribed to r/DomesticViolence, r/EmotionalAbuse or any subreddit about helping people with those problems (BTW: those subreddits are poorly active, which is sad).
It's pure virtue signaling. Real problems aren't addressed while lonely men in their houses is apparently cancer.
See I'm relatively certain we're both degenerates in our own way. What's life without a little fun?
Either way, my degeneracy is probably enjoyed by a larger percentage of the population and isn't grounded in misfiring hatred and social maladjustment.
I have enough faith in the British police force to leave them to it.
An estimated 1.9 million adults aged 16 to 59 years experienced domestic abuse in the last year, according to the year ending March 2017 Crime Survey for England and Wales (1.2 million women, 713,000 men).
How about you lobby your government to be proactive with regards to domestic abuse? Most of Europe is better in this regard.
There are many here I sympathise with, I realise not all incels are women hating retards who advocate rape. They're cool by me and they probably know who they are.
However, if you're offering payment to berate the rest I'll happily take up a second job. I could always do with some extra cash.
I like to think I'll still have contempt for rape advocating maniacs with no self awareness in another ten years as well. I'd rather not regress with age.
you're just finding a reason to justify harassing a support group, to justify picking on people in tremendous pain. you're a piece of shit. you have no interest in understanding where these guys are coming from. this is how you seem to me.
BUT
you're from britain right? then you can't really understand why the black pill even exists. so much of what is posted is simply a counter to the brainwashing we get in the states. a lot of the frustration comes from being constantly lied to about how things actually work.
I've found many reasons to justify my own actions towards some people on this sub, going back to the days of r/incels when shit was really weird.
This is not a support group, this is a truly baleful echo chamber.
If you feel like society is lying to you that's fine, don't listen, create your own narrative. But if the narrative you've created tells you that all women are scum who hate men because of the way they look then you're lying to yourself.
again, you can't understand that it's satire of the hyperbolic propaganda we are fed until we become adults. i don't expect you to understand it because you didn't experience it. america is the most bluepilled country in the world.
The satirical posts here are often hilarious, I enjoy them greatly. However they're often (even some of the funny ones) unbelievably misinformed. And some are just insanity in meme form.
I don't regurgitate the same ridiculous bullshit over and over again saying things like 'daily reminder all woman are out to see us suffer' or some other such nonsense.
By not leaving this place. When you come here to bully bullies nothing good comes from it. I should have said that you contribute some of the negativity in this forum.
No. Because people in inceltears are just laughing and are on reddit for fun. Entertainment.
Plus, you really went through all MEMBERS and looked at ALL the sub's they are in?
Plus the domestic violence type of sub's are really mostly people posting for attention and empathy. Like all mental health stuff.
That is just the reason.
"We're just here to laugh at you guys teehee", how shitty does your life have to be for this to be your main form of entertainment? Stacy is out with her friends, partying, shopping, fucking Chad, making memories. Yet what are you doing? Sitting on your fatass, lurking on obscure forums full of depressed suicidal virgins just to get a few laughs in your non-eventful boring ass life.
A good chunk of r/inceltears are here to laugh, not to be champions of justice. We're to witness the toxicity some of you display, not be paladins of chivalry. It's strawmen like this that keep you in an echo-chamber like this one
You've gotta face it: If you want peace here on reddit, you've got to have a private sub. People are never going to stop going for easy targets. And I'm not calling you that to be nasty. It's just that, you know, people are shitty sometimes. The other thing is that I can guarantee you that most of the IT people who come around to give you shit are males, and they are not exactly "killing it" in other areas of their lives. But rather than focus on themselves, they can persecute you guys because look here, somebody calling themselves incel said on this message board that women are whores and they should be raped. True, it wasn't these particular incels, but hey, they're all the same! Let's go virtue signal! I may have been dumped by every chick that's taken a chance on me, and maybe I am stuck in a deadend job and my bald spot is expanding daily, but at least I've been laid before!
It's lame, but it does happen and it won't stop. Personally I will miss this sub, not because I'm an incel but because I am a true anthropologist and I appreciate listening to the viewpoints of different demographics on modern life. I sub here, a few muslim subreddits, one christian one, the women's subs and the red pill. I just like hearing what people think. So this advice pains me. But truly, people won't stop taking the path of least resistance to feeling better. And it's much easier to criticize others than it is to look at yourself.
Not exactly. I more just like to listen. Occasionally I pipe up to let you know that not all of us "normies" are the same. It's not like you guys vs us, two big monolithic groups full of people who are completely similar to the guy standing next to them.
I believe that the unpleasant truth is that much of life is decided by circumstance. Meaning, my personality and disposition are a result of my experiences in the world, and not simply inherent to me, like my eye color. And that if I was born looking less attractive, my experiences probably would have been very different and as a result I'd feel very differently about the world. I like to keep that in mind, as it reminds me to be more open and empathetic in life. And this sub serves that purpose. Sometimes I speak up, but mostly I just appreciate being here and remembering those things. Very, very often in life, if I find that I hate or deeply resent someone, it's because I'm not looking at them closely enough. Because when I do put aside ego, judgments, and hurt, I see that their disposition makes a lot more sense than it seemed at first, and that we're really not that different.
Whew! I'll climb down off my soapbox now. Sorry about that.
That is still a lot better then what we usually get.
Occasionally I pipe up to let you know that not all of us "normies" are the same.
Yeah. The Sub is very hostile to outsiders. Sorry about that.
I believe that the unpleasant truth is that much of life is decided by circumstance. Meaning, my personality and disposition are a result of my experiences in the world, and not simply inherent to me, like my eye color. And that if I was born looking less attractive, my experiences probably would have been very different and as a result I'd feel very differently about the world. I like to keep that in mind, as it reminds me to be more open and empathetic in life. And this sub serves that purpose. Sometimes I speak up, but mostly I just appreciate being here and remembering those things. Very, very often in life, if I find that I hate or deeply resent someone, it's because I'm not looking at them closely enough. Because when I do put aside ego, judgments, and hurt, I see that their disposition makes a lot more sense than it seemed at first, and that we're really not that different.
Whew! I'll climb down off my soapbox now. Sorry about that.
Don't be sorry. What you said is very true. It's just annoying that certain people believe that you can just flip around everything just by doing some simple stuff (which they think we don't already do).
I've found money to be the most important factor for a child apart from it's parents. If you are in a poor family you often don't get to do stuff the other kids get to do so you don't get to experience the same stuff with people of your age. Makes you kinda "Lacking" in later life.
Yknow I bet if you guys just ignored inceltears you’d live much happier lives. Just cause they’re making fun of you doesn’t mean you have to pay attention.
If they stayed in their sub, this would be a perfectly reasonable solution to the problem. The problem is they don't stay in their sub. They come here, spouting virgin hate and blue-pilled nonsense, and don't get banned from this cucked sub for being degenerate wastes of time.
