if you've never been flirted with it's ogre for sure

I get stares. Not nice ones tho. This is the life of a failure

The most brutal black pill. Femiods love smiling at attractive guys. Just lol when all females immediately look away when you try to make eye contact. It’s not because they’re shy, it’s because you’re genetic trash.

This is true. If you aren't hit on daily while walking about in casual clothing while looking tired with messy hair and smelly breath then its OVER and you are genetic garbage.

If you don't get blown in the street by every woman you talk to then it's over.

Unironically this

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I5l52417nKE

I was legit thinking of that video when typing my comment lmao.

lol, its fake but it shows the point well enough

People smile at you only if you look me in the eye And I doubt much of this sub does that

Making eye contact is about the only success I've had over years of trying to overcome my autism on my own. I definitely make eye contact. And I doubt many others here have that problem.

You’d be surprised, I have many friends who don’t

Many if not most guys wouldn't go for a girl who is too forward because it makes her out to be slutty/desperate. Not all guys are man whores. The girl I broke it off with after I met the girl who I ended up marrying approached me and I can't help but to believe that I thought less of her for it even if that's not fair.

She also did the whole "you don't like like you're Asian, you look like an islander" thing that is really cringey but it's just the times we live in so it's excusable.

God there are times I've been so mortified from being approached that I don't even like to think about it. It's just not what a lot of guys are into.

Many if not most guys wouldn't go for a girl who is too forward

wrong. just completely and utterly wrong.

It's utterly correct enough that all women know that there is a social stigma against it. Although many women challenge it it makes it no less true that women are seen as less classy when they are more forward.

there is no social stigma against it. stop posting on this board. you're a fucking teenager echoing bullshit other people have told you. it's easy to think such a dumb thing, if you've never had a woman you just met grab your hand and take you to a room to fuck. if you've never had a woman kiss you. if you've never had a woman hit on you. you're just a fucking loser that hasn't been blackpilled yet.

Like I already said. I have and I do subconsciously think less of her. And other times it ends up just making things weird.

There is a societal expectation that a man initiates across all cultures.

The type of woman who initiates are stigmatized as sluts.

It's because women put themselves in more danger than men based on biology alone. A woman approaching a man could potentially lead on a psychopath which is a lot scarier for a woman than if a man initiated with a woman who was a psychopath which happens all the time.

Maybe wrong by saying "most" guys, but I agree with the view. If someone's all over me before they even know my name, that's not really a positive relationship quality to me.

So you admit you've been approached in public, which makes you a chad, therefore all your self improvement advice for incels you've given in the past is useless BS.

Nope. Not how that works. We have others here who have experienced that I'm talking about as well. The last gentleman I spoke to attributed it to how all the males in his family have the same kind of personality traits that gets girls interested even when he's a PSL 3 and a whole lot more angry and than I thought he'd be when I first started chatting with him.

https://www.reddit.com/r/Braincels/comments/851q14/psa_for_neomancer_and_every_other_it_stupid_fuck/dvv7t6e

Relatable. Had an attractive friend and the amount of stares he got and cashiers being flirty was ridiculous.

We went to a McDonalds and the girl that delivered the hamburgers was flirting with him and gave him her phone number.

Sui fuel.

Tfw you will never experience this.

He had a gf already aswell so he didn't reciprocate. Just more validation on top of validation lmao.

exactly. there's no blackpill like having an attractive friend.

I was on the TTC bus the other day and some chad walked in with his hockey stick and hockey bag and stood in the middle isle.

I was sitting in the back and I watched a average girl walk in and stand right beside him.

The dude was aloof and just looking at his phone. After about a minute she opened up convo since it looked like he didnt care and wasnt going to inititate a convo. She was asking him questions and I can tell she was trying to build rapport.

I got off a few stops later, but I shook my head and realized you guys were right when somone posted a similar thread a while back

you guys

You from FA? The black pill is contagious, isn't it?

I've gotten stares; meaningless, still plain and crazy and gf-less.

Words can't describe how much I hate women for not giving me the time of day.

Only Chad gets approached by cunts, however normies can get laid if they betabuxx enough too

People stare at me all the time when I am masturbating infront of kindergardeners. Am I chad now?

No you're a disgusting fucking pervert

Yup

I get looks, but I usually have to approach, I'd say I'm decent looking

I approach all the time and am not incel. This is just not accurate.

Good enough to get a gf. Your logic isn't sound.

pic of her or didn't happen

I don't like playing games so this is the only time I'm doing this.

Selfie

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Kinda looks like my oneitis

Idk, I started walking with confidence this year and girls started noticing me more so it might not be entirely looks

So I've been wearing things such as skinny jeans that people might associate (for some reason) with being gay. Ive also dyed my hair recently, which is also probanky contributing to it (another strange stereothpe i guess). For background, ivd never dated or done anything with guys and have lost my virginity to a girl, so being gay is clearly out of the situation. The part I find funny is that everyone is calling me gay, but doesn't even know yet that I am actually bi (I came out to my brother the other day). Should I just tell them? Or should I maybe wait until I'm more comfortable with it and sure of it?

