This is something I think about a lot having dropped out of highschool early fuck I know It's my idiot self but remembering my friend telling my about how he lost his virginity at 14 made me so jealous at the time.
I heard lockers are getting rarer and rarer because schools don’t want the upkeep costs and of course fucking dumbass school shooters and whatnot (totally overblown fear but that’s not going to stop school boards and the busy bodies that lobby them)
Honestly, removing lockers is fuckin stupid because where the fuck are students gonna put their books if they don’t need them? Students don’t wanna lug books around all the time.
My school had bullshit “on campus security” who prevented us from going to the parking lot during school hours. If it wasn’t in your locker, tough shit.
That honestly does not sound good for your back and I hope it’s ok. Schools should really invest in lockers in HS because no one wants to lug that weight around all the time.
That’s actually interesting. My district never really invested in having in class textbooks. I think the only time I had them was freshman year earth science, then never again.
Lmao, that’s actually very false bc this happened all the time when I went to high school and my school was like 90% asian. You just haven’t seen enough asians.
Idk, dude. At my school, people were usually focused on school so much that a lot of people didn’t really have time for a relationship. A lot of Asians that didn’t date within the school dated other Asians from neighboring schools. This, of course, is all anecdotal evidence and could be plenty different from your experience.
I'm a decade out from high school now and this photo makes me hurt so badly and makes me so sad. I've never even had a girl touch me in a loving or friendly way like that. I never will.
I’m in high school and have never had a Girlfriend I was extremely introverted in my young age but have only started to come out of my shell. I regret not being talkative. I even started having suicidal thoughts last year but they are gone now. But now for all I know is that there is the possibility that no one in my high school has a crush on me, maybe no one at all. But no this does not bring me down! I have a bright future! Even if I NEVER find true love, I WILL make a change in this world, I WILL push the human race forward as a whole, I wish to be with the greats like Elon Musk, Albert Einstein, Bill Gates, Stephen Hawking, etc., I WILL persevere, I WILL never back down, and most of all I WILL never stop chasing my dreams!
It's not too late for you if your still in highschool. Start looksmaxxing hard and try to get laid ASAP. If you haven't lost your virginity by the time your out of high school tho it's over.
I'm a big advocate for dating as a teen. Reddit loves to push this idea of focusing on school and college. Dating as a teen allows you to get passed all the bullshit early. The kissing where it looks like you're eating their face, and using too much tongue. The being butthurt and acting like you'll never move on from your first.
By the time you're in your 20's, we should be able to function like an adult would.
That's true. I also think that only teenage age or early adolescence makes it possible to ever experience such a pure form of love mixed up with your innocence and naive outlook on the world. The rudiments of your childhood. In your mid twenties or 30s everyone (even normies and Chads) is blackpilled enough to know that female companionship doesn't mean much and is just a temporary distraction from your misery.
Most of what you're supposed to know if you want to have any possibility of ever getting into a relationship you learn while in highschool romantic liaisons.
Those of us unlucky enough to have been Incel during highschool lack an essential building block in our development that is quite impossible to make up for, since even if we could find a woman to date, the fundamental difference between high school romance and adult dating will mean we will always have that handicap of inexperience.
I don't see how that's true. I'm sure it would help to have that early experience, but I don't see why it's impossible, especially if you're if you're early 20's.
I'm not even 20 yet and the lack of high school relationship experience has already crippled every chance I might ever have at getting a gf. Cope harder.
I know a guy who got together with his girlfriend in Middle school and they're getting married once they leave college - of course, he's a giga-Chad tennis player.
Everyone around me started dating at 16 or earlier. By 17 everyone had already had at least one girlfriend. By 18 I was the only virgin left on campus, as far as I know. You're not even coping anymore, it's just straight delusion.
Believing you're forever doomed and you can't do anything about is coping. I had my first relationship at 23 and I'm no chad. I was 350 lbs at the time. My anecdote is just as good as your anecdotes.
But there is nothing I can do about it. Unless you give me a method to grow 5 inches taller, bleach my skin and fix my fucked up face then maybe. But as long as I'm a manlet ugly nigger I'm doomed.
