Reminder that no matter how maxxed out you are, there's people who naturally look better than you - such as Chad - and that even if you were to get a gf, the second you let your guard down and slip up with the looksmaxxing, Chad will cuck you.
Unless you truly find the one (and even then you're still at risk), which honestly nowadays its borderline impossible, you will never be able to win.
Definitely, but honestly if she's physically attracted to you and you are holding it down with her, she usually won't stray until you do something stupid, like cheating yourself.
I know it is cope because i get iou's from couples in public who're 2-3 looks points behind me. And that is when they actually have a man with them, f*ck knows how it would be normally.
The leaders of the ideology are essentially setting up a pyramid cuck scam
If some rich guy started an ideology to convince men to all be fake assholes and only money matters wouldn't you be suspicious?
The lms community literally does just that.
The only reason why it needs the L part is because how else would you criticise the fact that women are more free to choose than ever?
This allows it to secure all bases;
If a woman is seen with a high lms guy she's hypergamous.
If she is seen with one short on L she is a gold digger.
If she is seen with a guy short on MS she's a shallow cunt
It's meant to blindly slander women who don't conform to old world standards. A woman who chooses a man solely based on personality would be the most slandered and shamed.
And beyond that, by encouraging men to be fake assholes, it entirely excludes any women who would actually NOT be hypergamous. So then the subject can get cucked and report AWALT.
And for good measure, any woman who sees through race and would choose a black man is a BBC whore because clearly no one could truly love a Blackie
What the hell kind of stupid logic is that? Do you think there is an infinite list of increasingly hotter taller and richer guys in the world on Tinder looking for one nighters?
Tinder is such a joke. Even when I did manage to get a few matches it was just like you said. Whats the point when there is always someone better looking, wealthier and more socially astute than me. I could never get the idea out of my head that while I am talking to 1 girl she is getting messages by like 10-20 guys all of which are probably better than me.
Depends what you're offering. If you're offering a one night stand so is every other guy and that is easily replaced. If you're offering concern and love and commitment and stability... No that's not easily replaced at all.
Yes you're right... Because men will bang anything that moves... I could go on tinder right now and cheat but I never have... Why? Because I don't want to hurt the man I love and I have a little common sense. I want more out of a relationship and so do most women and that's why they're not on tinder.
Think about it a little... Alot of people aren't this shallow.
Who cares if you’re replaced? It’ll happen and it’ll feel awful, sure, I’ll give you that, it happens to both sexes all the time. You’ve got to suck it up and realize the person who goes out and only looks to upgrade to someone wealthier or more attractive isn’t worth being with in the first place, consider it bullet dodged and go find someone who isn’t a piece of shit.
My standards are already extremely low. It has nothing to do with your approach. If a Chad says "Hey, how are you?" It's going to be received a lot differently than if an incel says "Hey, how are you?"
In all actuality I would be completely fine with offering advice to anyone that actually needed it. You’re a depressed little guy tho huh. Only seeing negative, always looking at the worst in people.
Maybe that´s the point. When you say "Hey, how are you?" you mean "Hey, I want to spit in your asshole right now and if you don´t want that you deserve to be raped by your stepfather and his weird friend", and Chad means "Hey, how are you?"
No. When I say "hey, how are you" women would assume I meant something like that because I'm ugly. In their heads they're thinking "why else would and ugly guy be talking to me, of course he's some fucking creep"
When Chad says "Hey, how are you" the Halo Effect makes women think he only is talking to her for good intentions, and even if he's not, they're attracted to him to they're fine and feel flattered if Chad makes a sexual advance
You do realize there are ugly women out there too, right? Or are you too fucking dense to take into consideration that even attractive guys get turned down 80% of the time because most women are genuinely good people who have morals and wouldn’t fuck up a good relationship for a one night stand?
This sub is nothing but a circlejerk of beta cucklords feeling sorry for themselves and refusing to make a change in their lives. I know plenty of guys that aren’t with their wives off looks alone, but because they have an actual personality and are fun to be around.
No one, not even the guys in this sub, want to be with someone that does nothing but wallow in self pity and constantly put themselves down. It isn’t attractive, it isn’t fun to be with someone like that, it’s literally an emotional drain on both people in the relationship and never ends in happiness.
“Hey, how are you?” is one of the most generic openings to a conversation and girls hear it hundreds of times over the course of a night out. It hardly works for even the most attractive guys. Instead of opening with a boring question, make a funny comment about what’s going on around you, make her laugh and show a bit of confidence.
