posting here is such a good cope

39  2018-03-20 by Subhumanvoice

every now and then I put some music on, sit here and just post and read threads for hours and hours. It distracts me from the depressing reality of my life. I don't have a girlfriend or any friends or anything going for me at all but at least I have you guys

14 comments

1  incelbeast 2018-03-20

Yeah it's a great sub tbh always something new and original

1  Salvador66 2018-03-20

Unlike IT users who are not original at all and they are addicted to therapy.

1  Invisible_247 2018-03-20

Great place. Always guaranteed some good keks here. Also like the IRL stories (wish there were more) and quality 'it's over' examples.

1  alltheserpents 2018-03-20

It's good to be able to socialize with others and not have to worry about whether you look good enough or are interesting enough, right? We're all in a similar position here. I also enjoy this place.

1  CptErection23 2018-03-20

This is honestly the real reason. Taking a break from putting up pretenses and talk about things you can't anywhere else.

1  NerdyAsthete 2018-03-20

Welcome to Copenhagen.

1  ForwardTranslator 2018-03-20

I feel you on that

1  Mr-Mercedes- 2018-03-20

Yeah

I don't do a lot of coping. I just cannot derive true enjoyment from it. It's ALL or NOTHING. For instance, I'm either going to play videogames with friends and a chick by my side, or I'm going to do jack shit. The fact that whatver cope I'm engaging in is just a distraction from what I really want, somehow makes me feel worse—I don't know why, maybe because my emotions get revved up. There are too many reminders in culture that what truly matters in life is experiences with someone you are attracted to. And if I try to, say, study maths or science, or pursue any passions I have, I realize there is no ultimate reward for me; at the end of every day, I will always be alone (also, there are too many recollections of college and high school where I was studying by myself, while the good-looking guys were studying with their girlfriends or fuckfriends).

Thus, my preferred means of coping is to just sit back and watch everything unfold. I realize I'm an outsider, and that it's over for me. There is no use getting seriously involved in anything.

Although, here, it's a bit different. I feel like this place keeps me balanced. It gives me a chance to let out some of my thoughts which pile up, and I can relate to the stories of other people who are, at least to some degree, in my situation. If I could just find a way to pre-block normies, I could engage in this sub with nearly complete equanimity.

1  justthatguy4 2018-03-20

Yeah, Imagine having to say this too therapists who wonder why you just don't try to take care of yourself.Like why even do that?

1  Mr-Mercedes- 2018-03-20

I need a gene therapist

1  justthatguy4 2018-03-20

Had you been two 2 decades from now you could have lived a happy life.

1  StupidassMotherfoker 2018-03-20

Quality memes and brocels, all i could ask for

1  FEDORA_GOD 2018-03-20

welcome to cope city

1  boredyeah 2018-03-20

We built this city on cope and nope

1  foreignincel4 2018-03-20

My copings to you fine Sir tips virginhat