Not having high school experience was just the final nail in the coffin since without that I won't ever land anything. With it, maybe I could land a 2/10 grill. Alas.
I don't know. Maybe I don't know what I'm talking about. Maybe my situation was a fluke in ways. I don't think of myself as an incel, but I'm not exactly a normie either. It's not like I could go out and date someone now. I can't. I would have to lose a lot of weight, fix a lot of my mental health, and have job. I suck and I might end up dying alone. I'm just not angry at the world like everyone else is here seems to be. Maybe that first relationship made me think I had hope and without it I would be just like everyone else here.
That's not true I have known blokes who did not get laid until 21 and became chads and others who got laid non stop as teenagers who are now near incels. There's no point crying over spilled milk
Now you have to be trolling. In any case, I understand women can be intimidating to the intellectually stunted, but you still don’t get to be with children.
Any guy who passed 20 without having this kind of experience will never be a mature healthy person. I am 25 now and in college I look at guys younger than me and they seem to be more mature and more experienced in life and with girls and I am the virgin ugly suhuman who will never catch up with them
Yep, I was a late bloomer with puberty so there's several girls I missed out on just because I wasn't interested. Fast forward to when I was 20, I lost my virginity to a fat girl who wanted to take my virginity... The rest is just as sad and I'm single at 32. In other words: date when in high school or prepare for the loneliness.
People fail to realise how important these years are in terms of your sex life as an adult, if you didn’t date as a teenager then you lack the skills necessary to maintain a relationship. Even if you get lucky after your teen years and a girl decides to give you a chance you wouldn’t know what to do and she’d leave you for chad because she’ll come to realise you’re a weirdo.
"Muslim 3rd world nations" lol you don't know Malaysia, instead keep living in denial and believing that you're a special snowflake. Came to think at least I had been in three relationship before in both elementary and high school.
It's a double edge sword, you experience the heartbreak too when you inevitably grow apart. People change from HS to University and sometimes what you wanted at that age isn't the same later on in life.
If your girl leaves you for another dude or cheats on you that's a lot of pain. Don't wanna compare it, cause I don't know how the true torture incel feels, but don't underestimate the pain when she cheats or leaves you.
Her leaving or cheating on me implies that I've been in a relationship with that girl. Having that knowledge that someone likes me enough to even give me a chance would be a whole hell of a lot better than the crushing reality that no girl will even give me the time of day, despite all my attempts.
Normos don't understand why we ended up in our current positions, this is how we explain it
That makes sense, but that's not the way this post is framed. It's a "daily reminder" for incels. It wasn't made for the reason you stated. It's just to cause more pain.
If there was something I could change so that I magically wasn't an ugly manlet I'd do it you mong why the fuck do you think it's called INVOLUNTARY CELIBACY
The point I'm trying to make is that hurting yourself on purpose is counterproductive. You should be focusing on positive aspects instead of wallowing in self-pity. Light a candle instead of curse the dark. I know it's hard. I have my own demons and my life is not easy, but focusing on what causes you pain is damaging to your mental well being.
I've hit rock bottom too. I know how hard it is to live with crippling depression. When you reach that point, you need to make a decision. Either get a tank of carbon monoxide and off yourself or work with what you have and try to better yourself.
So you're an incel. That sucks, but it's not a life sentence. You can find happiness if you try, but it takes a lot of effort. Posts like these only make things worse. Stop focusing on women for awhile and focus on yourself. Find things you enjoy and live in the moment. Being alone doesn't have to be sad.
Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about. We all have our demons and are pretty understanding. People online are ugly. It's not real. People in real life are a lot nicer.
You were dealt a bad hand, but your life is what you make it.
The people on here saying looking at theses posts is suifuel are the very ones that act like life and in particular normies don’t have a different life and upbringing to the incels on here. It’s almost like they want to remove the reality out of the way so we will listen to their dumb positive bs advice
Teenage "love" fucking sucked tbh. The relationships I had in HS never even cross my mind at this point. Haven't for years. Turns out holding hands in the hallways and making out in 10th grade really aren't that important in life.