Oh.
Im pretty sure people are against both. Hate both.
But domestic violence is just too serious to laugh at.
People making ridiculous mind bends so you are the victim and feeling entitled to sex is something that isn't as serious, and you can make fun of, because there isn't a victim.
'Entitled' is a fairly meaningless word that does not accurately describe most of the incels on this sub or elsewhere on the Internet. On one extreme, the word 'entitled' is used to describe men how literally believe that they should be able to force women to date them. On the other extreme, the word 'entitled' is used to describe men who are merely frustrated or sad that they can't find anyone at all to date them. This type of frustration is reasonable, since sex and romantic relationships are regarded by many as one of the most fulfilling things in life. The problem with using the word 'entitled' for both categories of men is that it lumps them together, demonizing men in the latter category by comparing them to men in the former category. If you wish to criticize our views, please be more specific than merely calling us 'entitled.'
Oh i think it is very clear i was talking about the former category. And the latter as in don't whine about it. And make themselves the victim. And there not being any actual victim (this is not victim blaming at all. Because in the end. There is no person harming them, but themselves with their mindset)
I was only saying that the people look at it for ENTERTAINMENT.
how is that actually criticism in any way?
And romantic relationships can only be meaningfull and fulfilling if you actually also love yourself and just like the other person. But it isn't as meaningful as the media makes it seem. Like at all...
Yup. After reading this you lost all credibility...not that you had anything to begin with. Time to put on your fake up and wear booty shirts outside along with your push up bra to make your small tits look bigger. After that you can come back on reddit and post how you felt objectified by men. I'm not an object!
How is they not getting sex, because of another person harming them?
And thanks that you think i am a slut like that!
Well bye, i have to "demasculate" the guys in my boxing class a bit, since they cant keep the series up with me, since they all out of shape...
Oh so you also mean no friends and being misunderstood and people having certain expectations of you?
Yeah im pretty sure everyone deals with that... Not just incels..
Holy shit. It's like talking to a brick wall. And people then wonder why the majority of us incels don't bother to actually explain our reasoning to normies/roasties anymore.
So every woman is a fucking third wave feminist?!?
Oof what hell are you living in. Cause it sounds like hell. I would have killed myself then already.
So toxic
Most women, not every, and no women can never truly understand an incels' situation because our lives are completely different and our experiences are not even close to being related.
Yes, and sex and relationships are totally mutually exclusive concepts. In fact, it's that belief of the two being so separate that has led this society into the degeneracy that's destroying it today.
People making ridiculous mind bends so you are the victim and feeling entitled to sex is something that isn't as serious, and you can make fun of, because there isn't a victim.
And when Stagetail (I.e. a victim of said mockery) seemingly hung himself, dickheads like you were nowhere to be found. I wonder why.
Hey. I am sorry to break it to you, but that is probably why they are not getting laid.
Because of whining and bitching.
You think feminists get laid, by other people than the male feminists and well other feminist women.? No. Not at all.
Unless they are only loud about it on places like tumblr and not like IRL.
It is an unattractive trait, for anyone to have. That isn't a secret.
And yeah if you are depressed and suicidal, as like an actual mental illness and not because of getting no sex and making yourself feel worthless because of it.
You wont get people to like you!
For love, you need to at least like yourself. How could you ever expect someone to love you, or find you attractive when you hate yourself and constantly whine about it!
This is for everyone. Not just the incels (which is apparently impossible to be if you are a girl. Even tho females actually do have a sex drive too. But no! Only guys can be a virgin when they don't want to be!)
And "not every incel is hate full" of course not. But then they are still whining and saying it is unfair and out of their control and that it isn't their fault they cant get laid (which it isn't completely. You can't be blamed for everything in life going easy and then sucking at relationships and getting a flawed sense of reality.)
*Hey. I am sorry to break it to you, but that is probably why they are not getting laid. Because of whining and bitching. You think feminists get laid, by other people than the male feminists and well other feminist women.? No. Not at all. Unless they are only loud about it on places like tumblr and not like IRL. It is an unattractive trait, for anyone to have. That isn't a secret. And yeah if you are depressed and suicidal, as like an actual mental illness and not because of getting no sex and making yourself feel worthless because of it. You wont get people to like you! For love, you need to at least like yourself. How could you ever expect someone to love you, or find you attractive when you hate yourself and constantly whine about it! This is for everyone. Not just the incels (which is apparently impossible to be if you are a girl. Even tho females actually do have a sex drive too. But no! Only guys can be a virgin when they don't want to be!)
Congratulations, this has absolutely nothing to do with what I said.
And "not every incel is hate full" of course not. But then they are still whining and saying it is unfair and out of their control and that it isn't their fault they cant get laid (which it isn't completely. You can't be blamed for everything in life going easy and then sucking at relationships and getting a flawed sense of reality.)
And so this is your justification for getting to shit on all off them. K.
Oh so like they are getting to shit on all women. Well those that don't fuck them, and all men that do have charisma and get sex? Or that you don't actually hate on all teachers when you say "ugh. Teachers are so annoying/mean/stupid etc".
You know pretty damn well that i am talking about a group, and i hate to break it to you. But they carry the same label as the silent (this is a requirement) not hatefull guys who just don't have the social skills to get themselves a gf. And the loud people represent the group and therefore the label. Only the group "women" is a bit too large to do that for, because it is literally half of the population. And incels is not. Because you are only an incel if you actually not blame your own poor social skills, dont work to improve those genuinely and don't feel bad or sorry about you not having sex.
It is their life, they take responsibility.
Nice.
Only reacting to a small part, and not the entire thing.
Really shows you are strong an not afraid that you cant beat the actual argument i am making.
My argument.
Well actual insight to you guys that hey, it is entertainment is a straw man?
How....
Like how is a person actually abusing another person not funny, while people laugh at, a fact people who whine about their conditions and blame everything but themselves.
All we have to work with is his post, and he has yet to come back if he's still alive.
And having read the post and knowing his circumstances...well, it ain't pretty. That's why I said seemingly, we have nothing else. The faked bit was started by an IT user being a twat, as always.
Oh. Im pretty sure people are against both. Hate both.
Then why do these people allocate so much of their time policing incels and none dealing with the far greater problem of domestic violence and rape committed by other people?
Actually, I think I know the answer. Most millenials are too impulse-oriented and whimsical and directionless to effectively spend time on missions and fixing real world problems. It's easier to get lost reacting to stupid things on the internet.
Very few if any of these IT cucks are doing anything meaningful and impactful to make the world a better place. Just virtue signalling and cope.
no they aren't. people laugh when women hit men. a women can hit a man in the face, and if he pushes her back. You got about 20 white knights rushing in to save m'lady and jump the guy.
how is that possible? They are stronk independant women who are most certainly tougher than men in every way. Why doesn't she just bust some martial arts out and one two his ass? Aren't all women super tough and badass?