Yes I lost my virginity, which gave me.more confidence. And I got more looks from girls because of my confidence boost so I don't see your point

Why are you here? Seriously.

Not because I feel like I'm an incel, but to see the perspective of one, I know a few incels

you do realize some people here are more confident than you. stop with the confidence bullcarp,

I've had women approach me before

FAKECEL GET OUT

Meh you can still get some ass.

I've never been approached by a girl in my life and I still do reasonably well in the dating game. My advice to you guys is to practice talking to women one anonymous apps like whisper to practice talking to them and keeping attention, that way if you mess up or they don't like you can move on with no consequences before moving on to women in the real world. That's what I did, I used to be terrible at talking to girls they thought I was either creepy or boring now they think I'm alright. Still ugly but alright.

show us your bitches

Hello it's me your bitch

I don't have a bitch. out

Me and my girlfriend https://imgur.com/gallery/1S84h

This is not true. Women prefer to be approached. They're much more likely to wait and hope a hot guy engages with them, than they are to engage him first.

But they'll approach a guy first if they like him.

In 99% of cases they will not because of the stereotype that the man is the one who should approach. Don't forget all the whining from men that's constantly going on about this. Men who find it hard to gather the courage to approach, sit there and do nothing wondering whether she likes them or will they be rejected.

stop whining

easy to think that if women have never hit on you. swallow that blackpill.

They have hit on me only few times so far. I'm just saying that this will always be a hot topic for discussion brought up by many normies around the world namely "Girls, why don't you make the first move for a change?". Normies who find it hard to man up and approach.

man up

JFL

you think women are told to woman up? the game is fucked and most men don't even know it yet.

From my perspective the game is not fucked at all. Wouldn't want to burst your bubble but not only hot men get laid, smiled at or flirted with. Sure, they may be more inclined to initiate first but that's about it. Even as a Chad you still have to not completely suck for it to work.

Even as a Chad you still have to not completely suck for it to work.

oh boy. open your mouth.

https://www.reddit.com/r/Braincels/comments/81eesm/being_chad_is_life_on_easy_mode/

swallow

I know you can keep cherry picking for the rest of your life.

that's not cherry picking. that's showing you that you don't have to have game or personality or any of this other nonsense. women either want to fuck you or they don't. there are a million other examples on this sub where people have proven just how easy it is if the woman is actually attracted to you.

Well, duh, of course it's easy if she finds you attractive. She has decided that within the first 5 seconds of seeing you. Attraction is a necessary condition for things to work out. In the above example we see a girl willing to hang out with the dude. She is merely offering to grab some sandwiches and is asking him to come up with something to do. Very unlikely that she will unzip his pants and suck his cock straightaway. The guy hasn't achieved anything yet and he can still fuck it up.

Well, duh, of course it's easy if she finds you attractive. She has decided that within the first 5 seconds of seeing you. Attraction is a necessary condition for things to work out.

it's crazy when the blackpilled don't realize they're blackpilled

It's crazy when you think you've made a groundbreaking discovery and decided to label with with some fancy term but in reality the need for physical attraction to be present is the most normal thing in order to get somewhere with someone and it goes both ways. It's like you don't know that in virtually all cases appearance is what makes the first impression. FYI light travels the fastest.

you're spewing blackpill and you don't even know it

Again, don't want to burst your bubble but the whole attraction thing has never been a secret to the rest of us.

the reason the blackpill is important is because right now, across the country, young men are being told they just need to work on their personality and try harder. when the brutal truth is she's either attracted to you or she's not. it may be nothing to you. but it's such a big deal to so many of us, that there's an entire sub around it. one you're trying to troll no less lol.

Where I live in, young men are being told that money and power is everything. But this reminds me of a scene from the movie "The A-team" which I quite enjoyed. The villain is in his office talking to another man. His hot assistant enters and hands him a cell phone because someone wants to talk to him. The other man asks him "Why do we have her?" to which the bad guy replies "She has a fantastic personality." She shows him the middle finger as she walks out.

Let me tell you another "secret" as old as humankind: You don't fuck someone's personality and certainly not if you are aiming to bang women left and right with no strings attached. But that's not achievable by most men anyway. However, you still have to not suck completely. LTRs are another story.

More often they won't.

Exactly.

https://youtu.be/SBOtj1RmaUE?t=5m7s

Please.

Thanks for life fuel. Went to a normie shindig last night and the female host came up to me, offered me drink, and touched me. CYA Virgins

Werd. The most brutal blackpill is being with someone who gets stared at constantly.