Agree. I had that totally stereotypical puppy love thing with a girl. Man I wrote her sappy poems, spent my time day dreaming cute things I could surprise her with, we laid on the grass together at night and cuddled and planned our future together as we stared up at the stars.
And she was an idiot. Shallow, petty, boring (the only human being I've ever met in my life who I've heard say "I really just don't like music"), just an all-around dud. And the sex was terrible. But for about a year and a half I thought the sun rose and set around this girl. Wtf? Live and learn.
The point is, the present is, and should always be, more important than the past. Always. Lamenting that you never got to have that ridiculous fumbling high school love experience makes about as much sense as regretting never being a boy scout. Probably would've been cool at some points, but so what?
The reason why some are saying that teenage love was trivial to their development is because they have experienced it.
Most people don't obsess over their childhood and dismiss it as just another stage of life. This is unless they went through a traumatic experience, which would affect them forever.
Likewise for an incel, missing an important developmental milestone will further make attempts at readjusting increasingly difficult.
Normos don't understand why we ended up in our current positions, this is how we explain it
That makes sense, but that's not the way this post is framed. It's a "daily reminder" for incels. It wasn't made for the reason you stated. It's just to cause more pain.
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1 superman1145 2018-03-18
Chad defies gravity
1 positiveincel 2018-03-18
pass the rope, don’t cope, there is no hope
1 wincel123 2018-03-18
Feels
1 OptimusPiss 2018-03-18
Why would you be sad about missing out on some shallow bullshit that has no impact on your adult life
1 xxgtxy 2018-03-18
Cope
1 superman1145 2018-03-18
Someone didn’t have a great childhood
1 D_Gandy 2018-03-18
Lol nice cope life is best when you are young
1 OptimusPiss 2018-03-18
I'm 21 and far from an incel lol
1 D_Gandy 2018-03-18
So you aren't even old enough to understand then.
Just wait a few years once you graduate and are a cuck wagecel married to a used up roastie
1 LibStealingSpic 2018-03-18
TIL: having any kind of positive relationship with your peers of the opposite isn't important for your development.
1 alec7491 2018-03-18
This is something I think about a lot having dropped out of highschool early fuck I know It's my idiot self but remembering my friend telling my about how he lost his virginity at 14 made me so jealous at the time.
Nobody here will ever fucking experience this.
1 Zangano1 2018-03-18
This is one of the saddest part of being incel. Imagine how happy you would have been in a situation like that.
1 vvvvvvvvvvv11 2018-03-18
Daily reminder that I went to one of the WORST high schools in history, a place filled with trashy whiteknights and NO HALLWAY LOCKERS.
1 SignorSolitudine 2018-03-18
I heard lockers are getting rarer and rarer because schools don’t want the upkeep costs and of course fucking dumbass school shooters and whatnot (totally overblown fear but that’s not going to stop school boards and the busy bodies that lobby them)
1 AreYouHECCINJoking 2018-03-18
Honestly, removing lockers is fuckin stupid because where the fuck are students gonna put their books if they don’t need them? Students don’t wanna lug books around all the time.
1 SignorSolitudine 2018-03-18
Exactly
Shit hurt my back, especially junior and senior years when AP classes expected you to carry textbooks to class
1 Viramont 2018-03-18
At my school kids would leave their books in their cars and go retrieve them between classes.
1 AreYouHECCINJoking 2018-03-18
My school had bullshit “on campus security” who prevented us from going to the parking lot during school hours. If it wasn’t in your locker, tough shit.
1 changeIsTheWay 2018-03-18
Did you go to school in Detroit or something? Lol.
1 AreYouHECCINJoking 2018-03-18
Nah, I’m in Cali. My school is just really weird.
1 changeIsTheWay 2018-03-18
Anyways back to lockers. When I was in HS, tbh most people didn't use them. I just carried all the weight on my back.