What is wrong with you man? Just because I'm challenging false facts doesn't mean I'm an MRA. You must be too pussywhipped to realize that. I'm just having a discussion because I often see this spouted off as true when it isn't.
this is literally because i can't bear to lose an argument
It's not like you just won one. If you actually want to win one you're going to need to point something out that specifically proves that women are drastically abused more often than men. No need to be an uncivil douce. Makes sense why you're not mod anymore, you can't keep your cool.
not to sound like a feminist, but domestic violence affects women way more than it does men
I'm not sure how 2/3 is way more than 1/3. Maybe you and I attribute a different meaning to the difference. Anyways, I think we've reached the end of this discussion m'gentle sir. Good day.
domestic violence affects women way more than it does men
Probably as reported. In true numbers, though, I highly doubt it. Imagine as a man, "your" woman is beating you; would you really want to share that with anyone?
I came here before I went there. You guys made me curious about if it was on there, and so it was. I'll address the points for you:
Panels 1 & 2) You can do both, and even only the former. I have put money and time into the former, including "in real life".
3&4) You can do both, and I have frequently spoken out against the former (including DV towards men) and the latter, and done what I can "IRL".
5&6) Unless the "virgin in his room" is a recluse shut-in, they too have plenty of opportunities to to cause various degrees of harm. Causing harm to people is not something limited to e.g. "'roidbergs". You can be a scrawny girl and still regularly abuse a muscular manly man. That does not make the man any less of a man, and that doesn't make the harm made by his abuser any less real. Harm unfortunately is not something only a certain physical build of person can cause.
A Concept. Or maybe... women denounce... all of the men in this post.
No one cares that you’re an unattractive virgin, incels. We care when you and every other disgusting men out there act like douchebags. Your toxic ideas about women, sex, and relationships are why you’re alone. Your face has nothing to do with it.
Your toxic ideas about women, sex, and relationships are why you’re alone. Your face has nothing to do with it.
You really haven't read all the cases of physical abuse and verbal disrespect from good looking men that Incels share.
I've seen the worst shit in person. Football jock beats girlfriend? No problem, she's going back to him every day cause he's HAWT. Uncle abuses aunt? No problem, he's tall and handsome. Classmate who does boxing sends Down-syndrome classmate to the hospital? Still bangs 3 girls over the next week (not fucking joking).
Respectful Incel = never gets laid.
Asshole Incel = never gets laid.
Respectful "Chad" = always succeeds.
Asshole "Chad" = always succeeds.
Your face has nothing to do with it.
Oh how I wish that were the truth. But that is just the most delusional thing I've read all day.
Also, do you even read the studies that people share here?
You’re a complete idiot and a prick, at that. I got out of an abusive relationship seven months ago. He has become a pariah on campus because other women recognize what he did to me and to his other ex-girlfriend (who stepped forward when she found out about it).
You have not ‘seen the worst shit’. I lived it for almost a year. I was terrified of him hurting me, but when I finally got out, I never looked back. I never went back to him. The things people share here are not ‘studies’ - it’s a bunch of delusional virgins who think that the worst thing that could ever happen to them is not having sex.
Okay you guys know that the general concensus of just about everybody is "domestic abuse is bad" and therefore doesn't need regular updates on the fact...right?
So I think it stands to reason that in a subreddit pretty much dedicated to pointing and laughing st the worst or most cringe worthy posts from incels, that domestic abuse isn't really going to be on the front page unless there's a post on this subreddit somehow condoning it. To be honest with a few of the posts I've seen , satire or not, that wouldn't come as a surprise.
Still, there exists a subreddit for domestic abuse , I'm sure of that, it just isn't IT
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1 CursedCel 2018-03-23
Confronting abusive men would require our valiant keyboard crusaders to leaver their basements and stand up to strong, aggressive men - not an attractive prospect for the kind of cucky soyboy that white knights on IncelTears.
1 ScrewWomyn 2018-03-23
Same reason why are they so passive against Muslims, strong and aggressive men terrify them.
1 CursedCel 2018-03-23
Yeah, why go against dangerous but significant societal problems, when you can spend all day bullying internet virgins until they kill themselves for being misogynists?
1 Bronzehawkattack 2018-03-23
Also, women factually love jerks and bullies, and hate men they see as pathetic. So obviously they'll come after us and not people far more toxic and actually harmful to others in society.
1 Rubissrox 2018-03-23
You for real? You can realize incels are delusional and be against abusers too. I'm on reddit to have fun and be entertained. I don't care to see things about abusers or even abused victims here.
I also don't post on /pol and it doesn't mean I don't care about justice. Honestly this is as retarded as saying someone who posts pictures of their dog on a dog subreddit hates cats because they didn't post the cat picture there.
The lengths some incels go for to reinforce their childish, bitter world view is amazing.
1 CursedCel 2018-03-23
Before I got into college I volunteered in an abused women's shelter because a childhood friend of mine had lifelong issues with abusive boyfriends. I did this in Mexico, one of the countries with the highest spousal abuse rates on Earth, and a place were standing up for that can get you murdered by an angry batterer.
My "childish, bitter" ass has done more than the keyboard commandoes of your faggot subreddit probably ever will, but you people have the gall to come here and call us all woman haters for calling them femoids and being angry at being lonely. Before you bring up the "legalize rape" posts, I want you to know that's not even 5% of the Incels here.
1 Rubissrox 2018-03-23
What? But not at all women are manipulative jerks who only go for one night stands with Chad.
So incels like to generalize but hate having it done to them?
So weird.
All incels want to legalize rape. Just like all women want Chad.
1 CursedCel 2018-03-23
Comparing a literal handful of posts here that got backlash from the community to a well documented and concerning societal trend is disingenuous at best.
1 Rubissrox 2018-03-23
Well documented. Right. Genetics, am I right?
1 Idk12344482305 2018-03-23
You’re a big guy.
1 CursedCel 2018-03-23
It may not be genetics leading women into abusive relationships but it is a trend, and it is worrying.
Are you actually trying to imply women being abused by their spouse is not a worrying trend? What am I saying, of course you are! Why worry about non-issues like battered women when you can really make an impact on society by bullying internet virgins?
1 Rubissrox 2018-03-23
I never said that, what? You expect me to go out and change the world, maybe volunteer to a charity? Just got off work and am heading home. Of course I sympathize with abused women. I sympathize with diabetics too. But it doesn't mean I have to actively volunteer my time and energy combating these things. What kind of retarded logic are you on? Instead of being an incel why not dedicate your time less on "rope and cope" cringe and go volunteer at an animal shelter?
1 CursedCel 2018-03-23
Because I'm enrolled full time in university with a high GPA, and because I volunteered at an abused women's shelter for quite a while in my teens + I donate money to several charities.
