Amen?

35  2018-03-22 by changeIsTheWay

63 comments

No

I mean, I use this test just so I don't waste my time. But when I catch somebody trying to give me a fake number, I just leave them alone. Abruptly. Don't want to waste more of my time, don't want to make them uncomfortable, don't want to end up spending money on somebody I'll never see again.

Not cool to give fake numbers.

Why?

“Here’s my number” is a much easier rejection than “Leave me alone.”

Why not make a nicer rejection.

It’s not a woman’s job to be kind to men who are bothering her.

Being kind gets you a lot farther than being a bitch.

Maybe, but at this point she doesn’t want to go any further.

Picking up on the body language and overall disinterest in women is kind too, but men often ignore those signals and press her to be blunt.

In my mind being blunt is the opposite of giving a fake number.

Then reject him. I fail to see how giving a fake number is not an attempt at being kind

"bothering her"

cucktears: oh i bet incels have never even asked anyone out

cucktears: asking people out is bothering them

cucktears: it's not a woman's job to be kind

cucktears: if only incels were kind and nice with good personalities, then they could find a partner

I’ve asked out hundreds of women and been on dates with plenty. If she’s putting out “fuck off” vibes, just leave her alone.

Asking out a woman who clearly isn’t interested is creepy.

Asking out a woman who clearly isn’t interested is creepy.

cucktears: you never know until you try

I honestly don’t know what a cucktears is or why you keep saying it.

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She never gives chad "fuck off eyes" in fact she EYE FUCKS chad, so he gets the hint to dump his cum in her.

It's called basic decency you dumb shit. Nobody is asking the woman to suck their dick but at least just be polite and don't be a cunt when turning someone down. I may not be an incel anymore but whenever I have a fatty or even a gay man hitting on me, I always turn them down politely.

that's most pathetic rejection ever, never experienced it and I'm master of rejection

Why not be honest instead of being a little bitch?

Because a lot of people don't take no for an answer.

Yeah a fake number means they think you won't take no for an answer.

She's not wrong OP... why would you want to keep bothering someone who is not interested in you? i was given a fake number once and just felt embarrassed and didn't ever want to run into her again because i'd feel even more embarrassed.

I’d rather have a no

So would I, trust me. Getting ghosted and being given fake numbers destroys your soul.

That said, there's nothing to gain from confronting a woman who doesn't want you. It'll be awkward at best and downright ugly at worst.

I wouldn't confront though. I'd just say "ok" and move on...

It's so that you don't waste your time trying to text a fake number

or just leave them alone because they don't want to be within 100 feet of you.

So we shouldn't try? Don't get it.

you can tell if a girl doesn't like you very easily.

that's when you have a subset who likes you...

You can't if you don't have a control group of women who are interested in you to compare it to.

you do..... you always have the fat lonely annoying chick desperate for attention who we bring to pig parties.

Who are also not interested in me.

lmao that are so desperate they would fuck some dude with a small penis...... not to mention they cum waterfalls if you just mildly touch them sexually.

You underestimate my ugliness

you underestimate their desperation.

So giving fake digits to a guy is OK but a guy catfishing as Chad is not? Makes sense.

haan sab bakwas hain.

Poison the well. I encourage every single one of you my incel brothers to create a Chadfish online dating account and lead women on. It also helps you with your social skills somewhat to chat with girls.

Or have some bawls and say no, maybe? Not every guy is going to punch you in the cunt after saying no lol.

Yup

Or you could just tell the guy that you aren't interested? Why the fuck do women feel the need to give men false hope?

Women are weird

Yeah, they're completely illogical beings.

Ah yes, my bad for forgetting that all men are violent rapists. Shame on me.

It only takes one dude.

Why should she risk her safety for a strangers feelings?

I honestly highly doubt that their first fear when rejecting a male is getting glassed. Anyway what's stopping the guy from glassing her when she gives him a fake number? All it would do is delay the outcome.

Alright mr logic man.

I honestly highly doubt that their first fear when rejecting a male is getting glassed.

It doesn't have to be glassed. People are followed. Have you ever been followed? Its terrifying. Makes you feel unsafe in you're own city.

Just any level of discomfort she might feel, is not worth his feelings.

Anyway what's stopping the guy from glassing her when she gives him a fake number? All it would do is delay the outcome.

Usually, you'd hope, they'd get over it before going back to the bar. They're hoping they wont have to interact with the guy again.

And even if they're only delaying, how is that a bad strategy? How is giving yourself time A BAD IDEA.

I see some people on here saying they should be "chad fishing'', why don't you try the opposite? Make a beautiful girl profile and then kindly reject men. Record the responses. See how well they take it.

Do the same thing with a handsome guy on grindr. Just, not answer people. See how quickly the compliments devolve into insults.

I dare you.

Most women are assaulted by their partners. Their partner is their biggest danger.

I don’t think it’s fair they feel danger from anyone.

I don’t feel that same fear. I don’t struggle with leaving an emotionally abusive spouse. I don’t struggle with rejecting people or being curt.

It’s a cultural problem

I fucking hate these games women play. They lay out their stupid little hints, and when men don't bite, it's "oh why are men do dim", but when they do bite and the women don't want to anymore, it's rape. It gives them plausible deniability while still offering sex.

I hate that they have such power over men. It disgusts me. If a woman offers sex, it doesn't matter if she regrets it, she was consenting. Should've thought about it before instead of letting your emotions make decisions for you.

letting your emotions make decisions for you.

Thats what you're doing right now dude.

What decisions am I making

You made the decisions to be frustrated and bitter.

You can’t change what happens, just how you react to it, and how we react to it is entirely up to us.

If you were really into logic, you’d see the futility of this behavior but you’re being driven by emotion.

You’re a creature of emotion, we all are. It’s nothing to be ashamed of.

No. Depression is not an emotion, and I know this is all futile. Letting your emotions take control of your actions is so stupid. Only a brainlet would do a such thing

Letting your emotions take control of your actions is so stupid

Its how we all are man.

No one is saying that these little things can cure clinical depression.

It does make it easier to cope with though. Little things like tidying up your place, smiling at 1 person every hour of the day or going for a run. It really brings you up.

Even listening to a nice song every morning. Open your blinds. Literally, the ones on your windows. Let the sun in!

Didn't know I was on fucking r/suicidewatch. Thank you counselor I'll be back next week same time alright?

I’m here whenever you need to talk.

Cope

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Alright mr logic man.

I honestly highly doubt that their first fear when rejecting a male is getting glassed.

It doesn't have to be glassed. People are followed. Have you ever been followed? Its terrifying. Makes you feel unsafe in you're own city.

Just any level of discomfort she might feel, is not worth his feelings.

Anyway what's stopping the guy from glassing her when she gives him a fake number? All it would do is delay the outcome.

Usually, you'd hope, they'd get over it before going back to the bar. They're hoping they wont have to interact with the guy again.

And even if they're only delaying, how is that a bad strategy? How is giving yourself time A BAD IDEA.

I see some people on here saying they should be "chad fishing'', why don't you try the opposite? Make a beautiful girl profile and then kindly reject men. Record the responses. See how well they take it.

Do the same thing with a handsome guy on grindr. Just, not answer people. See how quickly the compliments devolve into insults.

I dare you.

You made the decisions to be frustrated and bitter.

You can’t change what happens, just how you react to it, and how we react to it is entirely up to us.

If you were really into logic, you’d see the futility of this behavior but you’re being driven by emotion.

You’re a creature of emotion, we all are. It’s nothing to be ashamed of.