Hmm. I was friends with a girl for years and she recognized that I'm a good guy. I just acted like myself and now we have been together for over 3 years. She is my best friend and we love each other. I'm not all that good looking but that doesn't really matter, does it? My personality and kindness won her over.

Or maybe she had a thing for you all those years but couldn't bring herself to make her real feelings known?

Isn’t that contrary to the post though?

Not really. All he said was that he was friends with the girl, he didn't specify whether he or she initiated.

you sound like a kid

Women do stare at me, just not exactly because I’m attractive. Quite the opposite actually

Better than getting completely ignored though.

Why? Would you rather be left alone or stared at like a circus freak because you’re so inhumanely ugly?

Ask a dog if he wants bad attention or no attention at all.

Pretty sure a dog would rather be ignored than beaten

Unfortunately false

:(

getting kicked out of a public place because you're ugly is fucked up tbh

No you have to approach females by saying hi. If they continue to like you enough to want u around and invite you to stuff then hope isnt lost.

No kidding I've never caught a woman looking at me more than 1 second. It's like if I'm invisible to them or something.

it's almost like 80% of men are seen as below average

I love it when you guys give out advice about people you’ve never actually interacted with. When I’m done learning all I can here I’m going to go get some tax advice from Tony Hawk and learn how to skateboard from Alex Trebek.

You don't need to interact with someone to observe their behavior. Anyone with a set of eyes can see a roastie's face light up when Chad walks by.

https://www.inquisitr.com/4829590/yale-study-sad-lonely-introverts-are-natural-born-social-psychologists/

Sad lonely introverts.

Not deranged, misogynistic, shut-ins with nothing better to do than hate the rest of humanity for not giving them sex that they feel entitled to.

Why do you assume none of us interact with women?

Because you say stupid shit all the time in regards to women.

Not all of us do.

Lmaoo foreal dude. Like...you guys know you aren’t succeeding in relationships/women. Why do you think your advice has any merit?

So fucking pathetic.

Christ, you guys have issues.

He's not wrong though. Normie scum.

Calling someone a "normie" and expecting to be taken seriously at all.

Natural comedians, these guys.

He's still not wrong, though.

Also, would you prefer "fag" instead?

Ok but what does it mean when i get stares from other guys, not women

Guys, if you're not regularly getting stares from women when you're out and about: you're not attractive. Contrary to popular belief, women are NOT modest and reserved. When a woman sees a guy she really likes, she WILL show it. If women aren't regularly STARING and SMILING at you, it's not because they're "shy" or "modest," it's because they don't find you attractive.

https://youtu.be/SBOtj1RmaUE?t=5m7s

OP your post seems contradictory. You're usually expected to take the initiative and approach even when you're receiving interest.

Some women also aren't sure if approaching isn't the right course of action. I've taken the plunge a few times and approached men in scenarios like this and had it end a variety of ways, the worst of which were potentially harmful for me. Kinda puts a damper on things. The truth is dating is extremely nuanced and it's hard for a lot of people to be sure if they're reading signals correctly.

no shit. now imagine getting rejected every single time. for years. and on top of that, you're not a woman so no one ever approaches you or gives you attention. and you think it's because of who you are, but it's actually just how you were born.

That was my life until college. I'd never been with anyone, never even really kissed anyone.

Women are as afraid of rejection as men, eyefucking is good enough to send a signal. Just smile back if you're keen, to start.

You have no experience in dating.

What makes you even think that you are an expert in this.

Stop spreading wrong information.

Like Aristotle said, you don't have to be an expert in a field to speak about it,

But you should know what you are talking about before you tell people what type of medical help they should get.

Cunts aren’t difficult to figure out. You aren’t complex, little creatures - you all act the same.

Do the world a favor and don't breed.

Go away little man.

WHY ARE YOU GUYS SO INSECURE XD WHEN WILL THEY LEARN XDD

Kill yourself, retard. No one wants you here.

Thanks for threatening violence.

Goodbye.

Fucking pussy.

We do what we are talking about because of observation. I see what people and how they react. So even though I'm not an expert at dating, I do have knowledge about how dating works.

Shut the fuck up, dumb cunt.

JFL. i do and he's right. women are payting attention to the good looking guys, not the guys who worked on being confident and being themselves.

Why the fuck would you give advice on dating?? You're an incel.

Lmao triggered normshits cooking up a storm in here.

Swallow it, bitches; if she doesn't approach you, you're an ugly failed normcunt.

I knew a girl who was a model in college (she had sickle cell, so her dying body was what the fashion industry wanted) and NO ONE ever asked her out. I figure it's cuz guys were too scared to ask someone "out of their league."

Shit, I'd better call and find out if she's still alive.

please update if she is alive

She's good

Good enough to get a gf. Your logic isn't sound.

I don't have a bitch. out

Ask a dog if he wants bad attention or no attention at all.