Literally 3 minutes ago I got a tinder message from a pretty good looking woman "Do you go on dates?". Help me braincels what do I say back. Chads and Normans what would you say?

She knows, tell the truth.

She's objectively good looking. What truth does she know??

She knows you don't go on dates. That's not a normal question she asks.

I don't but she can't know yet there's no way

blow me cuck

wait to reply like a 30min-1hr. then reply "yea lol". Run oblivious chad game.

I think i'm gonna try that

if she's an idiot after she replies say" y you want one lol? with eye emojis".

I'll let you know how it goes

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They know exactly what they are doing; they have it planned out. That includes all the thought out excuses in case we ask for sex, or we are woke about their intention.

it's pretty sick to go on a forum for lonely and desperate men and goad them on

It's almost like they actually want us to rope, right?

At least they could've had the decency to tell me why I got ghosted. I just have no idea, and I hate it. Wary of all of them.

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Rope is the only way for you. What the fuck are you waiting for?

Yea I edited because I wasn’t clear originally. Fuck the cum infested stupid whore

They then proceed to ghost you

This happened to me several times. I thought I had made a new friend but nope. These inceltears women ghosted me hard. I don't even know why they even bothered giving me their #/adding me on discord if they were just gonna immediately ghost me afterwards lol

Every single girl I've shown my picture to has either gone silent or didn't comment on my looks at all. That's confirmation enough that I'm ugly as sin.

Roastie always ghostie.

god this post is so stupid. grow the fuck up

check my post history

Cute, a fourteen year old who's mommy let him use the computer.

That's not very nice. You could really hurt someone's feelings.

why would you tell this to someone who his life probleme is he cant find a gf ? are you dumb?

i didn't say that, did i?

This is why youre fat

Meh, no need to blame the roasties, at the end, they can't understand what we live. It's like asking a blind man how to make the Mona Lisa.

It's not like blind self righteouness is exclusive to dumb roasties. See all political subs here.

"Do what they're doing"

They're not doing anything to you.

They don't try. They virtue signal

This is one of the reasons people make fun of you lot. Just because a girl talks to you for a bit doesn't mean she is required to have any desire to have a relationship with you. In many situations the opposite sex are just friends. Statistically the vast majority of the opposite sex aren't going to be interested in sleeping with you. When I worked in retail the girls outnumbered the guys 6 to 2. That doesn't mean each of the guys got 3 "femoids" to fuck. It meant that 8 people shared a workplace and because you spend 8 hours a day 5 days a week together you become friends. I'm 30kg overweight and average looking at best even before the extra weight. The other guy I worked with was what you would consider a Chad. You know what's funny, neither of us had sex with any of the girls we worked with. Not all women are sluts who "want chads cock" and all you do on this sub is cherry pick examples that "prove your point" and instead of identifying them for what they are you claim it as proof that will women behave that way. Your worse than bloody flat earthers!

Okay.... so first off I was one of the males.... second I had no desire to fuck any of the girls I worked with. I know this is hard for you to understand but you don't have to fuck everything that isn't nailed down. I left that job 3 years ago and even though I only really talk to 4 of the girls on Facebook now I still see 2 of them now and then for coffee or a movie. You will call this anecdotal but the truth is most normal mentally healthy men don't just see every woman as a hole to stick their dick in. One of the reasons you have so much trouble with women is because you don't see them as people

Preach

Lord Jesus I see the light! Maybe women aren't all the devil. Maybe I am just a stain on humanity. Maybe instead of going on about how injust the world is I should get off Reddit and deal with my issues. Can I get an amen?! Oh wait fuck that you will just go back to bitching in a giant circlejerk because it's easier than admitting your the problem not society.... amen?

yeah dude and its fun to act retarded eventually you become that way tho

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A fair portion of my friends are women. I wouldn't mind a romp with around a quarter of them. I'd only actually date one or two.

Could've had a Snickers, brotini.

Well said man.

This is why people make fun of incels.

Like we give a shit. Fuck you and your friends.

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even though we have long conversations.

This is not a sign that she is into you. I have long conversations with my mates. I don't want to bang my mates. Or my shrink. Or my lecturer.

What, exactly, am I ignoring?

Doesn't sound to me like you've been lead on. I've been lead on, and it sucks. Lots of girls looking for free pot cus they have tits, I smoke medically and am a frequent target of these scams, not that I usually fall for them.

It sounds to me like you are misinterpreting social cues. Which is understandable - I'm autistic - I get it a lot more than you probably think I do. What you see as flirty, girls just see as being friendly. When a girl is openly emotional around a man it creates some confusion - men only engage emotionally with their partners (most of the time, western socialisation and all), while women are taught to engage emotionally with everybody.

That last sentence just explained to me why you get ghosted. I understand now, although I doubt you get ghosted for the reasons you think you do.

Because you look down on, and objectify, the people you are looking to date.