One of my ugliest friends regularly gets girls off his personality and confidence alone. He doesn’t care that he’s ugly, he doesn’t care that he’s got a few extra pounds or a double chin, in fact he uses it to his advantage to make the girl he’s approaching laugh and feel good about themselves.
Also, where are you approaching these women? At Uni where most just want to get to class? On the street where they may be in a rush to get to work? At the grocery store where they just want to shop and not be hit on? Think about your environment and ask, “Does she really want me to approach her right now? Is this an appropriate time to try and get to know a stranger?” More than likely it isn’t. Instead go out to bars, concerts, amusement parks or even museums and clubs.
I’m probably just typing all this out for no reason, but if even one dude who feels like shit about himself reads this and effectively applies it to his daily life, at least I did something. I really do feel for the people here, but it isn’t enough for others to feel bad for you, you’ve got to take initiative and make a change.
on the plus side- adultwork and backpage exist, so, at least there is that. Also noticed prices are getting cheaper. Hooker inflation is good where i'm at.
I know it's not validating- but maybe we need a shift in morality and value systems.
I’d need to make several millions of dollars a year before prostitution could start to be a reasonable substitute for the least attractive women I am attracted to, and for the amount of sex I would prefer to have. That is, if you also ignore the significant opportunity costs.
This is something I realized. Women hold so much power in the dating game, It's actually insane. Women can upgrade so easy, It's crazy. Normies, imagine for a second you have a average girlfriend. maybe she's a little on the chubby side. Maybe she makes you mad on day or the sex isn't that great. Imagine being able to toss her and upgrade within an hour or less. That's the power women have. They can ditch you and find a better guy with a similar personality (A decent personality isn't rare) and a better body in a day. That's the kind of power average women hold in the dating game and the majority of men cannot say the same honestly.
Yeah, most women I end up seeing can definitely find somebody hotter than me. But I've never actually fucked anybody who initially thought I was attractive. Usually much the opposite.
56 comments
1 Salvador66 2018-03-21
It's over.
1 CursedCel 2018-03-21
Reminder that no matter how maxxed out you are, there's people who naturally look better than you - such as Chad - and that even if you were to get a gf, the second you let your guard down and slip up with the looksmaxxing, Chad will cuck you.
Unless you truly find the one (and even then you're still at risk), which honestly nowadays its borderline impossible, you will never be able to win.
1 rule34bastion 2018-03-21
A concise, yet potent blackpill. The girl you like is already interested in someone just better than you.
1 takeyourfill 2018-03-21
and the girl you can't stand has a beta orbiter just a little below you, f*ck.
1 kysacademy 2018-03-21
Sad pill :(
1 PerfectNemesis 2018-03-21
Cold hard blackpill
1 IncelSlayerZero 2018-03-21
Definitely, but honestly if she's physically attracted to you and you are holding it down with her, she usually won't stray until you do something stupid, like cheating yourself.
1 takeyourfill 2018-03-21
cope.
1 IncelSlayerZero 2018-03-21
She'll probably cave if he is actively trying, running his game. But otherwise she usually won't look to stray. I know from experience.
1 takeyourfill 2018-03-21
I know it is cope because i get iou's from couples in public who're 2-3 looks points behind me. And that is when they actually have a man with them, f*ck knows how it would be normally.
And this is from a 4/5 ten looks fag .
Women's hypergamy is crazy now.
1 geneticwaste43 2018-03-21
Infinite mog loop
1 neomancr 2018-03-21
It's a pyramid scheme of assholes getting cucked and coming back to report AWALT. It's like systematic silliness with a dark misanthropic core.
1 neomancr 2018-03-21
That's how you know lms is a scam
1 rule34bastion 2018-03-21
Preposterous.
1 neomancr 2018-03-21
You can't even come up with a theory as to how it could possibly work out if you bait women with lms
1 rule34bastion 2018-03-21
Would my dating life not be hugely more successful with a serious amount of LMS?
1 neomancr 2018-03-21
The leaders of the ideology are essentially setting up a pyramid cuck scam
If some rich guy started an ideology to convince men to all be fake assholes and only money matters wouldn't you be suspicious?
The lms community literally does just that.
The only reason why it needs the L part is because how else would you criticise the fact that women are more free to choose than ever?
This allows it to secure all bases;
If a woman is seen with a high lms guy she's hypergamous.
If she is seen with one short on L she is a gold digger.