1 AreYouHECCINJoking 2018-03-18
That honestly does not sound good for your back and I hope it’s ok. Schools should really invest in lockers in HS because no one wants to lug that weight around all the time.
1 changeIsTheWay 2018-03-18
In a lot of my classes, they provided textbooks that we just had to use in class and nowhere else really.
1 AreYouHECCINJoking 2018-03-18
That’s actually interesting. My district never really invested in having in class textbooks. I think the only time I had them was freshman year earth science, then never again.
1 changeIsTheWay 2018-03-18
Ah
1 xenodit 2018-03-18
kids having cars?something isnt right here buddy boyo
1 PROLAPSED_SUBWOOFER 2018-03-18
That's how it is in the US. If you don't have a car here you ain't going nowhere.
1 MozzerDozzer 2018-03-18
Eastern Europe does just fine without them.
1 CruelBeast 2018-03-18
You will never see a curry or asian be able to cause a female to act like this.
1 AreYouHECCINJoking 2018-03-18
Lmao, that’s actually very false bc this happened all the time when I went to high school and my school was like 90% asian. You just haven’t seen enough asians.
1 CruelBeast 2018-03-18
I'm asian dipshit
1 CruelBeast 2018-03-18
Asians majority high schools are supreme incel tier. Asian women go for whites outside their school. Curry women are even worse.
1 AreYouHECCINJoking 2018-03-18
Idk, dude. At my school, people were usually focused on school so much that a lot of people didn’t really have time for a relationship. A lot of Asians that didn’t date within the school dated other Asians from neighboring schools. This, of course, is all anecdotal evidence and could be plenty different from your experience.
1 notaciaemployee 2018-03-18
Damn, I wish Dylan & Eric were still around.
1 suicidal-pothead 2018-03-18
I can never go back, what have I done
1 AjitPaiFan 2018-03-18
NOBODY will ever care about you that much
1 thesadredditor 2018-03-18
I'm a decade out from high school now and this photo makes me hurt so badly and makes me so sad. I've never even had a girl touch me in a loving or friendly way like that. I never will.
1 laikastudies 2018-03-18
You will.
1 birtopia 2018-03-18
Potent suicide fuel
1 TheCrimsonPitViper 2018-03-18
I’m in high school and have never had a Girlfriend I was extremely introverted in my young age but have only started to come out of my shell. I regret not being talkative. I even started having suicidal thoughts last year but they are gone now. But now for all I know is that there is the possibility that no one in my high school has a crush on me, maybe no one at all. But no this does not bring me down! I have a bright future! Even if I NEVER find true love, I WILL make a change in this world, I WILL push the human race forward as a whole, I wish to be with the greats like Elon Musk, Albert Einstein, Bill Gates, Stephen Hawking, etc., I WILL persevere, I WILL never back down, and most of all I WILL never stop chasing my dreams!
1 KingOfCorinth 2018-03-18
Good for you. Now leave this sub before your perceptions become diseased by confidently stated and oft-repeated bullshit (i.e. all this sub offers).
1 TheCrimsonPitViper 2018-03-18
Ouchie
1 sailorgangordie 2018-03-18
It's not too late for you if your still in highschool. Start looksmaxxing hard and try to get laid ASAP. If you haven't lost your virginity by the time your out of high school tho it's over.
1 TheCrimsonPitViper 2018-03-18
Ouch
1 nadmah10 2018-03-18
If you really believe all of that leave this sub, the idealogy here will just hold you back.
1 TheCrimsonPitViper 2018-03-18
Ow
1 Viramont 2018-03-18
In highschool I accidentally got a girlfriend and managed to experience teen love. Felt so good man
1 Dirtbag717 2018-03-18
I'm a big advocate for dating as a teen. Reddit loves to push this idea of focusing on school and college. Dating as a teen allows you to get passed all the bullshit early. The kissing where it looks like you're eating their face, and using too much tongue. The being butthurt and acting like you'll never move on from your first.
By the time you're in your 20's, we should be able to function like an adult would.
1 Hopecel 2018-03-18
Pure sui fuel.