I'm autistic. I'm pretty used to people looking down on me for what I am. And it's soooooooo fucking obvious when people do it, if you know what to look for. Little things like word choice, or adopting a softer and more neutral tone when they speak to you. The way they invade your personal space, or the way they give you instructions. The look of boredom in their eyes while they laugh along to the conversation they asked you to have, as if its some sort of charity.

I'm autistic, and I pick up on that kind of shit. Which means she definitely will.

Used to be an incel. Used to post in incel spaces pretty much constantly, once upon a time in another life.

See - you've described this woman to me and all I know about her is what she might look like. I don't know anything else about her, because the only thing you care about is how she looks. She likely takes exception to dating somebody who views her as an ambulatory fleshlight.

Nah, women are just as judgemental as men at times. I've had people tell me that I'm not worth dating because I'm disabled, and I just brush those people off.

Right then. Well if you really like that "Fucking Bitch" - tell me something about her. Go on. Lets see you prove me wrong.

Sounds more like can't than won't.

Its not baseless. I set you a pathetically easy test, one that would allow you to prove me wrong, and you refused out of principal. Hell, you could have just lied and told me she loves cooking and hiking. I'd have gone with it because I don't have another option.

People only do that when they are worried that they can't pass the test. You've been trying to prove me wrong all night, and now that you can't, you're suddenly quiet. Suspicious, no?

More excuses. Still just sounds like you were running after a bird you thought you could get with no concern for the girl in question.

Then prove me wrong. I'm not part of your echo-chamber anymore, the usual incel bullshit doesn't work on me. It used to. Not anymore.

So go on. Show me up. Win a great victory for incel kind.

If you really can't see how blatantly people here are trying to manipulate you, you're a fool.

The posts in this sub-reddit have all the markings of cult indoctrination.

Got further than you. I'm not stuck on a development milestone most people have passed by age 20, you are.

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Also refered as ”friends”, ever heard of that before? Fun fact. If you put a space between girlfriend, you get a , girl friend.

Sex-starves fuck.

Friends don’t ghost.

They are sociopaths. Roastie always ghostie. AWALT

They do it because then they feel better about themselves. It's like if they could fix some of the damage they do to the other sub8 subhumans irl by being nice with you via online.

And it's perfect because no sex is involved.

Nailed it.

Oof, uh maybe your paranoia in regards to human interaction and your insecurities are the things that are holding you back from just... Accepting that people might not want to bang you? Uh

I mean, yes. People give negative feedback but uh... Your brain is the one that transduces and subsequently interprets the stimuli? Habituation is a thing, that's how I survived high school. :^ )

Uh... No actually I survived high school by ignoring bullies? I didn't have any friends or romantic relationships. I was the kind of kid to rat people out for cheating. Think of a beige wallpaper. Bland and dull right? Yeah, that is the perfect descriptor of me in high school. If I blamed other people for my isolation I'd be in your place. However, instead of primarily using a primary locus of control (i.e., where one makes a conscious effort to gain a sense of control over surroundings), I coped with a secondary locus (i.e., I altered myself in order to adapt to the environment).

Again, habituation (becoming accustomed to stimuli, positive or not) is where it's at!

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I wouldn't bother. Incels are incapable of actually taking feedback and are so delusional that they cannot see any fault with themselves. It's always the "genetics". An incel can do no wrong, they are always a victim.

Such an attractive quality. No wonder women are lining up- Oh. Right. The genetics.

Almost everyone who comes here isn't ready to accept different opinions, incels and normies alike. Incel knows exactly whats wrong with themselves are you fucking retarded.

"Genetics" right.

Yeah there's more but incels, as far as I can tell, don't appear to be ready and would rather wallow in self-pity than look at themselves objectively.

It all comes down to cope or rope but most people would rather incels rope

Most incels more like. I rarely see any incel posting about suicide and being enabled by "normies". It's usually the incels who glorify it.

Not directly telling someone to neck themselves as that looks bad it's the constant kicking of half dead horses

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I hate you so much you stupid bitch

Looks like someone didn't get their nap!

Oof, I didn't even say anything insulting, lol.

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Sexless relationships with femoids are insult to any man

This so much. They have one purpose.

The difference between a friend and a boy/girlfriend is looks. If you get along great as friends why wouldn't you be a great couple? Because she is not attracted to you. I have some female friends that that are just friends because I am not attracted to them. If someone likes you as a friend but not as a boyfriend its because they think you are ugly.

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I've been in this exact situation and for me it took awhile to realize I had feelings for him. Once you figure that out appearance means less and less.

Wow. Brutal blackpill

i talked to a lot of my fangirls over at r/incels every incel had fangirls it was insane.

they're largely very boring and only post here for attention, i don't think you're missing anything

What do they really get out of acting like something theyre not on here? Weird.

I talked to a woman on snapchat. She seems nice.

That’s great! I’m proud of you! I don’t know you obviously but I’m happy for you!

Oh my god. This is pathetic

See I could be offended by that insult and insult you but since you're an incel I dont really have the time. Yall incels are gonna die off anyway since you cant get a women to fuck you so bye. Hope one day you get a grip

at least you’re an honest femoid and you’re acting like one should without all the deceit. but anyways, if you disapprove of us so much then don’t waste your time here trying to convince yourself you’re more mentally and intellectually grounded than us. you may be biologically superior but that doesn’t stop you from being a bitch.