You keyboard crusaders always go for the low hanging fruit lmao.
1 Rubissrox 2018-03-23
So you lack the time to volunteer but can spend time in an incel cesspool. Interesting. What was your point again?
1 CursedCel 2018-03-23
There is such a thing as mobile browsing reddit. Fucking lmao go back to IT to lick your wounds, cuck. An Incel has done more for charity than you and you're assmad that you lost the moral high ground. Piss off.
1 Rubissrox 2018-03-23
Lol so when you do it you're browsing mobile reddit. But when I do it I'm... Not?
Oh lord. I haven't lost any moral high ground. My morals have not been shaken or questioned from this little exchange. It's good that you donate to charity. Even better that you use it to claim moral superiority. Guess every little win is very important to an incel.
1 warmestblack 2018-03-23
You stupid fucking moron. This post was to point out the retardation of the users at inceltears who like to virtue signal about the shit we say here even tho there are real life ppl being abused as i type this. Most of the women who were abused that i know of irl were from normies and chads. But a fuckin internet person post some mean things about girls and all of sudden the keyboard sjw come out to play. Ppl laugh at incels yes. But ppl have good reason to laugh sjw and beta male feminists.
1 Rubissrox 2018-03-23
As they should. If you're dumb you should be laughed and corrected to improve.
Also it's very retarded to expect people to actively fight a cause just because they are against it. You expect too much from people. I'm against rape but I won't spend time seeking out rapist to stop them. It's being realistic. I'm on a subreddit posting. You expect me to go out and change the world on my lunch break?
1 warmestblack 2018-03-23
Expecting too much from ppl? Expecting ppl (who claim moral high ground) to be morally consistent is expecting too much?
Lets see who can claim the most indifference when called out. We call that COPE boyo.
1 Rubissrox 2018-03-23
Expecting me to go out and volunteer? How bizarre.
1 warmestblack 2018-03-23
You are purposely being a dumbfuck
1 Rubissrox 2018-03-23
I'm sorry you lack the mental capacity to understand my rather simple point.
1 Carkudo 2018-03-23
It would also mean running afoul of a lot of their SJW "allies" too since actually standing up against such men would mean standing up against traditional male gender roles, and most 'progressive' women are all about that traditional macho masculinity.
1 Accomplished_Gene 2018-03-23
This is not only the hero we deserve. This is a hero we need. Celibate man.
1 ScionOfTheLion 2018-03-23
Slacktivism
1 derivur 2018-03-23
The first two should be reversed
1 khodor2012 2018-03-23
Euh what? Inceltears is about making fun of incel culture, why the hell do you expect them to criticise abusers; that's just not what the sub is about.
1 EvilBananaManRD 2018-03-23
That's what I criticized. Attractive dude does awful shit = no criticism. Unattractive dude says mean thing = targeted as the enemy.
1 khodor2012 2018-03-23
In what world do you live? "Attractive dudes doing awful shit" get all the (well deserved) hate in the world, but not on /r/inceltears because that just isn't the point of the sub. The two aren't mutually exclusive; you can be against domestic abuse like everyone and criticise people who think women owe them their body for no tangible reason
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1 EvilBananaManRD 2018-03-23
I have found NO users at r/IncelTears who are subscribed to r/DomesticViolence, r/EmotionalAbuse or any subreddit about helping people with those problems (BTW: those subreddits are poorly active, which is sad).
It's pure virtue signaling. Real problems aren't addressed while lonely men in their houses is apparently cancer.
But usually they don't. The sad truth is that physically attractive people get much better treatment from society than physically unattractive people.
1 froggyfrogfrog123 2018-03-23
“physically attractive people get much better treatment from society than physically unattractive people”
Huh... I thought it was only “physical attractive men” because all women get better treatment... silly science, it makes such big mistakes all the time! /s
1 EvilBananaManRD 2018-03-23
1 froggyfrogfrog123 2018-03-23
Oh that’s weird, because reading r/braincels regularly has taught me differently.
1 IncelSlayerZero 2018-03-23
You're totally right, it's actually all about cuckoldry, faggotry, and snitchery.
1 iamcopeless 2018-03-23
They don't even have a clue about incel culture.
1 LORD-THUNDERCUNT 2018-03-23
Gods plan
1 awe300 2018-03-23
I, for one, want to know why inceltears hasn't yet solved world hunger
1 Godhelpus1990 2018-03-23
You've taken two plus two and come up with nineteen there haven't you?
1 awe300 2018-03-23
You can't just use any proverb you've heard somewhere willy-nully
1 Godhelpus1990 2018-03-23
Not really a proverb is it...
And let's be honest, you've just stated that you wonder why a sub created to mock another sub full of socially retarded virgins hasn't solved world hunger. If you're allowed to make stuff up why can't I?
1 awe300 2018-03-23
It was a reaction to the not very bright idea that inceltears should somehow engage aggressive abusers in real life, because??
I'd also argue that you'd be hard pressed to find an inceltears poster who isn't strongly against abusive relationships.
1 Godhelpus1990 2018-03-23
That doesn't make what you said any less meaningless.
No you're right, we all completely support and practically deify those who choose to abuse their partners both mentally and physically.
1 Rosiebae 2018-03-23
What does this even mean
1 GeneticCleansing 2018-03-23
because you guys claim to not be making fun of lonely virgins. you claim to be champions of making the world a better place for foids. If the latter was true, you should have a track record to prove it. If not, then the default position is:
you're a pathetic person who is bullying lonely virgins for no good reason
1 awe300 2018-03-23
Lmao. No one is bullying lonely virgins. People are extremely concerned about a community that completely dehumanizes 50% of humanity, celebrates murder and abuse of that part of humanity, specifically celebrates some mass murderers, and actually celebrates when people commit suicide.
1 GeneticCleansing 2018-03-23
Objectively and verifiably false
Oh no, how dare us examine females from an objective standoint. We must be dehumanizing them.
nah
nah
also nah. In fact, it's IT posters that celebrate this one.
1 xtsv 2018-03-23
Exactly, it's as if they don't have enough things to be outraged about so they attack a bunch of autists saying mean things on the internet.
1 boopdelaboop 2018-03-23
It's not just the internet, and it's not an autist thing. I have several friends with various degrees of autism, met many more, and they wouldn't never treat other men and women that badly for their gender. Not badmouth them, nor treat them poorly to their face just for e.g. being handsome/pretty men/women (nor for being "ugly" such).
Especially if you're autistic, you're not going to be good at being an amazing actor who keeps their true feelings locked up deep deep inside except for when visiting one specific online forum. So even if they're autistic that doesn't mean it's limited to just online or that forum. It would take very socially skilled sociopaths (and expertise in faces - which is exactly the opposite of one of the hallmarks for autism) to fake "being decent people" daily around people except for when being online.