If she is seen with a guy short on MS she's a shallow cunt
It's meant to blindly slander women who don't conform to old world standards. A woman who chooses a man solely based on personality would be the most slandered and shamed.
And beyond that, by encouraging men to be fake assholes, it entirely excludes any women who would actually NOT be hypergamous. So then the subject can get cucked and report AWALT.
And for good measure, any woman who sees through race and would choose a black man is a BBC whore because clearly no one could truly love a Blackie
https://www.reddit.com/r/Braincels/comments/84u1hg/betabux_marriage
1 ThisIsAdolfHitler 2018-03-21
Oh yeah he's the multi millionaire janitor right?
1 rule34bastion 2018-03-21
No, he's just a janitor.
1 MotivationHacker 2018-03-21
Yup, and what does it say about your intelligence that you all still use tinder?
1 Irrumatio_for_All 2018-03-21
What the hell kind of stupid logic is that? Do you think there is an infinite list of increasingly hotter taller and richer guys in the world on Tinder looking for one nighters?
Here’s a reminder: don’t go on fucking Tinder.
1 CamoWoobie3 2018-03-21
It's hyperbole obviously
1 Hopecel 2018-03-21
Why are normies so dumb?
1 ttthrowaway07649243 2018-03-21
One man fucks many women, it is t rocket science
1 dinasures 2018-03-21
Reminder: That doesn't fucking matter. Be somewhat of a normal human and you're going to get laid if you want to.
1 atheist_terry_jones 2018-03-21
yall heard it here, we just needa be somewhat norman
1 dinasures 2018-03-21
I mean if you look around even the biggest freaks are getting girls. I think its the never leaving their bedrooms that is most peoples downfall here.
1 destiny-draw 2018-03-21
Tinder is such a joke. Even when I did manage to get a few matches it was just like you said. Whats the point when there is always someone better looking, wealthier and more socially astute than me. I could never get the idea out of my head that while I am talking to 1 girl she is getting messages by like 10-20 guys all of which are probably better than me.
1 Madeon929 2018-03-21
Facts!
1 salvu667 2018-03-21
Who cares lol
1 CamoWoobie3 2018-03-21
Every man with a brain should
1 SillyToni 2018-03-21
Yeah because every woman just wants a one night stand and not a serious relationship.
You project much?
Most women I know right use tinder... Hmm...
1 CamoWoobie3 2018-03-21
It's not even about tinder. It's about the fact that women can easily replace you
1 SillyToni 2018-03-21
Depends what you're offering. If you're offering a one night stand so is every other guy and that is easily replaced. If you're offering concern and love and commitment and stability... No that's not easily replaced at all.
Yes you're right... Because men will bang anything that moves... I could go on tinder right now and cheat but I never have... Why? Because I don't want to hurt the man I love and I have a little common sense. I want more out of a relationship and so do most women and that's why they're not on tinder.
Think about it a little... Alot of people aren't this shallow.
1 Kanaraketti 2018-03-21
Who cares if you’re replaced? It’ll happen and it’ll feel awful, sure, I’ll give you that, it happens to both sexes all the time. You’ve got to suck it up and realize the person who goes out and only looks to upgrade to someone wealthier or more attractive isn’t worth being with in the first place, consider it bullet dodged and go find someone who isn’t a piece of shit.
1 salvu667 2018-03-21
LMAO. Dude tinder is a waste of time. Go outside and meet someone in person instead of swiping right on every person that comes across your screen.
1 CamoWoobie3 2018-03-21
Women hate when ugly guys try to talk to them irl
1 salvu667 2018-03-21
Jesus Christ man you scream insecurities. Work on that personality.
1 CamoWoobie3 2018-03-21
No, it's the truth. They literally hate it lol. It's insulting to them.
1 salvu667 2018-03-21
Maybe lower standards and change the way you approach woman?
1 CamoWoobie3 2018-03-21
My standards are already extremely low. It has nothing to do with your approach. If a Chad says "Hey, how are you?" It's going to be received a lot differently than if an incel says "Hey, how are you?"
1 salvu667 2018-03-21
This is very true. What can I do to help you?
1 JacksLantern 2018-03-21
Nothing, that's the point.
1 [deleted] 2018-03-21
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1 salvu667 2018-03-21
In all actuality I would be completely fine with offering advice to anyone that actually needed it. You’re a depressed little guy tho huh. Only seeing negative, always looking at the worst in people.
1 Kanaraketti 2018-03-21
Buy him a treadmill and a book that outlines proper diet choices. Also might wanna get him some soap and deodorant.