1 Hal_Inceldenza 2018-03-18
That's true. I also think that only teenage age or early adolescence makes it possible to ever experience such a pure form of love mixed up with your innocence and naive outlook on the world. The rudiments of your childhood. In your mid twenties or 30s everyone (even normies and Chads) is blackpilled enough to know that female companionship doesn't mean much and is just a temporary distraction from your misery.
1 Mrs_Dr_Cube 2018-03-18
Not that any of you would deserve it. :3
1 TsarHarkinian 2018-03-18
Yea my dicc is too small
1 Mr-Mercedes- 2018-03-18
Late stage hypergamy
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1 Zyzz123 2018-03-18
You cannot be a normal functioning human being after missing out
It's over
1 CursedCel 2018-03-18
Honestly this is true
Most of what you're supposed to know if you want to have any possibility of ever getting into a relationship you learn while in highschool romantic liaisons.
Those of us unlucky enough to have been Incel during highschool lack an essential building block in our development that is quite impossible to make up for, since even if we could find a woman to date, the fundamental difference between high school romance and adult dating will mean we will always have that handicap of inexperience.
It's over, we can't win.
1 freedomisdeath 2018-03-18
This... will will always be immature
1 CursedCel 2018-03-18
Why are incel boards infested with normies anyways
1 BigLebowskiBot 2018-03-18
Yeah, well, you know, that's just, like, your opinion, man.
1 mountainmirror 2018-03-18
I don't see how that's true. I'm sure it would help to have that early experience, but I don't see why it's impossible, especially if you're if you're early 20's.
1 CursedCel 2018-03-18
I'm not even 20 yet and the lack of high school relationship experience has already crippled every chance I might ever have at getting a gf. Cope harder.
1 mountainmirror 2018-03-18
Not even 20 and you think your life is over? Of course you would. People have their first relationship at twenty something all the time.
1 CursedCel 2018-03-18
I know a guy who got together with his girlfriend in Middle school and they're getting married once they leave college - of course, he's a giga-Chad tennis player.
Everyone around me started dating at 16 or earlier. By 17 everyone had already had at least one girlfriend. By 18 I was the only virgin left on campus, as far as I know. You're not even coping anymore, it's just straight delusion.
1 mountainmirror 2018-03-18
Believing you're forever doomed and you can't do anything about is coping. I had my first relationship at 23 and I'm no chad. I was 350 lbs at the time. My anecdote is just as good as your anecdotes.
1 CursedCel 2018-03-18
But there is nothing I can do about it. Unless you give me a method to grow 5 inches taller, bleach my skin and fix my fucked up face then maybe. But as long as I'm a manlet ugly nigger I'm doomed.
Not having high school experience was just the final nail in the coffin since without that I won't ever land anything. With it, maybe I could land a 2/10 grill. Alas.
1 mountainmirror 2018-03-18
I don't know. Maybe I don't know what I'm talking about. Maybe my situation was a fluke in ways. I don't think of myself as an incel, but I'm not exactly a normie either. It's not like I could go out and date someone now. I can't. I would have to lose a lot of weight, fix a lot of my mental health, and have job. I suck and I might end up dying alone. I'm just not angry at the world like everyone else is here seems to be. Maybe that first relationship made me think I had hope and without it I would be just like everyone else here.
1 mountainmirror 2018-03-18
Wait. Why is that?
1 cartersweeney 2018-03-18
That's not true I have known blokes who did not get laid until 21 and became chads and others who got laid non stop as teenagers who are now near incels. There's no point crying over spilled milk
1 marcin_koniecki 2018-03-18
there is no point of living if you wasn't slowly discovering your bodies with your shy teenage gf and then deflorate her.
1 GunTotingQuaker 2018-03-18
Future sex offender huh?
1 marcin_koniecki 2018-03-18
no, I will find my cute 14yo gf one day
1 GunTotingQuaker 2018-03-18
And hopefully it’ll be law enforcement you find waiting at that hotel.... what a creep.