I'm not saying that bullying bullies is a good thing to do at all, but that people who are extremely vicious in their minds often constantly leak that attitude even when they don't mean to. That it isn't just an "online" thing. Neurotypical people can pick up on micro-expressions even without being consciously aware of that they did, so it isn't strange that very miserable people who exude hostility at others make others not want to be around them. This is not because of how they look in terms of bone structure and so on, but because of their behavior and body language. This doesn't mean that harassing them is good, but that is not the point I am addressing. I am addressing the misconception that it's "just online".
Even if it had been "just online" the internet stopped being inconsequential to "real life" like a decade ago.
1 EvilBananaManRD 2018-03-23
I have found NO users at r/IncelTears who are subscribed to r/DomesticViolence, r/EmotionalAbuse or any subreddit about helping people with those problems (BTW: those subreddits are poorly active, which is sad).
It's pure virtue signaling. Real problems aren't addressed while lonely men in their houses is apparently cancer.
1 Godhelpus1990 2018-03-23
Those problems are (or should be) dealt with by the law. I have enough faith in the British police force to leave them to it.
Also you guys are weird as shit and funny. It's like a zoo for retards, and I don't claim to be above laughing at retards from time to time.
1 EvilBananaManRD 2018-03-23
I wonder why would anyone be annoyed by this
1 Godhelpus1990 2018-03-23
...because it's offensive.
1 EvilBananaManRD 2018-03-23
Correct! You already display more logic behavior than all of r/IncelTears
1 Godhelpus1990 2018-03-23
I've just been called coherent by a maniac.
Hand me the rope.
1 bigantennaemay1 2018-03-23
The rope's not for you, degenerate scum.
1 Godhelpus1990 2018-03-23
See I'm relatively certain we're both degenerates in our own way. What's life without a little fun?
Either way, my degeneracy is probably enjoyed by a larger percentage of the population and isn't grounded in misfiring hatred and social maladjustment.
1 MozzerDozzer 2018-03-23
How about you lobby your government to be proactive with regards to domestic abuse? Most of Europe is better in this regard.
1 Godhelpus1990 2018-03-23
I already have a job.
1 MozzerDozzer 2018-03-23
Trawling these poor bastards?
1 Godhelpus1990 2018-03-23
There are many here I sympathise with, I realise not all incels are women hating retards who advocate rape. They're cool by me and they probably know who they are.
However, if you're offering payment to berate the rest I'll happily take up a second job. I could always do with some extra cash.
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-23
You're 26/27? Dude as someone the same age, you need to grow the fuck up.
1 Godhelpus1990 2018-03-23
I'm 28 (it's 2018).
I like to think I'll still have contempt for rape advocating maniacs with no self awareness in another ten years as well. I'd rather not regress with age.
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-23
you can tell yourself that this place advocates rape as much as you want, it doesn't make it true. hyperbole and reality are not the same thing.
2 Godhelpus1990 2018-03-23
I said before that I realise not all incels advocate rape.
Also the hyperbole not equalling reality thing is a lesson this sub needs as a sticky post.
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-23
you're just finding a reason to justify harassing a support group, to justify picking on people in tremendous pain. you're a piece of shit. you have no interest in understanding where these guys are coming from. this is how you seem to me.
BUT
you're from britain right? then you can't really understand why the black pill even exists. so much of what is posted is simply a counter to the brainwashing we get in the states. a lot of the frustration comes from being constantly lied to about how things actually work.
1 Godhelpus1990 2018-03-23
I've found many reasons to justify my own actions towards some people on this sub, going back to the days of r/incels when shit was really weird.
This is not a support group, this is a truly baleful echo chamber.
If you feel like society is lying to you that's fine, don't listen, create your own narrative. But if the narrative you've created tells you that all women are scum who hate men because of the way they look then you're lying to yourself.
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-23
again, you can't understand that it's satire of the hyperbolic propaganda we are fed until we become adults. i don't expect you to understand it because you didn't experience it. america is the most bluepilled country in the world.
1 Godhelpus1990 2018-03-23
It's not always satirical is it though?
The satirical posts here are often hilarious, I enjoy them greatly. However they're often (even some of the funny ones) unbelievably misinformed. And some are just insanity in meme form.
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-23
if you don't know what's being satirized, it's easy to think something isn't satire
1 Godhelpus1990 2018-03-23
I know satire when I see it. I also know sheer hatred when I see it.
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-23
you clearly don't
1 Godhelpus1990 2018-03-23
What am I missing?
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-23
https://www.np.reddit.com/r/IncelTears/comments/86jon4/what_the_actual_fuck/
classic example of someone not understanding the guy is criticizing women who stay with abusive partners
1 PM_ME_UR_FAV_QUOTE_ 2018-03-23
Are you oblivious to the fact that YOU make it that way?
1 Godhelpus1990 2018-03-23
I don't regurgitate the same ridiculous bullshit over and over again saying things like 'daily reminder all woman are out to see us suffer' or some other such nonsense.
How do I make it that way in your opinion?
1 PM_ME_UR_FAV_QUOTE_ 2018-03-23
By not leaving this place. When you come here to bully bullies nothing good comes from it. I should have said that you contribute some of the negativity in this forum.
1 Godhelpus1990 2018-03-23
Nothing good ever comes from this sub aside from pure meme potential
1 anincelforlifelol 2018-03-23
You're a true pathetic scrub.
1 Godhelpus1990 2018-03-23
Thanks hun
1 Regergek 2018-03-23
1 Lara_the_dog 2018-03-23
No. Because people in inceltears are just laughing and are on reddit for fun. Entertainment. Plus, you really went through all MEMBERS and looked at ALL the sub's they are in? Plus the domestic violence type of sub's are really mostly people posting for attention and empathy. Like all mental health stuff. That is just the reason.
1 lambcel 2018-03-23
"We're just here to laugh at you guys teehee", how shitty does your life have to be for this to be your main form of entertainment? Stacy is out with her friends, partying, shopping, fucking Chad, making memories. Yet what are you doing? Sitting on your fatass, lurking on obscure forums full of depressed suicidal virgins just to get a few laughs in your non-eventful boring ass life.
1 WhereIdIsEgoWillGo 2018-03-23
Be advised
A good chunk of r/inceltears are here to laugh, not to be champions of justice. We're to witness the toxicity some of you display, not be paladins of chivalry. It's strawmen like this that keep you in an echo-chamber like this one
And look at how well that worked out for you
1 EvilBananaManRD 2018-03-23
Aaaaaaand confirms my point.
1 geneticwaste43 2018-03-23
Ive never met a group of people dumber than IT LMFAO
1 just_for_the_record 2018-03-23
they're so fucking dumb it's not even funny
1 GeneticCleansing 2018-03-23
twoxchromosomes/trollxchromosomes comes close
1 geneticwaste43 2018-03-23
I mean they are women am I right?