1 GoodbyeYall333 2018-03-21
DAE incels are all fat neckbeards who smell bad. Hell, if you're fat you're not an incel, incels are naturally ugly.
1 trevmon 2018-03-21
is this the first time in history a normie has taken the black pill and admitted it
1 bdoderdb 2018-03-21
Maybe that´s the point. When you say "Hey, how are you?" you mean "Hey, I want to spit in your asshole right now and if you don´t want that you deserve to be raped by your stepfather and his weird friend", and Chad means "Hey, how are you?"
1 CamoWoobie3 2018-03-21
No. When I say "hey, how are you" women would assume I meant something like that because I'm ugly. In their heads they're thinking "why else would and ugly guy be talking to me, of course he's some fucking creep"
When Chad says "Hey, how are you" the Halo Effect makes women think he only is talking to her for good intentions, and even if he's not, they're attracted to him to they're fine and feel flattered if Chad makes a sexual advance
1 Kanaraketti 2018-03-21
You do realize there are ugly women out there too, right? Or are you too fucking dense to take into consideration that even attractive guys get turned down 80% of the time because most women are genuinely good people who have morals and wouldn’t fuck up a good relationship for a one night stand?
This sub is nothing but a circlejerk of beta cucklords feeling sorry for themselves and refusing to make a change in their lives. I know plenty of guys that aren’t with their wives off looks alone, but because they have an actual personality and are fun to be around.
No one, not even the guys in this sub, want to be with someone that does nothing but wallow in self pity and constantly put themselves down. It isn’t attractive, it isn’t fun to be with someone like that, it’s literally an emotional drain on both people in the relationship and never ends in happiness.
“Hey, how are you?” is one of the most generic openings to a conversation and girls hear it hundreds of times over the course of a night out. It hardly works for even the most attractive guys. Instead of opening with a boring question, make a funny comment about what’s going on around you, make her laugh and show a bit of confidence.
One of my ugliest friends regularly gets girls off his personality and confidence alone. He doesn’t care that he’s ugly, he doesn’t care that he’s got a few extra pounds or a double chin, in fact he uses it to his advantage to make the girl he’s approaching laugh and feel good about themselves.
Also, where are you approaching these women? At Uni where most just want to get to class? On the street where they may be in a rush to get to work? At the grocery store where they just want to shop and not be hit on? Think about your environment and ask, “Does she really want me to approach her right now? Is this an appropriate time to try and get to know a stranger?” More than likely it isn’t. Instead go out to bars, concerts, amusement parks or even museums and clubs.
I’m probably just typing all this out for no reason, but if even one dude who feels like shit about himself reads this and effectively applies it to his daily life, at least I did something. I really do feel for the people here, but it isn’t enough for others to feel bad for you, you’ve got to take initiative and make a change.
1 bdoderdb 2018-03-21
Women hate when ugly guys show up on tinder dates
1 ttthrowaway07649243 2018-03-21
Dude, that doesn’t work, and that’s why tinder exists
1 salvu667 2018-03-21
This is very true. What can I do to help you?
1 takeyourfill 2018-03-21
on the plus side- adultwork and backpage exist, so, at least there is that. Also noticed prices are getting cheaper. Hooker inflation is good where i'm at.
I know it's not validating- but maybe we need a shift in morality and value systems.
1 not_good_looking 2018-03-21
Hooker prices are dropping because men are getting sick of getting catfished by fake escort photos so demand has gone down.
1 ttthrowaway07649243 2018-03-21
I’d need to make several millions of dollars a year before prostitution could start to be a reasonable substitute for the least attractive women I am attracted to, and for the amount of sex I would prefer to have. That is, if you also ignore the significant opportunity costs.
1 CMXV 2018-03-21
This is something I realized. Women hold so much power in the dating game, It's actually insane. Women can upgrade so easy, It's crazy. Normies, imagine for a second you have a average girlfriend. maybe she's a little on the chubby side. Maybe she makes you mad on day or the sex isn't that great. Imagine being able to toss her and upgrade within an hour or less. That's the power women have. They can ditch you and find a better guy with a similar personality (A decent personality isn't rare) and a better body in a day. That's the kind of power average women hold in the dating game and the majority of men cannot say the same honestly.
1 WaylanderTS 2018-03-21
Yeah, most women I end up seeing can definitely find somebody hotter than me. But I've never actually fucked anybody who initially thought I was attractive. Usually much the opposite.