1 marcin_koniecki 2018-03-18
Why are you so toxic. I will love her and she will love me. Nobody is hurt in that relationship
1 GunTotingQuaker 2018-03-18
Now you have to be trolling. In any case, I understand women can be intimidating to the intellectually stunted, but you still don’t get to be with children.
1 marcin_koniecki 2018-03-18
14yo girl is not a child. And adult women aren't intimidating, they are disgusting.
1 GunTotingQuaker 2018-03-18
Luckily, the laws in most civilized countries disagree with you and prohibit adults from taking advantage of children (which a 14 year old is).
“Disgusting” aka “won’t give me the time of day”
1 marcin_koniecki 2018-03-18
Disgusting aka I don't give a fuck about those used up whores. Only teenage virgins are worth spending time with.
1 GunTotingQuaker 2018-03-18
Enjoy loneliness then! Or jail, whichever.
1 freedomisdeath 2018-03-18
Any guy who passed 20 without having this kind of experience will never be a mature healthy person. I am 25 now and in college I look at guys younger than me and they seem to be more mature and more experienced in life and with girls and I am the virgin ugly suhuman who will never catch up with them
1 therealjaster 2018-03-18
Yep, I was a late bloomer with puberty so there's several girls I missed out on just because I wasn't interested. Fast forward to when I was 20, I lost my virginity to a fat girl who wanted to take my virginity... The rest is just as sad and I'm single at 32. In other words: date when in high school or prepare for the loneliness.
1 DrillMonger3000 2018-03-18
People fail to realise how important these years are in terms of your sex life as an adult, if you didn’t date as a teenager then you lack the skills necessary to maintain a relationship. Even if you get lucky after your teen years and a girl decides to give you a chance you wouldn’t know what to do and she’d leave you for chad because she’ll come to realise you’re a weirdo.
1 Potatoeskimos 2018-03-18
Bullshit, most people in Malaysia at least lose their virginity around 21, and their marriage turned out fine.
1 trevmon 2018-03-18
most Malaysian roasties lie then sorry
1 Incel9876 2018-03-18
Muslim 3rd world nations have what relevancy to dating/mating patterns in the West?
1 Potatoeskimos 2018-03-18
"Muslim 3rd world nations" lol you don't know Malaysia, instead keep living in denial and believing that you're a special snowflake. Came to think at least I had been in three relationship before in both elementary and high school.
1 Axon_Axoff01 2018-03-18
It's a double edge sword, you experience the heartbreak too when you inevitably grow apart. People change from HS to University and sometimes what you wanted at that age isn't the same later on in life.
1 marcin_koniecki 2018-03-18
All I experienced in teen years was a heartbreak of being rejected. I'd take the inevitable break up instead of eternal loneliness thanks.
1 HenryStrenner 2018-03-18
If your girl leaves you for another dude or cheats on you that's a lot of pain. Don't wanna compare it, cause I don't know how the true torture incel feels, but don't underestimate the pain when she cheats or leaves you.
1 trevmon 2018-03-18
bruh it's sooo hard having sex
1 alicedeeplease 2018-03-18
Her leaving or cheating on me implies that I've been in a relationship with that girl. Having that knowledge that someone likes me enough to even give me a chance would be a whole hell of a lot better than the crushing reality that no girl will even give me the time of day, despite all my attempts.
1 Axon_Axoff01 2018-03-18
Be careful what you wish for.
1 HenryStrenner 2018-03-18
The heartbreak I've gotten from my first girlfriend was a little blackpill in itself.
1 SugioSnoipar 2018-03-18
If you had a girlfriend you're not really incel
1 captvic 2018-03-18
That pic is pure suicide fuel
1 Stoic_Stranger 2018-03-18
Why do you people do this to yourselves? You're a bunch of masochists.
1 bopoll 2018-03-18
As a reminder of what was never available to us, and to show normies what we've never experienced
1 Stoic_Stranger 2018-03-18
That's very counterintuitive.
1 bopoll 2018-03-18
Why? Normos don't understand why we ended up in our current positions, this is how we explain it
1 Stoic_Stranger 2018-03-18
That makes sense, but that's not the way this post is framed. It's a "daily reminder" for incels. It wasn't made for the reason you stated. It's just to cause more pain.