1 MozzerDozzer 2018-03-23
You can't stop contradicting yourself, can you?
You can't have your cake and eat it too.
1 Idk12344482305 2018-03-23
you are really stupid as fuck, haha
1 geneticwaste43 2018-03-23
L O S E R S
1 Stupid_little_Incels 2018-03-23
All incel degenerates belong in the cross, dying in the sun for the sin of being born. Disgusting worms.
1 abbie_yoyo 2018-03-23
You've gotta face it: If you want peace here on reddit, you've got to have a private sub. People are never going to stop going for easy targets. And I'm not calling you that to be nasty. It's just that, you know, people are shitty sometimes. The other thing is that I can guarantee you that most of the IT people who come around to give you shit are males, and they are not exactly "killing it" in other areas of their lives. But rather than focus on themselves, they can persecute you guys because look here, somebody calling themselves incel said on this message board that women are whores and they should be raped. True, it wasn't these particular incels, but hey, they're all the same! Let's go virtue signal! I may have been dumped by every chick that's taken a chance on me, and maybe I am stuck in a deadend job and my bald spot is expanding daily, but at least I've been laid before!
It's lame, but it does happen and it won't stop. Personally I will miss this sub, not because I'm an incel but because I am a true anthropologist and I appreciate listening to the viewpoints of different demographics on modern life. I sub here, a few muslim subreddits, one christian one, the women's subs and the red pill. I just like hearing what people think. So this advice pains me. But truly, people won't stop taking the path of least resistance to feeling better. And it's much easier to criticize others than it is to look at yourself.
1 AutismoCircus 2018-03-23
You actually sound interested. Are there any questions you have?
1 abbie_yoyo 2018-03-23
Not exactly. I more just like to listen. Occasionally I pipe up to let you know that not all of us "normies" are the same. It's not like you guys vs us, two big monolithic groups full of people who are completely similar to the guy standing next to them.
I believe that the unpleasant truth is that much of life is decided by circumstance. Meaning, my personality and disposition are a result of my experiences in the world, and not simply inherent to me, like my eye color. And that if I was born looking less attractive, my experiences probably would have been very different and as a result I'd feel very differently about the world. I like to keep that in mind, as it reminds me to be more open and empathetic in life. And this sub serves that purpose. Sometimes I speak up, but mostly I just appreciate being here and remembering those things. Very, very often in life, if I find that I hate or deeply resent someone, it's because I'm not looking at them closely enough. Because when I do put aside ego, judgments, and hurt, I see that their disposition makes a lot more sense than it seemed at first, and that we're really not that different.
Whew! I'll climb down off my soapbox now. Sorry about that.
1 AutismoCircus 2018-03-23
That is still a lot better then what we usually get.
Yeah. The Sub is very hostile to outsiders. Sorry about that.
Don't be sorry. What you said is very true. It's just annoying that certain people believe that you can just flip around everything just by doing some simple stuff (which they think we don't already do).
I've found money to be the most important factor for a child apart from it's parents. If you are in a poor family you often don't get to do stuff the other kids get to do so you don't get to experience the same stuff with people of your age. Makes you kinda "Lacking" in later life.
1 abbie_yoyo 2018-03-23
Agreed. After a healthy family, and health in general, money is a huge factor in determining what kind of place the world will be.
1 GeneticCleansing 2018-03-23
this. All bluepilled normies and females should be banned on sight.
1 Crackcel 2018-03-23
That was actually the plan. Incels was private when it was banned.
1 Mest666 2018-03-23
Why do you care about those fags, let them rot in their sub
1 B45T4RD 2018-03-23
Yknow I bet if you guys just ignored inceltears you’d live much happier lives. Just cause they’re making fun of you doesn’t mean you have to pay attention.
1 bigantennaemay1 2018-03-23
If they stayed in their sub, this would be a perfectly reasonable solution to the problem. The problem is they don't stay in their sub. They come here, spouting virgin hate and blue-pilled nonsense, and don't get banned from this cucked sub for being degenerate wastes of time.
1 LeonardoDecockrio 2018-03-23
Inceltears can suck on my micropenis
1 Lara_the_dog 2018-03-23
Oh. Im pretty sure people are against both. Hate both. But domestic violence is just too serious to laugh at.
People making ridiculous mind bends so you are the victim and feeling entitled to sex is something that isn't as serious, and you can make fun of, because there isn't a victim.
1 anincelforlifelol 2018-03-23
Another moron talking about "Entitlement"? Learn what entitled actually is, you stupid bitch.
1 Lara_the_dog 2018-03-23
I said FEELING entitled. And i know it's definition.
Clever that you called me a bitch, since my name says i am a dog... Oh yeah. You probably didn't even see that.....
1 anincelforlifelol 2018-03-23
'Entitled' is a fairly meaningless word that does not accurately describe most of the incels on this sub or elsewhere on the Internet. On one extreme, the word 'entitled' is used to describe men how literally believe that they should be able to force women to date them. On the other extreme, the word 'entitled' is used to describe men who are merely frustrated or sad that they can't find anyone at all to date them. This type of frustration is reasonable, since sex and romantic relationships are regarded by many as one of the most fulfilling things in life. The problem with using the word 'entitled' for both categories of men is that it lumps them together, demonizing men in the latter category by comparing them to men in the former category. If you wish to criticize our views, please be more specific than merely calling us 'entitled.'
1 Lara_the_dog 2018-03-23
Oh i think it is very clear i was talking about the former category. And the latter as in don't whine about it. And make themselves the victim. And there not being any actual victim (this is not victim blaming at all. Because in the end. There is no person harming them, but themselves with their mindset)
I was only saying that the people look at it for ENTERTAINMENT. how is that actually criticism in any way?
And romantic relationships can only be meaningfull and fulfilling if you actually also love yourself and just like the other person. But it isn't as meaningful as the media makes it seem. Like at all...
1 anincelforlifelol 2018-03-23
Yup. After reading this you lost all credibility...not that you had anything to begin with. Time to put on your fake up and wear booty shirts outside along with your push up bra to make your small tits look bigger. After that you can come back on reddit and post how you felt objectified by men. I'm not an object!
1 Lara_the_dog 2018-03-23
How is they not getting sex, because of another person harming them?
And thanks that you think i am a slut like that! Well bye, i have to "demasculate" the guys in my boxing class a bit, since they cant keep the series up with me, since they all out of shape...
1 anincelforlifelol 2018-03-23
Because it isn't just about sex, you fucking idiot. Like I said women will never understand a damn thing what we go through.
Have fun object.
1 Lara_the_dog 2018-03-23
It is literally involuntarily celibate.