Hahah oh god

Have you ever thought maybe it isnt your looks that repel women but rather your personality or because your entire incel group treat women like sex objects. Just a thought

no. im not as rude and aggressive in actual life. I try my HARDEST to be nice and outgoing, yet it has ALWAYS failed me when it comes to having a beyond-friendship relationship. No, I am not socially awkward or a creep or a neckbeard. On the outside, personality-wise, I’m normal. It is my fucking looks. That’s why I use the internet to anonymously rant and spew my stress. Please, if you hate us so much, just go, or don’t comment.

You just called me a femoid?

'Actual life'? So... what... you happen to die when you browse Reddit? Or is it possible 'actual life' includes how you behave online and it is totally a reflection of who you actually are? Or does your behavior not count when you're sat behind a screen?

I mean, i get it. You don't want to admit you act like a cunt so you justify it as 'not real' when you do it online. Except, of course, it is real. Real things said. To real people. With real emotion attached to your real actions. And your very real thoughts and wanton behaviors are in your head, whether you pretend to be nice or not. And it is pretence. You're not pretending to be incel when you're online, you're pretending NOT to be incel in 'actual life'.

Luckily, the majority of communication done face to face is none-verbal. If you have shitty thoughts, you're going to have shitty behavior, and people are going to realise that pretty damn fast. If you have shitty confidence (which i'm pretty sure you do), again, people are going to notice pretty damn fast. And if you are having to 'try' to be nice, god damn, but people are going to notice that too.

I have talked with a couple people here but they only message once or twice. I'd talk more but you guys don't want to. I'd even try not to do the whole pep talk.

How can you possibly argue that personality matters when you're being an absolute asshole right now?

Incel stands for involuntary celibate its in the name

Im also not talking to you at all im talking to the sexist op and the pos defending him. Im not trying to attack you but incels are a group of men that complain about not getting sex and as a whole, sexist and always putting the blame on everyone but them.

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Ill admit it was a bit to far but still dont agree with this post or to be honest, the way this community acts towards women

Shut the fuck up. Bitch.

Awww playground insults. Im not going to reply anymore. Goodbye

Good, fuck off.

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No, they’re right. This is pathetic.

I am.

You're so self entitled you feel like every girl who tries to befriend you should want to fuck you. This is why r/IncelTears exists.

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Usually this sub makes me laugh, this is actually just sad. I actually feel sorry for you OP.

God is dead

Looking for girls on Reddit > Looking literally anywhere else

This just gave me cancer.

It's a dream come true.

Maaaaaaaaybe it's because they never met you in person? And people don't usually invest that much time or energy in online relationships?

The ultimate cope is misinterpreting the sentences I translated for you bc the alternative is admitting you've been digging yourself into a hole.

I don't have to cope, bro. I'm watching this shitshow from the other side of the fence. Let me tell you: girls talk about this shit at sleepovers. Most of them are not nearly as nuts as incels believe.

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Two chicks fell in love with my personality, sent me long long messages, asking to meet up, asking for my photos, telling me they love me now and won’t leave me just because they see my photo. So I send them my photos and they ghost me after that, every time.

where did you meet them?

They're here for damage control. To them, it just doesn't make sense that there are men out there that despise women for their deception, their lies, and for generally being awful excuses for human beings. Society let's these cretins get away with far too much.

To all the virtual signaling cunts: fuck off.

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Ask to meet for a coffee basically right away. Ask at the latest by the second date. Don't waste your time chatting up a chick who most likely won't smash anyway.

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check my post history

Cute, a fourteen year old who's mommy let him use the computer.

Almost everyone who comes here isn't ready to accept different opinions, incels and normies alike. Incel knows exactly whats wrong with themselves are you fucking retarded.

"Genetics" right.

Yeah there's more but incels, as far as I can tell, don't appear to be ready and would rather wallow in self-pity than look at themselves objectively.

If you really can't see how blatantly people here are trying to manipulate you, you're a fool.

The posts in this sub-reddit have all the markings of cult indoctrination.

Not directly telling someone to neck themselves as that looks bad it's the constant kicking of half dead horses

See I could be offended by that insult and insult you but since you're an incel I dont really have the time. Yall incels are gonna die off anyway since you cant get a women to fuck you so bye. Hope one day you get a grip

Incel stands for involuntary celibate its in the name

Im also not talking to you at all im talking to the sexist op and the pos defending him. Im not trying to attack you but incels are a group of men that complain about not getting sex and as a whole, sexist and always putting the blame on everyone but them.

Ill admit it was a bit to far but still dont agree with this post or to be honest, the way this community acts towards women

No, they’re right. This is pathetic.

You're so self entitled you feel like every girl who tries to befriend you should want to fuck you. This is why r/IncelTears exists.

The ultimate cope is misinterpreting the sentences I translated for you bc the alternative is admitting you've been digging yourself into a hole.

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