1 CursedCel 2018-03-18
Sobering reminder that no matter what we will never be like Normos due to the utter dissimilarity between our experiences.
1 Stoic_Stranger 2018-03-18
Your just hurting yourself and making your situation more painful. It's very damaging to your mental well-being.
1 CursedCel 2018-03-18
Pain is good. Pain will eventually make me rope. I used to be hopeful and that hope got dashed against the rocks at lit on fire by femoids.
1 Stoic_Stranger 2018-03-18
"You must be the change you wish to see in the world"
1 CursedCel 2018-03-18
What does that even mean in my situation?
If there was something I could change so that I magically wasn't an ugly manlet I'd do it you mong why the fuck do you think it's called INVOLUNTARY CELIBACY
1 Stoic_Stranger 2018-03-18
The point I'm trying to make is that hurting yourself on purpose is counterproductive. You should be focusing on positive aspects instead of wallowing in self-pity. Light a candle instead of curse the dark. I know it's hard. I have my own demons and my life is not easy, but focusing on what causes you pain is damaging to your mental well being.
1 CursedCel 2018-03-18
I'm already suicidally depressed. Focusing on the pain will eventually give me the push I need to finally rope.
There is no hope. You can only light a candle if you have matches in your hand.
1 Stoic_Stranger 2018-03-18
I've hit rock bottom too. I know how hard it is to live with crippling depression. When you reach that point, you need to make a decision. Either get a tank of carbon monoxide and off yourself or work with what you have and try to better yourself.
So you're an incel. That sucks, but it's not a life sentence. You can find happiness if you try, but it takes a lot of effort. Posts like these only make things worse. Stop focusing on women for awhile and focus on yourself. Find things you enjoy and live in the moment. Being alone doesn't have to be sad.
Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about. We all have our demons and are pretty understanding. People online are ugly. It's not real. People in real life are a lot nicer.
You were dealt a bad hand, but your life is what you make it.
1 Cynicalduckie 2018-03-18
The people on here saying looking at theses posts is suifuel are the very ones that act like life and in particular normies don’t have a different life and upbringing to the incels on here. It’s almost like they want to remove the reality out of the way so we will listen to their dumb positive bs advice
1 Brscmill 2018-03-18
Teenage "love" fucking sucked tbh. The relationships I had in HS never even cross my mind at this point. Haven't for years. Turns out holding hands in the hallways and making out in 10th grade really aren't that important in life.
1 abbie_yoyo 2018-03-18
Agree. I had that totally stereotypical puppy love thing with a girl. Man I wrote her sappy poems, spent my time day dreaming cute things I could surprise her with, we laid on the grass together at night and cuddled and planned our future together as we stared up at the stars.
And she was an idiot. Shallow, petty, boring (the only human being I've ever met in my life who I've heard say "I really just don't like music"), just an all-around dud. And the sex was terrible. But for about a year and a half I thought the sun rose and set around this girl. Wtf? Live and learn.
The point is, the present is, and should always be, more important than the past. Always. Lamenting that you never got to have that ridiculous fumbling high school love experience makes about as much sense as regretting never being a boy scout. Probably would've been cool at some points, but so what?
1 082rz 2018-03-18
The reason why some are saying that teenage love was trivial to their development is because they have experienced it.
Most people don't obsess over their childhood and dismiss it as just another stage of life. This is unless they went through a traumatic experience, which would affect them forever.
Likewise for an incel, missing an important developmental milestone will further make attempts at readjusting increasingly difficult.
1 TheKingRyan 2018-03-18
not me lol
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1 BigLebowskiBot 2018-03-18
Yeah, well, you know, that's just, like, your opinion, man.
1 bopoll 2018-03-18
Why? Normos don't understand why we ended up in our current positions, this is how we explain it
1 Stoic_Stranger 2018-03-18
That makes sense, but that's not the way this post is framed. It's a "daily reminder" for incels. It wasn't made for the reason you stated. It's just to cause more pain.