Oh so you also mean no friends and being misunderstood and people having certain expectations of you? Yeah im pretty sure everyone deals with that... Not just incels..
1 anincelforlifelol 2018-03-23
Holy shit. It's like talking to a brick wall. And people then wonder why the majority of us incels don't bother to actually explain our reasoning to normies/roasties anymore.
1 Lara_the_dog 2018-03-23
Well if you don't say it. Nobody will ever understand you.
People can't smell what you are thinking.
1 anincelforlifelol 2018-03-23
I'm tired of sounding like a broken record. It's not like you women will understand anything anyway. All you guys believe is "muh patriarchy".
1 Lara_the_dog 2018-03-23
So every woman is a fucking third wave feminist?!? Oof what hell are you living in. Cause it sounds like hell. I would have killed myself then already. So toxic
1 anincelforlifelol 2018-03-23
Most women, not every, and no women can never truly understand an incels' situation because our lives are completely different and our experiences are not even close to being related.
1 Lara_the_dog 2018-03-23
So incels are like special kind of snowflake? Completely unique experience to the rest of the world.
1 anincelforlifelol 2018-03-23
Yet again a moron who doesn't know what I'm saying.
1 bigantennaemay1 2018-03-23
Yes, and sex and relationships are totally mutually exclusive concepts. In fact, it's that belief of the two being so separate that has led this society into the degeneracy that's destroying it today.
Get lost, degenerate.
1 Mr-5-5 2018-03-23
that's because women know their only value and manipulation tools are sex.
1 VonMagnar 2018-03-23
And when Stagetail (I.e. a victim of said mockery) seemingly hung himself, dickheads like you were nowhere to be found. I wonder why.
1 Lara_the_dog 2018-03-23
Hey. I am sorry to break it to you, but that is probably why they are not getting laid. Because of whining and bitching. You think feminists get laid, by other people than the male feminists and well other feminist women.? No. Not at all. Unless they are only loud about it on places like tumblr and not like IRL. It is an unattractive trait, for anyone to have. That isn't a secret. And yeah if you are depressed and suicidal, as like an actual mental illness and not because of getting no sex and making yourself feel worthless because of it. You wont get people to like you! For love, you need to at least like yourself. How could you ever expect someone to love you, or find you attractive when you hate yourself and constantly whine about it! This is for everyone. Not just the incels (which is apparently impossible to be if you are a girl. Even tho females actually do have a sex drive too. But no! Only guys can be a virgin when they don't want to be!)
And "not every incel is hate full" of course not. But then they are still whining and saying it is unfair and out of their control and that it isn't their fault they cant get laid (which it isn't completely. You can't be blamed for everything in life going easy and then sucking at relationships and getting a flawed sense of reality.)
1 VonMagnar 2018-03-23
Congratulations, this has absolutely nothing to do with what I said.
And so this is your justification for getting to shit on all off them. K.
1 Lara_the_dog 2018-03-23
Oh so like they are getting to shit on all women. Well those that don't fuck them, and all men that do have charisma and get sex? Or that you don't actually hate on all teachers when you say "ugh. Teachers are so annoying/mean/stupid etc".
You know pretty damn well that i am talking about a group, and i hate to break it to you. But they carry the same label as the silent (this is a requirement) not hatefull guys who just don't have the social skills to get themselves a gf. And the loud people represent the group and therefore the label. Only the group "women" is a bit too large to do that for, because it is literally half of the population. And incels is not. Because you are only an incel if you actually not blame your own poor social skills, dont work to improve those genuinely and don't feel bad or sorry about you not having sex. It is their life, they take responsibility.
1 VonMagnar 2018-03-23
Nice generalization.
Keep justifying you being a shitty person :)
1 Lara_the_dog 2018-03-23
Nice. Only reacting to a small part, and not the entire thing. Really shows you are strong an not afraid that you cant beat the actual argument i am making.
Keep being a shitty debater.
1 VonMagnar 2018-03-23
1 Lara_the_dog 2018-03-23
My argument. Well actual insight to you guys that hey, it is entertainment is a straw man? How.... Like how is a person actually abusing another person not funny, while people laugh at, a fact people who whine about their conditions and blame everything but themselves.
1 VonMagnar 2018-03-23
Congratufuckinglations, I'm not talking about those.
Fuck off.
1 Lara_the_dog 2018-03-23
Oh so what is at fault then? What is it for you for instance?
1 VonMagnar 2018-03-23
You might want to try reading my flair.
1 FEDORA_GOD 2018-03-23
I think the general consensus is nobody is directly at fault and life is just shit and unfair for most people on Earth.
1 apx24 2018-03-23
Which self-help site did you copy/paste this from?
1 bs310 2018-03-23
I thought that was faked?
1 VonMagnar 2018-03-23
All we have to work with is his post, and he has yet to come back if he's still alive.
And having read the post and knowing his circumstances...well, it ain't pretty. That's why I said seemingly, we have nothing else. The faked bit was started by an IT user being a twat, as always.
1 PhucCheet 2018-03-23
Then why do these people allocate so much of their time policing incels and none dealing with the far greater problem of domestic violence and rape committed by other people?
Actually, I think I know the answer. Most millenials are too impulse-oriented and whimsical and directionless to effectively spend time on missions and fixing real world problems. It's easier to get lost reacting to stupid things on the internet.
Very few if any of these IT cucks are doing anything meaningful and impactful to make the world a better place. Just virtue signalling and cope.
1 KufoIV 2018-03-23
no they aren't. people laugh when women hit men. a women can hit a man in the face, and if he pushes her back. You got about 20 white knights rushing in to save m'lady and jump the guy.
GTFO here with that bullshit
1 EvilBananaManRD 2018-03-23
I just checked r/IncelTears and there the post is. They didn't even read these comments, of course. None of them even addressed the points here made.
One user said my point didn't make sense (and did NOT explain why not)
Some user started talking about BDSM (what does that even have to do with this?)
Some user even made a psychological diagnosis
Other user brought up domestic violence against men, said we don't care about it (wat?) in a strange attempt to change the subject
As always, no points, all hypocrisy.
1 B45T4RD 2018-03-23
Maybe because there were no points made in the meme?
1 sc2isadeadgame 2018-03-23
not to sound like a feminist, but domestic violence affects women way more than it does men
1 EvilBananaManRD 2018-03-23
True. In my home country many more women are murdered by their male partners than the other way around.
1 KufoIV 2018-03-23
how is that possible? They are stronk independant women who are most certainly tougher than men in every way. Why doesn't she just bust some martial arts out and one two his ass? Aren't all women super tough and badass?
1 PM_ME_UR_FAV_QUOTE_ 2018-03-23
More than 200 studies have found that men and women petpetrate partner violence at approximately equal rates and that the most prevalent pattern is mutual violence (Archer, 2002; Fiebert, 2004). Moreover, when it is not mutual, female-only and male~only partner violence occur with about equal frequency among married couples (K. L. Anderson, 2002; Capaldi & Owen, 2001; Gelles & Straus, 1988; Kessler, Molnar, Feurer, & Appelbaum, 2001; McCarroll, Ursano, Fan, & Newby, 2004; Medeiros & Straus, 2007; Moffitt, Caspi, Rutter, & Silva, 2001; Straus, Gelles, & Steinmetz, 2006; Williams & Frieze, 2005). Among young couples and dating couples, the percentage of female-only partner violence exceeds the percentage of maleonly partner violence (Straus & Ramirez, 2007; Whitaker, Haileyesus, Swahn, & Saltzman, 2007). This pattern of gender symmetry is true even for severe partner violence, such as kicking, attacks with objects, and choking.
1 sc2isadeadgame 2018-03-23
my point was that women are far more likely to be the victims of violence
1 PM_ME_UR_FAV_QUOTE_ 2018-03-23
That isn't true.
1 sc2isadeadgame 2018-03-23
http://www.mankind.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2015/05/30-Key-Facts-Male-Victims-Mar-2016.pdf
this is from a site about male victims of domestic violence btw
why the fuck am i even doing this, this is literally because i can't bear to lose an argument
fuck you for being an MRA btw
1 PM_ME_UR_FAV_QUOTE_ 2018-03-23
What is wrong with you man? Just because I'm challenging false facts doesn't mean I'm an MRA. You must be too pussywhipped to realize that. I'm just having a discussion because I often see this spouted off as true when it isn't.
It's not like you just won one. If you actually want to win one you're going to need to point something out that specifically proves that women are drastically abused more often than men. No need to be an uncivil douce. Makes sense why you're not mod anymore, you can't keep your cool.
1 sc2isadeadgame 2018-03-23
"For every three victims of domestic abuse, two will be female, one will be male."
i got mod back 4 days after i lost it lol
1 PM_ME_UR_FAV_QUOTE_ 2018-03-23
I'm not sure how 2/3 is way more than 1/3. Maybe you and I attribute a different meaning to the difference. Anyways, I think we've reached the end of this discussion m'gentle sir. Good day.
1 sc2isadeadgame 2018-03-23
66.6% is literally double 33.3% lol
this counts as spam
1 bigantennaemay1 2018-03-23
Probably as reported. In true numbers, though, I highly doubt it. Imagine as a man, "your" woman is beating you; would you really want to share that with anyone?
1 sc2isadeadgame 2018-03-23
i'd call the cops on a woman if she hit me without hesitation
1 bigantennaemay1 2018-03-23
I would, too. But I'm pretty sure we are the minority.
1 PROLAPSED_SUBWOOFER 2018-03-23
Read as: doesn't fit my worldview
JFL @ IncelTards armchair shrinks.
Deflection from getting BTFO.
1 Involuntarily 2018-03-23
Why are you on there? They is no good content
1 boopdelaboop 2018-03-23
I came here before I went there. You guys made me curious about if it was on there, and so it was. I'll address the points for you:
Panels 1 & 2) You can do both, and even only the former. I have put money and time into the former, including "in real life". 3&4) You can do both, and I have frequently spoken out against the former (including DV towards men) and the latter, and done what I can "IRL".
5&6) Unless the "virgin in his room" is a recluse shut-in, they too have plenty of opportunities to to cause various degrees of harm. Causing harm to people is not something limited to e.g. "'roidbergs". You can be a scrawny girl and still regularly abuse a muscular manly man. That does not make the man any less of a man, and that doesn't make the harm made by his abuser any less real. Harm unfortunately is not something only a certain physical build of person can cause.
1 throwaway4546474850 2018-03-23
incels in denial
1 FEDORA_GOD 2018-03-23
It's over for /r/IncelTears.
1 PROLAPSED_SUBWOOFER 2018-03-23
It never even began for those cucks.
1 KufoIV 2018-03-23
I'm backk!!!!!!!
LET THE HOLY CRUSADE CONTINUE
1 SnowMan878 2018-03-23
hahahahha nice
1 AntiAbleism 2018-03-23
Saving mi’lady is the only thing they care about.
1 DiscombobulatedLake 2018-03-23
IT user admits that IT isn't really meant to shame misogyny or police shitty behavior - it is literally meant to laugh at suicidal people.
1 EvilBananaManRD 2018-03-23
Many people in r/Braincels said r/IncelTears is a bunch of virgins laughing at another bunch of virgins. Apparently it's true.
1 Daensa 2018-03-23
A Concept. Or maybe... women denounce... all of the men in this post.
No one cares that you’re an unattractive virgin, incels. We care when you and every other disgusting men out there act like douchebags. Your toxic ideas about women, sex, and relationships are why you’re alone. Your face has nothing to do with it.
1 EvilBananaManRD 2018-03-23
You really haven't read all the cases of physical abuse and verbal disrespect from good looking men that Incels share.
I've seen the worst shit in person. Football jock beats girlfriend? No problem, she's going back to him every day cause he's HAWT. Uncle abuses aunt? No problem, he's tall and handsome. Classmate who does boxing sends Down-syndrome classmate to the hospital? Still bangs 3 girls over the next week (not fucking joking).
Respectful Incel = never gets laid.
Asshole Incel = never gets laid.
Respectful "Chad" = always succeeds.
Asshole "Chad" = always succeeds.
Oh how I wish that were the truth. But that is just the most delusional thing I've read all day.
Also, do you even read the studies that people share here?
1 Daensa 2018-03-23
You’re a complete idiot and a prick, at that. I got out of an abusive relationship seven months ago. He has become a pariah on campus because other women recognize what he did to me and to his other ex-girlfriend (who stepped forward when she found out about it).
You have not ‘seen the worst shit’. I lived it for almost a year. I was terrified of him hurting me, but when I finally got out, I never looked back. I never went back to him. The things people share here are not ‘studies’ - it’s a bunch of delusional virgins who think that the worst thing that could ever happen to them is not having sex.
1 GrinchBear 2018-03-23
Okay you guys know that the general concensus of just about everybody is "domestic abuse is bad" and therefore doesn't need regular updates on the fact...right?
1 BF8211 2018-03-23
Yes, we know it’s bad. Nobody is arguing that it isn’t.
1 GrinchBear 2018-03-23
So I think it stands to reason that in a subreddit pretty much dedicated to pointing and laughing st the worst or most cringe worthy posts from incels, that domestic abuse isn't really going to be on the front page unless there's a post on this subreddit somehow condoning it. To be honest with a few of the posts I've seen , satire or not, that wouldn't come as a surprise. Still, there exists a subreddit for domestic abuse , I'm sure of that, it just isn't IT
1 Godhelpus1990 2018-03-23
I already have a job.
1 VonMagnar 2018-03-23